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over a year ago
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hi im on here on a single profile ( wire doe know) because i enjoy the banter and chat rooms, any way ive introduced the wife to the site on a couples profile, as she is interested in soft swing with a woman, she feels that sex with another man might feel like an affair, she is bi-curious and definiely wants to try a woman while i watch, but she is nervy, and as she keeps getting told shes inexperienced, she is still not sure about being on site, would we be better going to a club first ( partners in bury) any advice gratefully recieved, thanks |
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Not sure on Partners never been there but we would say.... Yes. Go to a club that is the dressy type with a good social/bar area. Go on a couples and single girls only night and chat to as many as you can. Whenya there encourage her to ask all the questions she wants and get involved. Inexperience means fek all whoever has been saying that to her aren't the right ones for you to be meeting anyway.
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I've never been to a club-yet- but from what I've heard they sound nice and relaxed so that might be a good option for you both to try like rugby says. Less pressure than on a meet. Good luck. Ms |
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I can recommend Cupids had my first swinging experience there before I even new what fabs was opened my eyes to a whole new world. Was a couple of years ago and I am still loving the scene. Like you say you enjoy the banter and the chat swinging is so much more than sex. She may enjoy the social side of it too. Going to a social talking to like minded people and building up to a club with out the pressure of sex. |
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"hi im on here on a single profile ( wire doe know) because i enjoy the banter and chat rooms, any way ive introduced the wife to the site on a couples profile, as she is interested in soft swing with a woman, she feels that sex with another man might feel like an affair, she is bi-curious and definiely wants to try a woman while i watch, but she is nervy, and as she keeps getting told shes inexperienced, she is still not sure about being on site, would we be better going to a club first ( partners in bury) any advice gratefully recieved, thanks"
Go to a social
Close your single account
Treat this as a journey you do together |
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"hi im on here on a single profile ( wire doe know) because i enjoy the banter and chat rooms, any way ive introduced the wife to the site on a couples profile, as she is interested in soft swing with a woman, she feels that sex with another man might feel like an affair, she is bi-curious and definiely wants to try a woman while i watch, but she is nervy, and as she keeps getting told shes inexperienced, she is still not sure about being on site, would we be better going to a club first ( partners in bury) any advice gratefully recieved, thanks"
i think you would find it very hard to find what your looking for in a club, very few single women use clubs most women in clubs are part of a couple and play as a couple, im not saying you wouldnt find a single woman, or a couple where the women would only play but there would be more chance you wouldnt than you would |
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