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So there's this very hot guy who works in my office...good looking, funny and also very flirty. He's a little reserved which is endearing, and not the cocky type but I've been told he can be rather naughty when out on a night out.
I've never played with anyone from work before (or even at work ) but I have a naughty fantasy about doing so, particularly with this guy! It would be quite risky with my nature of work but I think that makes me want to do it even more.
My husband and I play with single guys regularly as hubby loves to watch me be a slutty hotwife and I've also played alone with his consent before....sending naughty pics and vids of our fun together. Very horny!
So the question is...how do I turn fantasy into reality?! This is posted in stories to but had no advice yet xx
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The problem is you don't know how you/him will react after you have had sex and with you both working together If it goes wrong you have to think how it will effect your work life and his also the company you work for, Some fantasies are best kept in your head but in a ideal world I hope it works out for you, Its something I have always wanted to do |
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Flirt back next time he does it , look him in the eyes and hitch your skirt up , or unbutton your blouse a button or two .
If he shows interest , and you'll know if he does , wait till there's a moment with just the two of you and suggest a bit of fun in a quiet part of the building on your next break .
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Never rock on a works cock.
That's my motto.
I've heard many stories of other girls being done by lads where I work. Sadly
I wouldn't want my naughty stories being canteen conversation. |
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How would you feel if he told everyone that a married woman at work wanted to shag him AND her and hubby are Swingers? It's a risk that he might out you in a horrible way.
Otherwise talk to him like you would any man. Does he know you're married? He might be put off by that. It's a minefield. |
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"I've heard many stories of other girls being done by lads where I work. Sadly
I wouldn't want my naughty stories being canteen conversation. "
This is a big part of the reason I would never do anything with someone where I work.
Anyway, OP, if you're set on doing it....do you ever go out with him after work? You could ask him if he'd like to get a drink after work on Friday. Get cozy, be flirty, see where it goes naturally. Make it clear you're interested in him and see if he takes the lead. |
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"Thanks for the responses but like I say we're not in same team etc I only
Know him to say hi too xxx more getting at on how to get his attention x"
Approach him directly and tell him what you want. Live with any awkwardness if he rejects you or if he accepts and it goes wrong. Alternatively it might go really well and you'll all have a great time. Your call.
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"Going by your responses so far, you aren't interested in being told "don't do it", so why ask for advice?  "
I think to be fair , she just wants advice on how to turn a fantasy into reality .
So advice on how it may not be a good idea is not really relevant to the op . |
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What do you know about him, Is he single, Straight etc, Is there a way you can talk about your job together then throw in some small talk,
Watch him on his break or where he goes during the day and try be in the same area, After a few hi's and smiles you might start talking |
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"Going by your responses so far, you aren't interested in being told "don't do it", so why ask for advice?
I think to be fair , she just wants advice on how to turn a fantasy into reality .
So advice on how it may not be a good idea is not really relevant to the op ."
Exactly thank you xxx |
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over a year ago
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Thanks all! It is a big risk with it being at work, I get that totally and have always avoided the situation.
Canteen gossip is terrible at our place but I know I've been topic of conversation a few times already...and by friends too!....but I know that's just amongst my group of friends and not everyone so I'm not too bothered by that.
It is very much a flirting game and I don't know whether I'd want to take it past fitting or a naughty snog/fondle somewhere. Who knows what might happen, or if he is even willing yet |
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"Bloody hell hubby here is this a moral advice site or a swingers site?? Moral police everywhere ...!! She only wanted advice on how to approach it ffs!"
Its an open forum and people will interpret questions differently. |
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"Bloody hell hubby here is this a moral advice site or a swingers site?? Moral police everywhere ...!! She only wanted advice on how to approach it ffs!
Its an open forum and people will interpret questions differently."
And to be fair , the indignation at questions ' not ' being answered , but more so judged , will naturally be an understandable reaction . |
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"Bloody hell hubby here is this a moral advice site or a swingers site?? Moral police everywhere ...!! She only wanted advice on how to approach it ffs!"
The majority of the advice is don't.
Some fantasies are best kept that way.
....and you don't like it !!
If you ask for advice, be prepared if it doesn't go your way instead of spitting the dummy out.
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"What do you know about him, Is he single, Straight etc, Is there a way you can talk about your job together then throw in some small talk,
Watch him on his break or where he goes during the day and try be in the same area, After a few hi's and smiles you might start talking "
I believe he may have a girlfriend but I can't be too sure. He doesn't really talk about it. He knows I'm married. We talk about work regularly and also about stuff outside of work....he's very easy to talk to and quite flirty. I of course flirt right back!
He's just a bit reserved and I've not known him that long, so it's difficult to assess what his reaction will be if I were to take it a step further...but I'm working on it, gently  |
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The question was advice how to approach it not whether to do it or not?? dont worry I have collected my dummy and put it back in now x so going forward can we ask for advice on how to approach it... not whether you agree with it etc Please.
Many thanks hubby x |
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"The question was advice how to approach it not whether to do it or not?? dont worry I have collected my dummy and put it back in now x so going forward can we ask for advice on how to approach it... not whether you agree with it etc Please.
Many thanks hubby x"
Think talk to the person to see if its viable. Chat flirt see what signals come back and take it from there. X |
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"So there's this very hot guy who works in my office...good looking, funny and also very flirty. He's a little reserved which is endearing, and not the cocky type but I've been told he can be rather naughty when out on a night out.
I've never played with anyone from work before (or even at work ) but I have a naughty fantasy about doing so, particularly with this guy! It would be quite risky with my nature of work but I think that makes me want to do it even more.
My husband and I play with single guys regularly as hubby loves to watch me be a slutty hotwife and I've also played alone with his consent before....sending naughty pics and vids of our fun together. Very horny!
So the question is...how do I turn fantasy into reality?! This is posted in stories to but had no advice yet xx
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best avoid never ends well
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"Bloody hell hubby here is this a moral advice site or a swingers site?? Moral police everywhere ...!! She only wanted advice on how to approach it ffs!"
If it was a man he'd be called a sex pest and hauled in front of HR for sexual harrassment.
People are giving advice. No doubt people find it odd that you're on a sex site and you don't know how to seduce a man. |
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What about keeping the flirting going until the office Christmas party? Thats Usually a good time of year to get to know workmates better outside of a work environment and after a few drinks he may be willing to go the extra step. Good luck  |
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"Bloody hell hubby here is this a moral advice site or a swingers site?? Moral police everywhere ...!! She only wanted advice on how to approach it ffs!
If it was a man he'd be called a sex pest and hauled in front of HR for sexual harrassment.
People are giving advice. No doubt people find it odd that you're on a sex site and you don't know how to seduce a man. "
lol it was a question that's all and yes on a sex site maybe look at our veris ... you
Might want to get some lol x |
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To be honest we weren't looking at having a argument on here we just wanted general advice on how to approach it whether people agree with it or not .... and thank you to the people that understand what we are getting at and coming up with ideas xx |
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"Bloody hell hubby here is this a moral advice site or a swingers site?? Moral police everywhere ...!! She only wanted advice on how to approach it ffs!
If it was a man he'd be called a sex pest and hauled in front of HR for sexual harrassment.
People are giving advice. No doubt people find it odd that you're on a sex site and you don't know how to seduce a man.
lol it was a question that's all and yes on a sex site maybe look at our veris ... you
Might want to get some lol x"
Yeah I have no clue about sex. I'm not the one asking how to seduce a man though.  |
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"To be honest we weren't looking at having a argument on here we just wanted general advice on how to approach it whether people agree with it or not .... and thank you to the people that understand what we are getting at and coming up with ideas xx"
Just ignore the posts you don't like. To be honest, you're giving more attitude than you're getting.
People who haven't read the whole thread, only the OP, will continue to say they wouldn't mess around at work. Others will give you advice on how to go about it. Just ignore the former and focus on the latter. Or else your whole thread will just be one big argument. |
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You would be better just to come out and ask him
Do you want to go for a drink
Thought you were married
I am
You'll know straight away if he's ok with it or not
Otherwise you'll just come off as the the cheating wife and the talk of the office if you start flirting in the canteen x |
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"What do you know about him, Is he single, Straight etc, Is there a way you can talk about your job together then throw in some small talk,
Watch him on his break or where he goes during the day and try be in the same area, After a few hi's and smiles you might start talking
I believe he may have a girlfriend but I can't be too sure. He doesn't really talk about it. He knows I'm married. We talk about work regularly and also about stuff outside of work....he's very easy to talk to and quite flirty. I of course flirt right back!
He's just a bit reserved and I've not known him that long, so it's difficult to assess what his reaction will be if I were to take it a step further...but I'm working on it, gently "
Hold on, who are we responding to here? You or the op?? |
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"What do you know about him, Is he single, Straight etc, Is there a way you can talk about your job together then throw in some small talk,
Watch him on his break or where he goes during the day and try be in the same area, After a few hi's and smiles you might start talking
I believe he may have a girlfriend but I can't be too sure. He doesn't really talk about it. He knows I'm married. We talk about work regularly and also about stuff outside of work....he's very easy to talk to and quite flirty. I of course flirt right back!
He's just a bit reserved and I've not known him that long, so it's difficult to assess what his reaction will be if I were to take it a step further...but I'm working on it, gently
Hold on, who are we responding to here? You or the op??"
I think the lady is now posting from a different profile. |
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"What do you know about him, Is he single, Straight etc, Is there a way you can talk about your job together then throw in some small talk,
Watch him on his break or where he goes during the day and try be in the same area, After a few hi's and smiles you might start talking
I believe he may have a girlfriend but I can't be too sure. He doesn't really talk about it. He knows I'm married. We talk about work regularly and also about stuff outside of work....he's very easy to talk to and quite flirty. I of course flirt right back!
He's just a bit reserved and I've not known him that long, so it's difficult to assess what his reaction will be if I were to take it a step further...but I'm working on it, gently
Hold on, who are we responding to here? You or the op??
I think the lady is now posting from a different profile."
If you look under Fantasies and Stories you will see the original posting by me in there. It was moved here afterwards by my hubby |
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"The question was advice how to approach it not whether to do it or not?? dont worry I have collected my dummy and put it back in now x so going forward can we ask for advice on how to approach it... not whether you agree with it etc Please.
Many thanks hubby x"
Approach it by keeping the fantasy in your heads. |
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Check your company's policy and be prepared for him to report you for sexual harassment in the work place if he's not interested. And if he is be prepared for everyone you work with to find out you've fucked each other. You said it was risky given the nature of your job, the kind of risky that could get you sacked sacked? |
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"Check your company's policy and be prepared for him to report you for sexual harassment in the work place if he's not interested. And if he is be prepared for everyone you work with to find out you've fucked each other. You said it was risky given the nature of your job, the kind of risky that could get you sacked sacked? "
No not that risky and sexual harassment lol !! |
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Well this went well!  Yeah its risky but you know what isn't the whole swinging scene 'risky' ?! I'm not one for the vanilla life and think life is all about taking risks, in everything we do. So so what if I decide to follow this through. If for one second I feel it's not going well then I'll stop it...end of. I'm sure I'm only voicing what many many people on here are thinking and haven't yet had the balls to do.
So anyway thank you all for your advice...I have read them all and taken lots of things on board so I don't regret posting at all. Should this go any further I'll be sure to let you all know how it goes 
And to the person who assumed I can't seduce a man....oh I can don't you worry....and that actually wasn't my question  |
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"Well this went well! Yeah its risky but you know what isn't the whole swinging scene 'risky' ?! I'm not one for the vanilla life and think life is all about taking risks, in everything we do. So so what if I decide to follow this through. If for one second I feel it's not going well then I'll stop it...end of. I'm sure I'm only voicing what many many people on here are thinking and haven't yet had the balls to do.
So anyway thank you all for your advice...I have read them all and taken lots of things on board so I don't regret posting at all. Should this go any further I'll be sure to let you all know how it goes
And to the person who assumed I can't seduce a man....oh I can don't you worry....and that actually wasn't my question "
Then what was your question? People have given advice and you've sneered at them all. |
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Is it just me who thinks the answer is obvious? Alcohol!
If you can arrange a scenario where you are both in a pub - and as an attractive woman you put it on him - I sincerely doubt he will be able to resist. |
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"Well this went well! Yeah its risky but you know what isn't the whole swinging scene 'risky' ?! I'm not one for the vanilla life and think life is all about taking risks, in everything we do. So so what if I decide to follow this through. If for one second I feel it's not going well then I'll stop it...end of. I'm sure I'm only voicing what many many people on here are thinking and haven't yet had the balls to do.
So anyway thank you all for your advice...I have read them all and taken lots of things on board so I don't regret posting at all. Should this go any further I'll be sure to let you all know how it goes
And to the person who assumed I can't seduce a man....oh I can don't you worry....and that actually wasn't my question "
I've read and re-read your OP, and it does read like you are asking how to "seduce" him.
Mainly, most have said something along the lines of "don't crap where you eat", but one thing that should also be taken into account is, does he want to be seduced... i.e. is he already in a relationship, or perhaps are you what he is looking for? |
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"Going by your responses so far, you aren't interested in being told "don't do it", so why ask for advice?
I think to be fair , she just wants advice on how to turn a fantasy into reality .
So advice on how it may not be a good idea is not really relevant to the op .
On the off chance are you recruiting i can be shy and endearing lol
Exactly thank you xxx"
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Does you office have instant messanger facility like Skype business or lync? If you've got either of them flirt and chat through that channel and see where it takes you. Works for me  |
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"Is it just me who thinks the answer is obvious? Alcohol!
If you can arrange a scenario where you are both in a pub - and as an attractive woman you put it on him - I sincerely doubt he will be able to resist. "
Haha exactly my thinking! Though not too much alcohol |
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over a year ago
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You could pick up any number of fit, horny guys if you wanted to as you've met enough people to know how to flirt. It should be pretty easy for you if you were attracted to them. Seeing them every day though and it likely impacting your job security - ultimately your home life, is taking sex beyond swinging. |
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"Is it just me who thinks the answer is obvious? Alcohol!
If you can arrange a scenario where you are both in a pub - and as an attractive woman you put it on him - I sincerely doubt he will be able to resist.
Haha exactly my thinking! Though not too much alcohol "
I know you don't want to read anything that casts doubt on the wisdom of your actions. However I think its unwise to assume that all men are up for all kinds of sex all the time.
Reverse the genders and say its a guy suggesting that he comes on to a woman and she will be unable to resist once she's had a drink.
By all means work your magic on him but retire gracefully if he clearly isn't up for it.
I hope it works out well for all involved |
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"Is it just me who thinks the answer is obvious? Alcohol!
If you can arrange a scenario where you are both in a pub - and as an attractive woman you put it on him - I sincerely doubt he will be able to resist.
Haha exactly my thinking! Though not too much alcohol "
Office Christmas party is a great excuse for everyone to have a few drinks. Few months to wait though, maybe a slow build up until then with some gentle flirting.  |
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I did it with someone from work for a bit. She was married and he worked there too. I called her bluff after weeks of flirting and started to set her little tasks (wear stockings to work etc) and she obliged...nex time she worked late I went to her office and fucked her in the stationary room... It went on for about 6 months and her husband never knew.
It's hot as and makes work a little less dull. If he tells everyone you are a swinger who cares.... Just make sure you always have deniability (for HR reasons) and cover your tracks (email txt etc)...
Good luck OP.. Let us know how it goes |
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Kind off similar situation...
What about a man you really like in the same small town as you, can I do things with him or only play with guys not in the same town?
Minka xx |
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"He's not in my work team etc and works in other part of office so should be ok xxx looking for advice on how to approach it x"
My advice? LEAVE IT!
Same thing happened with me and should have taken my own advice |
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"Kind off similar situation...
What about a man you really like in the same small town as you, can I do things with him or only play with guys not in the same town?
Minka xx"
It's up to you. It's not the same as working in the same office. |
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"Is it just me who thinks the answer is obvious? Alcohol!
If you can arrange a scenario where you are both in a pub - and as an attractive woman you put it on him - I sincerely doubt he will be able to resist.
Haha exactly my thinking! Though not too much alcohol
Or years
Office Christmas party is a great excuse for everyone to have a few drinks. Few months to wait though, maybe a slow build up until then with some gentle flirting. "
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"Is it just me who thinks the answer is obvious? Alcohol!
If you can arrange a scenario where you are both in a pub - and as an attractive woman you put it on him - I sincerely doubt he will be able to resist.
Haha exactly my thinking! Though not too much alcohol
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I know you don't want to read anything that casts doubt on the wisdom of your actions. However I think its unwise to assume that all men are up for all kinds of sex all the time.
Reverse the genders and say its a guy suggesting that he comes on to a woman and she will be unable to resist once she's had a drink.
By all means work your magic on him but retire gracefully if he clearly isn't up for it.
I hope it works out well for all involved"
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"So there's this very hot guy who works in my office...good looking, funny and also very flirty. He's a little reserved which is endearing, and not the cocky type but I've been told he can be rather naughty when out on a night out.
I've never played with anyone from work before (or even at work ) but I have a naughty fantasy about doing so, particularly with this guy! It would be quite risky with my nature of work but I think that makes me want to do it even more.
My husband and I play with single guys regularly as hubby loves to watch me be a slutty hotwife and I've also played alone with his consent before....sending naughty pics and vids of our fun together. Very horny!
So the question is...how do I turn fantasy into reality?! This is posted in stories to but had no advice yet xx
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Very dangerous. Potential to blow up in your face.
What if he is married? Will you still want to do him if he is willing? |
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"He's not in my work team etc and works in other part of office so should be ok xxx looking for advice on how to approach it x"
Not with a ten foot barge pole if you like your job and want a reference for the next one |
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I did this years ago at work I was 19 .. At the time was a turn on and after was not good as he liked me as a girl-friend and to me he was just fun ... he made my life hell .. I left the job as he was made head of the office and had it in for me really. |
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"So there's this very hot guy who works in my office...good looking, funny and also very flirty. He's a little reserved which is endearing, and not the cocky type but I've been told he can be rather naughty when out on a night out.
I've never played with anyone from work before (or even at work ) but I have a naughty fantasy about doing so, particularly with this guy! It would be quite risky with my nature of work but I think that makes me want to do it even more.
My husband and I play with single guys regularly as hubby loves to watch me be a slutty hotwife and I've also played alone with his consent before....sending naughty pics and vids of our fun together. Very horny!
So the question is...how do I turn fantasy into reality?! This is posted in stories to but had no advice yet xx
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See if you can get him mobile number and then accidently send him a slightly naughty text. Then 'realising' that you sent the text to him instead of your husband. |
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"So there's this very hot guy who works in my office...good looking, funny and also very flirty. He's a little reserved which is endearing, and not the cocky type but I've been told he can be rather naughty when out on a night out.
I've never played with anyone from work before (or even at work ) but I have a naughty fantasy about doing so, particularly with this guy! It would be quite risky with my nature of work but I think that makes me want to do it even more.
My husband and I play with single guys regularly as hubby loves to watch me be a slutty hotwife and I've also played alone with his consent before....sending naughty pics and vids of our fun together. Very horny!
So the question is...how do I turn fantasy into reality?! This is posted in stories to but had no advice yet xx
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Wear a skirt to work with stockings and suspenders under.
When the chance arises and you know he can see do some innocent bending over .
Have your bag on the floor .bend over
pretending to look for something in it
Your skirt should ride up enough just go chow the stocking tops ....
Should get the ball rolling . |
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"What do you know about him, Is he single, Straight etc, Is there a way you can talk about your job together then throw in some small talk,
Watch him on his break or where he goes during the day and try be in the same area, After a few hi's and smiles you might start talking
I believe he may have a girlfriend but I can't be too sure. He doesn't really talk about it. He knows I'm married. We talk about work regularly and also about stuff outside of work....he's very easy to talk to and quite flirty. I of course flirt right back!
He's just a bit reserved and I've not known him that long, so it's difficult to assess what his reaction will be if I were to take it a step further...but I'm working on it, gently "
im guessing what u answered is for the op so y are you hijacking someone elses thread |
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My view.....avoid it if possible but please don't send any texts or e-mails that could be tracked and be careful with your clothing that nearly everyone else will pick up on. Remember that everyone always knows when an office affair is going on.
You need to speak to him very carefully and if possible, away from work. I say carefully because he might be the type who tells everyone else what you have said. |
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"What do you know about him, Is he single, Straight etc, Is there a way you can talk about your job together then throw in some small talk,
Watch him on his break or where he goes during the day and try be in the same area, After a few hi's and smiles you might start talking
I believe he may have a girlfriend but I can't be too sure. He doesn't really talk about it. He knows I'm married. We talk about work regularly and also about stuff outside of work....he's very easy to talk to and quite flirty. I of course flirt right back!
He's just a bit reserved and I've not known him that long, so it's difficult to assess what his reaction will be if I were to take it a step further...but I'm working on it, gently
im guessing what u answered is for the op so y are you hijacking someone elses thread "
No they are the OP- they have 2 profiles. People are allowed to do that.
They are just replying from both profiles so it's a bit confusing but they explained further down the thread. |
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"So there's this very hot guy who works in my office...good looking, funny and also very flirty. He's a little reserved which is endearing, and not the cocky type but I've been told he can be rather naughty when out on a night out.
I've never played with anyone from work before (or even at work ) but I have a naughty fantasy about doing so, particularly with this guy! It would be quite risky with my nature of work but I think that makes me want to do it even more.
My husband and I play with single guys regularly as hubby loves to watch me be a slutty hotwife and I've also played alone with his consent before....sending naughty pics and vids of our fun together. Very horny!
So the question is...how do I turn fantasy into reality?! This is posted in stories to but had no advice yet xx
See if you can get him mobile number and then accidently send him a slightly naughty text. Then 'realising' that you sent the text to him instead of your husband."
Hehe great idea!  |
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