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Dilemma of being. Trans. And bisexual
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I am transgender. Part time and struggle with my bisexuality, wander if I will ever find. Partner for. Ltr, struggling with. Societies disapproval of sexual minority. |
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"I am transgender. Part time and struggle with my bisexuality, wander if I will ever find. Partner for. Ltr, struggling with. Societies disapproval of sexual minority. "
I feel very much the same.
When I'm dressed I don't want to ever take the clothes off,I don't want to have a cock and I only want to have sex with men but when I'm not dressed I would love to have a vanilla girlfriend and am happy with a normal relationship....for a time,It's a constant struggle,I wouldn't hurt a girl by cheating though so find myself reduced to being alone with just random sex when I'm dressed as a girl.
I don't feel I am a basic tv but more transgender but don't have the courage or the desire to go through all of society's shit to change full time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's never too late to follow the decision to physically change too. Specially now the whole world seems to have woken up to it, even more so now with that yellow toupé calling himself the American President trying to change the natural course of evolution. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Transgendered for me covers all gender varient, people. I dress part time, and live as female part time. The rest as a male. To me it's about identity, not about physical changes, I was not born in the wrong body, I think nature likes variety, hence feminine males, and masculine females, but it complicates. Who you go to bed. With, and relationships, as most females want vanilla. Males, and won't date you if your. Trans, even if part time, hence why a lot of. Women on fab, block. Tvs |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Transgendered for me covers all gender varient, people. I dress part time, and live as female part time. The rest as a male. To me it's about identity, not about physical changes, I was not born in the wrong body, I think nature likes variety, hence feminine males, and masculine females, but it complicates. Who you go to bed. With, and relationships, as most females want vanilla. Males, and won't date you if your. Trans, even if part time, hence why a lot of. Women on fab, block. Tvs"
you cannot be transgender, in your mind maybe...but you just simply are not.Being happy in your choice is great...but I feel if you havent felt the need to trannyform yourself..you just dont need to identify yourself as a female.In the eyes of many and the law, you will always be the person you were born as.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's sad the way you feel OP! You have to either stand for yourself despite what others may think or continue to be undercover trans.
Not an envious position, surely but all the best to you! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Op, I'm not so sure the label, if you need one, leans towards transgender.
Many people who dress feel the way you do though. You could be gender flexible, bigender. I know too little about you to tell.
You could talk to a gender counsellor and learn to understand your own feelings. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Op, I'm not so sure the label, if you need one, leans towards transgender.
Many people who dress feel the way you do though. You could be gender flexible, bigender. I know too little about you to tell.
You could talk to a gender counsellor and learn to understand your own feelings. "
I agree with this. You may be better off discussing your issues with someone who actually understands them . maybe speak to your G.P. as a first port of call. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Op, I'm not so sure the label, if you need one, leans towards transgender.
Many people who dress feel the way you do though. You could be gender flexible, bigender. I know too little about you to tell.
You could talk to a gender counsellor and learn to understand your own feelings.
I agree with this. You may be better off discussing your issues with someone who actually understands them . maybe speak to your G.P. as a first port of call."
Yes, not to open up a mass debate on this, but wouldn't you be more suitable to the label tv, not ts?... That's my understanding.
Hope you get yourself sorted OP  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe the OP didn't understand the difference between transgender and transsexual.
Anyway putting that aside maybe meet up with other t-girls on here and go to clubs where you can make friends with those that understand how your feeling.
Have you recently started dressing as a female and is this what's making you feel like this?
Feel free to PM me and good luck xx |
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"Op, I'm not so sure the label, if you need one, leans towards transgender.
Many people who dress feel the way you do though. You could be gender flexible, bigender. I know too little about you to tell.
You could talk to a gender counsellor and learn to understand your own feelings.
I agree with this. You may be better off discussing your issues with someone who actually understands them . maybe speak to your G.P. as a first port of call.
Yes, not to open up a mass debate on this, but wouldn't you be more suitable to the label tv, not ts?... That's my understanding.
Hope you get yourself sorted OP "
You are correct. |
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