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Falling for fuck buddy
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Depends.
How well do you guys communicate?
Do you do more than just bump uglies?
Would you consider him to be a "real" friend, even without the sex?
Would you be willing to risk what you have now if he freaks out and goes west?
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By *quirrelMan
over a year ago
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Be honest with him and yourself. If you're looking for romance and a long-term relationship and he's just looking for fun it's going to get really difficult the longer you keep putting off telling him.
Best to be honest and if it means breaking up with him you can move on to someone else. But you have to remember that this is a swingers site and the possibility of a guy looking for a partner for a long term relationship is going to be very slim. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I told mine (it was before xmas) and he told me to fuck off and stop being so clingy!!! So that didnt go well. Loads of cancelled meets after that, I was in tears everytime. I was so upset over it cos obviously I loved him so much (in my head I did)
He txt me a couple months later and felt great to say no to him 
I try to stay away from repeat meets now cos I dont trust myself. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've fell for me fuck buddy do I tell him or stay quiet ?"
I told mine but he didn't take it seriously and still doesn't now he's back from our 5 months separation. You have to make up your own mind what to do. Tell him and he might leg it, don't tell him and live with the frustration ect of the situation XXX |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I fell for my FB but left it to late to tell her. she met somone and is in a vanila relationship now. still miss her and wander what it would be like if i had just told.her my feelings. Just tell them the truth and roll with the outcome
good luck |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Be honest?
That would always be my way of handling it.
For me, if I kept that to myself and they had no idea I'd feel like I was being dishonest to them.
It's your call though. If you really feel that way, won't those feelings just increase with each meet?
Good luck, it can't be easy x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I married, had kids and bought a house with mine lol. We've been together 12 years.
either way your feelings aren't just going to go away. If you tell him at least you can make a decision based on his reaction. In my eyes you either walk away or stop been fb and make a go of it cos you can't be in love with someone and carry on. It will only hurt more in the long run |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We both said i love you yet within days he was back on here approaching other woman, obviously he doesn't love me in the right context lol
Casual sex is addictive so why buy the cow if you get the milk for free from a whole fab herd!
Good luck I hope he reciprocates as you'd like him to. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks to everyone for your messages and your all right i do need to take the plunge and see what happens either way there will be tears maybe happy ones or sad ones xxxxxxx |
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"Thanks to everyone for your messages and your all right i do need to take the plunge and see what happens either way there will be tears maybe happy ones or sad ones xxxxxxx"
Is he actually single? |
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