or even newbies who wink you, ask for pics, you get a blurry pic, then you send pic back, only to get blocked or no response, or person deletes there profile.

Hate it when people create a profile, they end up full of crap etc.

Few days later, or out of the blue they either block you or delete there profile

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Women and couples are sometimes inundated.

Remember you're a small fish in a big pond like the rest of us. The relaxed non-pushy guys are generally the winners on here so if you do get blocked it could be for a number of reasons that involve neither you or them doing anything wrong. Think of it as a filter.

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I know, hate it when you get blocked for no apparent obvious reason.

A guy blocked me after only messaging each other like 3 or 4 times.

"Straight" guys who say they'd like to meet, but a LOT never do.

Or people who ask for pics and rarely do you ever get a face pic.

or even newbies who wink you, ask for pics, you get a blurry pic, then you send pic back, only to get blocked or no response, or person deletes there profile.

Hate it when people create a profile, they end up full of crap etc.

Few days later, or out of the blue they either block you or delete there profile "

Me thinks you worry too much about how others use the site, really not worth getting frustrated about. Why worry about a complete stranger you're never going to meet? I wouldn't give it a second thought.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

ive blocked ya just for this thread ha

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why do some people ask for guys to message them in their status but have already blocked males from messaging! Teasing"

They've gone through their local list of guys and blocked the ones they don't find attractive/not their type. It's just another useful filter. It's not teasing as all. Move on and find someone else

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why do some people ask for guys to message them in their status but have already blocked males from messaging! Teasing

They've gone through their local list of guys and blocked the ones they don't find attractive/not their type. It's just another useful filter. It's not teasing as all. Move on and find someone else

Another reason all males are blocked is because those ladies/gents, prefer to do the searching and messaging themselves ....only to people they find attractive. It's a great filter for unwanted attention.

I'm sure there's someone out there for you.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Or they just men on their friends list to message them "
this is common, they will be expecting messages from guys they've winked first or something.

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By *oiluvfunMan over a year ago

Penrith

"The relaxed non-pushy guys are generally the winners on here "

Not always, as 'relaxed and non-pushy' can be construed as 'aloof and over-confident'

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By *orthyorkypairCouple over a year ago

North Yorkshire

"The relaxed non-pushy guys are generally the winners on here

Not always, as 'relaxed and non-pushy' can be construed as 'aloof and over-confident'

not by us they are not, pushy guys stand zero chance as do desperados lol

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By *illnatMan over a year ago

wherever i need to be

I was winked at by a couple the other day... checked their profile and messaged back politely thanking them for it.... got a message back then spotted I was blocked when I checked the profile again. In ninja mode so they wouldn't have known I looked twice lol. Why wink then block lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The relaxed non-pushy guys are generally the winners on here

Not always, as 'relaxed and non-pushy' can be construed as 'aloof and over-confident'

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I was winked at by a couple the other day... checked their profile and messaged back politely thanking them for it.... got a message back then spotted I was blocked when I checked the profile again. In ninja mode so they wouldn't have known I looked twice lol. Why wink then block lol"

Had a few of those, it's really odd. Receive a wink, So you write a message. Then you're either blocked or get no reply

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Had a few of those, it's really odd. Receive a wink, So you write a message. Then you're either blocked or get no reply"

Winked by mistake, easy to do on a smart phone with fat fingers!

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Perhaps they like to search for suitable males themselfs

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Had a few of those, it's really odd. Receive a wink, So you write a message. Then you're either blocked or get no reply

Winked by mistake, easy to do on a smart phone with fat fingers!"

Im always pressing the wrong thing on my phone, but having to press 2 different places on the screen to wink by accident on here is abit much. Not having a dig by the way

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Had a few of those, it's really odd. Receive a wink, So you write a message. Then you're either blocked or get no reply"

Could be that the Mrs of the couple winked then after discussion with the Mr they decided against... With a couple that's always two people to deal with and get approval from

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I know, hate it when you get blocked for no apparent obvious reason.

A guy blocked me after only messaging each other like 3 or 4 times.

"Straight" guys who say they'd like to meet, but a LOT never do.

Or people who ask for pics and rarely do you ever get a face pic.

or even newbies who wink you, ask for pics, you get a blurry pic, then you send pic back, only to get blocked or no response, or person deletes there profile.

Hate it when people create a profile, they end up full of crap etc.

Few days later, or out of the blue they either block you or delete there profile

Well said

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By *illnatMan over a year ago

wherever i need to be

Had a few of those, it's really odd. Receive a wink, So you write a message. Then you're either blocked or get no reply

Could be that the Mrs of the couple winked then after discussion with the Mr they decided against... With a couple that's always two people to deal with and get approval from

Very true. Still infuriating lol

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