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"Yes I did the other day, it was amazing I'm worried now tho"
Yep that's the downside I'm afraid,great at the time but there's alway's the worry afterwards. Just get yourself booked in for a check. |
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Unprotected sex is like a large bucket of KFC.
You're absolutely gagging for it at the time, but afterwards, you're wishing you hadn't done it!
Seriously though, unprotected sex, with a stranger, are you mental?
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"Unprotected sex is like a large bucket of KFC.
You're absolutely gagging for it at the time, but afterwards, you're wishing you hadn't done it!
Seriously though, unprotected sex, with a stranger, are you mental?
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He'll be fine,probably  |
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over a year ago
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"Already have done fingers crossed. She seemed nice enough"
sorry but just she was nice doesn't mean she was clean and if she went bareback with you she prob go bareback with most guys why risk it ? as what if you catch something you are stuck with at? |
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"Already have done fingers crossed. She seemed nice enough
sorry but just she was nice doesn't mean she was clean and if she went bareback with you she prob go bareback with most guys why risk it ? as what if you catch something you are stuck with at? "
this exactly -
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By *ptimusDMan
over a year ago
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"She was alright for a bare back fuck but on hindsight you're now worried. Aren't you just a lovely man....."
Are you saying that shutting the barn door after the horse has long since bolted isn't going to keep the horse in?  |
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"She was alright for a bare back fuck but on hindsight you're now worried. Aren't you just a lovely man.....
Are you saying that shutting the barn door after the horse has long since bolted isn't going to keep the horse in? "
I'm saying grow up! |
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By *ptimusDMan
over a year ago
Birmingham |
"She was alright for a bare back fuck but on hindsight you're now worried. Aren't you just a lovely man.....
Are you saying that shutting the barn door after the horse has long since bolted isn't going to keep the horse in?
I'm saying grow up! "
Now, that's good advice.., especially under the circumstances  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"She was alright for a bare back fuck but on hindsight you're now worried. Aren't you just a lovely man.....
Are you saying that shutting the barn door after the horse has long since bolted isn't going to keep the horse in?
I'm saying grow up!
Now, that's good advice.., especially under the circumstances "
I'm not sure I was offering advice. He comes across as a teenage boy. I think it's damn right rude.
It like when you hear of men fucking "skanks" ( their words not mine) on a night out then slagging them off. 
Anyway. |
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By *ptimusDMan
over a year ago
Birmingham |
"She was alright for a bare back fuck but on hindsight you're now worried. Aren't you just a lovely man.....
Are you saying that shutting the barn door after the horse has long since bolted isn't going to keep the horse in?
I'm saying grow up!
Now, that's good advice.., especially under the circumstances
I'm not sure I was offering advice. He comes across as a teenage boy. I think it's damn right rude.
It like when you hear of men fucking "skanks" ( their words not mine) on a night out then slagging them off.
Anyway. "
So basically, you've done the deed with your eyes wide open, don't be a dick about it afterwards. It's not big, and it's not clever  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"She was alright for a bare back fuck but on hindsight you're now worried. Aren't you just a lovely man.....
Are you saying that shutting the barn door after the horse has long since bolted isn't going to keep the horse in?
I'm saying grow up!
Now, that's good advice.., especially under the circumstances
I'm not sure I was offering advice. He comes across as a teenage boy. I think it's damn right rude.
It like when you hear of men fucking "skanks" ( their words not mine) on a night out then slagging them off.
Anyway.
So basically, you've done the deed with your eyes wide open, don't be a dick about it afterwards. It's not big, and it's not clever "
Yes! This exactly  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"She was alright for a bare back fuck but on hindsight you're now worried. Aren't you just a lovely man.....
Are you saying that shutting the barn door after the horse has long since bolted isn't going to keep the horse in?
I'm saying grow up!
Now, that's good advice.., especially under the circumstances
I'm not sure I was offering advice. He comes across as a teenage boy. I think it's damn right rude.
It like when you hear of men fucking "skanks" ( their words not mine) on a night out then slagging them off.
Anyway.
So basically, you've done the deed with your eyes wide open, don't be a dick about it afterwards. It's not big, and it's not clever "
What about oral without condoms.... apparently that's how most STIs are passed on according to my two test centres yet few say much about it. Everyone on here plays Russian Rulette just some think their way is safer. |
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Remember, condoms - one of the protection options - isn't 100% effective and thus not safe. People who always use condoms will have frequently picked up infections that they're not been tested for. Education is really important, so that you can understand the risks and take action accordingly
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over a year ago
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along with the potential STI's let's hope she did have some sort of birth control in place - having a baby with a complete stranger is also something to that's going to last a lifetime ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The beauty of threads like this help to easily identify forumites who will / won't play bareback.
Saves trawling through profiles I guess.
I had the snip years ago but wouldn't bareback. Personal choice though.
What was the original question again? |
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"The beauty of threads like this help to easily identify forumites who will / won't play bareback.
Saves trawling through profiles I guess.
I had the snip years ago but wouldn't bareback. Personal choice though.
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Yeah because everyone on the forum wants to meet you don't they
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"The beauty of threads like this help to easily identify forumites who will / won't play bareback.
Saves trawling through profiles I guess.
I had the snip years ago but wouldn't bareback. Personal choice though.
Yeah because everyone on the forum wants to meet you don't they
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That isn't what I meant, just a general observation. I'm only here for the banter so it doesn't make any odds to me.
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OP,
Politicians are on this earth to fuck you in the ass. Bareback. Yet, they don't announce it for a very good reason and that reason is that people will be utterly thankful for his/her honesty. They won't touch them with a barge pole afterwards though.
If you've thought that people will feel sorry for you..... |
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"OP,
Politicians are on this earth to fuck you in the ass. Bareback. Yet, they don't announce it for a very good reason and that reason is that people will be utterly thankful for his/her honesty. They won't touch them with a barge pole afterwards though.
If you've thought that people will feel sorry for you....."
Well for gods sake out a bit of rubber on that bargepole |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The beauty of threads like this help to easily identify forumites who will / won't play bareback.
Nah, people will say they don't, then do so anyway! "
Took the very words out of my mouth. Those who shout loudest to cause distraction while everyone looks in the other direction. |
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By *ptimusDMan
over a year ago
Birmingham |
"She was alright for a bare back fuck but on hindsight you're now worried. Aren't you just a lovely man.....
Are you saying that shutting the barn door after the horse has long since bolted isn't going to keep the horse in?
I'm saying grow up!
Now, that's good advice.., especially under the circumstances
I'm not sure I was offering advice. He comes across as a teenage boy. I think it's damn right rude.
It like when you hear of men fucking "skanks" ( their words not mine) on a night out then slagging them off.
Anyway.
So basically, you've done the deed with your eyes wide open, don't be a dick about it afterwards. It's not big, and it's not clever
Yes! This exactly "
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"Already have done fingers crossed. She seemed nice enough
sorry but just she was nice doesn't mean she was clean and if she went bareback with you she prob go bareback with most guys why risk it ? as what if you catch something you are stuck with at? "
Do you put a condom on a guy to perform oral? |
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More than likely he will be fine.
Russian roulette is a game of death were you have a 1 in 6 chance of dying.
It is not a good metaphor for bareback sex.
Odds of dying from bareback sex are incredibly low. More chance of dying in a car on my way to work each morning.
For those asking about condoms for oral, yep that would also reduce risks, but bareback penetration is riskier than bare oral.
Risk is a balance of the chance of something happening against the impact of something happening.
Oral does pass on STIs but most are low impact, STI's by bareback penetration include all those same risks plus.
So whilst it is disingenuous to equate bareback penetration to Russian roulette, it is equally disingenuous to compare bare oral risks to bareback penetration risks.
My point is saying something is risky is not a qualified statement. Risky Compared to what? without stating the odds it is not a clearly defined risk it's just scaremongering. |
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So for a more understandable comparison.
Let's take the biggie hiv.
In 2015
594 people with HIV died
There were 6,095 new HIV diagnoses
There were 1,730 reported road deaths in 2015
There was a total of 186,189 casualties of all severities in 2015
In 2016, there were approximately 420,000 diagnoses of sexually transmitted
infections (STIs) made in England, a decline of 4% compared to 2015
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So for a more understandable comparison.
Let's take the biggie hiv.
In 2015
594 people with HIV died
There were 6,095 new HIV diagnoses
There were 1,730 reported road deaths in 2015
There was a total of 186,189 casualties of all severities in 2015
In 2016, there were approximately 420,000 diagnoses of sexually transmitted
infections (STIs) made in England, a decline of 4% compared to 2015
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Wow .. thankyou
Great response |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So for a more understandable comparison.
Let's take the biggie hiv.
In 2015
594 people with HIV died
There were 6,095 new HIV diagnoses
There were 1,730 reported road deaths in 2015
There was a total of 186,189 casualties of all severities in 2015
In 2016, there were approximately 420,000 diagnoses of sexually transmitted
infections (STIs) made in England, a decline of 4% compared to 2015
Wow .. thankyou
Great response "
Of the 1730 and the 186,189 casualties, how many were victims because they chose to take a risk, in comparison to the 420,000 who were diagnosed with a sexually transmitted disease? I'd hazard a guess it's a huge difference, as most of them made a choice not to use protection.
Statistics can be presented in any fashion to argue any point.
But to be honest, unless someone is trying to fuck us bareback, we don't give a toss what others do. That's what a democracy is about, to be able to make a choice, and we're not going to bash them for making the choices they are allowed to, and within their right to make. |
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How about taking something that is a more measured, and probable risk, being those 420k incidences of STI's among sexually active people in the UK, and some points around that:
- The figure is understated, there are many who do not know
- There are many that sort their own treatment, through other mines via online health care supplies
- Certain STI's are becoming increasingly resistant to the standard non specific antibiotics
- The stats don't show the shift, and the risk that increasingly it is now possible that some STD's could become untreatable. A Harvard educated doctor of alternative's to antibiotics is very clear that drug companies have peverse incentives for development of new drugs that deal with specific STD's....upshot, lesser chance of new treatments
All this means that whilst the 'Big one" seems a slim chance, the real impact of what seem like innocuous STD's is becoming more severe, and presents a greater risk to everyone who considers BB something they want to enjoy.
Imagine sitting down with a partner in 5 years time wanting to settle down to find increased risk of infertility, other unwanted symptoms of STD's.
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"How about taking something that is a more measured, and probable risk, being those 420k incidences of STI's among sexually active people in the UK, and some points around that:
- The figure is understated, there are many who do not know
- There are many that sort their own treatment, through other mines via online health care supplies
- Certain STI's are becoming increasingly resistant to the standard non specific antibiotics
- The stats don't show the shift, and the risk that increasingly it is now possible that some STD's could become untreatable. A Harvard educated doctor of alternative's to antibiotics is very clear that drug companies have peverse incentives for development of new drugs that deal with specific STD's....upshot, lesser chance of new treatments
All this means that whilst the 'Big one" seems a slim chance, the real impact of what seem like innocuous STD's is becoming more severe, and presents a greater risk to everyone who considers BB something they want to enjoy.
Imagine sitting down with a partner in 5 years time wanting to settle down to find increased risk of infertility, other unwanted symptoms of STD's.
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Excellent post. |
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