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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Had plenty of meets on here with previous profile.
This time around we have had a phase where people have failed to meet for a social, that turned out to be 17 out of 21, then we had a spell where they said they would get back to us and never did, that's 26 since October 1st, now we have an out box full of read but unanswered messages, any idea how we seem to manage to only contact people that don't reply or suddenly become ill? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi op
The fact that you wont send face pics will be a deal breaker for many im afraid .
Theres no way to establish attraction and most wont waste time having a social just on the off chance.
Miss"
I agree. I wouldn't meet anyone for a coffee if I hadn't seen a face pic |
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"Hi op
The fact that you wont send face pics will be a deal breaker for many im afraid .
Theres no way to establish attraction and most wont waste time having a social just on the off chance.
Miss"
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Hi op
The fact that you wont send face pics will be a deal breaker for many im afraid .
Theres no way to establish attraction and most wont waste time having a social just on the off chance.
Miss"
Point taken, although that has not been a problem until about a year ago. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have actually had 17 no shows for a social?
Had more, that was in a row."
The no photos would be a slight hurdle, do you speak to them on the phone before?
we have only had two no shows in over 3 years, and they were both semi expected
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Have actually had 17 no shows for a social?
Had more, that was in a row.
The no photos would be a slight hurdle, do you speak to them on the phone before?
we have only had two no shows in over 3 years, and they were both semi expected
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phone chat is always welcome |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Have actually had 17 no shows for a social?
Had more, that was in a row.
phone chat is always welcome
But do you insist on it?"
No, never insist on anything really.
As we said, never a problem before, main problem now is message read, but neither answered or deleted. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"phone chat is always welcome
But do you insist on it?
No, never insist on anything really.
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perhaps you should, at the least it would reduce the number of no shows.
are you messaging verified people? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"phone chat is always welcome
But do you insist on it?
No, never insist on anything really.
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The no photos is a real turn off for most, but also your ages, Soft swing only and that he is Bicur, is a negitive for you, all that would be fine for us (shame you live so far away), but it does limit the number who will reply
D and L x
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"Have actually had 17 no shows for a social?
Had more, that was in a row.
phone chat is always welcome
But do you insist on it?
No, never insist on anything really.
As we said, never a problem before, main problem now is message read, but neither answered or deleted."
Well maybe they have read message then read profile and thought not for us or maybe waiting for other half to read it and see what they think but yeah the no face pics is a hell no for me and the fact no pics of hubby is another no. |
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