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My first FFM
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's great when one sits on your face and one sits on your dick facing each other while kissing each other utter bliss."
Yes it is!
That is one way to make sure everyone is included 
Enjoy a very pleasurable experience OP! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Bring fine wines and Belgian chocolates 
Not sure we would have time for that lol.
My worries is who should I first start to play with?"
Get them to start it off...kissing, touching. Problem solved. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am going to have my first FFM meet soon, not sure what to expect, both fem are bi curious.
Any advice please?
Thanks for reading.xx"
All I can say is 'you lucky bugger'  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In my experience, if the girls are into each other too then you are in for a treat. Take some glucose tabs/drink. You're gonna need to keep the energy levels up! |
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To be blunt The fact that they're both only bi curious could cause you all a problem as nerves of taking that step towards trying could get to them too much that first time/first few times exploring can feel quite awkward mostly due to lack experience
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Bring fine wines and Belgian chocolates
Not sure we would have time for that lol.
My worries is who should I first start to play with?
Get them to start it off...kissing, touching. Problem solved. "
thanks
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If the girls are actually bi and not just a bit curious, and are into each other, it will go well.
Have fun."
They both know each other before so I think I should ask them to start and I join them later. |
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If either of them is your other half, make sure you ensure you don't get too carried away with the other girl
Best to move in while they're playing and put your hands on both at the same time... then it's pretty easy from there :D |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"If either of them is your other half, make sure you ensure you don't get too carried away with the other girl
Best to move in while they're playing and put your hands on both at the same time... then it's pretty easy from there :D"
I think I should wait untill one of them make their first move towards me, will that be a good thing to do? |
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"To be blunt The fact that they're both only bi curious could cause you all a problem as nerves of taking that step towards trying could get to them too much that first time/first few times exploring can feel quite awkward mostly due to lack experience
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In this scenario maybe it would be a good idea to get them in a room together, toss a double ender on the bed between them and chant "two women enter, one woman leaves" repeatedly.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Enjoy the fun, and yes make sure to please both ! Also, don't forget to give them some space if they want to play together to join after and remember them how a man can do things right !
And, my advice, take some paracétamol for when you're done, because if you made it right, your whole body will be sore the next day ! Aha
Have fun ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Bring fine wines and Belgian chocolates
Not sure we would have time for that lol.
My worries is who should I first start to play with?"
A more serious answer would be, communication is key. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To be blunt The fact that they're both only bi curious could cause you all a problem as nerves of taking that step towards trying could get to them too much that first time/first few times exploring can feel quite awkward mostly due to lack experience
In this scenario maybe it would be a good idea to get them in a room together, toss a double ender on the bed between them and chant "two women enter, one woman leaves" repeatedly. "
No laughing emoji!......Laughing! |
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By *r GaltMan
over a year ago
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Th best advic I can offer is that if one of the girls is your partner makee sure she is still made to feel special whilst of course not neglecting your"guest"! Let the girls get to know each other by themselves for a while first as well if you can too? Go and put the kettle on, pour the wine or whatever?
Best of luck!
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"If either of them is your other half, make sure you ensure you don't get too carried away with the other girl
Best to move in while they're playing and put your hands on both at the same time... then it's pretty easy from there :D
I think I should wait untill one of them make their first move towards me, will that be a good thing to do?"
Have you been invited? Then no ... you will know when to move in. Sit back, enjoy the view for a bit. Not too long. Just get in there when you feel it's comfortable. The girls may drag you in. You may all three start kissing together. You may find they want you to take control. Either way, it's pretty easy and natural and you will not have any issues. Don't turn it into anything bigger than it is for yourself. It's just a night of sex. So there's two girls. Big deal... still just sex. And I'm sure you'll be fine!  |
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"It's great when one sits on your face and one sits on your dick facing each other while kissing each other utter bliss.
in your dreams!
you've seen that on a porno film haha"
Pretty standard threesome stuff actually |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Sammi says if you are that nervous, cancel and send the girls our way. She said it not me! :D"
Haha how about Sammi hold my hand so I feel relaxed....when I meet them.. She can join as well. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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ladies usually start playing as the fella loves to watch - but once we had a lady who liked to watch so we started and she joined in after a while - and always make sure noone is left twiddling thumbs - awful to see others going for it when youre sposed to be a 3sum - its more than doable and very horny - unless its been pre chatted and that is what one person wants - if all agree on whatever just go with the flow and have a blast |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"ladies usually start playing as the fella loves to watch - but once we had a lady who liked to watch so we started and she joined in after a while - and always make sure noone is left twiddling thumbs - awful to see others going for it when youre sposed to be a 3sum - its more than doable and very horny - unless its been pre chatted and that is what one person wants - if all agree on whatever just go with the flow and have a blast "
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"It's great when one sits on your face and one sits on your dick facing each other while kissing each other utter bliss.
in your dreams!
you've seen that on a porno film haha"
I am glad you said it ! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Take more than 4 condoms. You don't want to swap from pussy to anothers, anothers. "
That is the best advice mate..thanks.
Looks like you got lot of experience in FFM.. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Take more than 4 condoms. You don't want to swap from pussy to anothers, anothers.
That is the best advice mate..thanks.
Looks like you got lot of experience in FFM..
2 boxes then....."
Just went to shop to get them, pack of 12..i hope thats should be fine... lol |
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
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"Take more than 4 condoms. You don't want to swap from pussy to anothers, anothers.
That is the best advice mate..thanks.
Looks like you got lot of experience in FFM..
2 boxes then.....
Just went to shop to get them, pack of 12..i hope thats should be fine... lol"
Lol, I didn't know what they were into so thought I would put it lightly |
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"It's great when one sits on your face and one sits on your dick facing each other while kissing each other utter bliss."
Totally agree, this is my favourite position, especially if they are kissing each other, playing with breasts and nipples like I am and both cumming.....moments later I fountain. Bliss indeed.
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"Take more than 4 condoms. You don't want to swap from pussy to anothers, anothers. "
I think he'll need lots more than 4. When we do ffm's I'll easily use 4. But, one of the ladies is my wife, Bun, so obviously I don't use them with her. So, I'd say take way more, as he'll need new ones for each change from girl to girl. Gets you used to whipping them off and on quick too
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Having only recently had one, which went well but could have been improved upon my advice would be
- having an open and honest discussion involving all 3 of you about whats in and whats out during it
- agree on someone to take the lead, and if thats you dont be afraid to call the shots and "throw" the ladies around the bed into any pre-agreed situations
Otherwise it can kind of get away from you and everybody kind of ends up being a bit shy to take the lead and force the issue for fear of upsetting someone.
Thats my experience anyway and the most likely pitfalls
But that aside you will have an absolute blast if it goes right! |
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"Having only recently had one, which went well but could have been improved upon my advice would be
- having an open and honest discussion involving all 3 of you about whats in and whats out during it
- agree on someone to take the lead, and if thats you dont be afraid to call the shots and "throw" the ladies around the bed into any pre-agreed situations
Otherwise it can kind of get away from you and everybody kind of ends up being a bit shy to take the lead and force the issue for fear of upsetting someone.
Thats my experience anyway and the most likely pitfalls
But that aside you will have an absolute blast if it goes right!"
Lots of men in here like to 'throw' women around the bed! Best check OP if they mind being thrown around! First sign of that and I would be dressed and out of that door!!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Having only recently had one, which went well but could have been improved upon my advice would be
- having an open and honest discussion involving all 3 of you about whats in and whats out during it
- agree on someone to take the lead, and if thats you dont be afraid to call the shots and "throw" the ladies around the bed into any pre-agreed situations
Otherwise it can kind of get away from you and everybody kind of ends up being a bit shy to take the lead and force the issue for fear of upsetting someone.
Thats my experience anyway and the most likely pitfalls
But that aside you will have an absolute blast if it goes right!"
Thanks mate |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Having only recently had one, which went well but could have been improved upon my advice would be
- having an open and honest discussion involving all 3 of you about whats in and whats out during it
- agree on someone to take the lead, and if thats you dont be afraid to call the shots and "throw" the ladies around the bed into any pre-agreed situations
Otherwise it can kind of get away from you and everybody kind of ends up being a bit shy to take the lead and force the issue for fear of upsetting someone.
Thats my experience anyway and the most likely pitfalls
But that aside you will have an absolute blast if it goes right!
Lots of men in here like to 'throw' women around the bed! Best check OP if they mind being thrown around! First sign of that and I would be dressed and out of that door!!!"
Will do, I will be calling them tonight, so will discuss these stuff.
Thanks once again |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don't turn up....block them both then have a whinge on the forums.
Well us singles need to keep up the pretence that we are all fake time wasting wankers....  |
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"Don't turn up....block them both then have a whinge on the forums.
Well us singles need to keep up the pretence that we are all fake time wasting wankers.... "
Very true....about being fake time wasters.... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Don't turn up....block them both then have a whinge on the forums.
Well us singles need to keep up the pretence that we are all fake time wasting wankers.... "
Funny you say that, yesterday I am about to meet one of the lady for a chat at my place and while see was knocking my door I was at shower and I took a time to open the door and she thought I was fake and blocked me on the fab. Eventually I open the door and once left I went to my friends list and she has gone.. lol when I asked she wouldn't justify that lol it was funny.
I think some women quickly jump to conclusions as men are fake. |
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"Don't turn up....block them both then have a whinge on the forums.
Well us singles need to keep up the pretence that we are all fake time wasting wankers....
Funny you say that, yesterday I am about to meet one of the lady for a chat at my place and while see was knocking my door I was at shower and I took a time to open the door and she thought I was fake and blocked me on the fab. Eventually I open the door and once left I went to my friends list and she has gone.. lol when I asked she wouldn't justify that lol it was funny.
I think some women quickly jump to conclusions as men are fake."
So is it off now?
How did you ask her if you were blocked? |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
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"Don't turn up....block them both then have a whinge on the forums.
Well us singles need to keep up the pretence that we are all fake time wasting wankers....
Funny you say that, yesterday I am about to meet one of the lady for a chat at my place and while see was knocking my door I was at shower and I took a time to open the door and she thought I was fake and blocked me on the fab. Eventually I open the door and once left I went to my friends list and she has gone.. lol when I asked she wouldn't justify that lol it was funny.
I think some women quickly jump to conclusions as men are fake.
So is it off now?
How did you ask her if you were blocked?"
You reading my mind!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am going to have my first FFM meet soon, not sure what to expect, both fem are bi curious.
Any advice please?
Thanks for reading.xx"
Yep tactical wank beforehand lucky bugger lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Too be honest there ain't no meet till all people are present. If you get me. Lots of things can happen between now and weds....
Nothing's set in stone.
And all 3 sound a little fmf newbie. |
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"Too be honest there ain't no meet till all people are present. If you get me. Lots of things can happen between now and weds....
Nothing's set in stone.
And all 3 sound a little fmf newbie. "
Totally agree . I take an arrangement in advance a pinch of salt now on here as 9 times out of 10 it never happens . Usdually coz another 1000 people have messaged them and there eye goes elsewhere probably about 10times since first to the actual arrangement |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Don't turn up....block them both then have a whinge on the forums.
Well us singles need to keep up the pretence that we are all fake time wasting wankers....
Funny you say that, yesterday I am about to meet one of the lady for a chat at my place and while see was knocking my door I was at shower and I took a time to open the door and she thought I was fake and blocked me on the fab. Eventually I open the door and once left I went to my friends list and she has gone.. lol when I asked she wouldn't justify that lol it was funny.
I think some women quickly jump to conclusions as men are fake.
So is it off now?
How did you ask her if you were blocked?"
No still on.
From previous msg on my inbox. |
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"Don't turn up....block them both then have a whinge on the forums.
Well us singles need to keep up the pretence that we are all fake time wasting wankers....
Funny you say that, yesterday I am about to meet one of the lady for a chat at my place and while see was knocking my door I was at shower and I took a time to open the door and she thought I was fake and blocked me on the fab. Eventually I open the door and once left I went to my friends list and she has gone.. lol when I asked she wouldn't justify that lol it was funny.
I think some women quickly jump to conclusions as men are fake.
So is it off now?
How did you ask her if you were blocked?
No still on.
From previous msg on my inbox."
That wouldn't work if you were blocked... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Too be honest there ain't no meet till all people are present. If you get me. Lots of things can happen between now and weds....
Nothing's set in stone.
And all 3 sound a little fmf newbie. "
You are correct, anything can happen. I am defiantly newbie that's is why I asked for u guys advice on this. I they since they know each other and they played few times. I think they should be alright I think, will come to know soon. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Don't turn up....block them both then have a whinge on the forums.
Well us singles need to keep up the pretence that we are all fake time wasting wankers....
Funny you say that, yesterday I am about to meet one of the lady for a chat at my place and while see was knocking my door I was at shower and I took a time to open the door and she thought I was fake and blocked me on the fab. Eventually I open the door and once left I went to my friends list and she has gone.. lol when I asked she wouldn't justify that lol it was funny.
I think some women quickly jump to conclusions as men are fake.
So is it off now?
How did you ask her if you were blocked?
No still on.
From previous msg on my inbox.
That wouldn't work if you were blocked..."
If u block someone from ur friends list and then unblock again then that person will not be under ur friends list anymore. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Our latest one we took foreplay dice with us, was a nice addition , Fter the girls had broken the ice of kissing, we decided to throw the dice... only problem there was deciding who it was on, anyways let the girls get comfortable, do not rush anything, and remember there are two girls there, don't over do it on one....
Have fun and enjoy the experience....
If one of the girls is a guest to a couple, ask her what she wants..... let one of the girls take control, or suggest what happens next....
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Our latest one we took foreplay dice with us, was a nice addition , Fter the girls had broken the ice of kissing, we decided to throw the dice... only problem there was deciding who it was on, anyways let the girls get comfortable, do not rush anything, and remember there are two girls there, don't over do it on one....
Have fun and enjoy the experience....
If one of the girls is a guest to a couple, ask her what she wants..... let one of the girls take control, or suggest what happens next....
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So is it off now?
How did you ask her if you were blocked?
No still on.
From previous msg on my inbox.
That wouldn't work if you were blocked...
If u block someone from ur friends list and then unblock again then that person will not be under ur friends list anymore."
I mean if she blocked you, you couldn't message her in any way. |
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Ones weve had, the girls just got on with it themselves and then id join in after with kissing etc.
Its an amazing sensual feeling, just treat each other fairly.
Although it is good to swap attention on eachother, but as most things it all just blends in and sooner or later a few hours have gone by |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Does it really matter who blocked/unblocked who, how, where etc?
OP has a FFM arranged and I hope it goes very well for him. He seems a nice guy. "
Hey thanks |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Ones weve had, the girls just got on with it themselves and then id join in after with kissing etc.
Its an amazing sensual feeling, just treat each other fairly.
Although it is good to swap attention on eachother, but as most things it all just blends in and sooner or later a few hours have gone by"
Can't wait to experience that feeling. |
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By *workoutMan
over a year ago
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I've been lucky enough to have had two now and each time things have just progressed quite naturally. Don't stress about it, enjoy the moment. One thing I will say is make sure there are toys, there'll be times when you'll need a little recovery so the ladies can keep the fun going with the toys. Trust me that'll get you back in action pretty damn quick lol.
Most of all have fun and let it happen |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hello everyone so this is now done and dusted. Happened a day before than planned,, someone was saying here that anything could happen in coming days and it is true.
I can't elaborate here what exactly happened in the bed, but used most of the advices you guys offered and I should say we enjoyed and my first ffm was a great experience for me. I think I am going to do only FFM from now on to become experts like you all. Thanks again for all ur help and being supportive.
Have fab night everyone. Of course pictures will follow. And I also found out that I am really bad at taking picture while playing, so asked my play mate to take with her phone. Will share few soon.
Ta
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I thought you said the meet was on Wednesday? Did it get moved to Yesterday instead? "
Nevermind just read your update again and see that's exactly what happened. Glad you enjoyed yourself |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I thought you said the meet was on Wednesday? Did it get moved to Yesterday instead?
Nevermind just read your update again and see that's exactly what happened. Glad you enjoyed yourself "
Thanks queen. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"The day I have a MFF  can officially quit fab forever & live rest of my life with a huge grin on my face "
I don't think you would do that, it makes you wanting more and u will be more active than before in Fab like me as I am checking Fab now while at work. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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trying to please both without one getting more attention then the other isn't easy but I remember our first and as they were both very bi I found myself being mostly a spectator and surplus to requirements |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I LOVE this thread, never has a threesome involved quite so many people !
Glad that everyone's had fun, and SO nice to see the forums being a REALLY supportive place!
XxX"
Yes there are still people like to help each other here. I got to say i improved my profile by getting feedbacks from forums and that lead my profile to get some notice among the huge crowd and now again the same forum members helped me with this.
Great people you lots |
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"trying to please both without one getting more attention then the other isn't easy but I remember our first and as they were both very bi I found myself being mostly a spectator and surplus to requirements "
That seems like you had a really crap threesome :/ No one should ever be uninvolved in a threesome, and sure as shit not feel surplus to requirements!!! We'd never let either of us feel that way. |
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"trying to please both without one getting more attention then the other isn't easy but I remember our first and as they were both very bi I found myself being mostly a spectator and surplus to requirements
That seems like you had a really crap threesome :/ No one should ever be uninvolved in a threesome, and sure as shit not feel surplus to requirements!!! We'd never let either of us feel that way."
This can happen plus prior to a threesome plans can be made and when the time arrives some do not carry out what they promised and are lazy BUT I suppose that is life. However a good threesome is when ALL participate and it's FUN and I can see why OP will only want threesomes now. |
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"Glad if went off well Remember an amount of discretion is a good thing, as much as you want to wave your hat about "
This is good advice OP re using phones to take pics - they have ended up on the internet now!!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Glad if went off well Remember an amount of discretion is a good thing, as much as you want to wave your hat about
This is good advice OP re using phones to take pics - they have ended up on the internet now!!!!! "
point taken |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am going to have my first FFM meet soon, not sure what to expect, both fem are bi curious.
Any advice please?
Thanks for reading.xx"
take a book you may not get to do anything |
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"I am going to have my first FFM meet soon, not sure what to expect, both fem are bi curious.
Any advice please?
Thanks for reading.xxtake a book you may not get to do anything "
OP has done it...... |
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