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"Heres a question for you. Why do you feel the need to mention your muslim. " Because this is haram to a muslim | |||
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"Heres a question for you. Why do you feel the need to mention your muslim. " Didn't want to come across as inciting anything "anti muslim" by just asking, although I guess it would be obvious wouldn't it | |||
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"Why is someone's faith relevant, at all? There are no similar threads about Protestant or Catholic swingers. Or Sikh or Hindu swingers! Islam is just another religion, albeit one with very bad press, in recent history. You're either attractive, or you're not. If you're not, laying it at the door of your religion is something of a cop-out, isn't it?" | |||
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"Heres a question for you. Why do you feel the need to mention your muslim. Didn't want to come across as inciting anything "anti muslim" by just asking, although I guess it would be obvious wouldn't it " but what has someones religion got to do with swinging. Do you ask peoples religion. | |||
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"Heres a question for you. Why do you feel the need to mention your muslim. " Now that is a great question. Attention seeking comes to mind. | |||
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"Before I say anything, yes I am muslim, I know I shouldn't be on here and yes, I can't drink water at the moment :P My question to you guys and gals (and I have been asking a lot lately), are muslims considered attractive om here to some people? I know I'll get a few unpleasant responses, so don't hold back, but your thoughts and such are greatly appreciated " Why do you feel the need to keep posting threads about Asians/ Muslims. Are you trying to cause a problem or arguments. Like said on all your other posts there someone for everyone on here. Some like blondes some like red heads some like black people some like Asians. It really doesn't matter who or what you are there will be lovers and haters. Stop making such a issue over your faith and race and spent more time showing the person you really are. | |||
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"And yes, I'm Muslim, by the way." I'd love to see what's going on under your burkha then. All we'd see is those eyes and we'd think she's probably wearing a pair of brigit jones pants and Wynceyette PJs, but we'd be wrong it would be a rubber cat suit and knee highs. mmmmmmmmm | |||
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"The reason I posted this post was, well, I've had my fair share of abuse online, in general, and I just wanted to know the waters on here, sorry for annoying you guys, was never my intention" One thread would of been enough but this is you second thread in 4 days on the subject. Everyone gets some sort of abuse on here. Rise above it block the ones who do and enjoy your time on here. The narrow mind haters really are not worth worrying about. Plus all these threads do is bring more attention to your race/ religion | |||
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"We are Catholics; we shouldn't be here either; but we don't need the opinion of strangers to decide what we should or should not do - Mrs. J -" There's the voice of reason! Xxxx | |||
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"And yes, I'm Muslim, by the way." | |||
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"We are Catholics; we shouldn't be here either; but we don't need the opinion of strangers to decide what we should or should not do - Mrs. J -" It's none of my business if you don't feel like answering this, but do you go to confession? | |||
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"And yes, I'm Muslim, by the way. I'd love to see what's going on under your burkha then. All we'd see is those eyes and we'd think she's probably wearing a pair of brigit jones pants and Wynceyette PJs, but we'd be wrong it would be a rubber cat suit and knee highs. mmmmmmmmm " | |||
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"We are Catholics; we shouldn't be here either; but we don't need the opinion of strangers to decide what we should or should not do - Mrs. J - It's none of my business if you don't feel like answering this, but do you go to confession? " Nope; that will mean confessing to our Parish priest and we know what he is going to tell us We will take our chances on Judgement Day. It is not all about the sins but the balance between those and the good deeds. Atleast, we hope so - Mrs. J - | |||
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"It is called a preference" What is called a 'preference'? I trust you don't go around asking people what faith they follow Whilst I can understand a lot of preferences, this frankly, cannot possibly matter, as far as sex is concerned - Mrs. J - | |||
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"Why is someone's faith relevant, at all? There are no similar threads about Protestant or Catholic swingers. Or Sikh or Hindu swingers! Islam is just another religion, albeit one with very bad press, in recent history. You're either attractive, or you're not. If you're not, laying it at the door of your religion is something of a cop-out, isn't it?" Great answer !! | |||
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"It is called a preference What is called a 'preference'? I trust you don't go around asking people what faith they follow Whilst I can understand a lot of preferences, this frankly, cannot possibly matter, as far as sex is concerned - Mrs. J -" Yes, a preference of what someone else like and some might take religion into account. | |||
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"Before I say anything, yes I am muslim, I know I shouldn't be on here and yes, I can't drink water at the moment :P My question to you guys and gals (and I have been asking a lot lately), are muslims considered attractive om here to some people? I know I'll get a few unpleasant responses, so don't hold back, but your thoughts and such are greatly appreciated " Zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz | |||
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"It is called a preference What is called a 'preference'? I trust you don't go around asking people what faith they follow Whilst I can understand a lot of preferences, this frankly, cannot possibly matter, as far as sex is concerned - Mrs. J -Yes, a preference of what someone else like and some might take religion into account." OK. But if someone in a swingers club asked us what faith we follow, the answer from us will be, "fuck off". Just for clarification, "fuck off" is not a faith - Mrs. J - | |||
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"Heres a question for you. Why do you feel the need to mention your muslim. " he's always starting threads about it, attention seeking I'd say | |||
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"It is called a preference What is called a 'preference'? I trust you don't go around asking people what faith they follow Whilst I can understand a lot of preferences, this frankly, cannot possibly matter, as far as sex is concerned - Mrs. J -Yes, a preference of what someone else like and some might take religion into account. OK. But if someone in a swingers club asked us what faith we follow, the answer from us will be, "fuck off". Just for clarification, "fuck off" is not a faith - Mrs. J -" That is right too and maibe they wouldnt go to a club as they had to be sure what faith they were, so a 1 to 1 would be better. | |||
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"It is called a preference What is called a 'preference'? I trust you don't go around asking people what faith they follow Whilst I can understand a lot of preferences, this frankly, cannot possibly matter, as far as sex is concerned - Mrs. J -Yes, a preference of what someone else like and some might take religion into account. OK. But if someone in a swingers club asked us what faith we follow, the answer from us will be, "fuck off". Just for clarification, "fuck off" is not a faith - Mrs. J -That is right too and maibe they wouldnt go to a club as they had to be sure what faith they were, so a 1 to 1 would be better." Please don't be offended, but is English your second language? - Mrs. J - | |||
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"And yes, I'm Muslim, by the way." without causing offence how can you be a Muslim and be on a swingers site.casual sex especially as a woman is a big no no to Islam and thats putting it lightly.surely that's a case of having your cake and eating it, can't have it both ways? And yes that goes for all the other religions out there before someone tries to point that out lol. | |||
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"It is called a preference What is called a 'preference'? I trust you don't go around asking people what faith they follow Whilst I can understand a lot of preferences, this frankly, cannot possibly matter, as far as sex is concerned - Mrs. J -Yes, a preference of what someone else like and some might take religion into account. OK. But if someone in a swingers club asked us what faith we follow, the answer from us will be, "fuck off". Just for clarification, "fuck off" is not a faith - Mrs. J -That is right too and maibe they wouldnt go to a club as they had to be sure what faith they were, so a 1 to 1 would be better. Please don't be offended, but is English your second language? - Mrs. J -" Yes it is, so you dont understand the reply then? It is pretty obvious what is said there. | |||
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"We are Catholics; we shouldn't be here either; but we don't need the opinion of strangers to decide what we should or should not do - Mrs. J - It's none of my business if you don't feel like answering this, but do you go to confession? Nope; that will mean confessing to our Parish priest and we know what he is going to tell us We will take our chances on Judgement Day. It is not all about the sins but the balance between those and the good deeds. Atleast, we hope so - Mrs. J - " You don't need to confess at the same place you attend mass. You may be surprised by how much a lot of priests don't care. | |||
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"If it helps resolve your dilemma. Rumi led us into swinging so we're here as a direct result of a spiritual awakening. Is swinging spiritual? In most cases it isn't as it's far too preoccupied with the superficial. But that doesn't mean there aren't people out there looking for something more connecting and soulful. Is there much of a spiritual swinging community? If there is we haven't found it. The odd person has messaged us with a similar outlook but so far they've tended to live a million miles away. So... If you're just looking to swing and are wondering if people mind if you're religious the best solution is just not to mention it as many swingers are quite allergic to organised religion. If you're wondering if there are spiritual swingers out there... there are a very few (maybe just us) so you're best putting out feelers and being a bit hippy with it. If what's really going on is you're worried that swinging may not be compatible with your faith and your hoping everyone else welcomes you in and says it's cool... just go back to Rumi and reflect on what "spiritual swinging" means to you. God's beauty is everywhere. Rumi urges us to get d*unk on that beauty. I see nothing unspiritual in that whatsoever " Don't know Rumi, but like you I'm spiritual. This evolution has led me to be liberated from organised religion and the chains of social conventions. And into swinging. | |||
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"It is called a preference What is called a 'preference'? I trust you don't go around asking people what faith they follow Whilst I can understand a lot of preferences, this frankly, cannot possibly matter, as far as sex is concerned - Mrs. J -Yes, a preference of what someone else like and some might take religion into account. OK. But if someone in a swingers club asked us what faith we follow, the answer from us will be, "fuck off". Just for clarification, "fuck off" is not a faith - Mrs. J -" why would you be insulted if someone asked you which faith you followed? I wouldint feel insulted if someone asked my favorite movie genre's . | |||
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"We are Catholics; we shouldn't be here either; but we don't need the opinion of strangers to decide what we should or should not do - Mrs. J - It's none of my business if you don't feel like answering this, but do you go to confession? Nope; that will mean confessing to our Parish priest and we know what he is going to tell us We will take our chances on Judgement Day. It is not all about the sins but the balance between those and the good deeds. Atleast, we hope so - Mrs. J - You don't need to confess at the same place you attend mass. You may be surprised by how much a lot of priests don't care. " We know. Just that it does not seem right to have recreational sex, then confess, do penance, ask for forgiveness and then repeat step 1 We'll take our chances with Jesus and not with his clerical staff on Earth - Mrs. J - | |||
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"Whos Rumi ?" He was a 13th century Islamic mystic/poet who wrote some of the most beautiful poetry lusting after the beauty of god. We've got a quote of his on our profile at the moment. As this thread bears witness to, most spiritual people get into swinging despite their spiritual views, and so would rather ignore or not mention them. Very few get into it because of them. Time travel back to the 70s and I dare say you'd find the opposite | |||
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"It is called a preference What is called a 'preference'? I trust you don't go around asking people what faith they follow Whilst I can understand a lot of preferences, this frankly, cannot possibly matter, as far as sex is concerned - Mrs. J -Yes, a preference of what someone else like and some might take religion into account. OK. But if someone in a swingers club asked us what faith we follow, the answer from us will be, "fuck off". Just for clarification, "fuck off" is not a faith - Mrs. J -why would you be insulted if someone asked you which faith you followed? I wouldint feel insulted if someone asked my favorite movie genre's ." Didn't say we would be insulted; but in our opinion, only a moron would ask questions about religion and faith in a swingers club before deciding whether they want to have sex Anyway, you do what you like; we'll do what we like - Mrs. J - | |||
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"Don't know Rumi, but like you I'm spiritual. This evolution has led me to be liberated from organised religion and the chains of social conventions. And into swinging." Ditto Always lovely to find one more of us oddballs out there | |||
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"We are Catholics; we shouldn't be here either; but we don't need the opinion of strangers to decide what we should or should not do - Mrs. J - It's none of my business if you don't feel like answering this, but do you go to confession? Nope; that will mean confessing to our Parish priest and we know what he is going to tell us We will take our chances on Judgement Day. It is not all about the sins but the balance between those and the good deeds. Atleast, we hope so - Mrs. J - You don't need to confess at the same place you attend mass. You may be surprised by how much a lot of priests don't care. We know. Just that it does not seem right to have recreational sex, then confess, do penance, ask for forgiveness and then repeat step 1 We'll take our chances with Jesus and not with his clerical staff on Earth - Mrs. J -" All i'll say is that most sin works that way whether it's recreational sex or otherwise. | |||
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"without causing offence how can you be a Muslim and be on a swingers site.casual sex especially as a woman is a big no no to Islam and thats putting it lightly.surely that's a case of having your cake and eating it, can't have it both ways? And yes that goes for all the other religions out there before someone tries to point that out lol." I normally hate these type of threads because they're just going to cause arguments all because someone can't deal with the fact someone doesn't find them attractive so they blame everything but themselves. Regards to the quote above - with the greatest respect but surely that's none of your business how someone conducts their faith? If someone wants to pick and choose parts of their religion to follow then that's upto them. Muslims are slated in the media for following their religion too much and here we have them being slated for not following it enough. Also not to mention people getting baptised/married in churched yet never attending church in their lives? Lol. Surely it's all about live and let live. | |||
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"We are Catholics; we shouldn't be here either; but we don't need the opinion of strangers to decide what we should or should not do - Mrs. J - It's none of my business if you don't feel like answering this, but do you go to confession? Nope; that will mean confessing to our Parish priest and we know what he is going to tell us We will take our chances on Judgement Day. It is not all about the sins but the balance between those and the good deeds. Atleast, we hope so - Mrs. J - " Meh, the religion or detity in question doesn't matter so much, one thing they ALL have in common is what is in effect a "handbook". What pisses *us* off is people who do NOT obey the handbook 100%, and yet still claim to be that thing, no, you're not, it's like Harold Shipman claiming he is a doctor because he was in tune with 99% of the hippocratic oath, he just didn't do that thing about craven images, or was it thou shalt not kill etc. I've lived abroad in muslim countries, islam there and islam here is not the same, nor are those who claim to be islamic, but then again I could say *exactly* the same thing about christians and bhuddists etc etc etc. if you want to fuck someone who is muslim / christian / noodle monster / kekifarian go ahead, nobody else gives a shit. speaking personally we tend to avoid everyone who introduces themselves with a fucking label, be it feminist or conservative or muslim or pastafarian, these should all be deeply personal and private things that someone can know and work with your for years and neither know nor care. I', impartial, I'll dislike the muslim claiming ramadan breaks who smokes and drinks alcohol and eats bacon sarnies just as much as the non smoker who thinks they can vape everywhere, what they all have in common is hypocricy... and that's the real sin and the real thing that makes you sexually and otherwise unnatractive to others. I'm an atheist, and the true meaning of that is that we think anyone who believes in any religion is mentally retarded, however, we respect your right to your beleifs, provided you reciprocate. You may as well try to classify people morally and sexually on the basis of whether they have a Tesco clubcard. | |||
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"It is called a preference What is called a 'preference'? I trust you don't go around asking people what faith they follow Whilst I can understand a lot of preferences, this frankly, cannot possibly matter, as far as sex is concerned - Mrs. J -Yes, a preference of what someone else like and some might take religion into account." Religion has no more bearing on sexual ability than say, having blonde hair and big tits. | |||
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"It is called a preference What is called a 'preference'? I trust you don't go around asking people what faith they follow Whilst I can understand a lot of preferences, this frankly, cannot possibly matter, as far as sex is concerned - Mrs. J -Yes, a preference of what someone else like and some might take religion into account. Religion has no more bearing on sexual ability than say, having blonde hair and big tits. " That is right too, but it might be to some. | |||
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"It is called a preference What is called a 'preference'? I trust you don't go around asking people what faith they follow Whilst I can understand a lot of preferences, this frankly, cannot possibly matter, as far as sex is concerned - Mrs. J -Yes, a preference of what someone else like and some might take religion into account. Religion has no more bearing on sexual ability than say, having blonde hair and big tits. That is right too, but it might be to some." Ok, here we go. Please tell me how your religion changes the way you have sex. Please tell me how having blonde hair changes the way you have sex. Please tell me how having big tits changes the way you have sex. | |||
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"It is called a preference What is called a 'preference'? I trust you don't go around asking people what faith they follow Whilst I can understand a lot of preferences, this frankly, cannot possibly matter, as far as sex is concerned - Mrs. J -Yes, a preference of what someone else like and some might take religion into account. Religion has no more bearing on sexual ability than say, having blonde hair and big tits. That is right too, but it might be to some. Ok, here we go. Please tell me how your religion changes the way you have sex. Please tell me how having blonde hair changes the way you have sex. Please tell me how having big tits changes the way you have sex." It is not about me. I said it as someone else have preferences. | |||
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"We are Catholics; we shouldn't be here either; but we don't need the opinion of strangers to decide what we should or should not do - Mrs. J - It's none of my business if you don't feel like answering this, but do you go to confession? Nope; that will mean confessing to our Parish priest and we know what he is going to tell us We will take our chances on Judgement Day. It is not all about the sins but the balance between those and the good deeds. Atleast, we hope so - Mrs. J - Meh, the religion or detity in question doesn't matter so much, one thing they ALL have in common is what is in effect a "handbook". What pisses *us* off is people who do NOT obey the handbook 100%, and yet still claim to be that thing, no, you're not, it's like Harold Shipman claiming he is a doctor because he was in tune with 99% of the hippocratic oath, he just didn't do that thing about craven images, or was it thou shalt not kill etc. I've lived abroad in muslim countries, islam there and islam here is not the same, nor are those who claim to be islamic, but then again I could say *exactly* the same thing about christians and bhuddists etc etc etc. if you want to fuck someone who is muslim / christian / noodle monster / kekifarian go ahead, nobody else gives a shit. speaking personally we tend to avoid everyone who introduces themselves with a fucking label, be it feminist or conservative or muslim or pastafarian, these should all be deeply personal and private things that someone can know and work with your for years and neither know nor care. I', impartial, I'll dislike the muslim claiming ramadan breaks who smokes and drinks alcohol and eats bacon sarnies just as much as the non smoker who thinks they can vape everywhere, what they all have in common is hypocricy... and that's the real sin and the real thing that makes you sexually and otherwise unnatractive to others. I'm an atheist, and the true meaning of that is that we think anyone who believes in any religion is mentally retarded, however, we respect your right to your beleifs, provided you reciprocate. You may as well try to classify people morally and sexually on the basis of whether they have a Tesco clubcard. " By definition, the only people who use religion as a handbook are fundamentalists. For the vast majority of religious people, the handbook idea shows complete misunderstanding of what religion is. If you think that fundamentalists are the only truly religious people then you have more in common with them than i do. | |||
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"It is called a preference What is called a 'preference'? I trust you don't go around asking people what faith they follow Whilst I can understand a lot of preferences, this frankly, cannot possibly matter, as far as sex is concerned - Mrs. J -Yes, a preference of what someone else like and some might take religion into account. Religion has no more bearing on sexual ability than say, having blonde hair and big tits. That is right too, but it might be to some. Ok, here we go. Please tell me how your religion changes the way you have sex. Please tell me how having blonde hair changes the way you have sex. Please tell me how having big tits changes the way you have sex.It is not about me. I said it as someone else have preferences." Lol. Wind up merchant. | |||
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"By definition, the only people who use religion as a handbook are fundamentalists. For the vast majority of religious people, the handbook idea shows complete misunderstanding of what religion is. If you think that fundamentalists are the only truly religious people then you have more in common with them than i do. " | |||
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" By definition, the only people who use religion as a handbook are fundamentalists. For the vast majority of religious people, the handbook idea shows complete misunderstanding of what religion is. If you think that fundamentalists are the only truly religious people then you have more in common with them than i do. " Meh, I can be any one of 427,631 genders as I type, it's constantly changing and in flux you see, and has nothing whatsoever to do with my chromosomes. So people who adhere to $thing$ are fundies, and are therefore not true $thingians$, because that title is reserved for those who do not adhere to $thing$ and just use it as a style guide when it suits them. Do you have any idea how nonsensical your statement was? Let me guess, you class yourself as "religious"? | |||
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"Well i'm a Jedi so if people hold it against me that's their problem." How big is your 'light' sabre? - Mrs. J - | |||
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"It is called a preference What is called a 'preference'? I trust you don't go around asking people what faith they follow Whilst I can understand a lot of preferences, this frankly, cannot possibly matter, as far as sex is concerned - Mrs. J -Yes, a preference of what someone else like and some might take religion into account." I'd call that bigoted myself | |||
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" By definition, the only people who use religion as a handbook are fundamentalists. For the vast majority of religious people, the handbook idea shows complete misunderstanding of what religion is. If you think that fundamentalists are the only truly religious people then you have more in common with them than i do. Meh, I can be any one of 427,631 genders as I type, it's constantly changing and in flux you see, and has nothing whatsoever to do with my chromosomes. So people who adhere to $thing$ are fundies, and are therefore not true $thingians$, because that title is reserved for those who do not adhere to $thing$ and just use it as a style guide when it suits them. Do you have any idea how nonsensical your statement was? Let me guess, you class yourself as "religious"? " Defintion of a fundamentalist: 'a person who believes in the strict, literal interpretation of scripture in a religion". There's your handbook for you. For everyone else there's common sense. | |||
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"We are Catholics; we shouldn't be here either; but we don't need the opinion of strangers to decide what we should or should not do - Mrs. J - It's none of my business if you don't feel like answering this, but do you go to confession? Nope; that will mean confessing to our Parish priest and we know what he is going to tell us We will take our chances on Judgement Day. It is not all about the sins but the balance between those and the good deeds. Atleast, we hope so - Mrs. J - Meh, the religion or detity in question doesn't matter so much, one thing they ALL have in common is what is in effect a "handbook". What pisses *us* off is people who do NOT obey the handbook 100%, and yet still claim to be that thing, no, you're not, it's like Harold Shipman claiming he is a doctor because he was in tune with 99% of the hippocratic oath, he just didn't do that thing about craven images, or was it thou shalt not kill etc. I've lived abroad in muslim countries, islam there and islam here is not the same, nor are those who claim to be islamic, but then again I could say *exactly* the same thing about christians and bhuddists etc etc etc. if you want to fuck someone who is muslim / christian / noodle monster / kekifarian go ahead, nobody else gives a shit. speaking personally we tend to avoid everyone who introduces themselves with a fucking label, be it feminist or conservative or muslim or pastafarian, these should all be deeply personal and private things that someone can know and work with your for years and neither know nor care. I', impartial, I'll dislike the muslim claiming ramadan breaks who smokes and drinks alcohol and eats bacon sarnies just as much as the non smoker who thinks they can vape everywhere, what they all have in common is hypocricy... and that's the real sin and the real thing that makes you sexually and otherwise unnatractive to others. I'm an atheist, and the true meaning of that is that we think anyone who believes in any religion is mentally retarded, however, we respect your right to your beleifs, provided you reciprocate. You may as well try to classify people morally and sexually on the basis of whether they have a Tesco clubcard. " It is simply not up to you to tell anyone what they are or what they are not. Just as we don't tell atheists what to do and what not to do - Mrs. J - | |||
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" By definition, the only people who use religion as a handbook are fundamentalists. For the vast majority of religious people, the handbook idea shows complete misunderstanding of what religion is. If you think that fundamentalists are the only truly religious people then you have more in common with them than i do. Meh, I can be any one of 427,631 genders as I type, it's constantly changing and in flux you see, and has nothing whatsoever to do with my chromosomes. So people who adhere to $thing$ are fundies, and are therefore not true $thingians$, because that title is reserved for those who do not adhere to $thing$ and just use it as a style guide when it suits them. Do you have any idea how nonsensical your statement was? Let me guess, you class yourself as "religious"? Defintion of a fundamentalist: 'a person who believes in the strict, literal interpretation of scripture in a religion". There's your handbook for you. For everyone else there's common sense. " - Mrs. J - | |||
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"It is called a preference What is called a 'preference'? I trust you don't go around asking people what faith they follow Whilst I can understand a lot of preferences, this frankly, cannot possibly matter, as far as sex is concerned - Mrs. J -Yes, a preference of what someone else like and some might take religion into account. I'd call that bigoted myself " lol. | |||
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"It is called a preference What is called a 'preference'? I trust you don't go around asking people what faith they follow Whilst I can understand a lot of preferences, this frankly, cannot possibly matter, as far as sex is concerned - Mrs. J -Yes, a preference of what someone else like and some might take religion into account. I'd call that bigoted myself " Totally agree | |||
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"Before I say anything, yes I am muslim, I know I shouldn't be on here and yes, I can't drink water at the moment :P My question to you guys and gals (and I have been asking a lot lately), are muslims considered attractive om here to some people? I know I'll get a few unpleasant responses, so don't hold back, but your thoughts and such are greatly appreciated " I find intelligent people attractive. I don't find Muslims attractive. | |||
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"It is called a preference What is called a 'preference'? I trust you don't go around asking people what faith they follow Whilst I can understand a lot of preferences, this frankly, cannot possibly matter, as far as sex is concerned - Mrs. J -Yes, a preference of what someone else like and some might take religion into account. I'd call that bigoted myself Totally agree " That is because we are talking about a certain religion, as we know it is political correctness lol. | |||
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"We are Catholics; we shouldn't be here either; but we don't need the opinion of strangers to decide what we should or should not do - Mrs. J - It's none of my business if you don't feel like answering this, but do you go to confession? Nope; that will mean confessing to our Parish priest and we know what he is going to tell us We will take our chances on Judgement Day. It is not all about the sins but the balance between those and the good deeds. Atleast, we hope so - Mrs. J - Meh, the religion or detity in question doesn't matter so much, one thing they ALL have in common is what is in effect a "handbook". What pisses *us* off is people who do NOT obey the handbook 100%, and yet still claim to be that thing, no, you're not, it's like Harold Shipman claiming he is a doctor because he was in tune with 99% of the hippocratic oath, he just didn't do that thing about craven images, or was it thou shalt not kill etc. I've lived abroad in muslim countries, islam there and islam here is not the same, nor are those who claim to be islamic, but then again I could say *exactly* the same thing about christians and bhuddists etc etc etc. if you want to fuck someone who is muslim / christian / noodle monster / kekifarian go ahead, nobody else gives a shit. speaking personally we tend to avoid everyone who introduces themselves with a fucking label, be it feminist or conservative or muslim or pastafarian, these should all be deeply personal and private things that someone can know and work with your for years and neither know nor care. I', impartial, I'll dislike the muslim claiming ramadan breaks who smokes and drinks alcohol and eats bacon sarnies just as much as the non smoker who thinks they can vape everywhere, what they all have in common is hypocricy... and that's the real sin and the real thing that makes you sexually and otherwise unnatractive to others. I'm an atheist, and the true meaning of that is that we think anyone who believes in any religion is mentally retarded, however, we respect your right to your beleifs, provided you reciprocate. You may as well try to classify people morally and sexually on the basis of whether they have a Tesco clubcard. " THIS 100% fyi Tesco was my church, and then I saw the light, discovered the error of my ways, until one night a voice whispered Aldi in my ear, and I've been worshipping their ever since | |||
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"As this thread shows, if everyone keeps there opinions to themselves then we can all enjoy mindless disconnected sex with each other. If they don't then spiritual people pretty quickly find atheists ugly and vice versa. If you're not seeking mindless disconnected sex then it's entirely feasible that atheists would seek out atheists and spiritual would seek out spiritual. It's just one of those basic areas of compatibility and incompatibility between people " We only find judgemental people ugly - Mrs. J - | |||
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"As this thread shows, if everyone keeps there opinions to themselves then we can all enjoy mindless disconnected sex with each other. If they don't then spiritual people pretty quickly find atheists ugly and vice versa. If you're not seeking mindless disconnected sex then it's entirely feasible that atheists would seek out atheists and spiritual would seek out spiritual. It's just one of those basic areas of compatibility and incompatibility between people We only find judgemental people ugly - Mrs. J -" | |||
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" Defintion of a fundamentalist: 'a person who believes in the strict, literal interpretation of scripture in a religion". There's your handbook for you. For everyone else there's common sense. " So there is, for example, the strict literal interpretation of consent and so on, and for everyone else there is "common sense", which means each individual moves the goalposts to wherever it suits them... Your "argument" is utterly debunked by simple substitution, and any argument that can be debunked by substitution is fallacious at best. For example in this very thread we have a poster claiming he is a Jedi, his statement is treated *totally* differently to those claiming to be muslim, or catholic, or atheist, ergo it is not the case, as you all claim, that all religious beliefs are equal and irellevant on a swingers site, if the thread had been started by someone who belived in Kek and Kekistani freedom (google it) it would have been totally different. Ergo we are not talking about religion at all, we are talking about what we as individuals ascribe to certain religions, being muslim therefore provides some sort of mental connection to suicide bombers and manchester. Notably the OP did not state "I'm a pretty lapsed muslim and I was wondering if the manchester suicide bomber thing is likely to affect my chances of getting laid on here" If he has the answer would have been "probably" from some, in just the same way as professing a love for Arsenal or bareback will get you a "probably" answer from some. Terrorism in the Uk is currently a muslim issue, as true a statement as saying the IRA bombings in the UK were then currently a catholic issue. The inference is that only a "radical" or "extreme" catholic or muslim will ever become a terrorist bomber, eg a "fundamentalist" who obeys *all* the tenets of that religion to the letter. The facts of course are quite contrary to this. Which brings us right back to the OP's question and quandary, and the real reason there will be a lot of unsaid stuff, he is clearly a "bad" muslim just as the catholics on here are "bad" from the fundie POV, does that make him have more, or less, in common with a mad bomber? and less likely to get laid as a result? Frankly, since it is so obviously the *wrong* question to ask if you are just an individual asking how to improve your chances of getting laid on here, which puts it on the same shelf as all the is it cos I is asian or is it cos my penis isn't big enough questions. And since it is so obviously the wrong question, *if* you just wanted to know how to improve your chances of getting laid, then what was the purpose? *THAT* is the important question, I have my own opinion on that, and shall keep my own counsel on that. | |||
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" Defintion of a fundamentalist: 'a person who believes in the strict, literal interpretation of scripture in a religion". There's your handbook for you. For everyone else there's common sense. So there is, for example, the strict literal interpretation of consent and so on, and for everyone else there is "common sense", which means each individual moves the goalposts to wherever it suits them... Your "argument" is utterly debunked by simple substitution, and any argument that can be debunked by substitution is fallacious at best. For example in this very thread we have a poster claiming he is a Jedi, his statement is treated *totally* differently to those claiming to be muslim, or catholic, or atheist, ergo it is not the case, as you all claim, that all religious beliefs are equal and irellevant on a swingers site, if the thread had been started by someone who belived in Kek and Kekistani freedom (google it) it would have been totally different. Ergo we are not talking about religion at all, we are talking about what we as individuals ascribe to certain religions, being muslim therefore provides some sort of mental connection to suicide bombers and manchester. Notably the OP did not state "I'm a pretty lapsed muslim and I was wondering if the manchester suicide bomber thing is likely to affect my chances of getting laid on here" If he has the answer would have been "probably" from some, in just the same way as professing a love for Arsenal or bareback will get you a "probably" answer from some. Terrorism in the Uk is currently a muslim issue, as true a statement as saying the IRA bombings in the UK were then currently a catholic issue. The inference is that only a "radical" or "extreme" catholic or muslim will ever become a terrorist bomber, eg a "fundamentalist" who obeys *all* the tenets of that religion to the letter. The facts of course are quite contrary to this. Which brings us right back to the OP's question and quandary, and the real reason there will be a lot of unsaid stuff, he is clearly a "bad" muslim just as the catholics on here are "bad" from the fundie POV, does that make him have more, or less, in common with a mad bomber? and less likely to get laid as a result? Frankly, since it is so obviously the *wrong* question to ask if you are just an individual asking how to improve your chances of getting laid on here, which puts it on the same shelf as all the is it cos I is asian or is it cos my penis isn't big enough questions. And since it is so obviously the wrong question, *if* you just wanted to know how to improve your chances of getting laid, then what was the purpose? *THAT* is the important question, I have my own opinion on that, and shall keep my own counsel on that." Sorry you lost me in the first paragraph where you seem to be implying that people reference a religious scripture to know what consent is | |||
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"The green arrow is interesting. " oh yes you cant beat the green arrow..... | |||
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"I think you should be burned at the stake..... Wait a minute, sorry that's Catholics that should be burned.....my bad. Does it really matter? All around the world religions are fighting each other.....apart from Rastafarians, they're never in the news for causing trouble or being on the sharp end of another religion.....not sure if they're peace loving or really really sneaky!!!! Hmmmm conspiracy theory!!!!" Find a war that is truly about religion, you will find few if any. Religion is used as an excuse for mankind's continuing effort at fucking our world in the arse! Religious books, whatever one, were written in a time when the world was a far more brutal place, and by man, we now use our own interpretations to suit our agenda. I get what the OP is saying, he just needs to know that he is amongst friends that see through race and religion..... And clothes and as long as he has a 10 inch cock we don't give a toss! ( | |||
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"And yes, I'm Muslim, by the way.without causing offence how can you be a Muslim and be on a swingers site.casual sex especially as a woman is a big no no to Islam and thats putting it lightly.surely that's a case of having your cake and eating it, can't have it both ways? And yes that goes for all the other religions out there before someone tries to point that out lol." You are causing offence. Every religion condemns what this site promotes. Why probe my religious integrity without attemptng to belittle those of other faiths? Isolating Islam as being so intolerant that I'm automatically rejected because of the way I live, is tantamount to inciting racial hatred. And there's quite enough of that, is there not? Here's my cake, and I'm bloody well eating it. | |||
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"And yes, I'm Muslim, by the way.without causing offence how can you be a Muslim and be on a swingers site.casual sex especially as a woman is a big no no to Islam and thats putting it lightly.surely that's a case of having your cake and eating it, can't have it both ways? And yes that goes for all the other religions out there before someone tries to point that out lol. You are causing offence. Every religion condemns what this site promotes. Why probe my religious integrity without attemptng to belittle those of other faiths? Isolating Islam as being so intolerant that I'm automatically rejected because of the way I live, is tantamount to inciting racial hatred. And there's quite enough of that, is there not? Here's my cake, and I'm bloody well eating it." Can I have a slice? | |||
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"And yes, I'm Muslim, by the way.without causing offence how can you be a Muslim and be on a swingers site.casual sex especially as a woman is a big no no to Islam and thats putting it lightly.surely that's a case of having your cake and eating it, can't have it both ways? And yes that goes for all the other religions out there before someone tries to point that out lol. You are causing offence. Every religion condemns what this site promotes. Why probe my religious integrity without attemptng to belittle those of other faiths? Isolating Islam as being so intolerant that I'm automatically rejected because of the way I live, is tantamount to inciting racial hatred. And there's quite enough of that, is there not? Here's my cake, and I'm bloody well eating it. Can I have a slice? " Dig in. There's plenty to go around. It's called a Freedom of Choice sandwich, with 21st Century filling! | |||
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"Here's my cake, and I'm bloody well eating it. Can I have a slice? Dig in. There's plenty to go around. It's called a Freedom of Choice sandwich, with 21st Century filling!" Urgh sounds rather bland and filling I'd much rather smother you in chocolate cake and lick it all off. Sorry! Damn predictive text. I meant "politely enjoy a slice of chocolate cake with you" | |||
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"I was born the devils spawn so mum says ,lol she is a very religious lady a Jehovah witness ,now there is a real messed up religion .its more like a cult then any thing ,like all religions there are good and bad people in them .... " Initially read that as Jehovahs waitress I agree, good and bad in all ... Including atheists ... It's down to an individual | |||
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"I was born the devils spawn so mum says ,lol she is a very religious lady a Jehovah witness ,now there is a real messed up religion .its more like a cult then any thing ,like all religions there are good and bad people in them .... " Bet they fuck well though. All that pent up sexual frustration just waiting to be released... | |||
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"Don't know Rumi, but like you I'm spiritual. This evolution has led me to be liberated from organised religion and the chains of social conventions. And into swinging. Ditto Always lovely to find one more of us oddballs out there " I'm at home being an odd ball | |||
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"The reason I posted this post was, well, I've had my fair share of abuse online, in general, and I just wanted to know the waters on here, sorry for annoying you guys, was never my intention" I've had my fair share of abuse too.... just bigoted people with their opinions which everyone is entitled to I guess..... | |||
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"We are Catholics; we shouldn't be here either; but we don't need the opinion of strangers to decide what we should or should not do - Mrs. J - It's none of my business if you don't feel like answering this, but do you go to confession? Nope; that will mean confessing to our Parish priest and we know what he is going to tell us We will take our chances on Judgement Day. It is not all about the sins but the balance between those and the good deeds. Atleast, we hope so - Mrs. J - Meh, the religion or detity in question doesn't matter so much, one thing they ALL have in common is what is in effect a "handbook". What pisses *us* off is people who do NOT obey the handbook 100%, and yet still claim to be that thing, no, you're not, it's like Harold Shipman claiming he is a doctor because he was in tune with 99% of the hippocratic oath, he just didn't do that thing about craven images, or was it thou shalt not kill etc. I've lived abroad in muslim countries, islam there and islam here is not the same, nor are those who claim to be islamic, but then again I could say *exactly* the same thing about christians and bhuddists etc etc etc. if you want to fuck someone who is muslim / christian / noodle monster / kekifarian go ahead, nobody else gives a shit. speaking personally we tend to avoid everyone who introduces themselves with a fucking label, be it feminist or conservative or muslim or pastafarian, these should all be deeply personal and private things that someone can know and work with your for years and neither know nor care. I', impartial, I'll dislike the muslim claiming ramadan breaks who smokes and drinks alcohol and eats bacon sarnies just as much as the non smoker who thinks they can vape everywhere, what they all have in common is hypocricy... and that's the real sin and the real thing that makes you sexually and otherwise unnatractive to others. I'm an atheist, and the true meaning of that is that we think anyone who believes in any religion is mentally retarded, however, we respect your right to your beleifs, provided you reciprocate. " Judgemental much | |||
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"We are Catholics; we shouldn't be here either; but we don't need the opinion of strangers to decide what we should or should not do - Mrs. J - It's none of my business if you don't feel like answering this, but do you go to confession? Nope; that will mean confessing to our Parish priest and we know what he is going to tell us We will take our chances on Judgement Day. It is not all about the sins but the balance between those and the good deeds. Atleast, we hope so - Mrs. J - Meh, the religion or detity in question doesn't matter so much, one thing they ALL have in common is what is in effect a "handbook". What pisses *us* off is people who do NOT obey the handbook 100%, and yet still claim to be that thing, no, you're not, it's like Harold Shipman claiming he is a doctor because he was in tune with 99% of the hippocratic oath, he just didn't do that thing about craven images, or was it thou shalt not kill etc. I've lived abroad in muslim countries, islam there and islam here is not the same, nor are those who claim to be islamic, but then again I could say *exactly* the same thing about christians and bhuddists etc etc etc. if you want to fuck someone who is muslim / christian / noodle monster / kekifarian go ahead, nobody else gives a shit. speaking personally we tend to avoid everyone who introduces themselves with a fucking label, be it feminist or conservative or muslim or pastafarian, these should all be deeply personal and private things that someone can know and work with your for years and neither know nor care. I', impartial, I'll dislike the muslim claiming ramadan breaks who smokes and drinks alcohol and eats bacon sarnies just as much as the non smoker who thinks they can vape everywhere, what they all have in common is hypocricy... and that's the real sin and the real thing that makes you sexually and otherwise unnatractive to others. I'm an atheist, and the true meaning of that is that we think anyone who believes in any religion is mentally retarded, however, we respect your right to your beleifs, provided you reciprocate. You may as well try to classify people morally and sexually on the basis of whether they have a Tesco clubcard. THIS 100% fyi Tesco was my church, and then I saw the light, discovered the error of my ways, until one night a voice whispered Aldi in my ear, and I've been worshopping there ever since " Me too hehe | |||
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"I was born the devils spawn so mum says ,lol she is a very religious lady a Jehovah witness ,now there is a real messed up religion .its more like a cult then any thing ,like all religions there are good and bad people in them .... " All religions are cults! Saying that its the occult we need to worry about! | |||
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"And yes, I'm Muslim, by the way.without causing offence how can you be a Muslim and be on a swingers site.casual sex especially as a woman is a big no no to Islam and thats putting it lightly.surely that's a case of having your cake and eating it, can't have it both ways? And yes that goes for all the other religions out there before someone tries to point that out lol. You are causing offence. Every religion condemns what this site promotes. Why probe my religious integrity without attemptng to belittle those of other faiths? Isolating Islam as being so intolerant that I'm automatically rejected because of the way I live, is tantamount to inciting racial hatred. And there's quite enough of that, is there not? Here's my cake, and I'm bloody well eating it." Enjoy your cake. We are having one too; a lemon drizzle. I guess he is just having a lemon - Mrs. J - | |||
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"The reason I posted this post was, well, I've had my fair share of abuse online, in general, and I just wanted to know the waters on here, sorry for annoying you guys, was never my intention" I'm female on fab, try being that for a day!! | |||
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"Why is someone's faith relevant, at all? There are no similar threads about Protestant or Catholic swingers. Or Sikh or Hindu swingers! Islam is just another religion, albeit one with very bad press, in recent history. You're either attractive, or you're not. If you're not, laying it at the door of your religion is something of a cop-out, isn't it?" This has nothing to do with this thread but may I say your pics are stunning. Not in a bi way just admiration. I love the latex outfit. Favourite wear | |||
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"Before I say anything, yes I am muslim, I know I shouldn't be on here and yes, I can't drink water at the moment :P My question to you guys and gals (and I have been asking a lot lately), are muslims considered attractive om here to some people? I know I'll get a few unpleasant responses, so don't hold back, but your thoughts and such are greatly appreciated " A person s religion shouldn't matter. I have Muslim friends. Very nice guys and on here. It's you and your conscience no one else has a say. You have to live with it | |||
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"The reason I posted this post was, well, I've had my fair share of abuse online, in general, and I just wanted to know the waters on here, sorry for annoying you guys, was never my intention" To be fair OP, the only one I see drawingany attention to your race or religion is you. Why are you making such a big deal out of it? I would suspect that this may be something that puts people off - not your race or religion but that YOU seem to think it's such a big deal. People will either find you attractive or they won't. Most of the rest of us can understand and accept that. How do you think I might feel if I see a lady stating on her profile 'BBC only'? Nothing is the answer. No amount of whinging, protesting, complaining or trying to find out why will make the slighest difference. It's similar for those stating body type, height, sexuality and cock length requirements. The more threads you post on the subject of race / religion, the more you're going to piss people off and put potential meets off you. Instead, try being pro-active and get searching, reading profiles and try messaging people who might actually possibly be interested in you | |||
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"Clem.... why dont you find muslims attractive .... .....is it because .... They don't find "Tiswas" funny .... " Not just Muslims, but anyone who believes in sky wizards. Grow up. You don't need to believe a book that should really have been called "How to survive living in the middle East with no condoms, refrigeration or social justice system". And then getting your sky wizard to absolve you of any crime you commit as long as you tell him you really are really sorry... It sickens me how we pander to Saudi Arabia. The sooner they run out of oil the better. Then they might stop sending surplus cash over here to poison the minds of the young and vulnerable. Barbaric, misogynistic scum. I'm surprised they don't continue to float women to see whether or not they're witches. The single most racist society on the planet. Treating Asian peoples worse than animals. | |||
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"Clem.... why dont you find muslims attractive .... .....is it because .... They don't find "Tiswas" funny .... Not just Muslims, but anyone who believes in sky wizards. Grow up. You don't need to believe a book that should really have been called "How to survive living in the middle East with no condoms, refrigeration or social justice system". And then getting your sky wizard to absolve you of any crime you commit as long as you tell him you really are really sorry... It sickens me how we pander to Saudi Arabia. The sooner they run out of oil the better. Then they might stop sending surplus cash over here to poison the minds of the young and vulnerable. Barbaric, misogynistic scum. I'm surprised they don't continue to float women to see whether or not they're witches. The single most racist society on the planet. Treating Asian peoples worse than animals. " This is the other side of the debate to people who use terms like sky wizard: https://youtu.be/BL9S-TUikfg You just believe you are the son of a mutant retard monkey fish frog. | |||
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"Clem.... why dont you find muslims attractive .... .....is it because .... They don't find "Tiswas" funny .... Not just Muslims, but anyone who believes in sky wizards. Grow up. You don't need to believe a book that should really have been called "How to survive living in the middle East with no condoms, refrigeration or social justice system". And then getting your sky wizard to absolve you of any crime you commit as long as you tell him you really are really sorry... It sickens me how we pander to Saudi Arabia. The sooner they run out of oil the better. Then they might stop sending surplus cash over here to poison the minds of the young and vulnerable. Barbaric, misogynistic scum. I'm surprised they don't continue to float women to see whether or not they're witches. The single most racist society on the planet. Treating Asian peoples worse than animals. This is the other side of the debate to people who use terms like sky wizard: https://youtu.be/BL9S-TUikfg You just believe you are the son of a mutant retard monkey fish frog. " I think you should tell us what you REALLY think without holding back. | |||
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"Clem.... why dont you find muslims attractive .... .....is it because .... They don't find "Tiswas" funny .... Not just Muslims, but anyone who believes in sky wizards. Grow up. You don't need to believe a book that should really have been called "How to survive living in the middle East with no condoms, refrigeration or social justice system". And then getting your sky wizard to absolve you of any crime you commit as long as you tell him you really are really sorry... It sickens me how we pander to Saudi Arabia. The sooner they run out of oil the better. Then they might stop sending surplus cash over here to poison the minds of the young and vulnerable. Barbaric, misogynistic scum. I'm surprised they don't continue to float women to see whether or not they're witches. The single most racist society on the planet. Treating Asian peoples worse than animals. This is the other side of the debate to people who use terms like sky wizard: https://youtu.be/BL9S-TUikfg You just believe you are the son of a mutant retard monkey fish frog. " I believe that human lives are equal. I don't believe in infidel or gentiles. I don't believe a God would teach that some of us are "chosen" above others. | |||
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"We are Catholics; we shouldn't be here either; but we don't need the opinion of strangers to decide what we should or should not do - Mrs. J -" Lol there are 4989 recognised gods in the world and yet None ever appear or do any good Just saying like Is it like santa clause ? | |||
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"Personally I don't find anyone who believes in any God attractive, as I would question their common sense - and common sense I find attractive. I've walked away from many a Christian guy when in the US too. Just can't take them seriously. " Teresa May is not getting your vote then - she is a crazy god fundamentalist ?? | |||
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"Hmm, religion... 'My imaginary god is better than your imaginary god' " My imaginary god said I can't eat or drink during the day for a month - what does yours say ? | |||
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"Hmm, religion... 'My imaginary god is better than your imaginary god' My imaginary god said I can't eat or drink during the day for a month - what does yours say ?" racist | |||
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"Hmm, religion... 'My imaginary god is better than your imaginary god' My imaginary god said I can't eat or drink during the day for a month - what does yours say ? racist " classic | |||
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"Any religious folk insulting Atheists? Nope Any Atheists insulting religious folk? Oh, well, what else can one expect - Mrs. J -" I dunno.....Transubstantiation? | |||
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"And yes, I'm Muslim, by the way.without causing offence how can you be a Muslim and be on a swingers site.casual sex especially as a woman is a big no no to Islam and thats putting it lightly.surely that's a case of having your cake and eating it, can't have it both ways? And yes that goes for all the other religions out there before someone tries to point that out lol." In my experience there's a wide range of interpretation among religious people of all faiths. Some are fundamentalist and preoccupied with moral codes, others and flakey and liberal. Xxx | |||
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"Personally I don't find anyone who believes in any God attractive, as I would question their common sense - and common sense I find attractive. I've walked away from many a Christian guy when in the US too. Just can't take them seriously. Teresa May is not getting your vote then - she is a crazy god fundamentalist ??" Is she hell. JC all the way. Religion aside. I'm too working class to vote for the Tories! | |||
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"And yes, I'm Muslim, by the way." I doubt even the most racist of men could possibly say no to such a beautiful woman as yourself. Stunning. | |||
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"So if we don't have a problem with Muslims, the next question is... Do guys with beards stand a chance? " About as much as a snowball's chance in Hell x - Mrs. J - | |||
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"Before I say anything, yes I am muslim, I know I shouldn't be on here and yes, I can't drink water at the moment :P My question to you guys and gals (and I have been asking a lot lately), are muslims considered attractive om here to some people? I know I'll get a few unpleasant responses, so don't hold back, but your thoughts and such are greatly appreciated " Couldn't you get around the haram nature with Nikah Mut'ah? Might seem odd to some women and may prove a barrier. Apologies if my limited understanding of your faith has made me look a tit ha | |||
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"Have all these replies answered your question OP? No one gives a monkeys about your religion apart from it would appear! " To be fair I kind of understand why OP asked the question. Given the amount of profiles who choose not to meet Asian men and given the nature of some of the anti Islam comments on threads, I suppose it can seem to some guys like the odds on meeting someone are stacked against them. | |||
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"Before I say anything, yes I am muslim, I know I shouldn't be on here and yes, I can't drink water at the moment :P My question to you guys and gals (and I have been asking a lot lately), are muslims considered attractive om here to some people? I know I'll get a few unpleasant responses, so don't hold back, but your thoughts and such are greatly appreciated Couldn't you get around the haram nature with Nikah Mut'ah? Might seem odd to some women and may prove a barrier. Apologies if my limited understanding of your faith has made me look a tit ha" You've asked a question and tried to increase your knowledge - got nothing but respect for someone who does that. Only certain sects of Islam accept that form of marriage. At the end of the day - if you really wanna fuck someone then... Just do it. Be happy. | |||
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"Best thing you can do op is stop playing the race/religion card. One of my best friends on here is asian. Hes a wonderful person and never been short of meets. Hes never had to harp on about his race or religion. Try being yourself" Sounds to me you got a little thing with someone saying what religion they are? This is an open forum people talk about what they like | |||
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"So if we don't have a problem with Muslims, the next question is... Do guys with beards stand a chance? " Ohhh you do | |||
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" Stop making such a issue over your faith and race and spent more time showing the person you really are. " I think to be fair it's the media that has made it a talking point. | |||
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"Before I say anything, yes I am muslim, I know I shouldn't be on here and yes, I can't drink water at the moment :P My question to you guys and gals (and I have been asking a lot lately), are muslims considered attractive om here to some people? I know I'll get a few unpleasant responses, so don't hold back, but your thoughts and such are greatly appreciated " I find this a very odd question. Religious belief is personal to the individual and has no bearing on what someone looks like. There are some people I find attractive and some I don't. Some may be Muslim, some Christian, some atheist etc. OP I can see from your photo what race you are, but there is nothing in your photo to suggest what religion you are. I wouldn't dream of assuming what someone's religion is based on their physical appearance. Mrs | |||
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"So if we don't have a problem with Muslims, the next question is... Do guys with beards stand a chance? " slim one | |||
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"As this thread shows, if everyone keeps there opinions to themselves then we can all enjoy mindless disconnected sex with each other. If they don't then spiritual people pretty quickly find atheists ugly and vice versa. If you're not seeking mindless disconnected sex then it's entirely feasible that atheists would seek out atheists and spiritual would seek out spiritual. It's just one of those basic areas of compatibility and incompatibility between people " I'm confused with the idea that atheists can't be spiritual. Why can't they? I'm also confused why atheists would be incompatible with spiritual people, assuming they aren't too. Why would they be? | |||
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"As this thread shows, if everyone keeps there opinions to themselves then we can all enjoy mindless disconnected sex with each other. If they don't then spiritual people pretty quickly find atheists ugly and vice versa. If you're not seeking mindless disconnected sex then it's entirely feasible that atheists would seek out atheists and spiritual would seek out spiritual. It's just one of those basic areas of compatibility and incompatibility between people I'm confused with the idea that atheists can't be spiritual. Why can't they? I'm also confused why atheists would be incompatible with spiritual people, assuming they aren't too. Why would they be?" Do you believe the spirit exists? | |||
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"As this thread shows, if everyone keeps there opinions to themselves then we can all enjoy mindless disconnected sex with each other. If they don't then spiritual people pretty quickly find atheists ugly and vice versa. If you're not seeking mindless disconnected sex then it's entirely feasible that atheists would seek out atheists and spiritual would seek out spiritual. It's just one of those basic areas of compatibility and incompatibility between people I'm confused with the idea that atheists can't be spiritual. Why can't they? I'm also confused why atheists would be incompatible with spiritual people, assuming they aren't too. Why would they be? Do you believe the spirit exists? " In my vodka bottle? Perhaps with santa clause | |||
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"As this thread shows, if everyone keeps there opinions to themselves then we can all enjoy mindless disconnected sex with each other. If they don't then spiritual people pretty quickly find atheists ugly and vice versa. If you're not seeking mindless disconnected sex then it's entirely feasible that atheists would seek out atheists and spiritual would seek out spiritual. It's just one of those basic areas of compatibility and incompatibility between people I'm confused with the idea that atheists can't be spiritual. Why can't they? I'm also confused why atheists would be incompatible with spiritual people, assuming they aren't too. Why would they be? Do you believe the spirit exists? " Are you assuming I'm an atheist? If I was, in my opinion, spirituality doesn't necessarily mean believing in 'spirit' as much as believing that there may be a component to a self that is aware beyond self aggrandisement. So would that mean that being atheist makes one unable to appreciate beauty, poetry, nature etc? That's all very spiritual in my opinion | |||
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"As this thread shows, if everyone keeps there opinions to themselves then we can all enjoy mindless disconnected sex with each other. If they don't then spiritual people pretty quickly find atheists ugly and vice versa. If you're not seeking mindless disconnected sex then it's entirely feasible that atheists would seek out atheists and spiritual would seek out spiritual. It's just one of those basic areas of compatibility and incompatibility between people I'm confused with the idea that atheists can't be spiritual. Why can't they? I'm also confused why atheists would be incompatible with spiritual people, assuming they aren't too. Why would they be? Do you believe the spirit exists? Are you assuming I'm an atheist? If I was, in my opinion, spirituality doesn't necessarily mean believing in 'spirit' as much as believing that there may be a component to a self that is aware beyond self aggrandisement. So would that mean that being atheist makes one unable to appreciate beauty, poetry, nature etc? That's all very spiritual in my opinion" Lol what bollocks made me laugh "component to a self that is aware beyond self" | |||
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"If someone is attractive they are attractive. Regardless of race age colour religion ect " What he said | |||
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"As this thread shows, if everyone keeps there opinions to themselves then we can all enjoy mindless disconnected sex with each other. If they don't then spiritual people pretty quickly find atheists ugly and vice versa. If you're not seeking mindless disconnected sex then it's entirely feasible that atheists would seek out atheists and spiritual would seek out spiritual. It's just one of those basic areas of compatibility and incompatibility between people I'm confused with the idea that atheists can't be spiritual. Why can't they? I'm also confused why atheists would be incompatible with spiritual people, assuming they aren't too. Why would they be? Do you believe the spirit exists? Are you assuming I'm an atheist? If I was, in my opinion, spirituality doesn't necessarily mean believing in 'spirit' as much as believing that there may be a component to a self that is aware beyond self aggrandisement. So would that mean that being atheist makes one unable to appreciate beauty, poetry, nature etc? That's all very spiritual in my opinion" Sound like pantheism to me. | |||
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"As this thread shows, if everyone keeps there opinions to themselves then we can all enjoy mindless disconnected sex with each other. If they don't then spiritual people pretty quickly find atheists ugly and vice versa. If you're not seeking mindless disconnected sex then it's entirely feasible that atheists would seek out atheists and spiritual would seek out spiritual. It's just one of those basic areas of compatibility and incompatibility between people I'm confused with the idea that atheists can't be spiritual. Why can't they? I'm also confused why atheists would be incompatible with spiritual people, assuming they aren't too. Why would they be? Do you believe the spirit exists? Are you assuming I'm an atheist? If I was, in my opinion, spirituality doesn't necessarily mean believing in 'spirit' as much as believing that there may be a component to a self that is aware beyond self aggrandisement. So would that mean that being atheist makes one unable to appreciate beauty, poetry, nature etc? That's all very spiritual in my opinion Lol what bollocks made me laugh "component to a self that is aware beyond self" " Glad you laughed Just a pity it didn't say that... | |||
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"Personally I don't find anyone who believes in any God attractive, as I would question their common sense - and common sense I find attractive. I've walked away from many a Christian guy when in the US too. Just can't take them seriously. Teresa May is not getting your vote then - she is a crazy god fundamentalist ?? Is she hell. JC all the way. Religion aside. I'm too working class to vote for the Tories!" | |||
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"Why is someone's faith relevant, at all? There are no similar threads about Protestant or Catholic swingers. Or Sikh or Hindu swingers! Islam is just another religion, albeit one with very bad press, in recent history. You're either attractive, or you're not. If you're not, laying it at the door of your religion is something of a cop-out, isn't it?" Agreed | |||
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"I'm confused with the idea that atheists can't be spiritual. Why can't they? Do you believe the spirit exists? Are you assuming I'm an atheist? If I was, in my opinion, spirituality doesn't necessarily mean believing in 'spirit' as much as believing that there may be a component to a self that is aware beyond self aggrandisement. So would that mean that being atheist makes one unable to appreciate beauty, poetry, nature etc? That's all very spiritual in my opinion Lol what bollocks made me laugh "component to a self that is aware beyond self" Sound like pantheism to me." I think the reactions of atheists to your point pretty much makes my point. | |||
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"I'm confused with the idea that atheists can't be spiritual. Why can't they? Do you believe the spirit exists? Are you assuming I'm an atheist? If I was, in my opinion, spirituality doesn't necessarily mean believing in 'spirit' as much as believing that there may be a component to a self that is aware beyond self aggrandisement. So would that mean that being atheist makes one unable to appreciate beauty, poetry, nature etc? That's all very spiritual in my opinion Lol what bollocks made me laugh "component to a self that is aware beyond self" Sound like pantheism to me. I think the reactions of atheists to your point pretty much makes my point. " Let's replace the word atheists with Non gullible people, in a 100 years people with look back and laugh anyone belived in any god (after the next world war caused by religion) | |||
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"Id fuck anything aslong as I fancied them and are clean , idont expect to read the bible of koran whilst fucking . " Fussy then ? | |||
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" Non gullible people, in a 100 years people with look back and laugh anyone belived in any god (after the next world war caused by religion)" There's a lot more to faith than simply belief in an omnipotent being and the majority of all wars have absolutely nothing to do with any religion, including the previous two world wars. | |||
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"Id fuck anything aslong as I fancied them and are clean , idont expect to read the bible of koran whilst fucking . Fussy then ? " Don't think so lmao | |||
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"I'm confused with the idea that atheists can't be spiritual. Why can't they? Do you believe the spirit exists? Are you assuming I'm an atheist? If I was, in my opinion, spirituality doesn't necessarily mean believing in 'spirit' as much as believing that there may be a component to a self that is aware beyond self aggrandisement. So would that mean that being atheist makes one unable to appreciate beauty, poetry, nature etc? That's all very spiritual in my opinion Lol what bollocks made me laugh "component to a self that is aware beyond self" Sound like pantheism to me. I think the reactions of atheists to your point pretty much makes my point. Let's replace the word atheists with Non gullible people, in a 100 years people with look back and laugh anyone belived in any god (after the next world war caused by religion)" You have to be extremely gullible to think the world wars were caused by religion | |||
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"I'm confused with the idea that atheists can't be spiritual. Why can't they? Do you believe the spirit exists? Are you assuming I'm an atheist? If I was, in my opinion, spirituality doesn't necessarily mean believing in 'spirit' as much as believing that there may be a component to a self that is aware beyond self aggrandisement. So would that mean that being atheist makes one unable to appreciate beauty, poetry, nature etc? That's all very spiritual in my opinion Lol what bollocks made me laugh "component to a self that is aware beyond self" Sound like pantheism to me. I think the reactions of atheists to your point pretty much makes my point. Let's replace the word atheists with Non gullible people, in a 100 years people with look back and laugh anyone belived in any god (after the next world war caused by religion) You have to be extremely gullible to think the world wars were caused by religion " Last word - word ? | |||
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