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You cant my friend. Swinging as a couple is something you want to do together whether is playing together or seperate. It requires trust, openness and a lot of talking. A lot of people like the idea but the reality of watching someone have sex with your partner and is better at it than you is too much for some.
Best way is to speak about fantasies with her, tell her yours and see what she says. If she is dead agaist it then you have to respect her decision then decide if you want to cheat on her and risk her finding out and the consequences that brings. It never ceases to amaze me the amout of guys who would never let their partner swing but are happy to cheat on them. |
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"You cant my friend. Swinging as a couple is something you want to do together whether is playing together or seperate. It requires trust, openness and a lot of talking. A lot of people like the idea but the reality of watching someone have sex with your partner and is better at it than you is too much for some.
Best way is to speak about fantasies with her, tell her yours and see what she says. If she is dead agaist it then you have to respect her decision then decide if you want to cheat on her and risk her finding out and the consequences that brings. It never ceases to amaze me the amout of guys who would never let their partner swing but are happy to cheat on them. "
Agree 100%.
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By *isty286Couple
over a year ago
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Show her your profile and that you have been on here 3 mths, that should immediately get her so excited, she will want to meet the couple that verified you, that's probably the point at which she will start swinging..  |
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"Show her your profile and that you have been on here 3 mths, that should immediately get her so excited, she will want to meet the couple that verified you, that's probably the point at which she will start swinging.. "
Damn, son. |
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"Show her your profile and that you have been on here 3 mths, that should immediately get her so excited, she will want to meet the couple that verified you, that's probably the point at which she will start swinging.. "
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over a year ago
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"Show her your profile and that you have been on here 3 mths, that should immediately get her so excited, she will want to meet the couple that verified you, that's probably the point at which she will start swinging.. "
Or packing your bags  |
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over a year ago
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"Show her your profile and that you have been on here 3 mths, that should immediately get her so excited, she will want to meet the couple that verified you, that's probably the point at which she will start swinging.. "
I couldn't have given better advice. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Show her your profile and that you have been on here 3 mths, that should immediately get her so excited, she will want to meet the couple that verified you, that's probably the point at which she will start swinging.. "
hahaha love it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You cant my friend. Swinging as a couple is something you want to do together whether is playing together or seperate. It requires trust, openness and a lot of talking. A lot of people like the idea but the reality of watching someone have sex with your partner and is better at it than you is too much for some.
Best way is to speak about fantasies with her, tell her yours and see what she says. If she is dead agaist it then you have to respect her decision then decide if you want to cheat on her and risk her finding out and the consequences that brings. It never ceases to amaze me the amout of guys who would never let their partner swing but are happy to cheat on them.
Agree 100%.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Have a neuro surgeon rewire her. I've got a scalpel and some very fine tweezers. Happy to open her up and see if we can't fix the problem.
Have you tried turning her off and on again? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What makes you think she isn't one already? ...just not with you..."
exactly this you have a good veri from a couple, what's to say she hasn't met them as well ?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Tie her to the bed then blindfold her and then tell her to pretend there is another man in the room. Leave the bit out about the other man actually being there and see if she likes or not.
There a positive idea instead of slagging you off for whatever reason.
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"Show her your profile and that you have been on here 3 mths, that should immediately get her so excited, she will want to meet the couple that verified you, that's probably the point at which she will start swinging.. "
there's only one word for that - magic darts |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sweetheart if you were mine and been on here for 3 months I know what my response would be.... You wouldn't be swinging... Yd be nursing it... Be honest!!!! "
Swinging from a rope? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Your Forum post OP is like sticking a big stick into a hornet's nest LOL. "
I love a wound up hornets nest , full of angry sentry that try to inflict as much damage as possible.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You cant my friend. Swinging as a couple is something you want to do together whether is playing together or seperate. It requires trust, openness and a lot of talking. A lot of people like the idea but the reality of watching someone have sex with your partner and is better at it than you is too much for some.
Best way is to speak about fantasies with her, tell her yours and see what she says. If she is dead agaist it then you have to respect her decision then decide if you want to cheat on her and risk her finding out and the consequences that brings. It never ceases to amaze me the amout of guys who would never let their partner swing but are happy to cheat on them.
Agree 100%.
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110% lol. Very true
Otherwise I'd love to see my missus with another guy. Sounds great.
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"Show her your profile and that you have been on here 3 mths, that should immediately get her so excited, she will want to meet the couple that verified you, that's probably the point at which she will start swinging.. "
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When Boo and I first started dating she was quite...innocent to say the least, I was quite open about my lifestyle choices.
We got talking about her fantasies and experimented with toys to see if she would enjoy taking things to the next step
then lots of talking, I do mean lots! her setting her boundaries for this site, for meets and me listening and respecting her wants in it all... from setting up on here to our first meet was several months but again, lots of talking.
first meet happend and it was kept very quick. then we discussed it more and now we are looking at lots of other meets down the line but again at her pace.
Talk to her, listen to what she has to say and respect her wishes whether you agree or not |
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if you talk to your wife you will find out about her opinion of swinging, fantasies, sexual fulfilment etc....we don't know her so we can't comment -
having a single male profile and then putting a question up on the forum about wanting your wife to be a swinging gives us the impression that maybe you have not been open with her yourself in the past 3 months - don't cheat, be honest now before you get further apart from each other xxx |
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