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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Try China brush solution keep you going for hours and hours  "
Was going to comment try a warm up round haha. But seen this above an wondered what it was haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm the complete opposite of you brother. I have retarded ejaculation. Benefit, last ages fucking. Con, takes me ages to cum and most sexual encounters I never cum and leave sexually frustrated. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm the complete opposite of you brother. I have retarded ejaculation. Benefit, last ages fucking. Con, takes me ages to cum and most sexual encounters I never cum and leave sexually frustrated."
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I have this too, you're not alone. It drove me nuts for a while (no pun intended) as I can get myself off relatively quickly, no problem. What's helped me, was to simply communicate a bit more with new partners and tell them how to get me off. Also having repeat/regular partners works out better as you learn more about each others sexual needs, which often leads to more satisfying sex.
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OP, I'd say get yourself a fleshlight, some good lube, and just practice, a lot, which is often the only way we learn how to get better at something. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've used China brush before
I bought it from love honey not eBay
It's a liquid you apply to the bell end, half an hour before sex
It works as in it delays you from cumming but for me I could not cum when I used it. I mean 3 hours of full on thrusting and banging, my dick was sore, abs wrecked and the reality it wasn't going to happen hit. the mrs was satisfied, well she was getting sore as well.
I wouldn't and haven't used it again as it's a bit smelly so no oral and I like foreplay. Hope this helps |
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By *jr123Man
over a year ago
oldham |
"I'm the complete opposite of you brother. I have retarded ejaculation. Benefit, last ages fucking. Con, takes me ages to cum and most sexual encounters I never cum and leave sexually frustrated.
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I have this too, you're not alone. It drove me nuts for a while (no pun intended) as I can get myself off relatively quickly, no problem. What's helped me, was to simply communicate a bit more with new partners and tell them how to get me off. Also having repeat/regular partners works out better as you learn more about each others sexual needs, which often leads to more satisfying sex.
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OP, I'd say get yourself a fleshlight, some good lube, and just practice, a lot, which is often the only way we learn how to get better at something. "
I also suffer from retarded ejaculation. I can have sex or even wank for ages and still not cum and I know what I like. It's weird. Sometimes it just happens.
I have a couple of fleshlights and even they don't do it for me. |
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Change position often, in a way that gives your partner different sensations (as well as you) and the time involved in changing gives you time to cool a bit. Vary your speed and even stop, while giving other parts of your partner attention and can still be in penetration mode. Also withdraw and do some oral for a while. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Keep mixing up the position and keep referring back to a blow job as it seems to change the sensation!
Other than that, try take your mind out of the game and think of the queen! |
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"I'm the complete opposite of you brother. I have retarded ejaculation. Benefit, last ages fucking. Con, takes me ages to cum and most sexual encounters I never cum and leave sexually frustrated.
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Same. I think its in the head, i enjoy the feeling of fucking but climax is often an age, a wank can be 40minutes, but the amount of spunk ... Often 7-10 tissues to clean up, its usually everywhere ... Last one shot over my shoulder! Partners love it lol!
I have this too, you're not alone. It drove me nuts for a while (no pun intended) as I can get myself off relatively quickly, no problem. What's helped me, was to simply communicate a bit more with new partners and tell them how to get me off. Also having repeat/regular partners works out better as you learn more about each others sexual needs, which often leads to more satisfying sex.
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OP, I'd say get yourself a fleshlight, some good lube, and just practice, a lot, which is often the only way we learn how to get better at something.
I also suffer from retarded ejaculation. I can have sex or even wank for ages and still not cum and I know what I like. It's weird. Sometimes it just happens.
I have a couple of fleshlights and even they don't do it for me."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Have a look at male full body orgasms.....with training you can have as many orgasms as you want (and each can last for hours even way after you finished having sex) And no cum!
Its not easy and takes a long time to master...but trust me its totally worth it! |
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"Have a look at male full body orgasms.....with training you can have as many orgasms as you want (and each can last for hours even way after you finished having sex) And no cum!
Its not easy and takes a long time to master...but trust me its totally worth it! "
Your no telling me that you order a pint down your local with your full cum face ?  ! Lol |
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I was asked to attend a dinner party in aid of premature ejaculation; I didn’t know what the dress code was going to be so I just came in my trousers.
Ahem, not helpful 
Plenty of delay sprays/gels available but go easy with it, maybe try it out by yourself first time round.
Personally, I find doing the nine times table in my head works kinda well. Just try and avoid shouting out "108!!" as you climax. |
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Alternate from sex to oral when your close to drag it out.
Certain cock rings can delay things too.
Other than that i can only suggest sorting yourself several times before a meet to make sure your not so trigger happy so to speak |
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By *hechapMan
over a year ago
Derry |
Think on an old pensioner.
This might not work if you have a fetish for old dears but you get the jizz.
I phoned the Dr about my delayed ejaculation but was refused an appointment.
They said that it was because I am always coming late. |
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By *ontanMan
over a year ago
Wakefield |
I wank at least once befor a meet. If I really wanna be sure of going for a session n half I wank twice. Empty out both balls.
Its a pain in the arse I know myself. Only other thing that works is alott of alcohol. But thats not always an option. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Apparently there's this thing in Japan that helps.. they tie heavy weight to their balls and swing that around for awhile.
One guys this skilled he can pull a fucking car with his sack haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i suffer from a bad case of premature ejaculation. any help or advice "
I used to myself mate but it naturally went over the years and as has been mentioned previously have a wank before hand. Also try and relax and not think about it as that tends to make it worse. Just go with the flow. If it happens just give the lady some oral until you're ready again and you ought to last longer the second time! |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
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"I'm the complete opposite of you brother. I have retarded ejaculation. Benefit, last ages fucking. Con, takes me ages to cum and most sexual encounters I never cum and leave sexually frustrated.
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I have this too, you're not alone. It drove me nuts for a while (no pun intended) as I can get myself off relatively quickly, no problem. What's helped me, was to simply communicate a bit more with new partners and tell them how to get me off. Also having repeat/regular partners works out better as you learn more about each others sexual needs, which often leads to more satisfying sex.
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OP, I'd say get yourself a fleshlight, some good lube, and just practice, a lot, which is often the only way we learn how to get better at something. "
what a decent answer xx  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Normally I'm average , but whenever I'm on a blue pill... I go for hours sometimes not at all...
Mr."
Sorry to come across stupid... but what is the blue pill? Viagra? |
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By *hechapMan
over a year ago
Derry |
"Apparently there's this thing in Japan that helps.. they tie heavy weight to their balls and swing that around for awhile.
One guys this skilled he can pull a fucking car with his sack haha "
Total balls |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Normally I'm average , but whenever I'm on a blue pill... I go for hours sometimes not at all...
Mr."
If you need enhancement with the divine lady who shares your bed then we are all doomed |
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"Apparently there's this thing in Japan that helps.. they tie heavy weight to their balls and swing that around for awhile.
One guys this skilled he can pull a fucking car with his sack haha
Total balls"
Stretched balls |
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By *ntnCleoCouple
over a year ago
Dortmund (Germany) might travel! |
"I'm the complete opposite of you brother. I have retarded ejaculation. Benefit, last ages fucking. Con, takes me ages to cum and most sexual encounters I never cum and leave sexually frustrated."
I agree! Especially if we have had a lot of sex. I'm not as bad as you but I would like to be faster so repeat rounds could be fit into the night. Also, if you go too long it starts to get numb and then you never cum! And a quickie is just out of the question! |
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