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Want to try MMF advice needed
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By *armers OP Woman
over a year ago
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As a single female it's always been on my bucket list to have two guys and be fucked at the same time.
The difficulty is I can get over my fear to have them come to my home and in a club I find it difficult to enjoy the pleasures bestowed on me by them showing me attention.
How do I get over it?
My play dominates over things naturally happening or I end up with a fmf scenario. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Meet guys one on one until you find two men that you feel you would be comfortable with. Or just do what I did and get shitfaced one night and go for it.
I find arranging anything as a single woman a bit scary, I don't think most people appreciate just how daunting it can be for single women on here. |
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"Meet guys one on one until you find two men that you feel you would be comfortable with. Or just do what I did and get shitfaced one night and go for it.
I find arranging anything as a single woman a bit scary, I don't think most people appreciate just how daunting it can be for single women on here."
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This, to the first sentence anyway! 
Or could you and an FB that you trust (if you have one) find a guy on here?
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By *armers OP Woman
over a year ago
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I'm quite dominate so find two men and me submissive which scares and excites me.
I don't drink as I usually drive so my anxiety gets the better of me and I bottle it to the safety of what I know ?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm quite dominate so find two men and me submissive which scares and excites me. "
I can totally relate to this. I have a very dominant personality, and being submissive to two or more men is one of my biggest turn ons, but also one of my biggest fears. Maybe you can't have one without the other. |
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By *armers OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I'm quite dominate so find two men and me submissive which scares and excites me.
I can totally relate to this. I have a very dominant personality, and being submissive to two or more men is one of my biggest turn ons, but also one of my biggest fears. Maybe you can't have one without the other."
Finally someone who gets where I'm coming from xxxx |
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By *armers OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Do the guys have to be dom? John can still have a great 3sum if all are in charge x"
No I'm saying I'm naturally dominant so having two guys would make me feel submissive and in their hands lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No I'm saying I'm naturally dominant so having two guys would make me feel submissive and in their hands lol "
The dynamic is super important, right? Being able to completely let go in the moment, that requires two men to take control of the situation. |
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It's not only women who feel a little daunted. As a guy meeting a couple for the first time in their place is also quite nerve wracking
The key is as been said. Try to relax and get to know some people first and then ease into it.
Having a drink can relax you but d*unk isn't really a sexy thing either. it's always better when everyone is fully capable and relaxed
Best of luck with it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OP have you tried looking for MM profiles in your area? It might be easier with 2 guys who know each other and who you can talk to a bit beforehand to get comfortable? |
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In all honesty if I was a single woman I wouldn't invite one guy to my home let alone two. No disrespect to any of the very respectful men in this thread or in general but you need to be careful.
In your position I would try and overcome my reservations about doing this in a club. I perceive that as the safer option. |
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well first advice is dont use alcohol to ease your inhibitions.
take some time to get to trust the guys and make sure you feel comfortable with both.
Do it when you feel relaxed and ready, and you will enjoy it, pushing it too soon and it may well put you off for a fair while
And maybe think of going thirds on a hotel, if home isn't the right place. |
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By *lighty1Woman
over a year ago
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"In all honesty if I was a single woman I wouldn't invite one guy to my home let alone two. No disrespect to any of the very respectful men in this thread or in general but you need to be careful.
In your position I would try and overcome my reservations about doing this in a club. I perceive that as the safer option."
This ^^^^^ 100% |
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