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By *sGivesWood OP Woman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
And yes this definately is a female asking! Thinking of doing a revamp on it any comments positive or negative will be taken on board, also ideas would be very welcome! Thanks in advance fabbers and fabbettes xxx  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You're a woman. You could have 'I like turtles' written on your profile and have nothing but pictures of your unwiped bum hole, you'd still get messages. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Looks great. Only possible improvement I can see is a face pic - Guys like to at least see your eyes, which could retain some degree of anonymity. But yeah, you sound great!x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You're a woman. You could have 'I like turtles' written on your profile and have nothing but pictures of your unwiped bum hole, you'd still get messages. "
What she said |
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I like your profile pic 
I'd remove any tattoo pics that could identify you. Also some of the not so clear pics.
You could reword the profile to be more positive.
Do you mean you like BBC or black guys.?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"And yes this definately is a female asking! Thinking of doing a revamp on it any comments positive or negative will be taken on board, also ideas would be very welcome! Thanks in advance fabbers and fabbettes xxx "
You need at least one cock pic even if it's private. |
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It's informative and hopefully will do the job it's designed to do but I bet you'll still get wannabees and men who haven't read the profile contacting you. The photos are good and show a range of styles with a bit of ducking for humour. St Austell brewery sells good beer |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You're a woman. You could have 'I like turtles' written on your profile and have nothing but pictures of your unwiped bum hole, you'd still get messages. "
I'm not going to test this theory.
I'll just believe you. I'm not taking pictures of my bum hole, clean or otherwise  |
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By *sGivesWood OP Woman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"I like your profile pic
I'd remove any tattoo pics that could identify you. Also some of the not so clear pics.
You could reword the profile to be more positive.
Do you mean you like BBC or black guys.? "
Tattoo pics are now friends only, think I may just take BBC off wish list as none local going to go through pics thanks xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You're a woman. You could have 'I like turtles' written on your profile and have nothing but pictures of your unwiped bum hole, you'd still get messages.
I'm not going to test this theory.
I'll just believe you. I'm not taking pictures of my bum hole, clean or otherwise "
Tempted to put a dirty bum hole picture on but worried it will just attract a different crowd and not act as a deterrent! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"And yes this definately is a female asking! Thinking of doing a revamp on it any comments positive or negative will be taken on board, also ideas would be very welcome! Thanks in advance fabbers and fabbettes xxx "
Primarily I'd like to say how nice it is you allow people the opportunity to get their first verification, and your bio is well written.
Only two things i feel your profile is missing
1) a nice lip photo because you have to admire a nice set of lips and a smile
2) ( this is not serious. I know everyone has preferences) making a guy refrain from messaging for a few years is torture. Some of us have a sense of maturity and substance.
All in all there's really not much to add it's all round a very straigh forward, genuine and appealing profile  |
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"You're a woman. You could have 'I like turtles' written on your profile and have nothing but pictures of your unwiped bum hole, you'd still get messages.
I'm not going to test this theory.
I'll just believe you. I'm not taking pictures of my bum hole, clean or otherwise
Tempted to put a dirty bum hole picture on but worried it will just attract a different crowd and not act as a deterrent! "
Give it a try  |
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By *sGivesWood OP Woman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"And yes this definately is a female asking! Thinking of doing a revamp on it any comments positive or negative will be taken on board, also ideas would be very welcome! Thanks in advance fabbers and fabbettes xxx
Primarily I'd like to say how nice it is you allow people the opportunity to get their first verification, and your bio is well written.
Only two things i feel your profile is missing
1) a nice lip photo because you have to admire a nice set of lips and a smile
2) ( this is not serious. I know everyone has preferences) making a guy refrain from messaging for a few years is torture. Some of us have a sense of maturity and substance.
All in all there's really not much to add it's all round a very straigh forward, genuine and appealing profile "
thanks x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You're a woman. You could have 'I like turtles' written on your profile and have nothing but pictures of your unwiped bum hole, you'd still get messages.
I'm not going to test this theory.
I'll just believe you. I'm not taking pictures of my bum hole, clean or otherwise
Tempted to put a dirty bum hole picture on but worried it will just attract a different crowd and not act as a deterrent! "
If you do, please warn me so I don't look  |
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"You're a woman. You could have 'I like turtles' written on your profile and have nothing but pictures of your unwiped bum hole, you'd still get messages. "
That made me laugh with the honesty and accuracy of it!! |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
As others have said OP as a lady on here you could put almost anything you wanted and would still get attention, however I'm going to put that thought aside and critique as if it were irrelevant, and leave you to change/not change as you want:
- General comment, it all comes across a little ranty with lots of "don't do this/do do that". I know(sadly) why it's ended up that way but in all honesty, the type of single guy that is going to send you abusive/crap messages isn't going to pay attention to you saying what you don't want them to do - so it's a little irrelevant and ends up detracting from the point of your profile which is to put yourself across in a positive way. Maybe consider how you could re-word it achieve that and minimise the do's and don'ts.
- I'll be honest and say it's not entirely clear to me what you are actually looking for. Your profile says you're not into 1-1 meets as you already have FWBs for that, but you've got Men selected in your "Looking For" - so are you just looking for couples? Or if a single guy contacted you would you be looking to invite one of your FWBs along to play with them? If so are your FWBs bi or straight? You list as Bi Curious, would you be interested in single women? If so you don't have them selected in your "Looking For"
- You say you won't travel more than 20 mins, but also say you won't meet people from Plymouth, which is surely going to limit your scope hugely, especially if you won't meet in hotels etc.
- Would suggest maybe rewording your whole profile and focussing on what you're looking for and what you can offer, rather than trying to deflect unwanted attention - you can do that quite easily with filters and liberal use of the block button.
- A lot of your pics are indistinct and blurry, would maybe consider removing those and replacing with some crisper ones.
Hope that's a help, and if it comes across harshly, that wasn't the intention, was aiming for constructive criticism
Good luck |
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Maybe move the stuff about doing cam veris to the end.
Also at the end it says you don't cam, seems a bit contradictory.
Your field of play is small, but as others have said it probably won't hold you back.
Have fun x |
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By *sGivesWood OP Woman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"As others have said OP as a lady on here you could put almost anything you wanted and would still get attention, however I'm going to put that thought aside and critique as if it were irrelevant, and leave you to change/not change as you want:
- General comment, it all comes across a little ranty with lots of "don't do this/do do that". I know(sadly) why it's ended up that way but in all honesty, the type of single guy that is going to send you abusive/crap messages isn't going to pay attention to you saying what you don't want them to do - so it's a little irrelevant and ends up detracting from the point of your profile which is to put yourself across in a positive way. Maybe consider how you could re-word it achieve that and minimise the do's and don'ts.
- I'll be honest and say it's not entirely clear to me what you are actually looking for. Your profile says you're not into 1-1 meets as you already have FWBs for that, but you've got Men selected in your "Looking For" - so are you just looking for couples? Or if a single guy contacted you would you be looking to invite one of your FWBs along to play with them? If so are your FWBs bi or straight? You list as Bi Curious, would you be interested in single women? If so you don't have them selected in your "Looking For"
- You say you won't travel more than 20 mins, but also say you won't meet people from Plymouth, which is surely going to limit your scope hugely, especially if you won't meet in hotels etc.
- Would suggest maybe rewording your whole profile and focussing on what you're looking for and what you can offer, rather than trying to deflect unwanted attention - you can do that quite easily with filters and liberal use of the block button.
- A lot of your pics are indistinct and blurry, would maybe consider removing those and replacing with some crisper ones.
Hope that's a help, and if it comes across harshly, that wasn't the intention, was aiming for constructive criticism
Good luck "
thanks very much xx |
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By *sGivesWood OP Woman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"Maybe move the stuff about doing cam veris to the end.
Also at the end it says you don't cam, seems a bit contradictory.
Your field of play is small, but as others have said it probably won't hold you back.
Have fun x"
What I mean by cam is cam sex,I only travel locally as I have to drive for work and often do in excess of 300 miles a week thanks and advice taken on board x |
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By *sGivesWood OP Woman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"I do have those but keep them as friends only I've tweaked a bit now
You have indeed and reads so much better for it. Hope it works out for you "
Thanks are things more positive and clearer now? |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"I do have those but keep them as friends only I've tweaked a bit now
You have indeed and reads so much better for it. Hope it works out for you
Thanks are things more positive and clearer now?"
Oh much more so, moving what you are looking for to the top alone makes it so much more readable.
Only other thing to consider is the blurry pics (the ones from 4th May are a good example) - think it's due to the original file size or resolution - either re-upload them as full size or move themtk friends. |
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By *sGivesWood OP Woman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"I do have those but keep them as friends only I've tweaked a bit now
You have indeed and reads so much better for it. Hope it works out for you
Thanks are things more positive and clearer now?
Oh much more so, moving what you are looking for to the top alone makes it so much more readable.
Only other thing to consider is the blurry pics (the ones from 4th May are a good example) - think it's due to the original file size or resolution - either re-upload them as full size or move themtk friends. "
oh I think my friend took this on his phone that could be why x |
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