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Soft swing is usually everything except penetration. So you agree with the people you're going to meet what your limits are. For instance we don't kiss our meets and I don't enjoy receiving oral sex.
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"but how do u find a couple who wud be happy with just doing soft swing"
There are quite a few. We are soft swing only. If you go on "browse" then click on the drop down menu by "interests" you will see that you can tick "soft swing" |
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Of course there is... you could have a soft swing orgy if your wanted to.
Personally when we soft swing we just prohibit penetrative sex... but we will do pretty much anything else.. but I warn you...going into a soft swing situation, to then turn around and say.."shall we take this further" might not be too well received. Most people on here have set pre defined limits of what they do and don't want... if you are seen to disrespect that, it won't end well
And like others have said... bring your wife on here too... no one is going to believe you have a wife into swinging while you have a single guy profile |
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over a year ago
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"does soft swing always involve kissing other couple"
soft swing involves anything you want other than penetration, you need to chat with the other cple and decide what you all want,some allow kissing some don't some like oral some don't ect during the meet its not a good idea to move your boundrys and try something you haven't discussed you may upset the other cple, unless both cples agree more.
there are quite a few cples who like this play including us, we find it very erotic as you all tend to do more teaseing and foreplay rather than get straight down to penetration |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
chelmsford |
"of course she knows just so nervous I hope she doesn't back out shes going out from work to get underwear so we will see"
You may need to create a couple's profile before you begin your search for a soft swing couple.  |
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By *eerobCouple
over a year ago
solihull |
"Hmm OP's veris make reference to photos of his ex wife??"
Chances ate she wouldn't be too thrilled about having her pics on here, OP does your ex wife know you are showing her pics here...? |
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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago
Wakefield |
"me n wife want to try soft swing how does it work "
As you are in Leeds we would suggest you visit Quests with your wife one day or evening and talk to the people who are members there.
You will find that some will be happy to soft swing with you and some will be happy to go further.
You could even just go and talk or watch what happens in the public rooms etc. |
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Some peoples wives mine included do not want to be part of a profile on an internet site, fear of discovery is her reason for this and its her decision that it is this way, this is one of her BOUNDARIES that people keep talking about. It would put her in a delicate situation regarding her job. People shouldn't always assume that someones wife isn't involved in these situations. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Some peoples wives mine included do not want to be part of a profile on an internet site, fear of discovery is her reason for this and its her decision that it is this way, this is one of her BOUNDARIES that people keep talking about. It would put her in a delicate situation regarding her job. People shouldn't always assume that someones wife isn't involved in these situations. "
But you've been a here over a year and you have no veri's, it doesn't look as that approach works too well? |
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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago
West Wales |
"Some peoples wives mine included do not want to be part of a profile on an internet site, fear of discovery is her reason for this and its her decision that it is this way, this is one of her BOUNDARIES that people keep talking about. It would put her in a delicate situation regarding her job. People shouldn't always assume that someones wife isn't involved in these situations. "
I'd say you are limiting your prospective playmates, quite a few couples on here like us have single guys blocked so you'd never see them in searches.
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We like to read and occasionally post on the forum, to do this you have to have a photo verification, that is the only reason we have a single profile as for meeting we will only ever do so in a club on a couples night if we ever pluck up the courage to go, I wonder how many single females on here are married? I dont see anyone ripping them to bits, I thought this lifestyle was all about live and let live jeez |
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We are soft swing only, basically we allow everything it full sex and love it! We have been involved in threesomes, foursomes, eightsomes.... you get the picture!
Just read profiles and look at interests - it's easy. |
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"We like to read and occasionally post on the forum, to do this you have to have a photo verification, that is the only reason we have a single profile as for meeting we will only ever do so in a club on a couples night if we ever pluck up the courage to go, I wonder how many single females on here are married? I dont see anyone ripping them to bits, I thought this lifestyle was all about live and let live jeez"
you don't have to have a photo verification to post on the forum. |
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We only ever soft swing and find it great ,we do everything apart from full sex ,so lots of kissing ,touching,licking,sucking,fingers basically everything apart from full sex with others
Can be very erotic |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We only ever soft swing and find it great ,we do everything apart from full sex ,so lots of kissing ,touching,licking,sucking,fingers basically everything apart from full sex with others
Can be very erotic "
Totally agree  |
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I find fab frustrating at the moment, you take you time to be respectful, I respond to ppls profiles and don't waste their time, I do fee like a lot of men are judged and painted with the same brush, just to get feed back is great, to be ignored and not responded to by some who doesn't like time wasters us rude, it's hard to get past a couple off messegesnr on here at times which is probley a trust issue due to not being known, I have had more luck on Facebook and lately with 2 women around 200 messeges between us so far, please rate fab swing to Facebook |
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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago
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"Some peoples wives mine included do not want to be part of a profile on an internet site, fear of discovery is her reason for this and its her decision that it is this way, this is one of her BOUNDARIES that people keep talking about. It would put her in a delicate situation regarding her job. People shouldn't always assume that someones wife isn't involved in these situations. "
You can have a couple profile without having your wifes picture on display. If I was really serious I'd make a couple profile for optimal results. |
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"I find fab frustrating at the moment, you take you time to be respectful, I respond to ppls profiles and don't waste their time, I do fee like a lot of men are judged and painted with the same brush, just to get feed back is great, to be ignored and not responded to by some who doesn't like time wasters us rude, it's hard to get past a couple off messegesnr on here at times which is probley a trust issue due to not being known, I have had more luck on Facebook and lately with 2 women around 200 messeges between us so far, please rate fab swing to Facebook "
We like to look at single men profiles that have a little more than cock pics all the way through them to be honest ,not having a go but maybe every pic being a cock pic is off putting for some |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Some peoples wives mine included do not want to be part of a profile on an internet site, fear of discovery is her reason for this and its her decision that it is this way, this is one of her BOUNDARIES that people keep talking about. It would put her in a delicate situation regarding her job. People shouldn't always assume that someones wife isn't involved in these situations.
This.
You can have a couple profile without having your wifes picture on display. If I was really serious I'd make a couple profile for optimal results. "
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"We like to read and occasionally post on the forum, to do this you have to have a photo verification, that is the only reason we have a single profile as for meeting we will only ever do so in a club on a couples night if we ever pluck up the courage to go, I wonder how many single females on here are married? I dont see anyone ripping them to bits, I thought this lifestyle was all about live and let live jeez"
You've obviously not read many threads about cheating then. Some people (us included) won't meet people of either sex if they're cheating on their partner. Your 'live and let live' comment is also rubbish as people come on Fab with the same expectations and preferences that they carry around in 'the real world' and the fact that we're more liberal than some in relation to fucking other people doesn't mean we have to relax our own moral code to suit other folks wild expectations. |
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