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over a year ago
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"This has happened twice . They come round and I give them a bj and they don't touch me. I end up asking them to leave . What am I doing wrong. Is my body that bad? "
May I suggest not touching their appendage first? |
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over a year ago
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"This has happened twice . They come round and I give them a bj and they don't touch me. I end up asking them to leave . What am I doing wrong. Is my body that bad? "
They must be mad , you have a lovely body OP
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"This has happened twice . They come round and I give them a bj and they don't touch me. I end up asking them to leave . What am I doing wrong. Is my body that bad? "
thats really wrong, I always try to please first. I enjoy was lady's cum, even if I don't! Better luck next time OP  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Its happened to me OP many times.
Probably married or with someone so a bj they class as not cheating.
Thats my conclusion. But I also wondered why it never went further.
Don't worry OP. Just forget and move on xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This has happened twice . They come round and I give them a bj and they don't touch me. I end up asking them to leave . What am I doing wrong. Is my body that bad? "
Stop doing bj's at the start. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some men are unselfish and really want to please the woman first but you cannot tell this just by having a chat or vetting them. I think we try to please them and hope they return the favour but my guess is many of them are married or taken. |
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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago
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"This has happened twice . They come round and I give them a bj and they don't touch me. I end up asking them to leave . What am I doing wrong. Is my body that bad?
May I suggest not touching their appendage first? "
this is exactly what i had to stop doing. in fact if the guy didn't go down on me i wouldn't suck them off at all.
you're doing nothing wrong, you just met a selfish git. |
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"This has happened twice . They come round and I give them a bj and they don't touch me. I end up asking them to leave . What am I doing wrong. Is my body that bad?
May I suggest not touching their appendage first?
this is exactly what i had to stop doing. in fact if the guy didn't go down on me i wouldn't suck them off at all.
you're doing nothing wrong, you just met a selfish git."
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I am going to make sure they play or go down on me first. I like to please but this is past the joke if I am getting nothing from it . I am also surprised that I am not the only woman this has happened too x |
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"I am going to make sure they play or go down on me first. I like to please but this is past the joke if I am getting nothing from it . I am also surprised that I am not the only woman this has happened too x "
What did yoy discuss with them before hand? What promises were made by them? |
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On my profile I have put I like being fingered. He told me he was going to play with me. But after giving him a blow job he cum . We laided there chatting and he said he had to go to see his friends but I will play with you when I have recovered . I told him to leave and he said I will leave you a verification and I told him to stick it .  |
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By *ransGuyTV/TS
over a year ago
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I suck their cock to get them hard, then it's time to play which can involve a mixture of penetration and sucking. How long are you sucking them for? It might be a mixture of your skill and time you suck them for that they a) don't want you to stop and b) think you want to make them cum that way? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Read their bio's check they're interested in pleasing you. Personally I'd be the first to give oral if I met a woman I liked."
Like a bloke won't lie on his profile to make himself sound like the perfect gentleman? |
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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago
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"I am going to make sure they play or go down on me first. I like to please but this is past the joke if I am getting nothing from it . I am also surprised that I am not the only woman this has happened too x "
it's not happened to me a lot, but it was enough for me to stop enjoying giving.
some guys think we don't need foreplay or anything, think it's coz they're in a rush to get back to their mrs. |
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They all think they are gentlemen. Until they just want one thing for themselves. I just want to enjoy myself as well...is that to much to ask.. So when I think back ... yes that was a good fuck!
I am not going to give a blow job until I have had some fun first. Thank you everyone who has given me advice today x  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I am going to make sure they play or go down on me first. I like to please but this is past the joke if I am getting nothing from it . I am also surprised that I am not the only woman this has happened too x
it's not happened to me a lot, but it was enough for me to stop enjoying giving.
some guys think we don't need foreplay or anything, think it's coz they're in a rush to get back to their mrs. "
This is my point. He aint going to tell you hes married or with someone .. and like i said .. a bj to them doesnt count as cheating.
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By *inkySeeKinkyDoWoman
over a year ago
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"Make them work for their blow job girl! Once they've come they're neither use nor orniment  love that idea working to get a bj. Most of the time when I cum you will get another round. "
From personal experience, unfortunately many 40something men cant cum again or they have a very long recovery time.
Or just maybe my veri's are true and I'm the bestest blow job giver in the entire universe ever and no man is safe |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Op some guys are like that... I prefer that but know im in the minority.
Don't see it as a negative though.. and if you want something make sure you get it first.
We have had it the other way around too.. lee loves to give.. and many times the woman never touches him in return. |
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"This has happened twice . They come round and I give them a bj and they don't touch me. I end up asking them to leave . What am I doing wrong. Is my body that bad? "
I hate replying to these threads. I worry people will think I am trying to be a night in shining armour lol.
From your profile picture I would say there is nothing wrong with your body.
You say on your profile you want to get to know the man before meeting. Do a lot more of that. Spend time getting to know any single guys online first. You will out the instant shag guys, timewaters, stalkers and weirdos lol. Being serious getting to know somebody online first will save you a lot of hassle.
Make sure they are meeting you for the right reasons. Getting to know them online first will out they guys looking for another notch on their bedpost. Take things at your pace not theirs.
After getting to know them online make your first meet a social. Again this will out the instant shag guys.
It's good you have respect for yourself and asked the selfish guys to leave. Good on you.
Maybe in the future warn potential new meets that in the past you had to ask guys to leave because they were selfish and only interested in their pleasure. This should hopefully out the selfish guys.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This has happened twice . They come round and I give them a bj and they don't touch me. I end up asking them to leave . What am I doing wrong. Is my body that bad?
I hate replying to these threads. I worry people will think I am trying to be a night in shining armour lol.
From your profile picture I would say there is nothing wrong with your body.
You say on your profile you want to get to know the man before meeting. Do a lot more of that. Spend time getting to know any single guys online first. You will out the instant shag guys, timewaters, stalkers and weirdos lol. Being serious getting to know somebody online first will save you a lot of hassle.
Make sure they are meeting you for the right reasons. Getting to know them online first will out they guys looking for another notch on their bedpost. Take things at your pace not theirs.
After getting to know them online make your first meet a social. Again this will out the instant shag guys.
It's good you have respect for yourself and asked the selfish guys to leave. Good on you.
Maybe in the future warn potential new meets that in the past you had to ask guys to leave because they were selfish and only interested in their pleasure. This should hopefully out the selfish guys.
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"Make them work for their blow job girl! Once they've come they're neither use nor orniment "
Great idea.
Butterfly1971 next time you are with a guy spread your legs then tell him if gives you good oral sex and makes you cum you will give him a sexy blowjob. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"On my profile I have put I like being fingered. He told me he was going to play with me. But after giving him a blow job he cum . We laided there chatting and he said he had to go to see his friends but I will play with you when I have recovered . I told him to leave and he said I will leave you a verification and I told him to stick it . "
Men lose interest once they've cum |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This has happened twice . They come round and I give them a bj and they don't touch me. I end up asking them to leave . What am I doing wrong. Is my body that bad? "
Try inviting me round ..I. love making a lady cum a few times first before I do |
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"This has happened twice . They come round and I give them a bj and they don't touch me. I end up asking them to leave . What am I doing wrong. Is my body that bad?
May I suggest not touching their appendage first?
this is exactly what i had to stop doing. in fact if the guy didn't go down on me i wouldn't suck them off at all.
you're doing nothing wrong, you just met a selfish git."
This is what you should do _utterfly1971.
If I was a woman and the guy wouldn't give me oral sex no way would his cock be going in my mouth.
Personally I don't understand guys who don't like giving oral sex. Hearing a woman cum from me just using my outh and tongue really turns me on.
Actually years ago when I was about 14 me and my mates used to watch pornos on VHS tapes. Yes I asm old lol. When we watched them I wasn't thinking I can't wait to have sex. I was thinking I can't wait to give a woman oral sex.
I also don't get guys who don't like foreplay. Plenty of kissing, plenty of touching, etc.
Mayne I am weird? If a woman is enjoying what I am doing it really turns me on. |
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"I am going to make sure they play or go down on me first. I like to please but this is past the joke if I am getting nothing from it . I am also surprised that I am not the only woman this has happened too x
it's not happened to me a lot, but it was enough for me to stop enjoying giving.
some guys think we don't need foreplay or anything, think it's coz they're in a rush to get back to their mrs. "
Foreplay is the best bit I don't know why some people would just give in at a BJ. I love seeing a lady satisfied far more than getting a BJ. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This has happened twice . They come round and I give them a bj and they don't touch me. I end up asking them to leave . What am I doing wrong. Is my body that bad? "
Maybe your blow jobs are just too good! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This has happened twice . They come round and I give them a bj and they don't touch me. I end up asking them to leave . What am I doing wrong. Is my body that bad? "
I hate that. Selfish guys get meets. Unselfish guys struggle lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I always have a social first and never fuck on the first date, effort for them and most will only bother if they like you.
I also make it clear right from the off what I expect and not prepared to negotiate on.
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"This has happened twice . They come round and I give them a bj and they don't touch me. I end up asking them to leave . What am I doing wrong. Is my body that bad? "
Hold off on the blow job until after you've got what you want.
Your body is great |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Foreplay should be exactly that, enough to get you both going. If you dive straight in there and make the guy cum then don’t be surprised if he loses interest.
Get him hard keep him horny and he will like your pussy with gusto .
Then when you have cum finish him off for being a good boy |
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"This has happened twice . They come round and I give them a bj and they don't touch me. I end up asking them to leave . What am I doing wrong. Is my body that bad? "
Are you giving oral to completion? If you are, then knock that on the head for starters. The 'cum and run' crowd will do exactly that. For me, oral is foreplay to get them revved up for the main event. That's as far as it goes.
Negotiate what will happen in your PM's. Never assume that they've read your profile. Or find an excuse to make them read it. I've put 3 different meet options in mine, and they need to read it in order to tell me which one they want.
And yes, if it becomes clear that they won't or can't perform as they've promised, don't be afraid to show them the door. I have a bit of sympathy if they get droop on the night, but if they turn up with completely useless equipment, I ask them to leave. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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OP if you drop to your knees and give a decent enough BJ of course the guy will cum unless you say otherwise. Maybe they thought that's what you wanted?
For me, foreplay doesn't start with oral...there's plenty of mutually pleasurable ways to build up the excitement before I go down on a guy. I tell my meets there's no way I'm letting them cum until I've had a handful of orgasms, and I can keep them on edge through oral for as long as I want.
Be more communicative about what you want from a meet. Most men are turned on by a sexually confident woman who knows what she wants and how to get it
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"OP if you drop to your knees and give a decent enough BJ of course the guy will cum unless you say otherwise. Maybe they thought that's what you wanted?
For me, foreplay doesn't start with oral...there's plenty of mutually pleasurable ways to build up the excitement before I go down on a guy. I tell my meets there's no way I'm letting them cum until I've had a handful of orgasms, and I can keep them on edge through oral for as long as I want.
Be more communicative about what you want from a meet. Most men are turned on by a sexually confident woman who knows what she wants and how to get it
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Post closed. Words of wisdom from a luscious set of lips |
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Sounds like you've had a pretty raw deal there OP. I don't understand it myself as for me fun is a whole lot better when shared - that's the point for being on a site like this isn't it? Some great advice here and I do think it's good to communicate before you meet so that the expectations are set beforehand, you can see if someone is on your wavelength and your time is not wasted. Better luck in the future OP.
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"I always have a social first and never fuck on the first date, effort for them and most will only bother if they like you.
I also make it clear right from the off what I expect and not prepared to negotiate on.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This has happened twice . They come round and I give them a bj and they don't touch me. I end up asking them to leave . What am I doing wrong. Is my body that bad? "
No its not your body that's lovely, it must be them. You should get them to pleasure you first (Mr) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thank you everyone for fantastic advice.
I am definitely going to get them to play with me first .
Then we can both have fun together x
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I suggest you're just great at head and look amazing.
I'd love to play with you! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OP
Ignoring all the white knighting, are you playing in silence and not communicating? Maybe a bit more chat and discussing what you both want would work better? |
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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago
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My advice suck them till they hard - then stop tease the hell out of them
Then whisper in ear I want you to finger my wet pussy, and feel your tounge on my clit now  , and I am not going to kick that thick cock again till you do
It works trust me |
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"My advice suck them till they hard - then stop tease the hell out of them
Then whisper in ear I want you to finger my wet pussy, and feel your tounge on my clit now , and I am not going to kick that thick cock again till you do
It works trust me "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This has happened twice . They come round and I give them a bj and they don't touch me. I end up asking them to leave . What am I doing wrong. Is my body that bad? "
I dunno, I can't see it. Some guys are selfish, some of us are givers rather than takers |
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By (user no longer on site)
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OP you have just been very unlucky in that you seem to have come across two selfish bastards but there is some real good advice been handed to you by the forum crowd tonight,now on a lighter note anyone get onto some of the blokes messages haha Oooo there are some right selfish men but am not i always give the woman pleasure pick me and thats terrible not letting you cum first i would of let you cum first pick me and i always ask the female if she wants to oral cos i always put the female first pick me hahaha stop it will yer  |
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