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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hey just after some advice from aome wise ones. 
Me and hubby want to try a mfm, we have done it once before with a guy we knew so was less awkward i guess. Just wondering if anyone has some tips to ensure the guy is good and respectful of our situation. Hubby is keen to try and wants to watch a bit and join in. Isit best to stick to guys who have experience? Anything we ahoukd ask of them in particular?
Mrs xx |
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over a year ago
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We do it quite a lot, we always chat for a bit online before meeting just to make sure not only the guys fits with what we like but also if is OK with a couple as some guys like the idea but the struggle when being watched.
Have fun |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Once you have found someone and chatted for a while meet in a pub for a drink first, then if you click you can play. It is harder than you think finding a decent guy on here. Hubby always says if the bloke is not someone he would go for a beer with away from the swinging scene then it won't happen... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Once you have found someone and chatted for a while meet in a pub for a drink first, then if you click you can play. It is harder than you think finding a decent guy on here. Hubby always says if the bloke is not someone he would go for a beer with away from the swinging scene then it won't happen..."
Especially in our area  |
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"Once you have found someone and chatted for a while meet in a pub for a drink first, then if you click you can play. It is harder than you think finding a decent guy on here. Hubby always says if the bloke is not someone he would go for a beer with away from the swinging scene then it won't happen..."
You guys are the best couple ever  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Once you have found someone and chatted for a while meet in a pub for a drink first, then if you click you can play. It is harder than you think finding a decent guy on here. Hubby always says if the bloke is not someone he would go for a beer with away from the swinging scene then it won't happen...
Especially in our area "
Yes it is lol xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Once you have found someone and chatted for a while meet in a pub for a drink first, then if you click you can play. It is harder than you think finding a decent guy on here. Hubby always says if the bloke is not someone he would go for a beer with away from the swinging scene then it won't happen...
You guys are the best couple ever "
your not to bad yourself lol. We need to sort out some more fun |
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"Once you have found someone and chatted for a while meet in a pub for a drink first, then if you click you can play. It is harder than you think finding a decent guy on here. Hubby always says if the bloke is not someone he would go for a beer with away from the swinging scene then it won't happen..."
Agree, if you find someone who only engages with the female and doesn't enter into man chats or his only train of thought is sex then in our book they're not for us |
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"Once you have found someone and chatted for a while meet in a pub for a drink first, then if you click you can play. It is harder than you think finding a decent guy on here. Hubby always says if the bloke is not someone he would go for a beer with away from the swinging scene then it won't happen...
You guys are the best couple ever your not to bad yourself lol. We need to sort out some more fun"
I'd love to it's been far too long |
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By *olliPineCouple
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"It is harder than you think finding a decent guy on here. Hubby always says if the bloke is not someone he would go for a beer with away from the swinging scene then it won't happen..."
Whilst fab is saturated with single male profiles, it really is few and far between you'll find a guy who genuinely understands the dynamic of a non-bi, non-cuck/bull/dom MFM.
XY would agree with this poster's hubby. |
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"It is harder than you think finding a decent guy on here. Hubby always says if the bloke is not someone he would go for a beer with away from the swinging scene then it won't happen...
Whilst fab is saturated with single male profiles, it really is few and far between you'll find a guy who genuinely understands the dynamic of a non-bi, non-cuck/bull/dom MFM.
XY would agree with this poster's hubby."
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"Hey just after some advice from aome wise ones.
Me and hubby want to try a mfm, we have done it once before with a guy we knew so was less awkward i guess. Just wondering if anyone has some tips to ensure the guy is good and respectful of our situation. Hubby is keen to try and wants to watch a bit and join in. Isit best to stick to guys who have experience? Anything we ahoukd ask of them in particular?
Mrs xx"
Spend timme getting to know any single guys online first. You will out the instant shag guys, timewaters, stalkers and weirdos lol. Being serious getting to know somebody online first will save you a lot of hassle.
Getting to know them online you can see how you get along. See if you can have laugh together, see if you all like the same things sexually, see if he is respectfull to both of you (does he only chat to female?), see if he wants to find out what pleasure you both want to get out of the threesome etc,
Make sure you spell out what you don't like sexually.
Tell they guy you want to be respected. Tell him your rules for meeting. If he doesn't like it he can find another couple.
See if he has met couples before. Check verifications.
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"We do it quite a lot, we always chat for a bit online before meeting just to make sure not only the guys fits with what we like but also if is OK with a couple as some guys like the idea but the struggle when being watched.
Have fun "
This.
Some guys like the fantasy of a threesome or group sex. However when it comes to the reality some men bottle it and cannot perform.
Again check he has met couples before.
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"It is harder than you think finding a decent guy on here. Hubby always says if the bloke is not someone he would go for a beer with away from the swinging scene then it won't happen...
Whilst fab is saturated with single male profiles, it really is few and far between you'll find a guy who genuinely understands the dynamic of a non-bi, non-cuck/bull/dom MFM.
XY would agree with this poster's hubby."
Yeah OP. If the guy automatically assumes your partner is a cuckold I doubt he is the person you should meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hey just after some advice from aome wise ones.
Me and hubby want to try a mfm, we have done it once before with a guy we knew so was less awkward i guess. Just wondering if anyone has some tips to ensure the guy is good and respectful of our situation. Hubby is keen to try and wants to watch a bit and join in. Isit best to stick to guys who have experience? Anything we ahoukd ask of them in particular?
Mrs xx"
Have you considered meeting a couple? the other couples guy could join in with you, then you guys could return the favour!
Winner winner chicken dinner. |
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