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over a year ago
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"Hi all
Just wondered how people went about arranging an MFM? Also did you do it in a club?
I'm keen to try an MFM and wondering about logistics. For me I would prefer it to be in a club  "
search couples in your area who display looking for single females they will be plenty to look at  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I just got two friends in a bar and it kinda happened naturally!
Best thing ever. Would love another one."
I don't think someone as sexy as you will have any problems having one  |
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There are mm couples on here, alter search filters to find them, failing that a few of us single guys might be able to call upon a friend.
I have arranged a few mfm for ladies I've met on here.
It is good fun x |
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I find it most hard to arrange having limited free time and childcare arrangements etc
I prefer a club if I'm honest , I meet with my partner for MFM so no one is going to mess with him but as you are a single female a club is best
If they turn up and you aren't keen you can still have a good night and if you play there is the safety of not being in a hotel room alone with two guys you don't know
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi all
Just wondered how people went about arranging an MFM? Also did you do it in a club?
I'm keen to try an MFM and wondering about logistics. For me I would prefer it to be in a club search couples in your area who display looking for single females they will be plenty to look at "
I think you'll find that that would be a MFF. Not what OP is looking for. |
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"Hi all
Just wondered how people went about arranging an MFM? Also did you do it in a club?
I'm keen to try an MFM and wondering about logistics. For me I would prefer it to be in a club "
Why can't you just ask two of the guys you've already met? I'm sure none of them would turn down the offer. |
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By *rixieswTV/TS
over a year ago
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"Hi all
Just wondered how people went about arranging an MFM? Also did you do it in a club?
I'm keen to try an MFM and wondering about logistics. For me I would prefer it to be in a club "
Looking at your profile, I think your biggest problem would be keeping it to just 2 M's?? wow! Stunning. Xx |
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"I saw two handsome young men chatting in a club and I dared to ask them if they would like to join me in a playroom. I was so flattered when they both said yes and we had a great time.
Sally"
Sounds a good idea |
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"Hi all
Just wondered how people went about arranging an MFM? Also did you do it in a club?
I'm keen to try an MFM and wondering about logistics. For me I would prefer it to be in a club
Looking at your profile, I think your biggest problem would be keeping it to just 2 M's?? wow! Stunning. Xx"
Aww thank I'm just average x |
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I find it most hard to arrange having limited free time and childcare arrangements etc
I prefer a club if I'm honest , I meet with my partner for MFM so no one is going to mess with him but as you are a single female a club is best
If they turn up and you aren't keen you can still have a good night and if you play there is the safety of not being in a hotel room alone with two guys you don't know
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Thank you for your good advice  |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
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I have most of my threesomes, foursomes and moresomes in clubs where they usually happen quite spontaneously. Clubs have the advantage that I know the guys are there and I don't have to worry about no shows, and I can see the guys (and they me) before committing to play. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have most of my threesomes, foursomes and moresomes in clubs where they usually happen quite spontaneously. Clubs have the advantage that I know the guys are there and I don't have to worry about no shows, and I can see the guys (and they me) before committing to play."
Reckon that's the best thing to do , as we've had three guys bail out at the last minute |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi all
Just wondered how people went about arranging an MFM? Also did you do it in a club?
I'm keen to try an MFM and wondering about logistics. For me I would prefer it to be in a club
Looking at your profile, I think your biggest problem would be keeping it to just 2 M's?? wow! Stunning. Xx
Aww thank I'm just average x"
Average? Pffft. You're underselling yourself my dear. Trust me, you are stunning in every way with a down to earth personality. Way out of my league. It wont be difficult for you to achieve you goal. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had my first one recently, and loved it. It's really difficult finding 2 men who I'm attracted to, who are willing to share me, and who I can trust. It's so much easier when you're playing as a couple. |
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"I have most of my threesomes, foursomes and moresomes in clubs where they usually happen quite spontaneously. Clubs have the advantage that I know the guys are there and I don't have to worry about no shows, and I can see the guys (and they me) before committing to play."
We have met guys and couples at clubs and gone on from there. Our best outcomes are from a bit of banter/flirting before and then meeting and continuing the interest! Doesn't always happen, sometimes we just aren't attracted to each other, but you then have the option of looking around when you're there! |
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"I had my first one recently, and loved it. It's really difficult finding 2 men who I'm attracted to, who are willing to share me, and who I can trust. It's so much easier when you're playing as a couple."
Trust is always the key and having a connection with both parties, thus making the whole experience fabulous!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I had my first one recently, and loved it. It's really difficult finding 2 men who I'm attracted to, who are willing to share me, and who I can trust. It's so much easier when you're playing as a couple."
This, arranged it with two particularly trusted friends. Loved it. Would like to do again, but see above. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have had a mfm with another girl who we both looked up some guys..
For u best to have a guy u see already and trust....then look for your +1....in a club or off here....and by the way u are way way above average.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thank you for all comments much appreciated.
I have a fwb so just need to sort another m.
Working on it "
just look for another guy ...easy.....you'll get lots of offers!!! |
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"I have had a mfm with another girl who we both looked up some guys..
For u best to have a guy u see already and trust....then look for your +1....in a club or off here....and by the way u are way way above average...."
I'm average but thank you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thank you for all comments much appreciated.
I have a fwb so just need to sort another m.
Working on it
just look for another guy ...easy.....you'll get lots of offers!!!
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including one from me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi all
Just wondered how people went about arranging an MFM? Also did you do it in a club?
I'm keen to try an MFM and wondering about logistics. For me I would prefer it to be in a club "
We done many of mfm and always play in clubs 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi all
Just wondered how people went about arranging an MFM? Also did you do it in a club?
I'm keen to try an MFM and wondering about logistics. For me I would prefer it to be in a club
We done many of mfm and always play in clubs
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clubs are good....or a social first then.......;-) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thank you for all comments much appreciated.
I have a fwb so just need to sort another m.
Working on it "
Best way. Least you can carefully choose. In a club I'd say you tend to left your filters down in the heat of the moment. But then for many this risk is acceptable and works for them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi all
Just wondered how people went about arranging an MFM? Also did you do it in a club?
I'm keen to try an MFM and wondering about logistics. For me I would prefer it to be in a club "
Back earlier this year I surprised C by picking her up from the airport when she came back from a trip abroad and took her to a hotel.
There we both showered and I gave her some purchases from Love Honey to put on, then blindfolded her.
On time I got a text and went down stairs to let the chap in.
He then washed as we waited.
In silence we both explored C's body and had a superbly sexually charged couple of hours, all this time she had no idea what he looked like but very much knew who was who.
Logistically it wasn't too difficult to arrange, three guys dropped out leaving us with the cream, as it were.
Verifications were important in helping me to choose a guy who would turn up and was considerate and had stamina.
It's her turn to arrange something for me but I'm not holding my breath as arranging a MMF is way easier. |
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"Hi all
Just wondered how people went about arranging an MFM? Also did you do it in a club?
I'm keen to try an MFM and wondering about logistics. For me I would prefer it to be in a club "
Have met couple at club and then gone back to their house for after party mfm. Was horny as he videoed his wife giving me bj!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi all
Just wondered how people went about arranging an MFM? Also did you do it in a club?
I'm keen to try an MFM and wondering about logistics. For me I would prefer it to be in a club
Have met couple at club and then gone back to their house for after party mfm. Was horny as he videoed his wife giving me bj!!!"
I like that...love being watched/filmed etc... |
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"Hi all
Just wondered how people went about arranging an MFM? Also did you do it in a club?
I'm keen to try an MFM and wondering about logistics. For me I would prefer it to be in a club
Back earlier this year I surprised C by picking her up from the airport when she came back from a trip abroad and took her to a hotel.
There we both showered and I gave her some purchases from Love Honey to put on, then blindfolded her.
On time I got a text and went down stairs to let the chap in.
He then washed as we waited.
In silence we both explored C's body and had a superbly sexually charged couple of hours, all this time she had no idea what he looked like but very much knew who was who.
Logistically it wasn't too difficult to arrange, three guys dropped out leaving us with the cream, as it were.
Verifications were important in helping me to choose a guy who would turn up and was considerate and had stamina.
It's her turn to arrange something for me but I'm not holding my breath as arranging a MMF is way easier. "
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"Hi all
Just wondered how people went about arranging an MFM? Also did you do it in a club?
I'm keen to try an MFM and wondering about logistics. For me I would prefer it to be in a club
Back earlier this year I surprised C by picking her up from the airport when she came back from a trip abroad and took her to a hotel.
There we both showered and I gave her some purchases from Love Honey to put on, then blindfolded her.
On time I got a text and went down stairs to let the chap in.
He then washed as we waited.
In silence we both explored C's body and had a superbly sexually charged couple of hours, all this time she had no idea what he looked like but very much knew who was who.
Logistically it wasn't too difficult to arrange, three guys dropped out leaving us with the cream, as it were.
Verifications were important in helping me to choose a guy who would turn up and was considerate and had stamina.
It's her turn to arrange something for me but I'm not holding my breath as arranging a MMF is way easier.
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Very good! |
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"Hi all
Just wondered how people went about arranging an MFM? Also did you do it in a club?
I'm keen to try an MFM and wondering about logistics. For me I would prefer it to be in a club
We done many of mfm and always play in clubs
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I think clubs are the only way to meet |
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"Hi all
Just wondered how people went about arranging an MFM? Also did you do it in a club?
I'm keen to try an MFM and wondering about logistics. For me I would prefer it to be in a club
We done many of mfm and always play in clubs
I think clubs are the only way to meet "
Initially! |
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We did our first in Cupids a little while back. We had met the guy there by chance previously socialsing at the bar. On that occasion the opportunity to play wasn't there for us all. So we arranged on a different date. It worked well and lead to a repeat meet a few weeks later.
Personally, we'd follow that same process in the future.
As a single lady, maybe if you bumped into different guys on different occasions that would work, or invite a guy you already know and trust?
MrB |
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"We did our first in Cupids a little while back. We had met the guy there by chance previously socialsing at the bar. On that occasion the opportunity to play wasn't there for us all. So we arranged on a different date. It worked well and lead to a repeat meet a few weeks later.
Personally, we'd follow that same process in the future.
As a single lady, maybe if you bumped into different guys on different occasions that would work, or invite a guy you already know and trust?
MrB"
Cupids was where I met my couple. Great place! |
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"We did our first in Cupids a little while back. We had met the guy there by chance previously socialsing at the bar. On that occasion the opportunity to play wasn't there for us all. So we arranged on a different date. It worked well and lead to a repeat meet a few weeks later.
Personally, we'd follow that same process in the future.
As a single lady, maybe if you bumped into different guys on different occasions that would work, or invite a guy you already know and trust?
MrB"
Thanks great advice I love Cupids my favourite club |
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"We did our first in Cupids a little while back. We had met the guy there by chance previously socialsing at the bar. On that occasion the opportunity to play wasn't there for us all. So we arranged on a different date. It worked well and lead to a repeat meet a few weeks later.
Personally, we'd follow that same process in the future.
As a single lady, maybe if you bumped into different guys on different occasions that would work, or invite a guy you already know and trust?
MrB
Cupids was where I met my couple. Great place!"
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"Done this in clubs a few times but we are looking for someone to join us on a more regular basis. Not so easy x
Yes I can understand that
You really shouldn't have any trouble finding a mfm!"
I'm average so yes I do but thanks |
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"Hi all
Just wondered how people went about arranging an MFM? Also did you do it in a club?
I'm keen to try an MFM and wondering about logistics. For me I would prefer it to be in a club "
We invited my partner's work colleague join us for an evening. She no longer works for the same firm, but we're still in touch.
J |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Done this in clubs a few times but we are looking for someone to join us on a more regular basis. Not so easy x
Yes I can understand that
You really shouldn't have any trouble finding a mfm!
I'm average so yes I do but thanks "
Well I'm in so we just need one more |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I too, really struggle to find men for a MFM. Everyone thinks it's so easy for single fems, if only. It's so much easier for s duplex to find one single man than a woman to find 2 willing males. After being involved in swinging for 4 years, I've still only ever managed one MFM. Really wanting more. |
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"Hi all
Just wondered how people went about arranging an MFM? Also did you do it in a club?
I'm keen to try an MFM and wondering about logistics. For me I would prefer it to be in a club
We done many of mfm and always play in clubs
I think clubs are the only way to meet
Initially!"
True, but we still find the buzz at Clubs helps |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Was going to inbox you but I notice your age filters are set low. Myself and a friend of mine can definitely help you out. Contact me if you're interested. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Easy go to chams, most nights your find single guys or even couples that would love to accommodate a mmf with you. Go on a Tuesday I'm sure your have fun.
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By (user no longer on site)
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I would imagine it's quite difficult for a single women to arrange an mfm privately. Whereas we have a few trusted friends whom I either meet alone or for threesomes with Mr, I suspect it would not go down too well if I asked 2 of our playmates to join just me at the same time. After all it's one thing a single man sharing me with my husband, but quite another asking a single man to share me with another single man at the same time. Parties are different though. Anything can happen at parties.
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"I too, really struggle to find men for a MFM. Everyone thinks it's so easy for single fems, if only. It's so much easier for s duplex to find one single man than a woman to find 2 willing males. After being involved in swinging for 4 years, I've still only ever managed one MFM. Really wanting more."
If only it was that easy for men and or women, finding like minded people is quite a mission and can get quite frustrating at times! |
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"Hi all
Just wondered how people went about arranging an MFM? Also did you do it in a club?
I'm keen to try an MFM and wondering about logistics. For me I would prefer it to be in a club "
We found a guy who Mrs thought looked ok and had some verifactions. Started chatting with him, met him at a club and had a fab night!
Wouldn't have done it anywhere else but a club though, for us it feels safer. |
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