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Will she think I don't love her because I lshear her with other men
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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We have been married for 11 years and it was 9 years till I told my wife about my fantasy she didn't understand how I could want it but afte a lot of talking about it and setting a few rules we went to a swigging club and had a fantastic play with a young couple I didn't play as i don't want to play I was obviously very nervous but the couple where really nice I was worried that I would be jealous and regret doing it but it was amazing it made me feel proud of my beautiful wife. We have done it a few times and it has always been good but when I ask her if she enjoys it she tells me she only does it for me I hope she can understand that I still love her and respect her |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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She tells me she she does it for me but enjoys making me happy on a number of occasions she was the one that suggested we go play I don't ask her anymore but if she suggests it I will go her love means more than a fantasy to me xxx |
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"We have been married for 11 years and it was 9 years till I told my wife about my fantasy she didn't understand how I could want it but afte a lot of talking about it and setting a few rules we went to a swigging club and had a fantastic play with a young couple I didn't play as i don't want to play I was obviously very nervous but the couple where really nice I was worried that I would be jealous and regret doing it but it was amazing it made me feel proud of my beautiful wife. We have done it a few times and it has always been good but when I ask her if she enjoys it she tells me she only does it for me I hope she can understand that I still love her and respect her "
Why are you telling us this and not her? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Confusing. Is it that she only does it to make you happy. Or that she enjoys doing it as she loves seeing you happy? In example, my ex loved cross dressing. It didnt turn me on at all. But seeing how much it turned him on did. So all good in my book. But if it was that I just put up with it because I didnt want to make him unhappy, maybe thought I might lose him otherwise, well that would have been a different thing entirely. Can you see the difference? Or have I just drank too much vino?! |
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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago
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"We have been married for 11 years and it was 9 years till I told my wife about my fantasy she didn't understand how I could want it but afte a lot of talking about it and setting a few rules we went to a swigging club and had a fantastic play with a young couple I didn't play as i don't want to play I was obviously very nervous but the couple where really nice I was worried that I would be jealous and regret doing it but it was amazing it made me feel proud of my beautiful wife. We have done it a few times and it has always been good but when I ask her if she enjoys it she tells me she only does it for me I hope she can understand that I still love her and respect her "
It's great that you have a wife who wants to please you. My only question is what will you do when she gets bored of this? |
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"Confusing. Is it that she only does it to make you happy. Or that she enjoys doing it as she loves seeing you happy? In example, my ex loved cross dressing. It didnt turn me on at all. But seeing how much it turned him on did. So all good in my book. But if it was that I just put up with it because I didnt want to make him unhappy, maybe thought I might lose him otherwise, well that would have been a different thing entirely. Can you see the difference? Or have I just drank too much vino?!"
You've drank too much vino lol. OPs wife has sex with other men to make him (OP) happy. He asks if she enjoys it and the reply is she does it to make him happy. Having sex with someone should only be done if the person doing it enjoys it.....I certainly would not have sex to make someone else happy  |
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"We have been married for 11 years and it was 9 years till I told my wife about my fantasy she didn't understand how I could want it but afte a lot of talking about it and setting a few rules we went to a swigging club and had a fantastic play with a young couple I didn't play as i don't want to play I was obviously very nervous but the couple where really nice I was worried that I would be jealous and regret doing it but it was amazing it made me feel proud of my beautiful wife. We have done it a few times and it has always been good but when I ask her if she enjoys it she tells me she only does it for me I hope she can understand that I still love her and respect her "
Does she mean: A) she does it because you like it, but she could personally take it or leave it
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B) She doesn't like it but does it for you, a bit like washing up dishes |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We have been married for 11 years and it was 9 years till I told my wife about my fantasy she didn't understand how I could want it but afte a lot of talking about it and setting a few rules we went to a swigging club and had a fantastic play with a young couple I didn't play as i don't want to play I was obviously very nervous but the couple where really nice I was worried that I would be jealous and regret doing it but it was amazing it made me feel proud of my beautiful wife. We have done it a few times and it has always been good but when I ask her if she enjoys it she tells me she only does it for me I hope she can understand that I still love her and respect her
Does she mean: A) she does it because you like it, but she could personally take it or leave it
Or
B) She doesn't like it but does it for you, a bit like washing up dishes "
Or C) she does it because she doesn't want to lose him. |
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"My advice is to advise her to trim down below before meets. That way you can share her instead of shearing her and she should definitely feel more love 
Hope this helps "
OMG OMG how observant, even I missed that! I'm laughing so much now!
OP has not responded, probably busy 'shearing' ha ha haaaaa  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We have been married for 11 years and it was 9 years till I told my wife about my fantasy she didn't understand how I could want it but afte a lot of talking about it and setting a few rules we went to a swigging club and had a fantastic play with a young couple I didn't play as i don't want to play I was obviously very nervous but the couple where really nice I was worried that I would be jealous and regret doing it but it was amazing it made me feel proud of my beautiful wife. We have done it a few times and it has always been good but when I ask her if she enjoys it she tells me she only does it for me I hope she can understand that I still love her and respect her
Why are you telling us this and not her?"
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By (user no longer on site)
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Taking a peek it seems you stopped playing a while ago op.
Does she know your profile is still on here or have you become another single guy using a redundant couples profile? |
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"My advice is to advise her to trim down below before meets. That way you can share her instead of shearing her and she should definitely feel more love
Hope this helps
OMG OMG how observant, even I missed that! I'm laughing so much now!
OP has not responded, probably busy 'shearing' ha ha haaaaa "
Or swigging some hard liquor at the club |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My advice is to advise her to trim down below before meets. That way you can share her instead of shearing her and she should definitely feel more love
Hope this helps "
I was wondering if anyone was going to pick up on this  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We have been married for 11 years and it was 9 years till I told my wife about my fantasy she didn't understand how I could want it but afte a lot of talking about it and setting a few rules we went to a swigging club and had a fantastic play with a young couple I didn't play as i don't want to play I was obviously very nervous but the couple where really nice I was worried that I would be jealous and regret doing it but it was amazing it made me feel proud of my beautiful wife. We have done it a few times and it has always been good but when I ask her if she enjoys it she tells me she only does it for me I hope she can understand that I still love her and respect her "
I like to swig when I'm at a club let's face it its a social event  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Given this "I lshear her" and the fact that they are a Welsh couple, I think the OP is obviously talking about one of his sheep."
Yes and she's going to be spit roasted soon XXX |
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Given this "I lshear her" and the fact that they are a Welsh couple, I think the OP is obviously talking about one of his sheep.
Yes and she's going to be spit roasted soon XXX"
Slam in the lamb ...remember that ? |
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