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Performance Anxiety
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"Quickest way is something like viagra - once you do it fine again a couple of times the anxiety will go and you'll likely be fine the next time and forget you didn't take the viagra " Word  | |||
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"Thanks for the replies and advice guys, it was just something that was sitting in my head for a while and I decided to let it out, by the looks of things I just need to chill out a bit and not over think the whole ordeal too much "If sex is an ordeal then you do have problems  | |||
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"Thanks for the replies and advice guys, it was just something that was sitting in my head for a while and I decided to let it out, by the looks of things I just need to chill out a bit and not over think the whole ordeal too much
If sex is an ordeal then you do have problems "Well, I could have used a better word there but so far its been rather like that, probably due to my inexperience | |||
"One thing I will add to the above - whatever you do, at your age, do NOT be tempted to try Viagra or any other similar drugs without first seeking medical advice and having them prescribed - unless there is a serious underlying medical condition you should have absolutely no need for them at your age and could in fact be making the problem worse by taking them unprescribed and even risking your own health generally." Never considered taking Viagra, I don't want to become dependent on it. | |||
"One thing I will add to the above - whatever you do, at your age, do NOT be tempted to try Viagra or any other similar drugs without first seeking medical advice and having them prescribed - unless there is a serious underlying medical condition you should have absolutely no need for them at your age and could in fact be making the problem worse by taking them unprescribed and even risking your own health generally. Never considered taking Viagra, I don't want to become dependent on it." Only reason for the above was because it had been suggested further up thread and IMHO was bad advice. Good to hear you wouldn't consider it | |||
"Quickest way is something like viagra - once you do it fine again a couple of times the anxiety will go and you'll likely be fine the next time and forget you didn't take the viagra " Good advice if you do not have high blood pressure. if you do Viagra can give you a stroke. it works by increasing your blood pressure. Side effects long term leads to ccf cardiac failure where your arteries and heart expands, so does not pump effisiantly just be safe calms is good for relaxing. take your time with a new partner pleasure your partner first fore play is important for both parties. Be safe | |||
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"Quickest way is something like viagra - once you do it fine again a couple of times the anxiety will go and you'll likely be fine the next time and forget you didn't take the viagra Good advice if you do not have high blood pressure. if you do Viagra can give you a stroke. it works by increasing your blood pressure. Side effects long term leads to ccf cardiac failure where your arteries and heart expands, so does not pump effisiantly just be safe calms is good for relaxing. take your time with a new partner pleasure your partner first fore play is important for both parties. Be safe" The above is bad information even though the intent is good. People should not take medication they don't need and without discussion with their doctor. Viagra was trialled as a drug to reduce blood pressure and to treat angina.The trials didn't go particularly well. However a side-effect was more easily achieved erections. Because such medication LOWERS blood pressure it would be dangerous to use other vaso -dilators at the same time. | |||
"Quickest way is something like viagra - once you do it fine again a couple of times the anxiety will go and you'll likely be fine the next time and forget you didn't take the viagra " Viagra is fine but its an easy solution to painting over the cracks, im in the same position as op and it sucks moose dick. Just relax and dont worry or push yourself else it becomes a viscious circle... Try edging that helps. | |||
"One thing I will add to the above - whatever you do, at your age, do NOT be tempted to try Viagra or any other similar drugs without first seeking medical advice and having them prescribed - unless there is a serious underlying medical condition you should have absolutely no need for them at your age and could in fact be making the problem worse by taking them unprescribed and even risking your own health generally. Never considered taking Viagra, I don't want to become dependent on it. Only reason for the above was because it had been suggested further up thread and IMHO was bad advice. Good to hear you wouldn't consider it "Actually thinking ED drugs can make it 'worse' or you can 'dependent' on them is dodgy advice They have interactions with a small number of blood pressure medications which any reputable online pharmacy or doctor would check before prescribing Scare stories are not helpful | |||
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"I had this unpleasant experience a few weeks ago whenever I hooked up with a new partner and would like to ask for some advice, mainly if there is a way of preventing performance anxiety and what's the best way to get over it as I got rather upset with myself whenever it happened "Just to offer a different perspective, is it definitely performance anxiety? Has this happened more than once? The reason we're asking is that Gavin has had two 'failures' on previous meets. At first we put it down to nerves, then to making sure Stacey was enjoying herself. Then after a little searching online, it seemed that it could be the condoms he was using. The failures only occurred once he had the condom on. Hard as a rock + condom = disappearing willy! Turned out that they were too tight and too long. Off the shelf condoms don't account for girthier than average guys, and they're usually a couple of inches longer than the average length. This causes them to bunch up and constrict blood flow too much. He found a company called they-fit.co.uk. He measured himself and bought the exact size for him. Since the switch - not a single failure
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