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over a year ago
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I locked my bf in a cage whilst I went to see my fb 1 night, i took the key. Was an experience for him . When we got down to fun when I got home he came hard  |
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first, get used to wearing the cage for a while, that opens longer term chasitity and makes games that might extend a period of chastity more meaningful... do x or get 1 week extra in chastity beats do x or get 1 hour in chastity  .
Otherwise, tease and denial. For the lady, walk around in provocative outfits whilst he's locked. Hover naked over him until he's begging for release. Try using a vibrator on the cage  .
Few suggestions, enjoy, its great, albeit frustrating for him, fun. |
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Tease him all the time he is caged, keep him naked when you can, and at the same time wear sexy lingerie.
Make sure he cannot touch you at all, but touch him when and where you wish to.
maybe find a lady to help you tease him, or a man to make him watch you with.
he is bi curious, so use that to torment him as well .... another bi or curious guy to help you drive him insane.
there are loads of options but it depends on how far you both want to go with this idea.
i have played with a couple who took it very seriously .... he was a total cuck !
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over a year ago
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Don't set a length of time for lock up.
Throw a dice to select how many dice throws you do. Or even roll two.
Then throw them the number first thrown.
The tostadas will be the number of days he's locked.
Or the number of lovers you have til he's released |
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"Maybe ride his cock cage.....that will send him nuts"
We tried that but it made miss a little sore, probably because I have a metal cage. 
We're pretty new and inexperienced at this but I've found I can happily wear my cage for days at a time and have got used to wearing it for sleeping too. There are one or two photos on our profile.
Any techniques on chastity play would be much appreciated, maybe an experienced Mistress could message miss with some hints and tips? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe ride his cock cage.....that will send him nuts
We tried that but it made miss a little sore, probably because I have a metal cage.
We're pretty new and inexperienced at this but I've found I can happily wear my cage for days at a time and have got used to wearing it for sleeping too. There are one or two photos on our profile.
Any techniques on chastity play would be much appreciated, maybe an experienced Mistress could message miss with some hints and tips? "
We found this too.
I have three cages and she had me fuck her gently while wearing my metal one. It's a cage with curved thick bars so lots of holes to feel her wetness through without getting the sensation of her on me.
It was great fun at the time. She rubbed her clit and teased me as she brought herself off. I had my hand tied behind me at the time so I really was a spectator.
She said she was a bit sore after though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You can get dildos that fit onto or over a chastity cage. Not something we have as yet but we are thinking of investing in one.... and a blindfold so I can't spectate! Just listen. No sensation of wetness or warmth. Just hear her enjoying it and feel her on top of me gripping me with her thighs.
I think sitting in a hotel bar wearing a cage as she goes up to the room with a man or two is a better tease |
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Depends if he / you are in to the humiliation aspect of chastity, but if you are there's loads you can do.
It's impossible to piss standing up whilst caged without making a real mess so get him to sit down to pee in the cubicle of a service station, leaving the door open. All the better if he is stockinged / pantied under his normal clothes.
Get him to go the gym or join one if he isn't a member. Make sure he changes in the open bit of the changing room, caged.
Tell him he needs to be cleaned, which you'll need to remove the cage for every few days anyway. Wash and shave him all over but make it as clinical as possible. Cage him and then tease him by pleasuring yourself watching porn next to him. "Oh I'm sorry honey, had I thought just now, you could have fucked me whilst we watched this..... maybe next week." |
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"Depends if he / you are in to the humiliation aspect of chastity, but if you are there's loads you can do.
It's impossible to piss standing up whilst caged without making a real mess so get him to sit down to pee in the cubicle of a service station, leaving the door open. All the better if he is stockinged / pantied under his normal clothes.
Get him to go the gym or join one if he isn't a member. Make sure he changes in the open bit of the changing room, caged.
Tell him he needs to be cleaned, which you'll need to remove the cage for every few days anyway. Wash and shave him all over but make it as clinical as possible. Cage him and then tease him by pleasuring yourself watching porn next to him. "Oh I'm sorry honey, had I thought just now, you could have fucked me whilst we watched this..... maybe next week.""
Someone's given this a lot of thought. Keep them coming please x |
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"Depends if he / you are in to the humiliation aspect of chastity, but if you are there's loads you can do.
It's impossible to piss standing up whilst caged without making a real mess so get him to sit down to pee in the cubicle of a service station, leaving the door open. All the better if he is stockinged / pantied under his normal clothes.
Get him to go the gym or join one if he isn't a member. Make sure he changes in the open bit of the changing room, caged.
Tell him he needs to be cleaned, which you'll need to remove the cage for every few days anyway. Wash and shave him all over but make it as clinical as possible. Cage him and then tease him by pleasuring yourself watching porn next to him. "Oh I'm sorry honey, had I thought just now, you could have fucked me whilst we watched this..... maybe next week.""
Depending on the cage, and if it fits properly then he can stand up to pee without mess. ANY and ALL aspects of tease & denial will have him at your knees begging for release. As said, only unlock him for cleaning/shaving...i suggest once per week, but again, this depends on the cage. Maybe give him a reward of milking his prostate when you decide and have him lick up the mess from your hand also.
I'm wearing a very expensive custom made one and am on day 138 so it shows 24/7 long-term chastity is very possible. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Couldn't leave him locked up for days, he works. Imagine that  Nor weekends as we have a child lol But like I say he only wears it when I go out for the night. It's bad enough him knowing what I'm getting up to an the fact he can't play with himself is torture |
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By *unguya2zMan
over a year ago
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"has anyone got any suggestions/tasks that can be tasked whilst in chastity?? New to using the cage and looking for some pointers. xx ?? "
Takes a bit of training mate,I used to see a couple where Cuck was caged he enjoyed it but struggled to begin with.maybe just
Have it on one evening while out with missus,with her flirting.from my experience of meeting cucks it is an enjoyable experience but don't ruin it by going at it like a bull at a gate.(excuse the pun).
Just enjoy. |
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"Couldn't leave him locked up for days, he works. Imagine that Nor weekends as we have a child lol But like I say he only wears it when I go out for the night. It's bad enough him knowing what I'm getting up to an the fact he can't play with himself is torture "
this is us too |
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"Couldn't leave him locked up for days, he works. Imagine that Nor weekends as we have a child lol But like I say he only wears it when I go out for the night. It's bad enough him knowing what I'm getting up to an the fact he can't play with himself is torture "
Mr always goes to work in his when i make him wear it. Make him wash it properly every 3 days or so. Jobs a good un |
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"Couldn't leave him locked up for days, he works. Imagine that Nor weekends as we have a child lol But like I say he only wears it when I go out for the night. It's bad enough him knowing what I'm getting up to an the fact he can't play with himself is torture
Mr always goes to work in his when i make him wear it. Make him wash it properly every 3 days or so. Jobs a good un"
I like this  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Couldn't leave him locked up for days, he works. Imagine that Nor weekends as we have a child lol But like I say he only wears it when I go out for the night. It's bad enough him knowing what I'm getting up to an the fact he can't play with himself is torture
Mr always goes to work in his when i make him wear it. Make him wash it properly every 3 days or so. Jobs a good un"
How does no one find out? It's a big cage for the middle of your pants |
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"Couldn't leave him locked up for days, he works. Imagine that Nor weekends as we have a child lol But like I say he only wears it when I go out for the night. It's bad enough him knowing what I'm getting up to an the fact he can't play with himself is torture
Mr always goes to work in his when i make him wear it. Make him wash it properly every 3 days or so. Jobs a good un
How does no one find out? It's a big cage for the middle of your pants "
He has baggyish trousers for work anyway and there quiet a snug fit if fit properly x |
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"Couldn't leave him locked up for days, he works. Imagine that Nor weekends as we have a child lol But like I say he only wears it when I go out for the night. It's bad enough him knowing what I'm getting up to an the fact he can't play with himself is torture
Mr always goes to work in his when i make him wear it. Make him wash it properly every 3 days or so. Jobs a good un
How does no one find out? It's a big cage for the middle of your pants
He has baggyish trousers for work anyway and there quiet a snug fit if fit properly x"
Great idea. I would love to be made to wear one 24/7...anyone fancy being my key holder??? |
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"Couldn't leave him locked up for days, he works. Imagine that Nor weekends as we have a child lol But like I say he only wears it when I go out for the night. It's bad enough him knowing what I'm getting up to an the fact he can't play with himself is torture
Mr always goes to work in his when i make him wear it. Make him wash it properly every 3 days or so. Jobs a good un
How does no one find out? It's a big cage for the middle of your pants
He has baggyish trousers for work anyway and there quiet a snug fit if fit properly x
Great idea. I would love to be made to wear one 24/7...anyone fancy being my key holder???"
Careful what you wish for. Most guys think the same, not realising that there's also the agonising nocturnal erections that wake them up and are in near tears with the pain. |
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"The ones with the spikes inside are very good 
I want to invest but mr doesnt for some reason...not sure why? Cant hurt that much"
The points of intrigue...used those before, and certainly understand why he doesn't want you to!! |
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"The ones with the spikes inside are very good
I want to invest but mr doesnt for some reason...not sure why? Cant hurt that much
The points of intrigue...used those before, and certainly understand why he doesn't want you to!! "
Kalis teeth far more effective .... |
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"The ones with the spikes inside are very good
I want to invest but mr doesnt for some reason...not sure why? Cant hurt that much
The points of intrigue...used those before, and certainly understand why he doesn't want you to!!
Kalis teeth far more effective .... "
Hard limit alert!! |
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"I wear overalls which is good for keeping things hidden, however it can really restrict your movement abd be very painful if things end up in the 'wrong' position as I'm clambering around. Mr."
I find wearing women's underwear, more so a thong helps keep all nicely in place and hidden, even with jeans on |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Couldn't leave him locked up for days, he works. Imagine that Nor weekends as we have a child lol But like I say he only wears it when I go out for the night. It's bad enough him knowing what I'm getting up to an the fact he can't play with himself is torture
Mr always goes to work in his when i make him wear it. Make him wash it properly every 3 days or so. Jobs a good un
How does no one find out? It's a big cage for the middle of your pants
He has baggyish trousers for work anyway and there quiet a snug fit if fit properly x
Great idea. I would love to be made to wear one 24/7...anyone fancy being my key holder???
Careful what you wish for. Most guys think the same, not realising that there's also the agonising nocturnal erections that wake them up and are in near tears with the pain."
It soon learns not to in my experience  |
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"Couldn't leave him locked up for days, he works. Imagine that Nor weekends as we have a child lol But like I say he only wears it when I go out for the night. It's bad enough him knowing what I'm getting up to an the fact he can't play with himself is torture
Mr always goes to work in his when i make him wear it. Make him wash it properly every 3 days or so. Jobs a good un
How does no one find out? It's a big cage for the middle of your pants
He has baggyish trousers for work anyway and there quiet a snug fit if fit properly x
Great idea. I would love to be made to wear one 24/7...anyone fancy being my key holder???
Careful what you wish for. Most guys think the same, not realising that there's also the agonising nocturnal erections that wake them up and are in near tears with the pain.
It soon learns not to in my experience "
Same with me now, though it has taken years and finally having a great cage |
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"Couldn't leave him locked up for days, he works. Imagine that Nor weekends as we have a child lol But like I say he only wears it when I go out for the night. It's bad enough him knowing what I'm getting up to an the fact he can't play with himself is torture
Mr always goes to work in his when i make him wear it. Make him wash it properly every 3 days or so. Jobs a good un
How does no one find out? It's a big cage for the middle of your pants
He has baggyish trousers for work anyway and there quiet a snug fit if fit properly x
Great idea. I would love to be made to wear one 24/7...anyone fancy being my key holder???
Careful what you wish for. Most guys think the same, not realising that there's also the agonising nocturnal erections that wake them up and are in near tears with the pain."
Nocturnal erections... Check.
Waking me up... Check.
But agonising pain? It's a bit uncomfortable at times but not too bad tbh x |
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"Couldn't leave him locked up for days, he works. Imagine that Nor weekends as we have a child lol But like I say he only wears it when I go out for the night. It's bad enough him knowing what I'm getting up to an the fact he can't play with himself is torture
Mr always goes to work in his when i make him wear it. Make him wash it properly every 3 days or so. Jobs a good un
How does no one find out? It's a big cage for the middle of your pants
He has baggyish trousers for work anyway and there quiet a snug fit if fit properly x
Great idea. I would love to be made to wear one 24/7...anyone fancy being my key holder???
Careful what you wish for. Most guys think the same, not realising that there's also the agonising nocturnal erections that wake them up and are in near tears with the pain.
Nocturnal erections... Check.
Waking me up... Check.
But agonising pain? It's a bit uncomfortable at times but not too bad tbh x"
You definitely need those spikes then |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks for all the posts. We are trying our first weekend caged starting this evening, will let you know how we get on.......
Plenty of teasing to come!!! |
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"has anyone got any suggestions/tasks that can be tasked whilst in chastity?? New to using the cage and looking for some pointers. xx ??
Go for a wee in a packed public toilets"
wear the device with a metal padlock then go to the grand national and empty your pockets through the airport style scanners and the alarm sounds then try explaining in front of thousands of race goers you have a padlock over your cock then get ushered into a tent in front of security guards to reveal it
that's humiliation |
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"has anyone got any suggestions/tasks that can be tasked whilst in chastity?? New to using the cage and looking for some pointers. xx ??
Go for a wee in a packed public toilets
wear the device with a metal padlock then go to the grand national and empty your pockets through the airport style scanners and the alarm sounds then try explaining in front of thousands of race goers you have a padlock over your cock then get ushered into a tent in front of security guards to reveal it
that's humiliation"
Personal experience lol? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My boy is caged 24/7 due to living in a FLR. I unlock him to wash or if I decide I want his cock or if he's been a very good boy I reward him. It's important to have a good quality cage. He works in a high pressure job and no it doesn't show. I wear the key around my neck whenever he is caged and if anyone asks what it is, I tell them. Have had some great conversations with vanillas. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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just ordered our second chastity device from house of denial. Love the feeling of being locked up! Especially when Janine is away or whilst we are out shopping together. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Have done the wearing a strap on while caged, wearing it at a club when we used to host our cuck nights and when she's been out for meets. Reason started wearing cage was to level the playing field but this does lead to a few problems. I'm uncut and use the stocking method to put it on but due to my size find it a snug fit and that then my foreskin pokes out the end which makes it uncomfortable. I brought a holy trainer which I like but the standard is not big enough... |
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"Have done the wearing a strap on while caged, wearing it at a club when we used to host our cuck nights and when she's been out for meets. Reason started wearing cage was to level the playing field but this does lead to a few problems. I'm uncut and use the stocking method to put it on but due to my size find it a snug fit and that then my foreskin pokes out the end which makes it uncomfortable. I brought a holy trainer which I like but the standard is not big enough..."
He fits nicely in the holy trainer .... and is permanently apart from occasional and very quick cleaning |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Have done the wearing a strap on while caged, wearing it at a club when we used to host our cuck nights and when she's been out for meets. Reason started wearing cage was to level the playing field but this does lead to a few problems. I'm uncut and use the stocking method to put it on but due to my size find it a snug fit and that then my foreskin pokes out the end which makes it uncomfortable. I brought a holy trainer which I like but the standard is not big enough...
He fits nicely in the holy trainer .... and is permanently apart from occasional and very quick cleaning"
Slightly jealous as would love Ginger to push my confinement for longer. Most have done is 2 weeks but would like to get to a month even if she wasn't adding the extra frustration of fucking some one else during that time. |
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"Have done the wearing a strap on while caged, wearing it at a club when we used to host our cuck nights and when she's been out for meets. Reason started wearing cage was to level the playing field but this does lead to a few problems. I'm uncut and use the stocking method to put it on but due to my size find it a snug fit and that then my foreskin pokes out the end which makes it uncomfortable. I brought a holy trainer which I like but the standard is not big enough...
He fits nicely in the holy trainer .... and is permanently apart from occasional and very quick cleaning
Slightly jealous as would love Ginger to push my confinement for longer. Most have done is 2 weeks but would like to get to a month even if she wasn't adding the extra frustration of fucking some one else during that time."
More jealous that, I don't believe, she's taken a lover yet.... though the chastity does reinforce my submission |
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"Oooh, this thread is back Do you partake in a little chastity? 
We do and 'little' chastity is about right!From your profile pics "little" is indeed the right discription...."
Lucky really that way in a dress there isn't much of a bulge to hide |
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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago
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"Oooh, this thread is back Do you partake in a little chastity?
We do and 'little' chastity is about right!From your profile pics "little" is indeed the right discription....
Lucky really that way in a dress there isn't much of a bulge to hide"
True. ..can fit comfortable into a sexy thong no doubt... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don't set a length of time for lock up.
Throw a dice to select how many dice throws you do. Or even roll two.
Then throw them the number first thrown.
The tostadas will be the number of days he's locked.
Or the number of lovers you have til he's released "
I love the latter. I've been locked except the number was the number of men I had to be fucked by before I was released. I've never had so many anal orgasms in my life. |
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"Don't set a length of time for lock up.
Throw a dice to select how many dice throws you do. Or even roll two.
Then throw them the number first thrown.
The tostadas will be the number of days he's locked.
Or the number of lovers you have til he's released
I love the latter. I've been locked except the number was the number of men I had to be fucked by before I was released. I've never had so many anal orgasms in my life. "
Single or double dice throw? |
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