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No sex with the girlfriend

By *amborneman OP Man over a year ago

In your town now

Me & the girlfriend have been together for 4 years now & for the past 12 months there is no sex life I have tryed all sorts to get her in the mood etc but nothing works I have tryed to talk to her & all she says is sorry that's all she says I am geting a bit fed up with it now what can I do ? Do I just move on ? I do love her & everything else is fine apart from the lack of sex

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

She is probably on here getting some

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By *amborneman OP Man over a year ago

In your town now

"She is probably on here getting some

"
haha funny she is not on here & I know she's not seeing anyone else

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Try to find out why she isn't in the mood. Your both adults, only by talking as adults will you resolve the situation one way or the other.

There's little point in trying 'to get her in the mood' if there's something physical or mental that she feels she can't talk to you about while you're trying to get her horny.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple over a year ago

Basingstoke

"Me & the girlfriend have been together for 4 years now & for the past 12 months there is no sex life I have tryed all sorts to get her in the mood etc but nothing works I have tryed to talk to her & all she says is sorry that's all she says I am geting a bit fed up with it now what can I do ? Do I just move on ? I do love her & everything else is fine apart from the lack of sex

Currently there are at least 4 threads of this theme on here so do yourself a favour and don't marry her.

If sex with her is important to you then dump her immediately, don't listen to the bullshit generic advice about conversations, doing housework for her, buying flowers and romance shit that will inevitably follow on this thread. If sex with her isn't so important to you, stay with her and cheat on her. How much can you afford to spend each month on prostitutes?

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By *dventurousAlexMan over a year ago

Ipswich

So first you need to work out what's wrong. Is she stressed, something medically wrong etc?

Does she feel there's a problem or doesn't it bother her?

Then you need to work out whether she's happy for you to look elsewhere or if she's going to get this sorted.

Then you need to decide where you stand on the issue.

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By *amborneman OP Man over a year ago

In your town now

"Try to find out why she isn't in the mood. Your both adults, only by talking as adults will you resolve the situation one way or the other.

There's little point in trying 'to get her in the mood' if there's something physical or mental that she feels she can't talk to you about while you're trying to get her horny. "
I have tryed talking to her but all she says is sorry that's it nothing else

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By *eedsmale36Man over a year ago

Leeds

"She is probably on here getting some

haha funny she is not on here & I know she's not seeing anyone else "

Trust me, she's getting her back doors kicked in by somebody else.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Currently there are at least 4 threads of this theme on here so do yourself a favour and don't marry her.

Though I hate to admit it, having been part of basically all of those conversations this advice seems the most solid.

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"She is probably on here getting some

haha funny she is not on here & I know she's not seeing anyone else "

But you are. Maybe she worked it out and doesn't want to shag you anymore.

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By *eerobCouple over a year ago

solihull

We presume she does not know you are on here.. If she doesn't, and she finds out do you think it will make the situation better?.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Try to find out why she isn't in the mood. Your both adults, only by talking as adults will you resolve the situation one way or the other.

There's little point in trying 'to get her in the mood' if there's something physical or mental that she feels she can't talk to you about while you're trying to get her horny. I have tryed talking to her but all she says is sorry that's it nothing else "

Well, you've two options.

Try talking again to resolve the issue.

Or both of you move on.

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By *ack Genuine BullMan over a year ago

Loughborough

She has "friend-zoned" you!

She has what she wants,

And doesn't feel that she has to make any more effort to please you.

Why should she change?

Life is just the way she likes it.

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By *amborneman OP Man over a year ago

In your town now

I was thinking the same

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By *amborneman OP Man over a year ago

In your town now

"She has "friend-zoned" you!

She has what she wants,

And doesn't feel that she has to make any more effort to please you.

Why should she change?

Life is just the way she likes it.

"
I was thinking the same

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By *amborneman OP Man over a year ago

In your town now

"So first you need to work out what's wrong. Is she stressed, something medically wrong etc?

Does she feel there's a problem or doesn't it bother her?

Then you need to work out whether she's happy for you to look elsewhere or if she's going to get this sorted.

Then you need to decide where you stand on the issue. "
she doesn't think there is a problem

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By *amborneman OP Man over a year ago

In your town now

"Try to find out why she isn't in the mood. Your both adults, only by talking as adults will you resolve the situation one way or the other.

Well, you've two options.

Try talking again to resolve the issue.

Or both of you move on."
I have tryed talking to her but all she says is sorry that's it nothing else

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"She has "friend-zoned" you!

She has what she wants,

And doesn't feel that she has to make any more effort to please you.

Why should she change?

Life is just the way she likes it.

I was thinking the same "

This, by staying you are giving the clear message that it's fine if she doesn't bother to try to meet your needs

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By *elma and ShaggyCouple over a year ago

Bedworth

"She is probably on here getting some

haha funny she is not on here & I know she's not seeing anyone else "

Unlike you op

Maybe she's become suspicious of your extra curricular activities so doesn't want to have sexual with you

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By *amborneman OP Man over a year ago

In your town now

"We presume she does not know you are on here.. If she doesn't, and she finds out do you think it will make the situation better?. "
no she doesn't know that i am on here & no it probably won't help

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple over a year ago

Basingstoke

"So first you need to work out what's wrong. Is she stressed, something medically wrong etc?

Does she feel there's a problem or doesn't it bother her?

Then you need to work out whether she's happy for you to look elsewhere or if she's going to get this sorted.

Then you need to decide where you stand on the issue. she doesn't think there is a problem "

So man up and dump her. You're not married, it's not so hard to find a good partner who likes sex.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Currently there are at least 4 threads of this theme on here so do yourself a favour and don't marry her.

Surely you're not suggesting prostitutes are on fab and charging

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By *amborneman OP Man over a year ago

In your town now

"She is probably on here getting some

haha funny she is not on here & I know she's not seeing anyone else

Unlike you op

Maybe she's become suspicious of your extra curricular activities so doesn't want to have sexual with you"
she doesn't know that i am on here

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple over a year ago

Basingstoke

Currently there are at least 4 threads of this theme on here so do yourself a favour and don't marry her.

Surely you're not suggesting prostitutes are on fab and charging

We aren't looking for single females so don't bump into them, but others tell me they are here. If i wanted one then this wouldn't be the site I'd use to find them.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Currently there are at least 4 threads of this theme on here so do yourself a favour and don't marry her.

Surely you're not suggesting prostitutes are on fab and charging

We aren't looking for single females so don't bump into them, but others tell me they are here. If i wanted one then this wouldn't be the site I'd use to find them. "

Oh good old gossip(others tell me)

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"She is probably on here getting some

haha funny she is not on here & I know she's not seeing anyone else

Unlike you op

Maybe she's become suspicious of your extra curricular activities so doesn't want to have sexual with you she doesn't know that i am on here "

You'd be surprised.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple over a year ago

Basingstoke

"She is probably on here getting some

haha funny she is not on here & I know she's not seeing anyone else

Unlike you op

Maybe she's become suspicious of your extra curricular activities so doesn't want to have sexual with you she doesn't know that i am on here

You'd be surprised.

I think cheating can be an appropriate work around solution to hold a marriage together. I don't know why one would bother to hold a boyfriend-girlfriend relationship together?

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By *amborneman OP Man over a year ago

In your town now

"So first you need to work out what's wrong. Is she stressed, something medically wrong etc?

Does she feel there's a problem or doesn't it bother her?

Then you need to work out whether she's happy for you to look elsewhere or if she's going to get this sorted.

Then you need to decide where you stand on the issue. she doesn't think there is a problem

So man up and dump her. You're not married, it's not so hard to find a good partner who likes sex. "
it's not easy when you love her

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So first you need to work out what's wrong. Is she stressed, something medically wrong etc?

Does she feel there's a problem or doesn't it bother her?

Then you need to work out whether she's happy for you to look elsewhere or if she's going to get this sorted.

Then you need to decide where you stand on the issue. she doesn't think there is a problem

So man up and dump her. You're not married, it's not so hard to find a good partner who likes sex. it's not easy when you love her "

But it's easy to lie to her? And look for people to have sex with behind her back?

Grow a spine

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple over a year ago

Basingstoke

"So first you need to work out what's wrong. Is she stressed, something medically wrong etc?

Does she feel there's a problem or doesn't it bother her?

Then you need to work out whether she's happy for you to look elsewhere or if she's going to get this sorted.

Then you need to decide where you stand on the issue. she doesn't think there is a problem

So man up and dump her. You're not married, it's not so hard to find a good partner who likes sex. it's not easy when you love her "

Love is a deliberately ambiguous term people use to justify not taking hard decisions.

Ok stay with her, marry her even. Then in 5 years when you absolutely hate the sight of her; you can come back to this thread and let me know that 'i told you so'.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"She is probably on here getting some

haha funny she is not on here & I know she's not seeing anyone else

Unlike you op

Maybe she's become suspicious of your extra curricular activities so doesn't want to have sexual with you she doesn't know that i am on here "

She'll know.

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By *easing_twoCouple over a year ago

Bristol, Thornbury

Try joining fabswingers and cheat on her

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By *eerobCouple over a year ago

solihull

What about making yourself more attractive to her.. Get fitter.. Lose a bit of weight?? Maybe you've let yourself go since you've met?? Put your mind 100 percent in to your relationship rather than concentrating on finding a bit on the side?

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"She is probably on here getting some

haha funny she is not on here & I know she's not seeing anyone else

Unlike you op

Maybe she's become suspicious of your extra curricular activities so doesn't want to have sexual with you she doesn't know that i am on here

You'd be surprised.

I think cheating can be an appropriate work around solution to hold a marriage together. I don't know why one would bother to hold a boyfriend-girlfriend relationship together? "

If there are no kids or joint mortgages involved then I agree. The OP says he loves her, but I fail to see how he can do so and still shag behind her back.

Just go and find someone who can give you what you want OP. Stop deceiving the poor woman. Although I suspect you're not as stealthy as you think you are.

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By *eedsmale36Man over a year ago

Leeds

"So first you need to work out what's wrong. Is she stressed, something medically wrong etc?

Does she feel there's a problem or doesn't it bother her?

Then you need to work out whether she's happy for you to look elsewhere or if she's going to get this sorted.

Then you need to decide where you stand on the issue. she doesn't think there is a problem

So man up and dump her. You're not married, it's not so hard to find a good partner who likes sex. it's not easy when you love her "

Dump her ass now....your Cornwall's answer to Brad Pitt you will be beating the women off with a shitty stick !

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Looks like you already moved on when you started this profile

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By *amborneman OP Man over a year ago

In your town now

"She is probably on here getting some

haha funny she is not on here & I know she's not seeing anyone else

Unlike you op

Maybe she's become suspicious of your extra curricular activities so doesn't want to have sexual with you she doesn't know that i am on here

You'd be surprised.

Anyway as you are obviously managing to get sex on here, why is it such a problem for you that she doesn't want it? You don't mention that the rest of the relationship is OK or otherwise, just that she doesn't want sex with you. So carry on getting it elsewhere."
the rest of the relationship is ok everything is fine & I may be on here but I am not geting it from anyone else

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"She is probably on here getting some

haha funny she is not on here & I know she's not seeing anyone else

Unlike you op

Maybe she's become suspicious of your extra curricular activities so doesn't want to have sexual with you she doesn't know that i am on here

You'd be surprised.

Anyway as you are obviously managing to get sex on here, why is it such a problem for you that she doesn't want it? You don't mention that the rest of the relationship is OK or otherwise, just that she doesn't want sex with you. So carry on getting it elsewhere. the rest of the relationship is ok everything is fine & I may be on here but I am not geting it from anyone else

Try talking to her about it rather than asking a bunch of strangers

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"She is probably on here getting some

haha funny she is not on here & I know she's not seeing anyone else

But you are. Maybe she worked it out and doesn't want to shag you anymore."

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple over a year ago

Basingstoke

"She is probably on here getting some

haha funny she is not on here & I know she's not seeing anyone else

Unlike you op

Maybe she's become suspicious of your extra curricular activities so doesn't want to have sexual with you she doesn't know that i am on here

You'd be surprised.

Anyway as you are obviously managing to get sex on here, why is it such a problem for you that she doesn't want it? You don't mention that the rest of the relationship is OK or otherwise, just that she doesn't want sex with you. So carry on getting it elsewhere. the rest of the relationship is ok everything is fine & I may be on here but I am not geting it from anyone else

Try talking to her about it rather than asking a bunch of strangers "

He has. She said "sorry". That's a woman's way of saying "fuck off".

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"She is probably on here getting some

haha funny she is not on here & I know she's not seeing anyone else "

Why you so sure. After all you are?

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple over a year ago

Halifax

Is there something in the air today? All these no sex posts.

Miss

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ah the good guy . I'm not getting it at home but been here a year (that ties into your post) . We suggest showing your lady your profile , tell her you like to meet people for sex and your happy for her to have her own profile . I'm sure your world will be rocking.

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By *amborneman OP Man over a year ago

In your town now

"So first you need to work out what's wrong. Is she stressed, something medically wrong etc?

Does she feel there's a problem or doesn't it bother her?

Then you need to work out whether she's happy for you to look elsewhere or if she's going to get this sorted.

Then you need to decide where you stand on the issue. she doesn't think there is a problem

So man up and dump her. You're not married, it's not so hard to find a good partner who likes sex. it's not easy when you love her

Love is a deliberately ambiguous term people use to justify not taking hard decisions.

Ok stay with her, marry her even. Then in 5 years when you absolutely hate the sight of her; you can come back to this thread and let me know that 'i told you so'. "
she don't want to get married or engaged

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By *amborneman OP Man over a year ago

In your town now

"Ah the good guy . I'm not getting it at home but been here a year (that ties into your post) . We suggest showing your lady your profile , tell her you like to meet people for sex and your happy for her to have her own profile . I'm sure your world will be rocking. "
she would have a hart attack if I did show her

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By *amborneman OP Man over a year ago

In your town now

"She is probably on here getting some

haha funny she is not on here & I know she's not seeing anyone else

Why you so sure. After all you are? "
because i know she hasn't

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple over a year ago

Basingstoke

"So first you need to work out what's wrong. Is she stressed, something medically wrong etc?

Does she feel there's a problem or doesn't it bother her?

Then you need to work out whether she's happy for you to look elsewhere or if she's going to get this sorted.

Then you need to decide where you stand on the issue. she doesn't think there is a problem

So man up and dump her. You're not married, it's not so hard to find a good partner who likes sex. it's not easy when you love her

Love is a deliberately ambiguous term people use to justify not taking hard decisions.

Ok stay with her, marry her even. Then in 5 years when you absolutely hate the sight of her; you can come back to this thread and let me know that 'i told you so'. she don't want to get married or engaged

Ok but you ain't getting any younger sweet cheeks

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

Nothing will solve this but talking. If you aren't communicating nothing will change unless you instigate that change.

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By *amborneman OP Man over a year ago

In your town now

"She is probably on here getting some

haha funny she is not on here & I know she's not seeing anyone else

Unlike you op

Maybe she's become suspicious of your extra curricular activities so doesn't want to have sexual with you she doesn't know that i am on here

She'll know."
well she don't

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By *amborneman OP Man over a year ago

In your town now

"So first you need to work out what's wrong. Is she stressed, something medically wrong etc?

Does she feel there's a problem or doesn't it bother her?

Then you need to work out whether she's happy for you to look elsewhere or if she's going to get this sorted.

Then you need to decide where you stand on the issue. she doesn't think there is a problem

So man up and dump her. You're not married, it's not so hard to find a good partner who likes sex. it's not easy when you love her

Love is a deliberately ambiguous term people use to justify not taking hard decisions.

Ok but you ain't getting any younger sweet cheeks"
I don't want to get married or engaged

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple over a year ago

Basingstoke

"So first you need to work out what's wrong. Is she stressed, something medically wrong etc?

Does she feel there's a problem or doesn't it bother her?

Then you need to work out whether she's happy for you to look elsewhere or if she's going to get this sorted.

Then you need to decide where you stand on the issue. she doesn't think there is a problem

So man up and dump her. You're not married, it's not so hard to find a good partner who likes sex. it's not easy when you love her

Love is a deliberately ambiguous term people use to justify not taking hard decisions.

Ok but you ain't getting any younger sweet cheeks I don't want to get married or engaged

Or laid apparently

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By *amborneman OP Man over a year ago

In your town now

"So first you need to work out what's wrong. Is she stressed, something medically wrong etc?

Does she feel there's a problem or doesn't it bother her?

Then you need to work out whether she's happy for you to look elsewhere or if she's going to get this sorted.

Then you need to decide where you stand on the issue. she doesn't think there is a problem

So man up and dump her. You're not married, it's not so hard to find a good partner who likes sex. it's not easy when you love her

Love is a deliberately ambiguous term people use to justify not taking hard decisions.

Ok but you ain't getting any younger sweet cheeks I don't want to get married or engaged

Or laid apparently "
haha

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Menopause perhaps?

Common cause for loss of sex drive (shudder!) - HRT might help

I've decided I'm not doing the menopause- simples!

Sara

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"She is probably on here getting some

haha funny she is not on here & I know she's not seeing anyone else

Why you so sure. After all you are? because i know she hasn't "

Well you assume so and personally good on her if shes getting it elsewhere

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Love how its her fault for not wanting sex and nothing is your doing op

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By *alldarksurreyMan over a year ago

surrey

Where is she right now?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"She is probably on here getting some

haha funny she is not on here & I know she's not seeing anyone else

Unlike you op

Maybe she's become suspicious of your extra curricular activities so doesn't want to have sexual with you she doesn't know that i am on here

You'd be surprised.

Anyway as you are obviously managing to get sex on here, why is it such a problem for you that she doesn't want it? You don't mention that the rest of the relationship is OK or otherwise, just that she doesn't want sex with you. So carry on getting it elsewhere. the rest of the relationship is ok everything is fine & I may be on here but I am not geting it from anyone else

i bet the person who has verified you 3 times would say different

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By *raceytvcdTV/TS over a year ago

mansfield

Was your sex life good when you first met her .maybe just try and think back to when in the relationship it stopped .try and think whags changed since then ?

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By *raceytvcdTV/TS over a year ago

mansfield

Whats ,that is

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By *ants_Nerdy_CoupleCouple over a year ago

Havant

If you love her and you're happy with her apart from the sex, then the relationship is at least worth trying to save.

Right now according to what you've said she's not being very responsive to you trying to discuss it with her. That could be because she genuinely doesn't think it's a problem or it could be because she's uncomfortable about it.

If I were you I would make some time to sit down with her and say something like this: "I love you very much but sex is an important part of a loving relationship to me, and it's hurting me that you're apparently not interested in sex and also not interested in discussing why. I want to help you work out why you feel how you do so we can work past it together."

That can be the start of a discussion. If it's medical, you can make an appointment with the doctor and talk about it. If it's emotional, she may benefit from some counselling. If it's a disagreement with you then you can explore couples counselling. If she won't discuss it at all, then I think it's time you consider whether you can still be together.

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By *amborneman OP Man over a year ago

In your town now

"Menopause perhaps?

Common cause for loss of sex drive (shudder!) - HRT might help

I've decided I'm not doing the menopause- simples!

Sara"
nope nothing to do with the menopause at all

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By *amborneman OP Man over a year ago

In your town now

"She is probably on here getting some

haha funny she is not on here & I know she's not seeing anyone else

Why you so sure. After all you are? because i know she hasn't

Well you assume so and personally good on her if shes getting it elsewhere "
I know she's not geting it any where else fact

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By *amborneman OP Man over a year ago

In your town now

"Was your sex life good when you first met her .maybe just try and think back to when in the relationship it stopped .try and think whags changed since then ?"
sex life was goodish when we met

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By *amborneman OP Man over a year ago

In your town now

"If you love her and you're happy with her apart from the sex, then the relationship is at least worth trying to save.

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By *inky-MinxWoman over a year ago

Grantham

No mention of the GF on the profile, maybe she senses you're not all there?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By *amborneman OP Man over a year ago

In your town now

"No mention of the GF on the profile, maybe she senses you're not all there?"
??

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I am married for a long time with kids- our sex life went downhill about 8 years ago but there would be way too much collateral damage to quit the relationship now. But if I were you, I would get out now while you still can easily do so, otherwise face a sexless or devious existence for decades. And then who knows, maybe you could find a sex positive woman on here to have good times with.

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By *amborneman OP Man over a year ago

In your town now

"I am married for a long time with kids- our sex life went downhill about 8 years ago but there would be way too much collateral damage to quit the relationship now. But if I were you, I would get out now while you still can easily do so, otherwise face a sexless or devious existence for decades. And then who knows, maybe you could find a sex positive woman on here to have good times with."

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By *amborneman OP Man over a year ago

In your town now

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By *inky-MinxWoman over a year ago

Grantham

"No mention of the GF on the profile, maybe she senses you're not all there? ??

I mean that your mind is elsewhere

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By *amborneman OP Man over a year ago

In your town now

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I am on here looking for the sexual and physical love I dont get at home. No she doesnt know and hopefully never will. I have no desire to hurt her, I just want what I need.

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By *amborneman OP Man over a year ago

In your town now

"No mention of the GF on the profile, maybe she senses you're not all there? ??

I mean that your mind is elsewhere

"
probably yes

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By *amborneman OP Man over a year ago

In your town now

I am on here looking for the sexual and physical love I dont get at home. No she doesnt know and hopefully never will. I have no desire to hurt her, I just want what I need.

"
same here

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"She is probably on here getting some

haha funny she is not on here & I know she's not seeing anyone else "

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By *amborneman OP Man over a year ago

In your town now

"She is probably on here getting some

haha funny she is not on here & I know she's not seeing anyone else "
???

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By *eerobCouple over a year ago

solihull

"She is probably on here getting some

haha funny she is not on here & I know she's not seeing anyone else "

Perhaps she is as good a liar or even better than the OP

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By *igSuki81Man over a year ago

Retirement Village

"She is probably on here getting some

haha funny she is not on here & I know she's not seeing anyone else

But you are. Maybe she worked it out and doesn't want to shag you anymore."

I was thinking the same

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Maybe try joining the gym or making effort with your appearance or trying a new look to get her attracted again.

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By *amborneman OP Man over a year ago

In your town now

"She is probably on here getting some

haha funny she is not on here & I know she's not seeing anyone else

But you are. Maybe she worked it out and doesn't want to shag you anymore.

Well she don't know anything

I was thinking the same

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By *amborneman OP Man over a year ago

In your town now

"Maybe try joining the gym or making effort with your appearance or trying a new look to get her attracted again. "
I was big when I met her & she is bigish as well

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By *ay19720Man over a year ago

Ashford kent

"Maybe try joining the gym or making effort with your appearance or trying a new look to get her attracted again. "

True....

Oh miss...yes im a taker lol fingers and tongue fine..lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Perhaps she can tell you've cheated on her several times and she's hurt by that.

You could say sorry

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sex to me plays a major part in a relationship. If you say you get on etc that's fine, but if your not having an intimate relationship then there's big issues. It's one of the major causes of brake ups affairs and divorce. (That and money)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If you are as articulate chatting to her as you are with your Forum answers, then I really feel for her. Be more forthcoming and talkative. Not

"What's wrong?"

"Sorry...."

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By *amborneman OP Man over a year ago

In your town now

"She is probably on here getting some

haha funny she is not on here & I know she's not seeing anyone else

Perhaps she is as good a liar or even better than the OP"
well she is not because she goes to work & comes home & she is with me all eveing & she is with me all weekend so she's not

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By *amborneman OP Man over a year ago

In your town now

"Perhaps she can tell you've cheated on her several times and she's hurt by that.

You could say sorry

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By *ay19720Man over a year ago

Ashford kent

"Maybe try joining the gym or making effort with your appearance or trying a new look to get her attracted again. I was big when I met her & she is bigish as well "

U can try bud.!..u seem content as u r.., if u broke up would u try changing or stay as u r....

Do u do things around the house(jobs) or do they never get done...

Is sex always how u want it..??

Its never just sex bud..under lined reasons women dont want there men...

In my opinion of course op

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By *sGivesWoodWoman over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"She is probably on here getting some

haha funny she is not on here & I know she's not seeing anyone else "
does she know you're intending to meet others on here then?

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By *ady LickWoman over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

You're 35, you've been going out together for 4 years? My advice if she's gone off sex with you already finish it while you're still young enough to move on.

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By *eerobCouple over a year ago

solihull

"Maybe try joining the gym or making effort with your appearance or trying a new look to get her attracted again. I was big when I met her & she is bigish as well "

Maybe big man doesn't float her boat any more ? Have you asked her why she doesnt fancy you anymore? Maybe its as simple as a bad case of halitosis on your case that puts her off, and shes too polite to mention it?

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By *amborneman OP Man over a year ago

In your town now

"Maybe try joining the gym or making effort with your appearance or trying a new look to get her attracted again. I was big when I met her & she is bigish as well

U can try bud.!..u seem content as u r.., if u broke up would u try changing or stay as u r....

Do u do things around the house(jobs) or do they never get done...

Is sex always how u want it..??

Its never just sex bud..under lined reasons women dont want there men...

In my opinion of course op

"
I am allways doing jobs around the house

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By *ay19720Man over a year ago

Ashford kent

"Maybe try joining the gym or making effort with your appearance or trying a new look to get her attracted again. I was big when I met her & she is bigish as well

Lmfao..

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By *amborneman OP Man over a year ago

In your town now

"Maybe try joining the gym or making effort with your appearance or trying a new look to get her attracted again. I was big when I met her & she is bigish as well

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By *ay19720Man over a year ago

Ashford kent

"Maybe try joining the gym or making effort with your appearance or trying a new look to get her attracted again. I was big when I met her & she is bigish as well

U can try bud.!..u seem content as u r.., if u broke up would u try changing or stay as u r....

Do u do things around the house(jobs) or do they never get done...

Is sex always how u want it..??

Its never just sex bud..under lined reasons women dont want there men...

In my opinion of course op

I am allways doing jobs around the house "

I don't mean shutting a cupboard or changing loo roll..lol..joking op

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By *amborneman OP Man over a year ago

In your town now

"You're 35, you've been going out together for 4 years? My advice if she's gone off sex with you already finish it while you're still young enough to move on.

"
Its not easy as that sorry

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By *amborneman OP Man over a year ago

In your town now

"Maybe try joining the gym or making effort with your appearance or trying a new look to get her attracted again. I was big when I met her & she is bigish as well

U can try bud.!..u seem content as u r.., if u broke up would u try changing or stay as u r....

Do u do things around the house(jobs) or do they never get done...

Is sex always how u want it..??

Its never just sex bud..under lined reasons women dont want there men...

In my opinion of course op

I am allways doing jobs around the house

I don't mean shutting a cupboard or changing loo roll..lol..joking op

"
lol I know what you mean

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

In your opinion op what's the problem? Have you any idea at all or do you genuinely not know?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You're 35, you've been going out together for 4 years? My advice if she's gone off sex with you already finish it while you're still young enough to move on.

Its not easy as that sorry "

Why? Serious question !

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By *eerobCouple over a year ago

solihull

"Maybe try joining the gym or making effort with your appearance or trying a new look to get her attracted again. I was big when I met her & she is bigish as well

If she still fancies you then you can talk this out.... But being on here trying to dick someone else I promise you will not sort out you're relationship. You need relate.. Get off the site before you do irreparable damage to your relationship.

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By *amborneman OP Man over a year ago

In your town now

"In your opinion op what's the problem? Have you any idea at all or do you genuinely not know?"
I genuinely do not know

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By *amborneman OP Man over a year ago

In your town now

"Maybe try joining the gym or making effort with your appearance or trying a new look to get her attracted again. I was big when I met her & she is bigish as well

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By *amborneman OP Man over a year ago

In your town now

"You're 35, you've been going out together for 4 years? My advice if she's gone off sex with you already finish it while you're still young enough to move on.

Its not easy as that sorry

Why? Serious question !"
ermm because i love her & everything else is ok in the relationship

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You're 35, you've been going out together for 4 years? My advice if she's gone off sex with you already finish it while you're still young enough to move on.

Its not easy as that sorry

Why? Serious question ! ermm because i love her & everything else is ok in the relationship "

Errrrm ok! So as the poster suggested confront try and sort it, as you've said you can't then move on! Don't be a dick and cheat on her (why are you on here?) grow a pair and do something productive about it. Let her find someone and you (else)

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

"In your opinion op what's the problem? Have you any idea at all or do you genuinely not know? I genuinely do not know "

You've discounted all the suggestions that people have given. If she won't talk and you don't know, where next?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"In your opinion op what's the problem? Have you any idea at all or do you genuinely not know? I genuinely do not know

You've discounted all the suggestions that people have given. If she won't talk and you don't know, where next?

I think he's looking for sympathy or affermation TBH !

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By *eerobCouple over a year ago

solihull

"You're 35, you've been going out together for 4 years? My advice if she's gone off sex with you already finish it while you're still young enough to move on.

Its not easy as that sorry

Why? Serious question ! ermm because i love her & everything else is ok in the relationship "

But you will not be honest with her. You are going behind her back to have sex with someone else. Do you feel no shame in your actions?? Ask her if she minds... Or if you think she would mind..... Look at what you are doing and what sort of person you are.... Or are becoming. .it's all your choice.. Not hers. Would it hurt you if she was having sex behind your back? Ask yourself some searching questions before blaming her

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By *gnitemybodyWoman over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"You're 35, you've been going out together for 4 years? My advice if she's gone off sex with you already finish it while you're still young enough to move on.

Its not easy as that sorry

Why? Serious question ! ermm because i love her & everything else is ok in the relationship "

Sorry I haven't read all the thread,so you've already cheated on her have you?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Life is too short for crap sex, one miserable marriage later and I'm of the opinion that monogamy is a fucking stupid concept, who eats the same meal every night? We need variety in our lives, when your sex life deteriorates and your other half won't discuss it any further, time to jump ship. Ignore any other advice, it's sanctimonious holier than thou bullshit from haters.

Plus you're more likely to hit the gym and stay in shape, stay healthy if you're getting lucky

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By *eerobCouple over a year ago

solihull

"Life is too short for crap sex, one miserable marriage later and I'm of the opinion that monogamy is a fucking stupid concept, who eats the same meal every night? We need variety in our lives, when your sex life deteriorates and your other half won't discuss it any further, time to jump ship. Ignore any other advice, it's sanctimonious holier than thou bullshit from haters.

Plus you're more likely to hit the gym and stay in shape, stay healthy if you're getting lucky

I understand and sympathise with your view.. But what happens when you fall in love with a girl.... And she lies and cheats about having sex behind your back. Will you be ok about that?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Plus you're more likely to hit the gym and stay in shape, stay healthy if you're getting lucky

I understand and sympathise with your view.. But what happens when you fall in love with a girl.... And she lies and cheats about having sex behind your back. Will you be ok about that? "

Quite honestly? That means I'm not up to the task in bed and need to up my game, secondly, I'm hoping my next partners a swinger and I'd actively encourage it if that's what she wanted. No need for her to lie.

What's the weather up there like on that pedestal you've placed yourself on?

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By *eerobCouple over a year ago

solihull

Plus you're more likely to hit the gym and stay in shape, stay healthy if you're getting lucky

I understand and sympathise with your view.. But what happens when you fall in love with a girl.... And she lies and cheats about having sex behind your back. Will you be ok about that?

What's the weather up there like on that pedestal you've placed yourself on? "

I'm not preaching I just asked a simple question.. No need to get nasty...

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By *SAchickWoman over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Plus you're more likely to hit the gym and stay in shape, stay healthy if you're getting lucky

I understand and sympathise with your view.. But what happens when you fall in love with a girl.... And she lies and cheats about having sex behind your back. Will you be ok about that?

What's the weather up there like on that pedestal you've placed yourself on? "

So when someone cheats it's the other person's fault for not being up to the task? Interesting viewpoint

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Preaching/being condescending, whatever. And I'm not getting nasty, far from it, just giving you a taste of you're own medicine

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Not at all, I'm making the point that if someone cheats on me it means that I've let my game drop considerably. Everyone else can have their own reasons, I'm just explaining how I've seen it from my perspective.

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By *eerobCouple over a year ago

solihull

"Preaching/being condescending, whatever. And I'm not getting nasty, far from it, just giving you a taste of you're own medicine"

Oh ok... I asked a question... I wasn't telling you you were wrong...I was interested in your reply and accepted it as your view... I havnt insulted you.. You are giving me a taste of my own medicine in what way lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Wait, so for past 12 months she's not been interested, your profile says you've been on here over a year and your last verification was 9 months ago. So basically you are playing away behind girlfriends back then moaning on here she doesn't want sex. If you don't want here dump her, she clearly doesn't want you either

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

2 special individuals here like. You ask someone a question; what's wrong? They answer "sorry" doesn't even fucking make sense. Don't you probe and say what do you mean by sorry, I'm asking you a question.

You're gonna get more answers off her than you are on here.

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By *igSuki81Man over a year ago

Retirement Village

"2 special individuals here like. You ask someone a question; what's wrong? They answer "sorry" doesn't even fucking make sense. Don't you probe and say what do you mean by sorry, I'm asking you a question.

You're gonna get more answers off her than you are on here. "

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By *amborneman OP Man over a year ago

In your town now

Plus you're more likely to hit the gym and stay in shape, stay healthy if you're getting lucky

I understand and sympathise with your view.. But what happens when you fall in love with a girl.... And she lies and cheats about having sex behind your back. Will you be ok about that?

What's the weather up there like on that pedestal you've placed yourself on?

So when someone cheats it's the other person's fault for not being up to the task? Interesting viewpoint "

Yes it is the other persons falt because 8f they where keeping the other person happy then they wouldn't be looking else where

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Plus you're more likely to hit the gym and stay in shape, stay healthy if you're getting lucky

I understand and sympathise with your view.. But what happens when you fall in love with a girl.... And she lies and cheats about having sex behind your back. Will you be ok about that?

What's the weather up there like on that pedestal you've placed yourself on?

So when someone cheats it's the other person's fault for not being up to the task? Interesting viewpoint

Yes it is the other persons falt because 8f they where keeping the other person happy then they wouldn't be looking else where

Are you keeping her happy?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

She might be in the same predicament and doing the same as you!

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By *amborneman OP Man over a year ago

In your town now

Plus you're more likely to hit the gym and stay in shape, stay healthy if you're getting lucky

I understand and sympathise with your view.. But what happens when you fall in love with a girl.... And she lies and cheats about having sex behind your back. Will you be ok about that?

What's the weather up there like on that pedestal you've placed yourself on?

So when someone cheats it's the other person's fault for not being up to the task? Interesting viewpoint

Yes it is the other persons falt because 8f they where keeping the other person happy then they wouldn't be looking else where

Are you keeping her happy?"
yes I am or I was

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Plus you're more likely to hit the gym and stay in shape, stay healthy if you're getting lucky

I understand and sympathise with your view.. But what happens when you fall in love with a girl.... And she lies and cheats about having sex behind your back. Will you be ok about that?

What's the weather up there like on that pedestal you've placed yourself on?

So when someone cheats it's the other person's fault for not being up to the task? Interesting viewpoint

Yes it is the other persons falt because 8f they where keeping the other person happy then they wouldn't be looking else where

Are you keeping her happy? yes I am or I was "

Why not just carry on doing what you've always done? Just ignore all your feelings and intuition, have sex behind her back and fuck communicating with her? Just do that hey?

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By *ady LickWoman over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

"You're 35, you've been going out together for 4 years? My advice if she's gone off sex with you already finish it while you're still young enough to move on.

Its not easy as that sorry

Why? Serious question ! ermm because i love her & everything else is ok in the relationship "

I guess the only thing you can do is talk to her, make sure you get some answers. Then you can decide what to do. Whether thats moving on while you're still young enough to meet someone else or not. 4 years for me is still relatively early days

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By *amborneman OP Man over a year ago

In your town now

Plus you're more likely to hit the gym and stay in shape, stay healthy if you're getting lucky

I understand and sympathise with your view.. But what happens when you fall in love with a girl.... And she lies and cheats about having sex behind your back. Will you be ok about that?

What's the weather up there like on that pedestal you've placed yourself on?

So when someone cheats it's the other person's fault for not being up to the task? Interesting viewpoint

Yes it is the other persons falt because 8f they where keeping the other person happy then they wouldn't be looking else where

Are you keeping her happy? yes I am or I was

Why not just carry on doing what you've always done? Just ignore all your feelings and intuition, have sex behind her back and fuck communicating with her? Just do that hey?"
ermm na you are ok thanks

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

Plus you're more likely to hit the gym and stay in shape, stay healthy if you're getting lucky

I understand and sympathise with your view.. But what happens when you fall in love with a girl.... And she lies and cheats about having sex behind your back. Will you be ok about that?

What's the weather up there like on that pedestal you've placed yourself on?

So when someone cheats it's the other person's fault for not being up to the task? Interesting viewpoint

Yes it is the other persons falt because 8f they where keeping the other person happy then they wouldn't be looking else where

Are you keeping her happy? yes I am or I was "

If you're not communicating properly, how do you know?

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By *amborneman OP Man over a year ago

In your town now

"You're 35, you've been going out together for 4 years? My advice if she's gone off sex with you already finish it while you're still young enough to move on.

Its not easy as that sorry

Why? Serious question ! ermm because i love her & everything else is ok in the relationship

"
4 years early days really ?

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By *amborneman OP Man over a year ago

In your town now

Plus you're more likely to hit the gym and stay in shape, stay healthy if you're getting lucky

I understand and sympathise with your view.. But what happens when you fall in love with a girl.... And she lies and cheats about having sex behind your back. Will you be ok about that?

What's the weather up there like on that pedestal you've placed yourself on?

So when someone cheats it's the other person's fault for not being up to the task? Interesting viewpoint

Yes it is the other persons falt because 8f they where keeping the other person happy then they wouldn't be looking else where

Are you keeping her happy? yes I am or I was

If you're not communicating properly, how do you know?"
I try but get no where as i said before

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Plus you're more likely to hit the gym and stay in shape, stay healthy if you're getting lucky

I understand and sympathise with your view.. But what happens when you fall in love with a girl.... And she lies and cheats about having sex behind your back. Will you be ok about that?

What's the weather up there like on that pedestal you've placed yourself on?

So when someone cheats it's the other person's fault for not being up to the task? Interesting viewpoint

Yes it is the other persons falt because 8f they where keeping the other person happy then they wouldn't be looking else where

Are you keeping her happy? yes I am or I was

Why not just carry on doing what you've always done? Just ignore all your feelings and intuition, have sex behind her back and fuck communicating with her? Just do that hey? ermm na you are ok thanks

No thanks what? So your going to talk to her?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Plus you're more likely to hit the gym and stay in shape, stay healthy if you're getting lucky

I understand and sympathise with your view.. But what happens when you fall in love with a girl.... And she lies and cheats about having sex behind your back. Will you be ok about that?

What's the weather up there like on that pedestal you've placed yourself on?

So when someone cheats it's the other person's fault for not being up to the task? Interesting viewpoint

Yes it is the other persons falt because 8f they where keeping the other person happy then they wouldn't be looking else where

Are you keeping her happy? yes I am or I was

If you're not communicating properly, how do you know?I try but get no where as i said before

Do you communicate as you do on here? If so then if suggest you change your approach

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By *amborneman OP Man over a year ago

In your town now

"Wait, so for past 12 months she's not been interested, your profile says you've been on here over a year and your last verification was 9 months ago. So basically you are playing away behind girlfriends back then moaning on here she doesn't want sex. If you don't want here dump her, she clearly doesn't want you either "
why should I dump her ? If she kept me happy I wouldn't be looking else where for it now would I

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By *amborneman OP Man over a year ago

In your town now

Plus you're more likely to hit the gym and stay in shape, stay healthy if you're getting lucky

I understand and sympathise with your view.. But what happens when you fall in love with a girl.... And she lies and cheats about having sex behind your back. Will you be ok about that?

What's the weather up there like on that pedestal you've placed yourself on?

So when someone cheats it's the other person's fault for not being up to the task? Interesting viewpoint

Yes it is the other persons falt because 8f they where keeping the other person happy then they wouldn't be looking else where

Are you keeping her happy? yes I am or I was

Why not just carry on doing what you've always done? Just ignore all your feelings and intuition, have sex behind her back and fuck communicating with her? Just do that hey? ermm na you are ok thanks

No thanks what? So your going to talk to her?"
no thanks to carry on to what I have been doing

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Right he's just looking for attention now. Not listening to any advice at all.

Fuck like, gotta be something wrong with you if you can't even push for a conversation.

What do you want people to say or you just enjoying people paying you some attention?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Wait, so for past 12 months she's not been interested, your profile says you've been on here over a year and your last verification was 9 months ago. So basically you are playing away behind girlfriends back then moaning on here she doesn't want sex. If you don't want here dump her, she clearly doesn't want you either why should I dump her ? If she kept me happy I wouldn't be looking else where for it now would I

If she kept you happy!!! Your obviously not interested in her mindset ,

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By *amborneman OP Man over a year ago

In your town now

Plus you're more likely to hit the gym and stay in shape, stay healthy if you're getting lucky

I understand and sympathise with your view.. But what happens when you fall in love with a girl.... And she lies and cheats about having sex behind your back. Will you be ok about that?

What's the weather up there like on that pedestal you've placed yourself on?

So when someone cheats it's the other person's fault for not being up to the task? Interesting viewpoint

Yes it is the other persons falt because 8f they where keeping the other person happy then they wouldn't be looking else where

Are you keeping her happy? yes I am or I was

If you're not communicating properly, how do you know?I try but get no where as i said before

Do you communicate as you do on here? If so then if suggest you change your approach "
no

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Have you got young children?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Right he's just looking for attention now. Not listening to any advice at all.

Fuck like, gotta be something wrong with you if you can't even push for a conversation.

What do you want people to say or you just enjoying people paying you some attention? "

Totally agree

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By *amborneman OP Man over a year ago

In your town now

"Wait, so for past 12 months she's not been interested, your profile says you've been on here over a year and your last verification was 9 months ago. So basically you are playing away behind girlfriends back then moaning on here she doesn't want sex. If you don't want here dump her, she clearly doesn't want you either why should I dump her ? If she kept me happy I wouldn't be looking else where for it now would I

If she kept you happy!!! Your obviously not interested in her mindset ,"
what do you mean mindset ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Plus you're more likely to hit the gym and stay in shape, stay healthy if you're getting lucky

I understand and sympathise with your view.. But what happens when you fall in love with a girl.... And she lies and cheats about having sex behind your back. Will you be ok about that?

What's the weather up there like on that pedestal you've placed yourself on?

So when someone cheats it's the other person's fault for not being up to the task? Interesting viewpoint

Yes it is the other persons falt because 8f they where keeping the other person happy then they wouldn't be looking else where

Are you keeping her happy? yes I am or I was

If you're not communicating properly, how do you know?I try but get no where as i said before

Do you communicate as you do on here? If so then if suggest you change your approach no

I pity her TBH

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By *amborneman OP Man over a year ago

In your town now

" Have you got young children? "
no children

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Wait, so for past 12 months she's not been interested, your profile says you've been on here over a year and your last verification was 9 months ago. So basically you are playing away behind girlfriends back then moaning on here she doesn't want sex. If you don't want here dump her, she clearly doesn't want you either why should I dump her ? If she kept me happy I wouldn't be looking else where for it now would I

If she kept you happy!!! Your obviously not interested in her mindset , what do you mean mindset ?

Exactly!!

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By *amborneman OP Man over a year ago

In your town now

"Right he's just looking for attention now. Not listening to any advice at all.

Fuck like, gotta be something wrong with you if you can't even push for a conversation.

What do you want people to say or you just enjoying people paying you some attention?

Totally agree "

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By *amborneman OP Man over a year ago

In your town now

"Wait, so for past 12 months she's not been interested, your profile says you've been on here over a year and your last verification was 9 months ago. So basically you are playing away behind girlfriends back then moaning on here she doesn't want sex. If you don't want here dump her, she clearly doesn't want you either why should I dump her ? If she kept me happy I wouldn't be looking else where for it now would I

If she kept you happy!!! Your obviously not interested in her mindset , what do you mean mindset ?

Exactly!! "
I really don't know what you mean?

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By *amborneman OP Man over a year ago

In your town now

Plus you're more likely to hit the gym and stay in shape, stay healthy if you're getting lucky

I understand and sympathise with your view.. But what happens when you fall in love with a girl.... And she lies and cheats about having sex behind your back. Will you be ok about that?

What's the weather up there like on that pedestal you've placed yourself on?

So when someone cheats it's the other person's fault for not being up to the task? Interesting viewpoint

Yes it is the other persons falt because 8f they where keeping the other person happy then they wouldn't be looking else where

Are you keeping her happy? yes I am or I was

If you're not communicating properly, how do you know?I try but get no where as i said before

Do you communicate as you do on here? If so then if suggest you change your approach no

I pity her TBH "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Plus you're more likely to hit the gym and stay in shape, stay healthy if you're getting lucky

I understand and sympathise with your view.. But what happens when you fall in love with a girl.... And she lies and cheats about having sex behind your back. Will you be ok about that?

What's the weather up there like on that pedestal you've placed yourself on?

So when someone cheats it's the other person's fault for not being up to the task? Interesting viewpoint

Yes it is the other persons falt because 8f they where keeping the other person happy then they wouldn't be looking else where

Are you keeping her happy? yes I am or I was

Why not just carry on doing what you've always done? Just ignore all your feelings and intuition, have sex behind her back and fuck communicating with her? Just do that hey? ermm na you are ok thanks

No thanks what? So your going to talk to her? no thanks to carry on to what I have been doing "

I was being sarcastic. ,, JESUS

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By *amborneman OP Man over a year ago

In your town now

"Right he's just looking for attention now. Not listening to any advice at all.

Fuck like, gotta be something wrong with you if you can't even push for a conversation.

What do you want people to say or you just enjoying people paying you some attention? "
i am not looking for attention thanks you very much

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By *amborneman OP Man over a year ago

In your town now

Plus you're more likely to hit the gym and stay in shape, stay healthy if you're getting lucky

I understand and sympathise with your view.. But what happens when you fall in love with a girl.... And she lies and cheats about having sex behind your back. Will you be ok about that?

What's the weather up there like on that pedestal you've placed yourself on?

So when someone cheats it's the other person's fault for not being up to the task? Interesting viewpoint

Yes it is the other persons falt because 8f they where keeping the other person happy then they wouldn't be looking else where

Are you keeping her happy? yes I am or I was

Why not just carry on doing what you've always done? Just ignore all your feelings and intuition, have sex behind her back and fuck communicating with her? Just do that hey? ermm na you are ok thanks

No thanks what? So your going to talk to her? no thanks to carry on to what I have been doing

I was being sarcastic. ,, JESUS "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Wait, so for past 12 months she's not been interested, your profile says you've been on here over a year and your last verification was 9 months ago. So basically you are playing away behind girlfriends back then moaning on here she doesn't want sex. If you don't want here dump her, she clearly doesn't want you either why should I dump her ? If she kept me happy I wouldn't be looking else where for it now would I

If she kept you happy!!! Your obviously not interested in her mindset , what do you mean mindset ?

Exactly!! I really don't know what you mean?

Exactly! Do you need any sandwiches for that pic - nic? Think your short on a few? (Watch your head as this flys above it )

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

She's had enough mate, she's waiting for/hoping you'll f**k off or that she catches you cheating so she doesn't have to make the tough calls either.

Let's face it, you're trying to have sex with people behind her back... you don't love her, you just don't want to be on your own or be the one to end it.

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
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East Sussex

Are you keeping her happy? yes I am or I was

If you're not communicating properly, how do you know?I try but get no where as i said before

You've reached stalemate then. You're not totally happy and she won't talk about it. Neither of you seems to want to take any action. I'm not sure what any of us can suggest.

I'm not sure either why you felt the need for the roll eyes emoji.

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By *ieman300Man over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East

Op. You are not going to find the solution on here. You need to sort the issue yourself how you see fit. Your not going to get sympathy from the forumites. Remember these posts are all too common and people are very weary of them. Remember also they arent in your shoes. They dont know the full story. They cant tell you whats best for you and your lady as a result. Only you pair can make that call. Good luck.

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By *amborneman OP Man over a year ago

In your town now

"She's had enough mate, she's waiting for/hoping you'll f**k off or that she catches you cheating so she doesn't have to make the tough calls either.

Let's face it, you're trying to have sex with people behind her back... you don't love her, you just don't want to be on your own or be the one to end it.

"
well i am not going anywhere & if she kept me happy I wouldn't be looking else where for it now would I

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By *amborneman OP Man over a year ago

In your town now

"Op. You are not going to find the solution on here. You need to sort the issue yourself how you see fit. Your not going to get sympathy from the forumites. Remember these posts are all too common and people are very weary of them. Remember also they arent in your shoes. They dont know the full story. They cant tell you whats best for you and your lady as a result. Only you pair can make that call. Good luck."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Wait, so for past 12 months she's not been interested, your profile says you've been on here over a year and your last verification was 9 months ago. So basically you are playing away behind girlfriends back then moaning on here she doesn't want sex. If you don't want here dump her, she clearly doesn't want you either why should I dump her ? If she kept me happy I wouldn't be looking else where for it now would I

dude why should it just be her keeping you happy as it takes two to make a relationship work. as others have said get her to tell you why she doesnt want sex with you instead of her just saying sorry. if she wont then id suggest you end it with her as she is possibly doing the same as you which is cheating and she wont outright tell you that she is

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Are you keeping her happy? yes I am or I was

If you're not communicating properly, how do you know?I try but get no where as i said before

You've reached stalemate then. You're not totally happy and she won't talk about it. Neither of you seems to want to take any action. I'm not sure what any of us can suggest.

I'm not sure either why you felt the need for the roll eyes emoji."

I'd shut this down, he's had good advice and isn't listening to it. He's being antagonistic and looking for a rise just for attention.

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By *amborneman OP Man over a year ago

In your town now

"Wait, so for past 12 months she's not been interested, your profile says you've been on here over a year and your last verification was 9 months ago. So basically you are playing away behind girlfriends back then moaning on here she doesn't want sex. If you don't want here dump her, she clearly doesn't want you either why should I dump her ? If she kept me happy I wouldn't be looking else where for it now would I

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By *amborneman OP Man over a year ago

In your town now

Are you keeping her happy? yes I am or I was

If you're not communicating properly, how do you know?I try but get no where as i said before

You've reached stalemate then. You're not totally happy and she won't talk about it. Neither of you seems to want to take any action. I'm not sure what any of us can suggest.

I'm not sure either why you felt the need for the roll eyes emoji.

I'd shut this down, he's had good advice and isn't listening to it. He's being antagonistic and looking for a rise just for attention. "
I am listening to the advice thank you very much

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

OP, your green arrow says a lot about the type of person you are. I hope your OH finds someone who loves and RESPECTS her

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By *eerobCouple over a year ago

solihull

"She's had enough mate, she's waiting for/hoping you'll f**k off or that she catches you cheating so she doesn't have to make the tough calls either.

Let's face it, you're trying to have sex with people behind her back... you don't love her, you just don't want to be on your own or be the one to end it.

well i am not going anywhere & if she kept me happy I wouldn't be looking else where for it now would I

Or if you kept her happy, maybe she'd 'put out ' a little more often??

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My second husband and me neva had sex for 18 months . It was he who was refusing me. He was cheating and staying out late. I told him to leave and he did.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"OP, your green arrow says a lot about the type of person you are. I hope your OH finds someone who loves and RESPECTS her"

The one where he's fucking a married woman and she wants to have his baby?

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By *amborneman OP Man over a year ago

In your town now

"She's had enough mate, she's waiting for/hoping you'll f**k off or that she catches you cheating so she doesn't have to make the tough calls either.

Let's face it, you're trying to have sex with people behind her back... you don't love her, you just don't want to be on your own or be the one to end it.

well i am not going anywhere & if she kept me happy I wouldn't be looking else where for it now would I

Or if you kept her happy, maybe she'd 'put out ' a little more often?? "
I do keep her happy around the house

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The married woman that you've been having sex with and wants your baby does she know about your OH? And vice Versa?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"OP, your green arrow says a lot about the type of person you are. I hope your OH finds someone who loves and RESPECTS her

The one where he's fucking a married woman and she wants to have his baby?"

Oh and the filling up other woman with spunk ones. !

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By *amborneman OP Man over a year ago

In your town now

"My second husband and me neva had sex for 18 months . It was he who was refusing me. He was cheating and staying out late. I told him to leave and he did."
not good

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By *amborneman OP Man over a year ago

In your town now

"OP, your green arrow says a lot about the type of person you are. I hope your OH finds someone who loves and RESPECTS her

The one where he's fucking a married woman and she wants to have his baby?"
yep

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By *amborneman OP Man over a year ago

In your town now

"The married woman that you've been having sex with and wants your baby does she know about your OH? And vice Versa?"
nope

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By *amborneman OP Man over a year ago

In your town now

"OP, your green arrow says a lot about the type of person you are. I hope your OH finds someone who loves and RESPECTS her

The one where he's fucking a married woman and she wants to have his baby?

Oh and the filling up other woman with spunk ones. !"
I am not filling any one else up

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"OP, your green arrow says a lot about the type of person you are. I hope your OH finds someone who loves and RESPECTS her

The one where he's fucking a married woman and she wants to have his baby?

Oh and the filling up other woman with spunk ones. !"

Yep

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The married woman that you've been having sex with and wants your baby does she know about your OH? And vice Versa? nope

What a man you are. High five

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By *amborneman OP Man over a year ago

In your town now

"The married woman that you've been having sex with and wants your baby does she know about your OH? And vice Versa? nope

What a man you are. High five "
why thank you very much

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By *amborneman OP Man over a year ago

In your town now

"OP, your green arrow says a lot about the type of person you are. I hope your OH finds someone who loves and RESPECTS her

The one where he's fucking a married woman and she wants to have his baby?

Oh and the filling up other woman with spunk ones. !

Yep

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"OP, your green arrow says a lot about the type of person you are. I hope your OH finds someone who loves and RESPECTS her

The one where he's fucking a married woman and she wants to have his baby?

Oh and the filling up other woman with spunk ones. !

Yep

Sad act.

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