FabSwingers.com > Forums > Swinging Support and Advice > Advice on getting started?
Advice on getting started?
Jump to: Newest in thread
 |
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
Hi all, I'm looking to get my first meet under my belt, would eureka on Wednesday evening be a good place to start? I'm struggling to get any conversation going simply using the website and my charm  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
A club or a group social are both good places to meet people outside of trying messaging through here, especially when the odds are stacked against single guys here due to sheer volume of numbers.
Beyond that having a decent profile and a set of pics that show off your body and not your cock are good - or get more involved in the forums which are a good way of sparking conversations.
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"Thanks both! With regards to whinging status comment it is very disheartening lol"
It's only disheartening if you make it disheartening - with the right profile and pics and a little patience, coupled with low expectations and a positive attitude it's not as difficult as you might think. Negativity breeds negative results.  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"Thanks both! With regards to whinging status comment it is very disheartening lol
It's only disheartening if you make it disheartening - with the right profile and pics and a little patience, coupled with low expectations and a positive attitude it's not as difficult as you might think. Negativity breeds negative results. "
Blimey, thanks mr motivator! Just kidding haha you're correct, good vibes needed etc  I've just hidden the cock pics and my expectations have been lowered considerably |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Hi all, I'm looking to get my first meet under my belt, would eureka on Wednesday evening be a good place to start? I'm struggling to get any conversation going simply using the website and my charm "
Yes Eurekas is a good place to start. No idea what Wednesday night are like. You may or may not find people to talk to, but if you are good at talking then you will have a better chance. Your profile title says you are looking to meet women. It's probably easier to meet couples at places like Eurekas. But because your profile implies you are looking for women, if we were to meet you at a club, we would be concerned that hubby is surplus to requirements, and that you would only be interested in me. So my advise is if you want to go to clubs and meet couples, then be sure that you are genuinely interested in couples. If you want to go to clubs and meet single women, then be realistic as they are fewer in number and more sought after. It's probably easier to pick up single women at a regular nightclub.
Mrs |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"Hi all, I'm looking to get my first meet under my belt, would eureka on Wednesday evening be a good place to start? I'm struggling to get any conversation going simply using the website and my charm
Yes Eurekas is a good place to start. No idea what Wednesday night are like. You may or may not find people to talk to, but if you are good at talking then you will have a better chance. Your profile title says you are looking to meet women. It's probably easier to meet couples at places like Eurekas. But because your profile implies you are looking for women, if we were to meet you at a club, we would be concerned that hubby is surplus to requirements, and that you would only be interested in me. So my advise is if you want to go to clubs and meet couples, then be sure that you are genuinely interested in couples. If you want to go to clubs and meet single women, then be realistic as they are fewer in number and more sought after. It's probably easier to pick up single women at a regular nightclub.
Mrs"
Thanks for getting in touch Mrs! My profile does say I am looking for couples too (I just double checked) so that's not so much of an issue |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Hi all, I'm looking to get my first meet under my belt, would eureka on Wednesday evening be a good place to start? I'm struggling to get any conversation going simply using the website and my charm
Yes Eurekas is a good place to start. No idea what Wednesday night are like. You may or may not find people to talk to, but if you are good at talking then you will have a better chance. Your profile title says you are looking to meet women. It's probably easier to meet couples at places like Eurekas. But because your profile implies you are looking for women, if we were to meet you at a club, we would be concerned that hubby is surplus to requirements, and that you would only be interested in me. So my advise is if you want to go to clubs and meet couples, then be sure that you are genuinely interested in couples. If you want to go to clubs and meet single women, then be realistic as they are fewer in number and more sought after. It's probably easier to pick up single women at a regular nightclub.
Mrs
Thanks for getting in touch Mrs! My profile does say I am looking for couples too (I just double checked) so that's not so much of an issue "
You did indeed tick the couples box. Most single guys do tick that box, but they don't really mean it. The challenge that couples have is identifying the single men who genuinely enjoy playing with a couple, versus the single man who will put up with the husband there in order to fuck the lady. Sadly in our experience most men on Fab fall into the latter group.
Mrs |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Hi all, I'm looking to get my first meet under my belt, would eureka on Wednesday evening be a good place to start? I'm struggling to get any conversation going simply using the website and my charm
Yes Eurekas is a good place to start. No idea what Wednesday night are like. You may or may not find people to talk to, but if you are good at talking then you will have a better chance. Your profile title says you are looking to meet women. It's probably easier to meet couples at places like Eurekas. But because your profile implies you are looking for women, if we were to meet you at a club, we would be concerned that hubby is surplus to requirements, and that you would only be interested in me. So my advise is if you want to go to clubs and meet couples, then be sure that you are genuinely interested in couples. If you want to go to clubs and meet single women, then be realistic as they are fewer in number and more sought after. It's probably easier to pick up single women at a regular nightclub.
Mrs
Thanks for getting in touch Mrs! My profile does say I am looking for couples too (I just double checked) so that's not so much of an issue
You did indeed tick the couples box. Most single guys do tick that box, but they don't really mean it. The challenge that couples have is identifying the single men who genuinely enjoy playing with a couple, versus the single man who will put up with the husband there in order to fuck the lady. Sadly in our experience most men on Fab fall into the latter group.
Mrs"
Most but not all |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
Op I will give you the same advice that I got given when I asked the same question at the start of my fab journey. (I say journey as what I started out looking for has changed over the last 6 months).
Look for local socials, attend clubs and chat to people (treat a club as a normal night out and don't expect to get lucky). If you do then it is a bonus. Have a well written profile (as for help and advice on the forum and look at other male profiles for ideas) amd have a variety of pictures - keep the cock ones in your friends only area. If a lady wants to see it she will ask 
Hope thay helps somewhat and guid luck OP |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
Yes, get to a club, it's the best way by far to get started. Just make sure to socialise and mingle.
You haven't asked for profile advice, so I can't comment, but maybe you should, and maybe ask about incriminating photo's that people wouldn't advise using on a profile
Have fun |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
» Add a new message to this topic
