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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Always worried about putting a face pic publicly on here, just because anyone local could be someone that knows me.
How have other fabbers got past this?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If someone you know is on here i don't see why you would feel uncomfortable, if they are here they're just looking for the same thing as you do, and i wouldn't br ashamed or whatever for being here.
I get your point tho OP, but i really think you shouldn't be concerned too much about that. |
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"If someone you know is on here i don't see why you would feel uncomfortable, if they are here they're just looking for the same thing as you do, and i wouldn't br ashamed or whatever for being here.
I get your point tho OP, but i really think you shouldn't be concerned too much about that."
I think the same thing, with some TV sites I'm on there's a lot of faceless pics and I don't get it. If someone sees you and recognises you then they are also either a TV or an admirer as they were registered on the site already. If people have faceless profiles they should at least send one if they message people. I ignore messages from faceless profiles that don't attach them with their message as I don't like talking to a torso lol |
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I know a few people on here and I just respect that they're here for the same reason. I keep my face pics for those who I'm going to meet, partially due to my job I keep them private but also because I don't want everybody seeing my mush  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yeah i can understand if people want to be discreet because of their jobs, but if you're discreet because you're cheating, well, imho, that's ain't right, but hey, once again i'm not here to judge.
The most important thing in here, after 7/8 weeks on this site, is to have fun, make contacts and see where it goes, but yeah shouldn't be your concern about being recognized, otherwise you'll think about it too much to trully enjoy this place. |
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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago
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"Always worried about putting a face pic publicly on here, just because anyone local could be someone that knows me.
How have other fabbers got past this?
Rx "
Simple we don't send face pics, if people don't like it there are plenty more to play with |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have full length photographs of ourselves with our faces slightly blurred. Anyone who knows us and is on this site will recognise us immediately. That we do not mind
But there are many single men here who live in our area. Some have sent quite disturbing messages. I don't want a crazy stalker on my tail
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yeah i can understand if people want to be discreet because of their jobs, but if you're discreet because you're cheating, well, imho, that's ain't right, but hey, once again i'm not here to judge. "
So why mention it?
With the advancement of things such as reverse imaging, we should all have a level of personal protection. The level of internet stalking, and trolling is on the increase.
You maybe ok with this, but many others have family, including children to protect from any form of bullying |
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"Yeah i can understand if people want to be discreet because of their jobs, but if you're discreet because you're cheating, well, imho, that's ain't right, but hey, once again i'm not here to judge.
So why mention it?
With the advancement of things such as reverse imaging, we should all have a level of personal protection. The level of internet stalking, and trolling is on the increase.
You maybe ok with this, but many others have family, including children to protect from any form of bullying "
Couldn't agree more  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So why mention it?
With the advancement of things such as reverse imaging, we should all have a level of personal protection. The level of internet stalking, and trolling is on the increase.
You maybe ok with this, but many others have family, including children to protect from any form of bullying "
I mentionned it because it was a part of my answer simple as that ahah (: !
And yeah well then if internet's so dangerous because of bullying, stalking and trolling just don't use it.. I mean.. It's not really new that everything that ends up on the internet can comeback at you at anytime of your life. At least it ain't new for me.
And being bullied because you're on a swinging website ? Well it's true that there is a lot of immature people, but be more mature and learn to just ignore the bullying.
All i mean is : there's no shame at all for being on this or an other swinging website, no shame at all for wanting some more kinky/sexy/naugthy fun. Sex can be a taboo for a lot of people i get that, but still we're in 2017 things have changed.
And if people in here want to protect their job/family/etc that's totally Fair and right ! But then take the precautions needed and that's it everyone's happy  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So why mention it?
With the advancement of things such as reverse imaging, we should all have a level of personal protection. The level of internet stalking, and trolling is on the increase.
You maybe ok with this, but many others have family, including children to protect from any form of bullying
I mentionned it because it was a part of my answer simple as that ahah (: !
And yeah well then if internet's so dangerous because of bullying, stalking and trolling just don't use it.. I mean.. It's not really new that everything that ends up on the internet can comeback at you at anytime of your life. At least it ain't new for me.
And being bullied because you're on a swinging website ? Well it's true that there is a lot of immature people, but be more mature and learn to just ignore the bullying.
All i mean is : there's no shame at all for being on this or an other swinging website, no shame at all for wanting some more kinky/sexy/naugthy fun. Sex can be a taboo for a lot of people i get that, but still we're in 2017 things have changed.
And if people in here want to protect their job/family/etc that's totally Fair and right ! But then take the precautions needed and that's it everyone's happy "
So if I was to take your first reply literally you are saying it's ok to hide for face because you work, but not if you are cheating?
Secondly on the bullying point, I am talking about protecting the children who come home in tears because they have been told their mother is a slag etc because someone has found them on here.
I am old enough to remember when the internet was first used and you had to have knowledge to find out personal information about people. Now a 5 min search can revel everything about a person, job, friends, personal life, criminal and medical records unless a certain level of protection is used |
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So why mention it?
With the advancement of things such as reverse imaging, we should all have a level of personal protection. The level of internet stalking, and trolling is on the increase.
You maybe ok with this, but many others have family, including children to protect from any form of bullying
I mentionned it because it was a part of my answer simple as that ahah (: !
And yeah well then if internet's so dangerous because of bullying, stalking and trolling just don't use it.. I mean.. It's not really new that everything that ends up on the internet can comeback at you at anytime of your life. At least it ain't new for me.
And being bullied because you're on a swinging website ? Well it's true that there is a lot of immature people, but be more mature and learn to just ignore the bullying.
All i mean is : there's no shame at all for being on this or an other swinging website, no shame at all for wanting some more kinky/sexy/naugthy fun. Sex can be a taboo for a lot of people i get that, but still we're in 2017 things have changed.
And if people in here want to protect their job/family/etc that's totally Fair and right ! But then take the precautions needed and that's it everyone's happy
So if I was to take your first reply literally you are saying it's ok to hide for face because you work, but not if you are cheating?
Secondly on the bullying point, I am talking about protecting the children who come home in tears because they have been told their mother is a slag etc because someone has found them on here.
I am old enough to remember when the internet was first used and you had to have knowledge to find out personal information about people. Now a 5 min search can revel everything about a person, job, friends, personal life, criminal and medical records unless a certain level of protection is used "
That's so true I had to make someone on here aware that they gave out too much info. He was astonished when we met what information I knew about him. I'd acquired it to prove a point and make him more careful and not be so trusting |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Cheating is wrong to me, so i hope it answered that question, because there's difference between working and cheating, once again maybe my lack of english is the reason, maybe working's actually worst than cheating, i don't know... 
For the bullying, would a mom be a slag because she's on that website ? Do you mean that every people here are slag or i don't know what else just because of their presence here ? Legit question here.
And for internet yeah that's true internet got improved since it started (thanks god) but hey it doesn't change the fact that to me : people shouldn't be afraid of being recognized on such a website. And if you disagree with that, that's your right (you have the right to be wrong  just kidding chill the fuck out), and i don't understand that fear, but it's your (your as the reader, not as you specifically) business not mine.
And once again cheating on anyone is wrong as fuck and if i could i would put cheaters straight in hell by spending a lot of time through Dantes 7Circles of Hell.
So i hope you get my point about cheating (: ! |
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