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First meet jitters!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Do what you do when pulling in the vanilla word, get really d*unk, slobber all over the guy, take him back to yours, have a d*unken fumble and fall asleep, wake up to loads of ackwardness and he can slope off before he's even got his shoes on, voila! A perfect meet 
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Chat, flirt, keep to just a couple of drinks, if you like him, fuck him xx |
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Just be yourself and act as though you would meeting anyone else, let it be natural and not forced/awkward after the first 5 minutes you will wonder why you were so nervous  good luck!
And maybe drinks .. if it's that kind of meet! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would keep off the drink, unless its just the one to take the edge off the jitters...
its the first couple of minutes that are the worst..
once you have got them out of the way you should be fine  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nerves and jitters are what make it exciting Op.
I'm sure once you meet all those nerves will go out the window.
Just be yourself and the main thing, have fun.
Good luck  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Bit nervous about my first meet. I'm quite a shy, awkward, nervy person lol. I'm a bit self conscious too.
Any advice?
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My advice would be to meet someone you feel comfortable with ( as comfortable as you think you can at least) nerves are normal, but if you meet with someone you are unsure of it will make them so much worse.
Other than that, make sure you feel you are in a safe environment, be yourself as others have said and other than that enjoy yourself, you are there for you, nobody else. |
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"Bit nervous about my first meet. I'm quite a shy, awkward, nervy person lol. I'm a bit self conscious too.
Any advice?
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Just remember the guy will be thinking he is a lucky bigger so be yourself and enjoy the attention. |
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Nerves are good it's part of the thrill and chances are the other party is feeling nervous too.
I'd have a drink but not too many!
Being d*unk isn't a safe position to be in and besides if sex is on the cards you want to remember it and put in a good performance
Good luck x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"yay, was it all good in the end??
The verification seems to indicate so!"
It was amazing!! Both were a bit nervous but once we got going we were much more relaxed x |
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"yay, was it all good in the end??
The verification seems to indicate so!
It was amazing!! Both were a bit nervous but once we got going we were much more relaxed x"
That's great it worked out so well for you. I'm always nervous going on a meet but that adds to the excitement & usually once we start kissing I get much more relaxed. Hope you get lots more fun. Carmel xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The people your meeting are probably nervous too. I get nervous at every meet. When you first meet them just be smiley and chatty....it will put them at ease also x |
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"Bit nervous about my first meet. I'm quite a shy, awkward, nervy person lol. I'm a bit self conscious too.
Any advice?
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Spend time getting to know potential meets online first. Don't rush into things.
When/if you decide to meet do it at your pace.
Make the first meet in a public place like a cofeeshop, casfe, pub etc.
Only do things you want to do. |
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