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over a year ago
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"How important is swinging and this site to people's relationships?
Why do you do it?
How do you know it's time to stop?
Xxx"
Not that important, real life comes first.
We do it because it's fun and we enjoy seeing each other fuck others.
It's time to stop when one of you is no longer enjoying it. Doesn't mean you have to stop forever, just take a break.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's all okay now I'm not going to be playing no more and the hubby is going to make a single man account  "
We did this. Various things have put my wife off play for now so I'm here.
All alone.
No friends.
No lovers.
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It's not important for our relationship at all. It's a very small part of our lives which can be very nice if/when it happens but is irrelevant to everything else.
We only meet (socially) when we're pretty sure we've found the right person and if it doesn't feel right at any point, things don't go further than that.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's all okay now I'm not going to be playing no more and the hubby is going to make a single man account "
I'm curious if you've given him free reign or if you've drawn up any rules to this new situation? |
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"If I had a proper relationship I would not swing at all . "
We have a very happy loving relationship and its that solid foundation that allows us to play. To us its an extension of love and trust far beyond the normal limits of a conventional happy relationship, it pushes the boundaries of how much you love one another deeper and deeper. I think you have yet to reach that Nirvana And like some above say its fun, like a candy floss at a fair you have it, enjoy it, but don't need it everyday to fulfil your life. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Free reign lol tbh I'm just taking a little break no doubt I'll be back on aswell in a few days (I say that but it's the weekend  ) it's just gets a bit repetitive on here with men and if you filter men off it's to quiet  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We do not play alone and have no intention of doing so."
I guess it's one of those reasons some single men talk to people despite what they say on their profile... eh? |
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""We do not play alone and have no intention of doing so."
I guess it's one of those reasons some single men talk to people despite what they say on their profile... eh? "
Only spoke about it earlier so not updated it yet...
Although it makes no difference we've noticed profiles rarely get read  |
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over a year ago
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Not important at all.
Our home life and relationship comes a million miles in front of this.
We tend to be pretty active or nothing depending on our free time, wants and needs. |
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"How important is swinging and this site to people's relationships?
Why do you do it?
How do you know it's time to stop?
Xxx"
It's not important at all to either of us.
We enjoy having a sex with others, but it isn't at all a major part of our lives. If someone contacts us on here, we will engage and see where it takes us, but most of our swinging is done a clubs... when we feel like it.
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Its secondary to our relationship, family and our vanilla life.
However its still something we really enjoy and we recognise its improved all the things above in terms of being honest and communicating what we need to be happy.
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