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Time for truth and honesty.
Can I ask how long people last during a normal sex session, without foreplay? I see a lot of porn where the men last 20 mins or more, I can be finished, washed and asleep in that time sometimes !!! |
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over a year ago
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id want a lot more than 20 mins unless talked about before ie a quickie because of time ??
who watches porn and thinks its all real ? actually that's a whole new thread lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"id want a lot more than 20 mins unless talked about before ie a quickie because of time ??
who watches porn and thinks its all real ? actually that's a whole new thread lol"
Yeah there's buffers ( I think that's what they're called...or fluffers? I dunno)
Lots of editing to get the best juicy bits I reckon! |
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"Blimey, what pills or methods did you use for that session?!!"
No pills or methods just paced ourselves did kiss and cuddle too amazing where time goes when your enjoying yourselves xx Safe to say when i came it was alot and mind blowing for both! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It varies I can do finish quickly if needs be but that's no fun. I usually go 15-20 but often have a lot of pre cum. My finish is normally really big. But this is why foreplay is a thing. Just depends what sex you are having. Romantic sensual passionate sex is not the same as getting out the rope and ball gag. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"no the op is saying if you take foreplay out of the play time then how much of it is fucking ...  "
Surely one mixes it up if done properly and 20 mins of fucking is just short meet isn't it?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"no the op is saying if you take foreplay out of the play time then how much of it is fucking ...
Surely one mixes it up if done properly and 20 mins of fucking is just short meet isn't it? "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sorry but has no one ever heard of control here. You know hold back. Hold back some more. I'd honestly feel I'd let a woman down if didn't fuck and have sex over many hours...tend to find actual fucking time average least two hours...its what I need...what I desire... I proper work out.
This must be a joke this 20 mins or guys really like some women tell me...two stroke splat guys  |
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"Sorry but has no one ever heard of control here. You know hold back. Hold back some more. I'd honestly feel I'd let a woman down if didn't fuck and have sex over many hours...tend to find actual fucking time average least two hours...its what I need...what I desire... I proper work out.
This must be a joke this 20 mins or guys really like some women tell me...two stroke splat guys "
Thats what i prefer a proper workout for both really makes tje orgasm more intense! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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And also...what about dry cum or no cum...must surely be other blokes who can hold back and keep doing so. Its a control thing...if you do this for a while... like three or four times holding back...then turn out your gas on final release... whole body vibrates...massively shakes haha or that's what I find...its like one step above blowing your load |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Time for truth and honesty.
Can I ask how long people last during a normal sex session, without foreplay? I see a lot of porn where the men last 20 mins or more, I can be finished, washed and asleep in that time sometimes !!!
Upto 6 hours. Not lying "
At last someone who's up with what I'd consider normal in the days of fitness and men who look after themselves and like pleasuring women before themselves |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Time for truth and honesty.
Can I ask how long people last during a normal sex session, without foreplay? I see a lot of porn where the men last 20 mins or more, I can be finished, washed and asleep in that time sometimes !!!"
Upto 6 hrs. Non stop hard. Fast and rough fucking with 10 minutes break every hour.  |
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By *haverMan
over a year ago
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"Time for truth and honesty.
Can I ask how long people last during a normal sex session, without foreplay? I see a lot of porn where the men last 20 mins or more, I can be finished, washed and asleep in that time sometimes !!!
Upto 6 hrs. Non stop hard. Fast and rough fucking with 10 minutes break every hour. "
And a nice cup of tea and a bicuit |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's not only about the man...the woman plays a large part in this too. A good woman can keep the guy from coming too quick, should be watching and feeling how his body is changing helping him not to cum too quick. Some have only experienced quickies and try and make the guy cum quickly thinking that's what he's wanting....
An experienced guy will please the woman and often satisfy her before himself. An experienced guy can cum a few times in a few hrs too. It's about stimulation and if it isn't mental then it's usually over in a giffy
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Most guys see the tits, legs and vag and it's a dive in without really seeing if there's any mental connection. |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
Up on them there hills |
I can't play if all the work is not done up front, I need to reach a point were it is all or nothing.for both of us.
Pumping awy for .... Bores the crap out of me.
Hey, that's just me though. |
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I've never been a clock watcher. On a good meet, I'll cum several times and the sex lasts longer as the time goes on....but that's mixed with lots of oral and other play so I'll take a stop watch next time - in the interests of science! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I rarely cum before the woman I'm with, cums first. So I take as long as needed. It may be 30min or 3 hours and beyond.
I had an ex who I'd bring her to orgasm 8 times in a row over the whole night. Cock only. No oral. Both in pussy and arse. She was a fucking nympho. Till she could have no more.
Mind you, I was suppressing myself a lot and would come 3-4 times. I don't suppress that much anymore. It's not healthy for the man.
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"Longest ive lasted with no foreplay about 3hrs!
Sorry mate don't believe it, you must have been using a stunt penis
[SECRETLY IMPRESSED]"
Lol stunt penis love that! Must admit it did feel a bit numb after i came lol! Took till following morning to recover! |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
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Me, if it's a quicky, she cums at least once before I even get involved.
Now if I can take my time, I have known to hold subspace for nearly a hour, then it takes me 2-5 mins, usually 2 because I'm bursting to cum.
Doing something wrong...oh hum. |
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Well, for Gavin it depends on how he's feeling, how turned on we both are and what we're fantasising about at the time. The hornier he is or we are, the quick it's over.
He always makes sure I'm done first though, so who cares?!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I had a relationship with a guy for about 6 mths a year ago..and every time we got together the sun was coming up never slept at all...unbelievable staminax
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When we get a weekend free this is the way it goes for us as well. Hotel room trashing all night kinky sex is amazing.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Frankly if someone wanted to penetrate me for hours I'd be bored stupid! Far more fun imaginative things to do in play....
How long it lasts is how long it lasts if a guy cums quickly so be it, I must have been doing something right! Have no wish to be pounded for ages, so how long it takes doesn't matter as long as we've all had fun.
It's funny in a MFMF meet when the guys hold back as neither wants to come first, ego gets in the ways when I hear hubby say "race you" I know it's happening....
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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago
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"I had a relationship with a guy for about 6 mths a year ago..and every time we got together the sun was coming up never slept at all...unbelievable staminax
When we get a weekend free this is the way it goes for us as well. Hotel room trashing all night kinky sex is amazing...."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Record is 5 hours but my balls were killing by the end. 2 hours is a nice duration for a meet. "
Ha yeah that's what I find happens... if one holds back and so on...after near 4 hours..much later... balls feel like killing by end. Agree on that score.
I always laugh about it...but its part of the pleasure I get...I like to put a woman's needs before my own. Hell I can always have a wank
I have recently met a few females from site who've met other blokes yet they have never had a man make them cum through oral nor penetrated sex.
I honesty was shocked as men know what to do. They either selfish sexually or lazy...but then lot is to do with body and fitness and stamina |
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"Record is 5 hours but my balls were killing by the end. 2 hours is a nice duration for a meet.
Ha yeah that's what I find happens... if one holds back and so on...after near 4 hours..much later... balls feel like killing by end. Agree on that score.
I always laugh about it...but its part of the pleasure I get...I like to put a woman's needs before my own. Hell I can always have a wank
I have recently met a few females from site who've met other blokes yet they have never had a man make them cum through oral nor penetrated sex.
I honesty was shocked as men know what to do. They either selfish sexually or lazy...but then lot is to do with body and fitness and stamina"
Gosh that's amazing, they must be queuing  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Depends what you mean by stamina exactly.
I can stay erect for a four hour session easily enough but I'm not fit enough to actually fuck for four hours non stop. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can't believe anyone would bother taking their knickers off for twenty minutes . The guys I meet usually give me 3 to 4 hours , mix the positions up and it's heaven |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Like a number of the other guys have said , for me it's about a mental connection as well as physical.
With my FB it can be for hours , and I lose myself I her (metaphorically speaking lol)
However we can be fucking and realise we are doing it to the beat of the music and just end up laughing at ourselves because of it.
Surely it's about having fun too |
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Myself, I'm of a curious nature so when Sting said he enjoyed sex for hours using tantra, I signed up to do a course...
Am a completely different bed partner as a result. I know a woman's body better and my mindset around sex is so different than before. If you're single or in a couple, open minded and want to have great sex for longer, look into tantra...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Record is 5 hours but my balls were killing by the end. 2 hours is a nice duration for a meet.
Ha yeah that's what I find happens... if one holds back and so on...after near 4 hours..much later... balls feel like killing by end. Agree on that score.
I always laugh about it...but its part of the pleasure I get...I like to put a woman's needs before my own. Hell I can always have a wank
I have recently met a few females from site who've met other blokes yet they have never had a man make them cum through oral nor penetrated sex.
I honesty was shocked as men know what to do. They either selfish sexually or lazy...but then lot is to do with body and fitness and stamina"
I agree ergo yoy. Sex is the one of the easiest and most natural thing to do. No training is required, no prior experience, although it's a learning process without having to go to courses and the like.
Those who claim to know more than others, are BS liers. Anyone can give and receive full pleasure through sex. It's foolish that some people feel superior because they believe they are capable of doing it better than the rest. Conversely, some develop inferiority complex following a few disappointing experiences.
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"Record is 5 hours but my balls were killing by the end. 2 hours is a nice duration for a meet.
Ha yeah that's what I find happens... if one holds back and so on...after near 4 hours..much later... balls feel like killing by end. Agree on that score.
I always laugh about it...but its part of the pleasure I get...I like to put a woman's needs before my own. Hell I can always have a wank
I have recently met a few females from site who've met other blokes yet they have never had a man make them cum through oral nor penetrated sex.
I honesty was shocked as men know what to do. They either selfish sexually or lazy...but then lot is to do with body and fitness and stamina
I agree ergo yoy. Sex is the one of the easiest and most natural thing to do. No training is required, no prior experience, although it's a learning process without having to go to courses and the like.
Those who claim to know more than others, are BS liers. Anyone can give and receive full pleasure through sex. It's foolish that some people feel superior because they believe they are capable of doing it better than the rest. Conversely, some develop inferiority complex following a few disappointing experiences.
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Correction : I agree with you. |
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"I know that porn scenes are edited and they have people to help them, also that pills are sometimes involved. I can last a lot longer using pills too. I was just wondering about normally.
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Apparently, when a male porn star pulls his cock out and just smacks her arse with it... He was about to cum and is now buying some time to relax...
According to one well know porn star. Am sure there's a few tricks of the trade |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Time for truth and honesty.
Can I ask how long people last during a normal sex session, without foreplay? I see a lot of porn where the men last 20 mins or more, I can be lfinished, washed and asleep in that time sometimes !!!"
20 mins I'm just getting warmed up |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
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Without forplay, wouldn't play, go for more than ten min's I would be bored to hell.
Hours, I'd be trying to remember all of Shakespers sonnets.
Me it starts with mind play, that could start a few days before, anticipation, then tease, if all parties are so aroused through forplay, the act is the crowning glory.
Well in my world. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Oh it depends.
Its like football for me. If I've not played for a bit my touch is lousy. But if I play a couple of games it all comes back.
Form is temporary, class is permanent |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Foreplay actually makes me last less when it come to penetration as it makes me more turned on, whereas without foreplay there is no build up so takes longer. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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As long as we can avoid doggy style, I can last as long as she likes. But as soon as I start to fuck from behind, I have to keep stopping myself and coming back to it else I blow way too quick!! No idea why? |
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"As long as we can avoid doggy style, I can last as long as she likes. But as soon as I start to fuck from behind, I have to keep stopping myself and coming back to it else I blow way too quick!! No idea why? "
I imagine it's down to the pubic bone putting extra pressure on the underside of the penis that causes men to come quick during this position. |
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
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"As long as we can avoid doggy style, I can last as long as she likes. But as soon as I start to fuck from behind, I have to keep stopping myself and coming back to it else I blow way too quick!! No idea why?
I imagine it's down to the pubic bone putting extra pressure on the underside of the penis that causes men to come quick during this position. "
I've always put it down to speed. I can last for hours at slow speeds, though if I go like a rabbit I pop in no time. If as others have said depth and speed is varied throughout, there is (or was) no issue in lasting for hours at a time.
Having said that once you are having more sex, your control does increase so obviously can go harder for longer, though slowing down does allow better teasing and sensitivity without doubt. |
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"As long as we can avoid doggy style, I can last as long as she likes. But as soon as I start to fuck from behind, I have to keep stopping myself and coming back to it else I blow way too quick!! No idea why?
I imagine it's down to the pubic bone putting extra pressure on the underside of the penis that causes men to come quick during this position. "
Very true. The underside of the head of the cock is the most sensitive area.
Also, looking at and holding and slapping a fine arse is so erotic that speeds up the climax! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I tried once some thick condoms. For professionals.
I couldn't cum. Could've gone pronging for days. It just dulled the sensations so much that had to take the condom off to finish. |
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Wow do these woman that can take 4 to 6 hours of non stop penatrative sex have some sort of super Teflon cum?!
That's the equivalent of actual penatrative sex from the moment a club opens its doors to the moment the doors are closed...
Here's me thinking I was doing well cuming six times on a night out!
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