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over a year ago
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Mmmmm, I know but it's been me doing the penetrating up until now!!!! I'm so nervous, how do I make sure I'm relaxed enough and can stretch enough to, well you know??? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So, I'm hopefully losing my Anal virginity this week, I'm nervous and would appreciate any advice to clam my nerves. "
Lucky bugger! Ive got no advice other than to enjoy it and go with the flow. Good luck. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This helped me:
The Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Women by Tristan Taormino
Don't think that where anal sex is concerned, there are too many differences between women and men but there may be a male version of a similar book
- Mrs. J - |
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"This helped me:
The Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Women by Tristan Taormino
Don't think that where anal sex is concerned, there are too many differences between women and men but there may be a male version of a similar book
- Mrs. J -"
Think I may take a peek at that! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This helped me:
The Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Women by Tristan Taormino
Don't think that where anal sex is concerned, there are too many differences between women and men but there may be a male version of a similar book
- Mrs. J -
Think I may take a peek at that!"
Please do; I got it from LoveHoney
Very informative and atleast I know that I am doing things right, I guess
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Think about a butt plug to prepare, take your time, lots of foreplay, stretching the sphincters a bit first, take it slow when penetrating with loads of lube.
And it's all in your head- if you think your too tight or it'll hurt, it will. Relax and enjoy yourself xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Mmmmm, I know but it's been me doing the penetrating up until now!!!! I'm so nervous, how do I make sure I'm relaxed enough and can stretch enough to, well you know???"
Wearing a butt plug for several hours before you play, and/or playing solo before the meet to warm up will help. Also relax and use tons of lube! (if you haven't tried j-lube I recommend it highly).
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Mmmmm, I know but it's been me doing the penetrating up until now!!!! I'm so nervous, how do I make sure I'm relaxed enough and can stretch enough to, well you know???
Poppers maybe!"
Poppers is a great suggestion I remember my first time being penetrated lots of lube poppers and a horny and kinky couple with numerous toys! I remember saying ok I can take more as she was using a well lubed dildo and she said your greedy arse has taken it all ![](/icons/s/redface.gif) |
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By *ewrocksWoman
over a year ago
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"Mmmmm, I know but it's been me doing the penetrating up until now!!!! I'm so nervous, how do I make sure I'm relaxed enough and can stretch enough to, well you know???" surely if you're used to giving you should know?
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