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Ladies be brutal (hair)
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hola, newbie with a question for the ladies (don't hold back)
I've noticed in many (many) profiles ladies are looking for explicitly non-hairy guys
Question; is hair such a turn off and if so why do you feel it is?
Guys (gay) seem to enjoy/look for it (I've actually had a guy recently annoyed I wasn't) but you ladies generally not a lot!
Is it the perception of cleanliness/lack of grooming?
People been with previously have never indicated an issue (usually the opposite) and like all regular people wash relentlessly (min 2 times a day - more in this heat!) hence never previously considered shaving it...
But pretty certain I'll lose it (may make me a dam sight cooler too :D).
Is my perception way off?
What gives? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hear that and always have been. But as per Tinder/bumble (where I get waaay more success, but that's another story) there's an abundance of choice here hence can afford to be picky. Hair seems to be particularly divisive 'at first glance' |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Your perception of way off fella.. i wouldn't shave to make yourself more appealing.. but thats me.
Good luck  "
Cheers. First time ever questioned it in 20 years, here people are more explicit about their preferences. Never experienced or held me back before hence the curiosity |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I love a hairy man 
As long as his "manly" region is at least trimmed. Not a fan of pubes in my mouth.
~Mia"
Veet it is!  to be fair this goes both ways... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I quite like hairy chests 
Trimmed pubes, don't want my nose tickled while I've got my mouth full, a sneeze could be disastrous 
If you shave for the 1St time, in this heat. Chances are the regrowth will itch sooooooooo bad."
That is SOLID advice :D Think I may use the clippers and put away the Mach 3 |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I love a hairy man
As long as his "manly" region is at least trimmed. Not a fan of pubes in my mouth.
~Mia
Veet it is! to be fair this goes both ways..."
My lady garden is bald 95% of the time and trimmed the other 5% 
I like hairy bods just not bushy pubes.
~Mia |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I love a hairy man
As long as his "manly" region is at least trimmed. Not a fan of pubes in my mouth.
~Mia
Veet it is! to be fair this goes both ways...
My lady garden is bald 95% of the time and trimmed the other 5%
I like hairy bods just not bushy pubes.
~Mia"
Perfect |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I personally wouldn't shave my chest for anyone. Mainly because I look weird. just maintain my pubes with a trim and shave my sideburns and balls lol.
I personally think you'd look better with a trim tho OP as your body hair does look quite thick. But definitely don't get the razor out. Men should be a little hairy I reckon. im biased tho as I'm a hairy bearded fucker
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"i like men when they are comfortable with themselves...simples..
What she said. "
definitely agree, this counts more than looks in 80-90% of cases in my experience.
But when the looks are decisive from the outset, useful to get the perspective |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Trimmed chest , smooth back & down below , who wants to shag a silver back gorilla ? 
Ignore my username haha "
Never seen a smooth silver back in the wild |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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one thing that really fucks me off on this site is the hair thing! people have hair..some people have more hair than others...some people have hair in different places to others..some people like to get rid of it, some people dont...do what you want, not what anyone else wants you to do...and anyone who correlates being shaved to being somehow more 'clean' is a moron... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"one thing that really fucks me off on this site is the hair thing! people have hair..some people have more hair than others...some people have hair in different places to others..some people like to get rid of it, some people dont...do what you want, not what anyone else wants you to do...and anyone who correlates being shaved to being somehow more 'clean' is a moron..."
And amen to that! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Trimmed chest , smooth back & down below , who wants to shag a silver back gorilla ?
Ignore my username haha
Never seen a smooth silver back in the wild "
"Trimmed chest , smooth back & down below , who wants to shag a silver back gorilla ? "
Going to sign off. Thanks for the messages and honesty, this nails it.
General takeaways are trim the chest a 'little', lose the back, keep trim down below. Well groomed and clean generally.
We all groom to some extent (else would be a mess). Exercise to keep focussed and feel good, this is similar
I'll trim up to see if it's a feel good else it will quickly return.
Now to put this obscenely hairy body through a cold shower... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"one thing that really fucks me off on this site is the hair thing! people have hair..some people have more hair than others...some people have hair in different places to others..some people like to get rid of it, some people dont...do what you want, not what anyone else wants you to do...and anyone who correlates being shaved to being somehow more 'clean' is a moron..."
Well said! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like a hairy chest and arm pits and facial hair and pubic area, not sack and crack though. It maybe just reminds me of a primal male, but I don't like it over grown just a bit will do.
One of my exs used to shave everywhere!! It was ok but I do prefer a bit of man hair. |
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