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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi you fab people, me again asking for your help.
Can you ladies and couple give away your trade secret plz. Just need to know how and where do you finding your new male fb?
Do you all use search function or look in chat room, forum or word of mouth? What attracts you to send opening msg to the single guy?
Thanks for reading and for your advice in advance.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My current fwb, I messaged first, he is bloody gorgeous so didn't even expect a response. We met 3 days after the first message and have seen him almost every day since. That was 10 months ago. He told me he would be more than happy with seeing me very regularly, so it just went from there. The other guys I have had as regular fwbs have been the same, start as a meet that became often. Never really sought it out.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Either from a message I have received from someone and there is something special about them or from a relationship built from the forums "
Thanks 
I hope we could build some relationship at forum too.
What kind of things make u feel they got something special?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"My current fwb, I messaged first, he is bloody gorgeous so didn't even expect a response. We met 3 days after the first message and have seen him almost every day since. That was 10 months ago. He told me he would be more than happy with seeing me very regularly, so it just went from there. The other guys I have had as regular fwbs have been the same, start as a meet that became often. Never really sought it out. "
So I take it since he was gorgeous, u messaged him nothing in particularly special from his profile? But how did u find him in place? Profile search option?
Thanks xx |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
Northampton Somewhere |
You have a great profile, nice pics, you're tall and can accommodate. I'd say you have a lot going for yourself. I gather being in London is quite difficult with there being so many more people.
I've had a few fbs, I think what attracted me to them in the first place was that they ticked my boxes being able to accommodate etc, and they happened to be my type of guy. And of course the all important first message but I can't help you there it was a she ago...
Good luck OP  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You have a great profile, nice pics, you're tall and can accommodate. I'd say you have a lot going for yourself. I gather being in London is quite difficult with there being so many more people.
I've had a few fbs, I think what attracted me to them in the first place was that they ticked my boxes being able to accommodate etc, and they happened to be my type of guy. And of course the all important first message but I can't help you there it was a she ago...
Good luck OP "
Ahhh thank you, so nice of you. My profile has improved simply because of you lots here giving me abundance of advice and help...
I got to say you too have a good profile straight to the point and good collection of pics, don't tell me you took all those pics by your self it looks very professional! . They are stunning, was perving ur pics for a while, but hey I did fab'd ur pics in return... lol 
As you say it is too hard in London, too many are available, I wish now moving up north... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My current fwb, I messaged first, he is bloody gorgeous so didn't even expect a response. We met 3 days after the first message and have seen him almost every day since. That was 10 months ago. He told me he would be more than happy with seeing me very regularly, so it just went from there. The other guys I have had as regular fwbs have been the same, start as a meet that became often. Never really sought it out.
So I take it since he was gorgeous, u messaged him nothing in particularly special from his profile? But how did u find him in place? Profile search option?
Thanks xx "
I actually didn't know he was gorgeous initially.....his profile was ok but I only really mailed him to tell him he had amazing thighs...he sent a face pic with his response...he obviously put alot if thought into his messages to me...we got on well, so we met. I messaged him because he came up on the local feed n his picture caught my eye, so I looked |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"My current fwb, I messaged first, he is bloody gorgeous so didn't even expect a response. We met 3 days after the first message and have seen him almost every day since. That was 10 months ago. He told me he would be more than happy with seeing me very regularly, so it just went from there. The other guys I have had as regular fwbs have been the same, start as a meet that became often. Never really sought it out.
So I take it since he was gorgeous, u messaged him nothing in particularly special from his profile? But how did u find him in place? Profile search option?
Thanks xx
I actually didn't know he was gorgeous initially.....his profile was ok but I only really mailed him to tell him he had amazing thighs...he sent a face pic with his response...he obviously put alot if thought into his messages to me...we got on well, so we met. I messaged him because he came up on the local feed n his picture caught my eye, so I looked "
Ha good to know, point noted. update picture, so it shows up in local updates.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I struggle like f*ck on here, I'm past giving up!  "
You are not the only one to struggle, it is so so hard for single guys here ive also thought many times to just give up haha |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I struggle like f*ck on here, I'm past giving up!
You are not the only one to struggle, it is so so hard for single guys here ive also thought many times to just give up haha "
I hope our fab ladies would share some of their secrets here, so that we can change the way we look out for the meets.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I struggle like f*ck on here, I'm past giving up!
You are not the only one to struggle, it is so so hard for single guys here ive also thought many times to just give up haha
I hope our fab ladies would share some of their secrets here, so that we can change the way we look out for the meets. "
I think were just out numbered to possibly 20 guys to 1 lady so we have a mission on our hands to stand out. Personally i know im avarage if not less so its really hard work. Just gota plow threw with the unanswered messages lol  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I struggle like f*ck on here, I'm past giving up!
You are not the only one to struggle, it is so so hard for single guys here ive also thought many times to just give up haha
I hope our fab ladies would share some of their secrets here, so that we can change the way we look out for the meets.
I think were just out numbered to possibly 20 guys to 1 lady so we have a mission on our hands to stand out. Personally i know im avarage if not less so its really hard work. Just gota plow threw with the unanswered messages lol "
Haha some time I feel the same.lol |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
Scotland - Aberdeen |
"I struggle like f*ck on here, I'm past giving up!
You are not the only one to struggle, it is so so hard for single guys here ive also thought many times to just give up haha
I hope our fab ladies would share some of their secrets here, so that we can change the way we look out for the meets.
I think were just out numbered to possibly 20 guys to 1 lady so we have a mission on our hands to stand out. Personally i know im avarage if not less so its really hard work. Just gota plow threw with the unanswered messages lol
Haha some time I feel the same.lol"
The only thing a single guy needs to do is have a decent profile that actually says what they are looking for, what they can offer and a why someone would want you........be teasing, tempting and exciting!
Have decent pics, that are not just your cock as we all know you have one, just don't show that you ARE one  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I struggle like f*ck on here, I'm past giving up!
You are not the only one to struggle, it is so so hard for single guys here ive also thought many times to just give up haha
I hope our fab ladies would share some of their secrets here, so that we can change the way we look out for the meets.
I think were just out numbered to possibly 20 guys to 1 lady so we have a mission on our hands to stand out. Personally i know im avarage if not less so its really hard work. Just gota plow threw with the unanswered messages lol
Haha some time I feel the same.lol
The only thing a single guy needs to do is have a decent profile that actually says what they are looking for, what they can offer and a why someone would want you........be teasing, tempting and exciting!
Have decent pics, that are not just your cock as we all know you have one, just don't show that you ARE one "
Good advice thanks..
Can you also plz tell us how u search/find the profile in first place? |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
Scotland - Aberdeen |
"I struggle like f*ck on here, I'm past giving up!
You are not the only one to struggle, it is so so hard for single guys here ive also thought many times to just give up haha
I hope our fab ladies would share some of their secrets here, so that we can change the way we look out for the meets.
I think were just out numbered to possibly 20 guys to 1 lady so we have a mission on our hands to stand out. Personally i know im avarage if not less so its really hard work. Just gota plow threw with the unanswered messages lol
Haha some time I feel the same.lol
The only thing a single guy needs to do is have a decent profile that actually says what they are looking for, what they can offer and a why someone would want you........be teasing, tempting and exciting!
Have decent pics, that are not just your cock as we all know you have one, just don't show that you ARE one
Good advice thanks..
Can you also plz tell us how u search/find the profile in first place?"
I try and look using my search parameters and preferences, unfortunately because about 99% of men in my area don't bother with profiles and just have a cock shot, it makes it nigh impossible to search for what I may like. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I struggle like f*ck on here, I'm past giving up!
You are not the only one to struggle, it is so so hard for single guys here ive also thought many times to just give up haha
I hope our fab ladies would share some of their secrets here, so that we can change the way we look out for the meets.
I think were just out numbered to possibly 20 guys to 1 lady so we have a mission on our hands to stand out. Personally i know im avarage if not less so its really hard work. Just gota plow threw with the unanswered messages lol
Haha some time I feel the same.lol
The only thing a single guy needs to do is have a decent profile that actually says what they are looking for, what they can offer and a why someone would want you........be teasing, tempting and exciting!
Have decent pics, that are not just your cock as we all know you have one, just don't show that you ARE one
Good advice thanks..
Can you also plz tell us how u search/find the profile in first place?
I try and look using my search parameters and preferences, unfortunately because about 99% of men in my area don't bother with profiles and just have a cock shot, it makes it nigh impossible to search for what I may like."
Thanks fox...everyone has some way or the other problem in finding the match here... Don't worry, if I come by to Scotland I will message you.
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