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By *nehotguy4fun OP Man over a year ago

North East

Hi,

like a few on here I'm interested in hearing how other people view my profile and any improvements I could add.

Particularly interested in constructive feedback from women and couples as that's who I'm looking to impress!

Thanks in advance.

I'm also willing to return the favour if you like.

Any thoughts on here or private message would be greatly appreciated.

Danny

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By *unandbuckCouple over a year ago

Sheffield

The negative points for me are the kik stuff at the top, 'often' used by fakes, but liked by some. Also the PS at the bottom doesn't match your respectful nature mentioned earlier imo.

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By *ady LickWoman over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I like your text, it's short and sweet.

I think you need to show off your body more and get rid of a few of the 'action shots they might put some people off...

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I'm not a random guy, I'm a quite specifically and deliberately one.

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By *nehotguy4fun OP Man over a year ago

North East

"The negative points for me are the kik stuff at the top, 'often' used by fakes, but liked by some. Also the PS at the bottom doesn't match your respectful nature mentioned earlier imo."

Thanks, I'll lose the kik part and maybe reword the dislikes.

cheers, Danny

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By *nehotguy4fun OP Man over a year ago

North East

"I like your text, it's short and sweet.

I think you need to show off your body more and get rid of a few of the 'action shots they might put some people off..."

Thanks.

let me know the worst one and its gone! Lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

its not good...

its all me, me, me...

and cock pics AND random women

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By *nehotguy4fun OP Man over a year ago

North East

"I'm not a random guy, I'm a quite specifically and deliberately one. "

Fair point. I'm "randomly" contacted by a lot of guys though, despite my profile saying I'm straight.

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)

"I'm not a random guy, I'm a quite specifically and deliberately one.

Fair point. I'm "randomly" contacted by a lot of guys though, despite my profile saying I'm straight."

Block single guys from messaging...Problem solved.

Profile text...Just reads as a few bullet points, generic and uninspiring.

Pics...Seen worse but lose the pics of other people, nice cock though.

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By *nehotguy4fun OP Man over a year ago

North East

"I'm not a random guy, I'm a quite specifically and deliberately one.

Fair point. I'm "randomly" contacted by a lot of guys though, despite my profile saying I'm straight.

Block single guys from messaging...Problem solved.

Profile text...Just reads as a few bullet points, generic and uninspiring.

Pics...Seen worse but lose the pics of other people, nice cock though.

I do on occasion chat to guys so would rather not block them all.

Is that the consensus? Avoid pictures including other people?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"its not good...

its all me, me, me...

and cock pics AND random women

this

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By *oxy_minxWoman over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"I'm not a random guy, I'm a quite specifically and deliberately one.

Fair point. I'm "randomly" contacted by a lot of guys though, despite my profile saying I'm straight.

Block single guys from messaging...Problem solved.

Profile text...Just reads as a few bullet points, generic and uninspiring.

Pics...Seen worse but lose the pics of other people, nice cock though.

I do on occasion chat to guys so would rather not block them all.

Is that the consensus? Avoid pictures including other people?"

If you are advertising yourself as a single male then yes! Do not include third parties, I'm not interested in past sexual conquests if a single male is looking to meet me

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By *nehotguy4fun OP Man over a year ago

North East

Thanks guys, duly noted.

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By *alcon43Woman over a year ago

Paisley

I'd agree about pics. Can be sexier keeping boxers on and showing a nice bulge and bum

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By *inkySlinkyCouple over a year ago

Leeds

I agree that a single male profile shouldn't show pics of women.

Sally

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By *nehotguy4fun OP Man over a year ago

North East

Thanks for your input.

I've made a few changes

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

U don't say what you can offer a lady plus I'd be off put still by the action pics but that's just me

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By *inkySlinkyCouple over a year ago

Leeds

Pics as old as 2011 are offputting.

Sally

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

BJ pics are off putting as is the line about having high standards...

if you want to be taken seriously you should lose both

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton

"Thanks for your input.

I've made a few changes

But the action shots are still there, who are you keeping them on there for? It's men who like those kind of pics not most women and if you have a sense of humour prove it in your bio as it reads like all the other boring ones.

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton

"Pics as old as 2011 are offputting.

Sally"

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By *auldutcliffeMan over a year ago

Blackpool

I have to admit I find fab frustrating, comments like please read my profile!!!! Or no time wasters You read their profile and respond accordingly, you show respect and honesty and follow rules and boundaries as to set on their profile page and you are lucky to receive feed back, in a constructive way, ir is nice when ppl are nice and give Feed back, could someone tell advise

Thanks

Paul

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have to admit I find fab frustrating, comments like please read my profile!!!! Or no time wasters You read their profile and respond accordingly, you show respect and honesty and follow rules and boundaries as to set on their profile page and you are lucky to receive feed back, in a constructive way, ir is nice when ppl are nice and give Feed back, could someone tell advise

Thanks

Paul "

Maybe start your own thread asking for profile advice instead of hijacking someone elses

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By *nehotguy4fun OP Man over a year ago

North East

Again, comments are all much appreciated and I'm sure others reading this will be taking away some of your advice too.

I've removed certain things but choose to keep some of the action shots. That's simply personal preference as some of the most successful male profiles have these types of pictures.

I take the point about some of them being old on board.

The comment about wanting to be taken seriously isn't really valid. I'm looking to improve my profile, it's never been an unmitigated disaster as you're suggesting.

Thanks again,

Danny

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By *nehotguy4fun OP Man over a year ago

North East

Maybe start your own thread asking for profile advice instead of hijacking someone elses

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't see the point of asking for profile feedback if you don't act on it ..

maybe more of a 'look at me' post, to get a bit more interest imo

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By *nehotguy4fun OP Man over a year ago

North East

The advice has been really useful.

I've made significant changes after some good suggestions and I'll take the advice forward when I make changes in the future.

Sorry if I didn't follow your particular suggestion to the letter. To say that my whole motivation for this thread is therefore a vanity exercise now sounds like sour grapes.

I value the opinions given but I'm entitled to maintain some opinions of my own.

Other people reading this post will no doubt consider your thoughts too.

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