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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not sure. We haven't replied yet. 
Seriously though, don't let it bother you, if they're impatient and ignorant on a website, imagine what they would be like when meeting? |
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"Any one get blocked for not replying sooner enough?"
I once had 27 messages to answer after a few weeks away and started at the oldest and one was from a couple offering me a meet. 2 messages up, next day, when clearly I hadn't been on line it was all you didn't bother replying so forget it  |
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Yes loads of times
I can't read all the messages I receive on s daily basis and when I get chance to reply if I haven't straightaway sometimes get blocked
I think it's funny because if they had of been patient they may not still be searching for a meet at the weekend lol x |
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"I've been blocked by people I've never spoken to and only realised when I clicked their names on a forum post
Happens to us too "
Yes especially when I have dared to disagree politely with their opinion on the forums too  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've been blocked by people I've never spoken to and only realised when I clicked their names on a forum post
Happens to us too
Yes especially when I have dared to disagree politely with their opinion on the forums too "
Think that happens to everyone here...
But if they blocked you...its their loss |
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"I've been blocked by people I've never spoken to and only realised when I clicked their names on a forum post
Happens to us too
Yes especially when I have dared to disagree politely with their opinion on the forums too "
Their loss  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've been blocked by people I've never spoken to and only realised when I clicked their names on a forum post
Happens to us too
Yes especially when I have dared to disagree politely with their opinion on the forums too
Their loss "
I've had that too as recently as today.
Some people can't handle intelligent or insightful responses. I think some just post things to get attention and when it doesn't go their way the take a strop.
Like you say their loss
Craig |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I recently blocked a woman who let me down last second with a ridiculous excuse.
We'd spoken on Kik and she won't stop contacting me now, apologising and begging for a 2nd chance.
I don't know how to block her on Kik.
Half of me finds it annoying. The other half, slightly flattered as I thought this wasn't a thing guys had to worry about.
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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago
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"I recently blocked a woman who let me down last second with a ridiculous excuse.
We'd spoken on Kik and she won't stop contacting me now, apologising and begging for a 2nd chance.
I don't know how to block her on Kik.
Half of me finds it annoying. The other half, slightly flattered as I thought this wasn't a thing guys had to worry about.
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swipe left across their name and mute them.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I recently blocked a woman who let me down last second with a ridiculous excuse.
We'd spoken on Kik and she won't stop contacting me now, apologising and begging for a 2nd chance.
I don't know how to block her on Kik.
Half of me finds it annoying. The other half, slightly flattered as I thought this wasn't a thing guys had to worry about.
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Go into that chat and then you should have an option any in top corner but I'll double check for ya |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Reasons I block.
Getting messed about last minute with crap excuses.
Admitting to doing some sort of background check without my knowledge (ask first and you'll probably be fine).
Guys who fab my photos.
Local people I'm not fussed about who repost the same photos on a daily basis.
Local people with photos I think are howling!
I agree most of those don't leave the person who got blocked much of a guess as why they got blocked. But it's not a reflection on the personality of the person, bar maybe the first one. So they shouldn't take it personally. End of the day.. If you're blocked, you're blocked.. not much you can do about it.. So not really worth getting upset or annoyed about. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I recently blocked a woman who let me down last second with a ridiculous excuse.
We'd spoken on Kik and she won't stop contacting me now, apologising and begging for a 2nd chance.
I don't know how to block her on Kik.
Half of me finds it annoying. The other half, slightly flattered as I thought this wasn't a thing guys had to worry about.
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Yep in top left corner of the chat there is a dot. Hit that and three smaller ones should pop up. Hit those and the block option is there.
Hope this helps.
And incidentally I've had that too, except she displayed a veri from the same evening we had arranged to meet lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I recently blocked a woman who let me down last second with a ridiculous excuse.
We'd spoken on Kik and she won't stop contacting me now, apologising and begging for a 2nd chance.
I don't know how to block her on Kik.
Half of me finds it annoying. The other half, slightly flattered as I thought this wasn't a thing guys had to worry about.
swipe left across their name and mute them.
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Ahh I saw mute.. but didn't think it did that. Thank you.
I normally use WhatsApp when switching from Fab, as I don't normally care about my own privacy so much if its got to the stage of arranging a meet.
Only joined Kik recently and haven't figured it out yet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I recently blocked a woman who let me down last second with a ridiculous excuse.
We'd spoken on Kik and she won't stop contacting me now, apologising and begging for a 2nd chance.
I don't know how to block her on Kik.
Half of me finds it annoying. The other half, slightly flattered as I thought this wasn't a thing guys had to worry about.
Yep in top left corner of the chat there is a dot. Hit that and three smaller ones should pop up. Hit those and the block option is there.
Hope this helps.
And incidentally I've had that too, except she displayed a veri from the same evening we had arranged to meet lol"
So I can mute or block? Does either one inform the other person you've blocked communication. I want her to get the point asap.
Feel your pain brutha lol.. first time I've actually got to the point where ive prepared and got everything ready.. then been let down. Normally it's the morning of the evening we've agreed to. I can forgive that as you have been given plenty of notice. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've been blocked by people I've never spoken to and only realised when I clicked their names on a forum post
Happens to us too
Yes especially when I have dared to disagree politely with their opinion on the forums too
Their loss
I've had that too as recently as today.
Some people can't handle intelligent or insightful responses. I think some just post things to get attention and when it doesn't go their way the take a strop.
Like you say their loss
Craig"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I recently blocked a woman who let me down last second with a ridiculous excuse.
We'd spoken on Kik and she won't stop contacting me now, apologising and begging for a 2nd chance.
I don't know how to block her on Kik.
Half of me finds it annoying. The other half, slightly flattered as I thought this wasn't a thing guys had to worry about.
Yep in top left corner of the chat there is a dot. Hit that and three smaller ones should pop up. Hit those and the block option is there.
Hope this helps.
And incidentally I've had that too, except she displayed a veri from the same evening we had arranged to meet lol
So I can mute or block? Does either one inform the other person you've blocked communication. I want her to get the point asap.
Feel your pain brutha lol.. first time I've actually got to the point where ive prepared and got everything ready.. then been let down. Normally it's the morning of the evening we've agreed to. I can forgive that as you have been given plenty of notice."
Go to your privacy settings on kik, it will give you option to block users there |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I recently blocked a woman who let me down last second with a ridiculous excuse.
We'd spoken on Kik and she won't stop contacting me now, apologising and begging for a 2nd chance.
I don't know how to block her on Kik.
Half of me finds it annoying. The other half, slightly flattered as I thought this wasn't a thing guys had to worry about.
Yep in top left corner of the chat there is a dot. Hit that and three smaller ones should pop up. Hit those and the block option is there.
Hope this helps.
And incidentally I've had that too, except she displayed a veri from the same evening we had arranged to meet lol
So I can mute or block? Does either one inform the other person you've blocked communication. I want her to get the point asap.
Feel your pain brutha lol.. first time I've actually got to the point where ive prepared and got everything ready.. then been let down. Normally it's the morning of the evening we've agreed to. I can forgive that as you have been given plenty of notice.
Go to your privacy settings on kik, it will give you option to block users there "
Thanks.. people already told me though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've been blocked by people I've never spoken to and only realised when I clicked their names on a forum post "
We have been blocked by couples that we have not had contact with, other than a wink from them, to draw attention to the fact that they had blocked us. |
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I've been blocked also in the forums - I can only imagine people didn't like what I said or what I look like or my profile. More fool them for thinking I'd be interested in looking/contacting. Definitely some at the shallower end of the gene pool. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes loads of times
I can't read all the messages I receive on s daily basis and when I get chance to reply if I haven't straightaway sometimes get blocked
I think it's funny because if they had of been patient they may not still be searching for a meet at the weekend lol x "
You think thats bad.. i once bought a girl a bright pink beanie hat.. havent heard from her since |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've blocked loads of people I haven't spoken to tbh,
It bugs me if my update feed is full of the same people whinging on, or people who have decided to be escorts... So they end up on my block list. |
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"I've been blocked by people I've never spoken to and only realised when I clicked their names on a forum post We have been blocked by couples that we have not had contact with, other than a wink from them, to draw attention to the fact that they had blocked us."
We have couples wink us ..we send one back and they then block us ..it's a funny site ...their loss never find out what a naughty couple we are  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've been blocked by people I've never spoken to and only realised when I clicked their names on a forum post
Happens to us too "
There's a couple so far, I'm confused but not bothered really, we'd never spoken but each to their own  |
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"Yes loads of times
I can't read all the messages I receive on s daily basis and when I get chance to reply if I haven't straightaway sometimes get blocked
I think it's funny because if they had of been patient they may not still be searching for a meet at the weekend lol x
You think thats bad.. i once bought a girl a bright pink beanie hat.. havent heard from her since "
Haha and that girl left it at the party allegedly
I think another party invite is due  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not sure. We haven't replied yet.
Seriously though, don't let it bother you, if they're impatient and ignorant on a website, imagine what they would be like when meeting? "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The local news feed is the best block 'list'. Most seem to think they are on FB and we get the full story of what they ate, did and watch them moan all day long. Not for me, thanks  |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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"Any one get blocked for not replying sooner enough?
I once had 27 messages to answer after a few weeks away and started at the oldest and one was from a couple offering me a meet. 2 messages up, next day, when clearly I hadn't been on line it was all you didn't bother replying so forget it "
I start with the oldest otherwise I lose them |
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I don't know if I've been blocked for not messaging soon anough or whether another lady answered and they don't want to chat to me anymore, or maybe a simple change of mind
Who knows and who cares |
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"I've been blocked by people I've never spoken to and only realised when I clicked their names on a forum post "
Ha ha I found one these the other day... and they are on this post above
We spoke and they seemed very nice and politely said they just block at random so hey ho no drama... at least I hadn't upset anyone
I just some folk just have a block-thon lol
There goes tonight's sleep |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I block people even though we havent spoke.
I view their profile, realise I'm not what, or they're not what I want so simply block to stop them showing up in future.
Nothing sinister about it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I block people even though we havent spoke.
I view their profile, realise I'm not what, or they're not what I want so simply block to stop them showing up in future.
Nothing sinister about it "
That is exactly what we do
It had nothing to do with the person; just that they are not the type we would look to meet and that is all there is to it
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've been blocked also in the forums - I can only imagine people didn't like what I said or what I look like or my profile. More fool them for thinking I'd be interested in looking/contacting. Definitely some at the shallower end of the gene pool. "
I've blocked you and it wasn't because of the forum.. even that's where I notice your name from. Do I have to explain why? Or am I entitled to my privacy if I choose to keep it?
I also don't agree that my reason has anything to do with being shallow, to do with what you've said, or me not having good genes and I'm pretty sure it's not my loss either.
But it's no reason to get your knickers in a twist or make wild assumptions if you've no idea why. If they don't want to explain.. they shouldn't have to.
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"Yup.. 4 minutes after their message. I had another saying too slow and blocked lol "
Ha ha that's like a gameshow of fab whack a mole
Funny how some folk have come up with these little quirky systems lol |
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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago
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Happen to us once, couple sent us a message asking to meet. I read it and as we are a couple thought I had better check with Alexis before replying. Got a message five minutes later saying a simple no thank you would have been polite and then they blocked us.
We feel that if they were that pushy we probably wouldn't have wanted to meet them anyway. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"been blocked for liking a photo "
I have too, but my logic is they viewed my profile, I didn't match their criteria so to avoid any contact they used a function to prevent any contact.
I think people get too personal about the block button, it has multiple reasons for it's use. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've been blocked also in the forums - I can only imagine people didn't like what I said or what I look like or my profile. More fool them for thinking I'd be interested in looking/contacting. Definitely some at the shallower end of the gene pool.
I've blocked you and it wasn't because of the forum.. even that's where I notice your name from. Do I have to explain why? Or am I entitled to my privacy if I choose to keep it?
I also don't agree that my reason has anything to do with being shallow, to do with what you've said, or me not having good genes and I'm pretty sure it's not my loss either.
But it's no reason to get your knickers in a twist or make wild assumptions if you've no idea why. If they don't want to explain.. they shouldn't have to.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Now that is just stupid.....I'd never block without knowing someone and even if they'd done something I'd give them the benefit before blocking.
I'm just sick of being tarred with the "single guy" brush......not all of us are lying cheating blokes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've been blocked also in the forums - I can only imagine people didn't like what I said or what I look like or my profile. More fool them for thinking I'd be interested in looking/contacting. Definitely some at the shallower end of the gene pool.
I've blocked you and it wasn't because of the forum.. even that's where I notice your name from. Do I have to explain why? Or am I entitled to my privacy if I choose to keep it?
I also don't agree that my reason has anything to do with being shallow, to do with what you've said, or me not having good genes and I'm pretty sure it's not my loss either.
But it's no reason to get your knickers in a twist or make wild assumptions if you've no idea why. If they don't want to explain.. they shouldn't have to.
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I'd also like to the block wasn't and shouldn't be taken personal. |
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I block if a message is deleted and not replied to, it shows they are not interested and that way they don't pop up on my timeline.
It not me being disrespectful but just being realistic, no point having people showing who clearly want no further contact |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Got blocked by a lady asking for profile advice I told her it was too long it needed to be shorter and more to the point but her pics were good she said I'm not taking advice of a moron and blocked me some people shouldn't ask for advice if they can't take it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have also been blocked simply because I've chatted to someone in forums that someone else doesn't like even though if never talked to blocked personally |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've been blocked by people I've never spoken to and only realised when I clicked their names on a forum post
Happens to us too
Yes especially when I have dared to disagree politely with their opinion on the forums too
Their loss
I've had that too as recently as today.
Some people can't handle intelligent or insightful responses. I think some just post things to get attention and when it doesn't go their way the take a strop.
Like you say their loss
Craig"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I sometimes find I'm blocked but that's part and parcel of being a guy in here.
If someone doesn't reply to me I don't block them though. Either they're not interested (so they won't be checking me out anytime soon), or they are bombarded with messages and mine got missed off (easy to do and really hard to make your message stand out!) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes loads of times
I can't read all the messages I receive on s daily basis and when I get chance to reply if I haven't straightaway sometimes get blocked
I think it's funny because if they had of been patient they may not still be searching for a meet at the weekend lol x
You think thats bad.. i once bought a girl a bright pink beanie hat.. havent heard from her since
Haha and that girl left it at the party allegedly
I think another party invite is due "
We are planning another summer bash (no pun intended).. invite shall be in the post |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've been blocked also in the forums - I can only imagine people didn't like what I said or what I look like or my profile. More fool them for thinking I'd be interested in looking/contacting. Definitely some at the shallower end of the gene pool.
I've blocked you and it wasn't because of the forum.. even that's where I notice your name from. Do I have to explain why? Or am I entitled to my privacy if I choose to keep it?
I also don't agree that my reason has anything to do with being shallow, to do with what you've said, or me not having good genes and I'm pretty sure it's not my loss either.
But it's no reason to get your knickers in a twist or make wild assumptions if you've no idea why. If they don't want to explain.. they shouldn't have to.
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We could not care less who blocks us. We especially don't care if they then parade around on these forums like Demi-Gods declaring who they have blocked
We block people for our own reasons and nobody has the right to ask us for those reasons. Nor do we 'publicise' our block list as as a sign of superiority in 'digit dexterity', because that is all it is
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"I've been blocked also in the forums - I can only imagine people didn't like what I said or what I look like or my profile. More fool them for thinking I'd be interested in looking/contacting. Definitely some at the shallower end of the gene pool.
I've blocked you and it wasn't because of the forum.. even that's where I notice your name from. Do I have to explain why? Or am I entitled to my privacy if I choose to keep it?
I also don't agree that my reason has anything to do with being shallow, to do with what you've said, or me not having good genes and I'm pretty sure it's not my loss either.
But it's no reason to get your knickers in a twist or make wild assumptions if you've no idea why. If they don't want to explain.. they shouldn't have to.
We could not care less who blocks us. We especially don't care if they then parade around on these forums like Demi-Gods declaring who they have blocked
We block people for our own reasons and nobody has the right to ask us for those reasons. Nor do we 'publicise' our block list as as a sign of superiority in 'digit dexterity', because that is all it is
- Mrs. J -"
Demi God's of digit dexterity.. good use of language |
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"Yes loads of times
I can't read all the messages I receive on s daily basis and when I get chance to reply if I haven't straightaway sometimes get blocked
I think it's funny because if they had of been patient they may not still be searching for a meet at the weekend lol x
You think thats bad.. i once bought a girl a bright pink beanie hat.. havent heard from her since
Haha and that girl left it at the party allegedly
I think another party invite is due
We are planning another summer bash (no pun intended).. invite shall be in the post "
Excellent |
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"Yes loads of times
I can't read all the messages I receive on s daily basis and when I get chance to reply if I haven't straightaway sometimes get blocked
I think it's funny because if they had of been patient they may not still be searching for a meet at the weekend lol x
You think thats bad.. i once bought a girl a bright pink beanie hat.. havent heard from her since
Haha and that girl left it at the party allegedly
I think another party invite is due
We are planning another summer bash (no pun intended).. invite shall be in the post
Excellent "
I'm liking the sound of this party ?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The block button is a site tool/feature, not a punishment. Dunno why people take it so personally.
My main reason for pre-emptive blocking, is when I'm browsing profiles and they are completely incompatible. It simply serves as a reminder.
I wouldn't block people for a message-related reason, unless they sent me something abusive. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Once got blocked simply because I didnt send a face pic fast enough.
It was a particularly aggressive couple, surprised they ever get meets with that attitude. |
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There is nothing wrong with using the block button it in general means "I don;'t want correspondence from you" its not like there aren't 1001 other people to message so why people let it bother them I don't know its better to be adult about it delete their mail and just move on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not sure. We haven't replied yet.
Seriously though, don't let it bother you, if they're impatient and ignorant on a website, imagine what they would be like when meeting? "
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By *dy-ukTV/TS
over a year ago
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"There is nothing wrong with using the block button it in general means "I don;'t want correspondence from you" its not like there aren't 1001 other people to message so why people let it bother them I don't know its better to be adult about it delete their mail and just move on. "
23001 other people |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oops, blocked for not answering a message soon enough? Or is this just single guys being pushy?"
how are they being pushy if they've blocked you ,they obviously aren't interested anymore
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There is nothing wrong with using the block button it in general means "I don;'t want correspondence from you" its not like there aren't 1001 other people to message so why people let it bother them I don't know its better to be adult about it delete their mail and just move on.
23001 other people "
I use the block button when I tell someone politely that they are not my type & they get abusive.
Or when I do a search & come across a profile who's criteria I don't match I block so I don't accidentally message them & irritate them & make myself look stupid. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"been blocked for liking a photo "
I've done that before too actually, someone used to look like EVERY DAY but never say owt, so I thought I'd say hi... Nothing suggestive or sinister, just something like 'i saw you'd been nosing so thought I'd say hi, incase you were too shy', or something equally as corny.. immediately deleted so I thought, well stuff you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've been blocked by people I've never spoken to and only realised when I clicked their names on a forum post "
I had the exact same thing happen to me. Really confuses me  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've been blocked by people I've never spoken to and only realised when I clicked their names on a forum post
I had the exact same thing happen to me. Really confuses me "
That's just to make sure you don't try to contact them as they would not be intretested |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've been blocked by people I've never spoken to and only realised when I clicked their names on a forum post
I had the exact same thing happen to me. Really confuses me
That's just to make sure you don't try to contact them as they would not be intretested "
Ohhhhhhh, that makes sense. More than my theory of them being worried I knew them personally lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've been blocked by people I've never spoken to and only realised when I clicked their names on a forum post "
I get that too :/ i find that quite strange ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've just blocked an abusive woman from donny who instead of saying sorry not interested preferred to be abusive and call me names and they day us single guys are what ruins everyone's fun |
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"Reasons I block.
Getting messed about last minute with crap excuses.
Admitting to doing some sort of background check without my knowledge (ask first and you'll probably be fine).
Guys who fab my photos.
Local people I'm not fussed about who repost the same photos on a daily basis.
Local people with photos I think are howling!
I agree most of those don't leave the person who got blocked much of a guess as why they got blocked. But it's not a reflection on the personality of the person, bar maybe the first one. So they shouldn't take it personally. End of the day.. If you're blocked, you're blocked.. not much you can do about it.. So not really worth getting upset or annoyed about."
You think they're me!?! Why are you blocking me what did i ever do to you...uppity get..
Had this happen to us today, a couple messaged us asking if we were in quest at the weekend. I didn't see it as we were elsewhere and it's surely considered rude to fab on a meet? Then we were hungover so any response greater than ugggg is a challenge.
But alas it saved us letting them down gently |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Been blocked by people I didn't even know were on here by people I have never spoken to...
And by one or two who have had a stampy foot tantrum....
Even been blocked unblocked by someone who sent an abusive txt then blocked me again..
The powers of communication here sometimes bemused me...
But if they block me...perhaps they lose something too...
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Wow this thread is an eye opener! Are people really that irritated about being blocked? to me its just a way of saying you are not interested in chatting and saves everyone a lot of time its pointless reading too much into it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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When a guy messages, if I know I'm not going to say yes to him. I'll say no thank you, wish him happy swinging and block immediately.
Because, it just saves us both hassle. I don't come up on his search, so he doesn't accidentally message again.
It also stops the guys who think they can convince you by being persistent.
And unfortunately some guys get incredibly nasty when they've been turned down. Which can be a real downer when I've tried to be kind. I'd rather avoid that too.
So, big fan of the block button! |
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"Wow this thread is an eye opener! Are people really that irritated about being blocked? to me its just a way of saying you are not interested in chatting and saves everyone a lot of time its pointless reading too much into it."
Like you say it's one less person or persons you have to feel the need to chat to and can get on chatting with those that interest you |
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I personally think it's a case of do onto others as you would them to do onto you, if you're polite and curteous, it's not unreasonable to expect a little bit back.
There's never any reason for abaicke behaviour to anyone. Irrespective of which side you are on ie solicited or unsolicited
We are all adults here for similar reasons, it would be much nicer if some people remembered that and acted accordingly |
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I personally think it's a case of do onto others as you would like them to do onto you, if you're polite and curteous, it's not unreasonable to expect a little bit back.
There's never any reason for abusive* behaviour to anyone. Irrespective of which side you are on ie solicited or unsolicited
We are all adults here for similar reasons, it would be much nicer if some people remembered that and acted accordingly "
*correction |
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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago
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"Any one get blocked for not replying sooner enough?"
Not really but I got blocked after telling someone how big my cock is.
I mean seriously, some people have no sense of adventure...  |
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