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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So your on a 1st meet in a pub with new people
It's not going well and one of you wants to end it there
How do you tell your partner?
Do you care if you just say no thanks to the other ppl?
And or how have others bailed on you and did you notice some sort of code thay used
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By *plpxp2Couple
over a year ago
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"So your on a 1st meet in a pub with new people
It's not going well and one of you wants to end it there
How do you tell your partner?
Do you care if you just say no thanks to the other ppl?
And or how have others bailed on you and did you notice some sort of code thay used
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Met one couple who later told us that she would say "did I pay the gas bill" if she wasn't interested  |
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"So your on a 1st meet in a pub with new people
It's not going well and one of you wants to end it there
How do you tell your partner?
Do you care if you just say no thanks to the other ppl?
And or how have others bailed on you and did you notice some sort of code thay used
"
Never meet without a safeword/code word between kev and i, we have to feel able to end things without whispering in corners. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Its a lot harder when you meeting solo always meet in public place. I have a safe friend who I always ring she knows everything when going on a meet. She rings me for escape. Only escaped once though second ever meet still newbie organised a meet in in Derby was to meet him outside train station. He was calling me photo of him must of been 20years out of date. I legged it back into station lol funny story but live and learn. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have any of you ever realised the code the other ppl used?"
Think I did once when the guy asked his wife if she wanted another drink and she said yes and nodded at him too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Meant to add to this-if she'd said no thanks coz we need to get back or something then that would have been their code that they weren't interested. I think! I was busy trying to catch mr's eye to do our code. Ms |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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always meet for a drink and a chat first, in a local near us. always up front about no gaurentee. and always known, there must be chemistry between the wife and the gentleman caller. it goes both ways. so anyone of the party may just say in a friendly manner, thank you, but there is no sexual attraction, buy another round, and part as friends. |
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