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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi, we are very new to this and have 1 massive thing we can not understand which is......
How do you initiate with a person in a club or hotel etc? What do you say to start and things like that. For example if me and my wife were having fun how can we signal it was ok for someone specific to join us? This may sound silly but we wouldn't want to look like divs or make the time very awkward lol
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Paul and Abbi |
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By *ns2006Couple
over a year ago
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If you've not had chance to chat to them before hand then make eye contact, smile ... and if they've still not picked up on your interest then offer a hand out to them .... most people would take that as a big hint  |
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"Go with the flow, follow other people's leads, let things happen naturally & don't be pushy. Enjoy yourselves as you would in any other club but remember no means no. Have fun guys.  "
Agree, looking back it was trial and error, felt very odd at first but is quite natural now. Think it's a process everyone has to go through! |
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"Hi, we are very new to this and have 1 massive thing we can not understand which is......
How do you initiate with a person in a club or hotel etc? What do you say to start and things like that. For example if me and my wife were having fun how can we signal it was ok for someone specific to join us? This may sound silly but we wouldn't want to look like divs or make the time very awkward lol
Hope to hear back soon
Paul and Abbi"
It has to be personal to u or you will feel very awkward, i can tell u what we do,but thats just what works for us.
If you were about to start shagging a date how wud you go about it,are u an asker?A toucher? A stripper?
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"Hi, we are very new to this and have 1 massive thing we can not understand which is......
How do you initiate with a person in a club or hotel etc? What do you say to start and things like that. For example if me and my wife were having fun how can we signal it was ok for someone specific to join us? This may sound silly but we wouldn't want to look like divs or make the time very awkward lol
Hope to hear back soon
Paul and Abbi"
Come to Vanilla Alternatives on 24th September and we'll work it out together.  |
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