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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Heello all wuick question me and my friend are looki g at going to a club in the midlands area on 28th, will be for both our first time!
As both single guys is it going to be difficult to find a decent event as im sure most clubs are couple orientated ? Or am i wrong?
And finally and advise you wish you were given before going for the first time.
Many thanks in advance.
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Don't expect to get laid.
Do expect to be ignored by the regulars.
Don't get d*unk.
Wear tight boxers instead of towel if it's a 'dress down' club.
Just think of it as your local pub, but in a sexy way.
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Clubs have nightwhwre single males are welcomed and nights where it's couples and single females only.
There are plenty of times singles males can frequent. Check out your club of choices website.
Do not go with the pretence of play, that may not happen. Enjoy the experience with your friend, take it all in, be respectful and treat it like an evening out....with less clothes. It's an eye opening experience but try not to come across as pervy to others.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks for your replys!
Yea we kinda said we would go more for the pretence to make new friends more than having "fun"
Dont act pervy ! Il do my best !  |
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"Don't expect to get laid.
Don't get d*unk.
Wear tight boxers instead of towel if it's a 'dress down' club.
Just think of it as your local pub, but in a sexy way.
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And enjoy  |
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My advice always is approach ladies and couples with a relaxed respectful flirty nature. Every laugh you can generate is good. Don't monopolise their time, make your chat 5 minutes of so and tell them you'd love to spend some time with th later if they might be interested. |
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Look at the club review section and then the club websites. A lot of clubs have a waiting list for single men and you may also have to book ahead for the night you want to go. Don't just turn up to be disappointed when they turn you away. |
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Hi OP.
Plan your club visit in advance. Many clubs have restrictions on single male guests and some don't allow them at all.
Have a good look at the club reviews page, there are links to the club websites. Find out as much as you can and phone the club beforehand to make sure you will be able to get in.
Go with no expectations of play.
Be polite, respectful and sociable.
Don't get d*unk - pissed isn't sexy and you may be asked to leave.
Most important of all is relax and have a good night  |
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I would generally have said dont go with another male friend ... if you hang about with each other all night its likely to come across as intimidating and like hunting in a pack
However having seen your pics if he is as hot as you then you are both welcome at my club ( bedroom) anytime lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Great advice yorkie thank you!
Yea i was thinking about asking a female friend to come with ... but im not sure how to ask and if it would be something she would even consider |
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"Great advice yorkie thank you!
Yea i was thinking about asking a female friend to come with ... but im not sure how to ask and if it would be something she would even consider"
Just dont be afraid to branch off on your own in there |
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"Great advice yorkie thank you!
Yea i was thinking about asking a female friend to come with ... but im not sure how to ask and if it would be something she would even consider
Just dont be afraid to branch off on your own in there "
Trust me if i was there looking at his photos id be tempted |
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I would say go for it, I did after much deliberation and wish I had sooner,
I would say check with the club first, the one I go to won't let in groups of single guys, all single guys must be members and they vet you before giving you a membership.
It's a brilliant system |
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Talk to people in the lounge/social area, you might get intived to join a couple or single lady or you might not. But this way you'll have a fun evening, possibly make some new friends and you will know people next time you go.
Have a wander around the play areas and see what's going on, but DON'T lurk in the corridors or outside of rooms and DON'T follow couples or females around.
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Which club are you planning on going to? Some have lots of rules for single males, and as a result tend to attract a crowd who aren't looking for SM. as someone who actively seeks SM, a club that restricts them doesn't work for me.
My biggest advice would be don't just follow couples/women around, be sociable, go and say hi to people |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I see well we discussed eithwr xstasia, chameleons, or atlantis . I have no problem with talking to every one and using it to start to jus meet new groups of people male an female |
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