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By *ral D OP Man
over a year ago
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Any blokes Had, Having or been through a mid life crisis? Dunno if im having one but i feel like whats the fucking point of anything, just feel like ditching the world and starting a new life for me rather than for others. |
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over a year ago
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I honestly think I'm having a mid life crisis of sorts. My attitude to life has changed massively and I'm being more selfish. That's because I've always given everything to everyone else and left nothing for me.
What I would say OP is that as long as your not hurting someone/ people go for it. I guess being on fab is questionable for both of us? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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All I'd say is be careful. The grass is always greener than it actually is on the other side and when you get there you'll just get a new set of problems.
All the best and hope you get topside of this feeling soon. |
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It's easy when you feel you're making all the effort to blame those around you.
Have a good look in the mirror and ask if your giving enough out to get what you need back.
This might be love, respect, understanding....
Hope you do the right thing for you, whatever that is. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Best advice, simply be rigourously honest with both yourself and those around you. Once you've worked out what the problem/s is/are though. Good luck and be kind to yourself.
Wayne  |
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over a year ago
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"Any blokes Had, Having or been through a mid life crisis? Dunno if im having one but i feel like whats the fucking point of anything, just feel like ditching the world and starting a new life for me rather than for others. "
I'm a 42 year and I'm loving my mid life crisis!! More cock and pussy than I've EVER had in my life and feel sexier and hornier than EVER before! |
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"Any blokes Had, Having or been through a mid life crisis? Dunno if im having one but i feel like whats the fucking point of anything, just feel like ditching the world and starting a new life for me rather than for others.
I'm a 42 year and I'm loving my mid life crisis!! More cock and pussy than I've EVER had in my life and feel sexier and hornier than EVER before! "
Ditto! Amen sister!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Any blokes Had, Having or been through a mid life crisis? Dunno if im having one but i feel like whats the fucking point of anything, just feel like ditching the world and starting a new life for me rather than for others.
I'm a 42 year and I'm loving my mid life crisis!! More cock and pussy than I've EVER had in my life and feel sexier and hornier than EVER before!
Ditto! Amen sister! "
I'm having mine next year! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Any blokes Had, Having or been through a mid life crisis? Dunno if im having one but i feel like whats the fucking point of anything, just feel like ditching the world and starting a new life for me rather than for others.
I'm a 42 year and I'm loving my mid life crisis!! More cock and pussy than I've EVER had in my life and feel sexier and hornier than EVER before!
Ditto! Amen sister! "
I sometimes sit here just laughing to myself about my new found horniness!! I wonder if anyone I know gets up to the same things that I do?!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Any blokes Had, Having or been through a mid life crisis? Dunno if im having one but i feel like whats the fucking point of anything, just feel like ditching the world and starting a new life for me rather than for others.
I'm a 42 year and I'm loving my mid life crisis!! More cock and pussy than I've EVER had in my life and feel sexier and hornier than EVER before!
Ditto! Amen sister!
I'm having mine next year! "
You'll absolutely LOVE it haha!! X |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Any blokes Had, Having or been through a mid life crisis? Dunno if im having one but i feel like whats the fucking point of anything, just feel like ditching the world and starting a new life for me rather than for others. "
I feel the exact same!! I feel like I've been stuck in a rut for years!!
I had my son at 19 years of age, don't get me wrong he is the singular best thing that has ever happened to me. He was also the making of me. I if I'm honest was a bit of a twat when I was younger, but after I had him I was determined to make a life for us.
I now have the big house in the countryside, expensive car. Motorbikes all the toys really. But I find myself questioning what's it all been for!!!
I've spent my entire life working all the hours I can and the rest of my time running around after him. Honestly I think I have gotten to the point where I have forgotten who I am and what I want in life. He is now 16 and is starting his GCSE's and really has grown up. He's a grate lad and my finest achievement!!
My point is life changes, sometimes you have to take a long look at yourself and reevaluate how you treat yourself and those around you.
One step at a time. Stop doing something you don't enjoy and try something new. If you like it keep it up if not try something else. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I also think people put too much emphasis on the word happy!!
If you asked most people if they are truly happy with every part of their life, they would be lying if they said yes.
I think the real question is are you content with life? If you are then maybe we should learn to be happy with being content with life.
Smile. Their is all always someone worse off than you |
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Is it not you or your life but an emotional issue, potentially unrelated to age?
We all benefit from looking after ourselves, our wellbeing, including our mental and physical health. Just taking steps to address this may give you what you are needing or at least put you in a stronger position to face life and manage it with greater sensitivity to what you're really needing in the future. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's easy when you feel you're making all the effort to blame those around you.
Have a good look in the mirror and ask if your giving enough out to get what you need back.
This might be love, respect, understanding....
Hope you do the right thing for you, whatever that is. "
This! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Finally got the courage to leave a shitty marriage with a tyrant, but i still hear his stupid voice in my mind, to the point of freaking out when contemplating a one on one, my confidence evaporates, thank God for clubs!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Any blokes Had, Having or been through a mid life crisis? Dunno if im having one but i feel like whats the fucking point of anything, just feel like ditching the world and starting a new life for me rather than for others. "
Totally feel the same,thinking whats the point somedays,right now just lying in bed watching clock tick,am on nights and all seem to do is just that,have days off and try to do something positive to try and shake this feeling but at the end of day just seem to end up wondering about what has my life been about,turned 50 in july and sort of suspected after having various dates but finding it hard to keep it hard while having sex,is it all part of same crisis???? |
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I had mine yrs ago decided only things in life worth having are the people and lifestyle that make me happy....its not all about the size of your house or car ...its about feeling good about yourself . |
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I started trannying. I figured it was cheaper than a Porsche and safer than a motorbike. Probably more fun than either, too.
I flounced out of a few closets. Upset a few people who had previously felt entitled to control my life. Found out who my real friends were. Made new ones in greater quantity and of better quality than the ones I lost. It's been brilliant. |
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I think I would call it re-evaluating your life... could happen at any age.
The important thing is that you are happy with the changes you make rather than trying to please others.
I think sometimes a big change can trigger this, divorce or a death in the family or losing your job, makes you want to think about the future... theres nothing wrong with that.
I have a completely different life to the one I led 2 years ago, and I am very happy, so it can happen...
I don't regret any changes I made. Looking forward not back. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Change is often good. Just make sure you know the boundaries of such thing and that people around you know your intentions. Sometimes turning the page helps even if it's not the easiest thing to do. Best of luck |
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"I got divorced ten years ago x it was the best mid life crisis I could have wished for x
Now if the next ten years are anything like the last ten ..... Bring it on x"
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I forgot to say
I indulged in cross dressing x
Discovered my love of PVC
Explored my dominate side
And got a cock piercing xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Any blokes Had, Having or been through a mid life crisis? Dunno if im having one but i feel like whats the fucking point of anything, just feel like ditching the world and starting a new life for me rather than for others.
Totally feel the same,thinking whats the point somedays,right now just lying in bed watching clock tick,am on nights and all seem to do is just that,have days off and try to do something positive to try and shake this feeling but at the end of day just seem to end up wondering about what has my life been about,turned 50 in july and sort of suspected after having various dates but finding it hard to keep it hard while having sex,is it all part of same crisis????"
Life is what you make of it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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A mid life crisis is when someone who doesn't think about the brevity and value of their life signs themselves up for a whole pile of meaningless crap then, in a moment of clarity, suddenly realise what an idiot they've been.
On the plus side I've never forgotten how important it is to follow my truth in this short life. On the downside it's kinda made my whole life into a mid life crisis lol  |
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"Any blokes Had, Having or been through a mid life crisis? Dunno if im having one but i feel like whats the fucking point of anything, just feel like ditching the world and starting a new life for me rather than for others. "
Yup, you've hit it. |
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"Any blokes Had, Having or been through a mid life crisis? Dunno if im having one but i feel like whats the fucking point of anything, just feel like ditching the world and starting a new life for me rather than for others. "
Actually the things that piss me off are very factual. The creative arts have legitimately gone down the shitter, pop culture is gay as fuck and you can't even say gay anymore without triggering some twat because they keep redefining words to make sure someone is offended by them. It's not a mid life crisis, this decade just sucks ass. |
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By *istalloverCouple
over a year ago
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we had a mid life crisis .
gave up work , sold the house and pissed off to france where the majority of Brits are pensioners,
end of mid life crisis were fekin young still and don't need Viagra yet |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Any blokes Had, Having or been through a mid life crisis? Dunno if im having one but i feel like whats the fucking point of anything, just feel like ditching the world and starting a new life for me rather than for others.
Actually the things that piss me off are very factual. The creative arts have legitimately gone down the shitter, pop culture is gay as fuck and you can't even say gay anymore without triggering some twat because they keep redefining words to make sure someone is offended by them. It's not a mid life crisis, this decade just sucks ass. "
I'll give you 5 good reasons to love this decade...
1) Neil Diamond
2) Bob Dylan
3) The Rolling Stones
4) Lionel Richie
5) Vera Lynn
Still... look on the bright side... the shittest musac that played in hotel foyers in the 80s is now the summation of what little counter culture this country has left in it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"All I'd say is be careful. The grass is always greener than it actually is on the other side and when you get there you'll just get a new set of problems.
All the best and hope you get topside of this feeling soon."
Grass isn't greener, just looks it! Stills needs attention and mowing  |
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"Any blokes Had, Having or been through a mid life crisis? Dunno if im having one but i feel like whats the fucking point of anything, just feel like ditching the world and starting a new life for me rather than for others.
Actually the things that piss me off are very factual. The creative arts have legitimately gone down the shitter, pop culture is gay as fuck and you can't even say gay anymore without triggering some twat because they keep redefining words to make sure someone is offended by them. It's not a mid life crisis, this decade just sucks ass.
I'll give you 5 good reasons to love this decade...
1) Neil Diamond
2) Bob Dylan
3) The Rolling Stones
4) Lionel Richie
5) Vera Lynn
Still... look on the bright side... the shittest musac that played in hotel foyers in the 80s is now the summation of what little counter culture this country has left in it "
It's not just music. You can objectively see that proportion of the most successful films that are sequels, prequels and remakes have dramatically increased (i.e. Hollywood has run out of ideas). Contemporary art is an oxymoron. There's a good book every now and then but it's the 50 shades of shite stuff that appeals to the great unwashed. Their thirst for reality TV and facebook likes is driving us down the pan. |
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"Any blokes Had, Having or been through a mid life crisis? Dunno if im having one but i feel like whats the fucking point of anything, just feel like ditching the world and starting a new life for me rather than for others.
Actually the things that piss me off are very factual. The creative arts have legitimately gone down the shitter, pop culture is gay as fuck and you can't even say gay anymore without triggering some twat because they keep redefining words to make sure someone is offended by them. It's not a mid life crisis, this decade just sucks ass.
I'll give you 5 good reasons to love this decade...
1) Neil Diamond
2) Bob Dylan
3) The Rolling Stones
4) Lionel Richie
5) Vera Lynn
Still... look on the bright side... the shittest musac that played in hotel foyers in the 80s is now the summation of what little counter culture this country has left in it
It's not just music. You can objectively see that proportion of the most successful films that are sequels, prequels and remakes have dramatically increased (i.e. Hollywood has run out of ideas). Contemporary art is an oxymoron. There's a good book every now and then but it's the 50 shades of shite stuff that appeals to the great unwashed. Their thirst for reality TV and facebook likes is driving us down the pan. "
Happy happy happy |
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"Any blokes Had, Having or been through a mid life crisis? Dunno if im having one but i feel like whats the fucking point of anything, just feel like ditching the world and starting a new life for me rather than for others.
Actually the things that piss me off are very factual. The creative arts have legitimately gone down the shitter, pop culture is gay as fuck and you can't even say gay anymore without triggering some twat because they keep redefining words to make sure someone is offended by them. It's not a mid life crisis, this decade just sucks ass.
I'll give you 5 good reasons to love this decade...
1) Neil Diamond
2) Bob Dylan
3) The Rolling Stones
4) Lionel Richie
5) Vera Lynn
Still... look on the bright side... the shittest musac that played in hotel foyers in the 80s is now the summation of what little counter culture this country has left in it
It's not just music. You can objectively see that proportion of the most successful films that are sequels, prequels and remakes have dramatically increased (i.e. Hollywood has run out of ideas). Contemporary art is an oxymoron. There's a good book every now and then but it's the 50 shades of shite stuff that appeals to the great unwashed. Their thirst for reality TV and facebook likes is driving us down the pan. "
This response is the best I have read on here. So true, every damned word. |
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"Any blokes Had, Having or been through a mid life crisis? Dunno if im having one but i feel like whats the fucking point of anything, just feel like ditching the world and starting a new life for me rather than for others.
Actually the things that piss me off are very factual. The creative arts have legitimately gone down the shitter, pop culture is gay as fuck and you can't even say gay anymore without triggering some twat because they keep redefining words to make sure someone is offended by them. It's not a mid life crisis, this decade just sucks ass.
I'll give you 5 good reasons to love this decade...
1) Neil Diamond
2) Bob Dylan
3) The Rolling Stones
4) Lionel Richie
5) Vera Lynn
Still... look on the bright side... the shittest musac that played in hotel foyers in the 80s is now the summation of what little counter culture this country has left in it
It's not just music. You can objectively see that proportion of the most successful films that are sequels, prequels and remakes have dramatically increased (i.e. Hollywood has run out of ideas). Contemporary art is an oxymoron. There's a good book every now and then but it's the 50 shades of shite stuff that appeals to the great unwashed. Their thirst for reality TV and facebook likes is driving us down the pan.
This response is the best I have read on here. So true, every damned word."
Well let's continue then. Politicians have always beeing lying sacks of crap, nothing has changed there. But the voter turnout has steadily declined since world war two so now they can get away with a lot more. IQ is a difficult thing to measure but there's no disputing that average IQ has declined in the past 20 years, the only debate is whether it had actually been declining longer but the decline was masked by rising health standards.
In conclusion, it's not a mid-life crisis. Things are objectively geyting shittier at the moment. I am not a cynic, this kind of thing goes in cycles and I'm sure there will be decades of improvement in the future too. But currently the mainstream culture is dumb, lazy and boring. |
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