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Anything I should add or take out ? | |||
"Not really attracting a lot of attention except from when I'm in the forums. People look at my profile and that's it so I'm going to need it to go under construction. Any advice on how to keep someone entertained enough that they actually drop me a message? I know I need better pictures but i don't have anyone to take them with me as I can't even take a good selfie
Anything I should add or take out ? "Although I'm a straight male and probably not the best person to comment, that'll no stop me  .
Your profile looks ok to me, there's certainly much much worse. If I was in your shoes, I would change my profile pic to your face pic and then take the bull by the horns and send messages to people you are genuinely interested in. Also, message people who've posted meets.
Your age will be a hindrance, but your forum posts show you have character... be confident and you'll do better.
Cal (Still in sunny Crete)  | |||
"Not really attracting a lot of attention except from when I'm in the forums. People look at my profile and that's it so I'm going to need it to go under construction. Any advice on how to keep someone entertained enough that they actually drop me a message? I know I need better pictures but i don't have anyone to take them with me as I can't even take a good selfie
Anything I should add or take out ?
Although I'm a straight male and probably not the best person to comment, that'll no stop me .
Your profile looks ok to me, there's certainly much much worse. If I was in your shoes, I would change my profile pic to your face pic and then take the bull by the horns and send messages to people you are genuinely interested in. Also, message people who've posted meets.
Your age will be a hindrance, but your forum posts show you have character... be confident and you'll do better.
Cal (Still in sunny Crete) "Yeah my age is a huge problem as the ones im interested in are usually not in interested in my age group i.e 25+ 
But I will crack on and do a special search with those who are looking for my age and keep my fingers crossed | |||
"Not really attracting a lot of attention except from when I'm in the forums. People look at my profile and that's it so I'm going to need it to go under construction. Any advice on how to keep someone entertained enough that they actually drop me a message? I know I need better pictures but i don't have anyone to take them with me as I can't even take a good selfie
Anything I should add or take out ?
Although I'm a straight male and probably not the best person to comment, that'll no stop me .
Your profile looks ok to me, there's certainly much much worse. If I was in your shoes, I would change my profile pic to your face pic and then take the bull by the horns and send messages to people you are genuinely interested in. Also, message people who've posted meets.
Your age will be a hindrance, but your forum posts show you have character... be confident and you'll do better.
Cal (Still in sunny Crete)
Yeah my age is a huge problem as the ones im interested in are usually not in interested in my age group i.e 25+
But I will crack on and do a special search with those who are looking for my age and keep my fingers crossed "Best of luck... maybe consider visiting clubs too, nobody will ask your age. Just chat to everyone with no expectation and I'm sure you'll do ok. Cal (Still in sunny Crete) | |||
"Not really attracting a lot of attention except from when I'm in the forums..." That's all you need.
(Plus social and clubs, obviously.) | |||
