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Profile help....

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Hi all

We've just come back after a while out of the scene and found or profile needed an update... yes its a little long but we felt it needed to be after the issues we had previously.

We could really do with an honest critical review of it and a few notes of improvement would be the icing in the cake.

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By *alandNitaCouple over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"Hi all

We've just come back after a while out of the scene and found or profile needed an update... yes its a little long but we felt it needed to be after the issues we had previously.

We could really do with an honest critical review of it and a few notes of improvement would be the icing in the cake."

Hi, it is a bit on the long side...

Personally I would prefer an avatar that isn't so pornographic... But that's just me.

The profile is also very negative. Maybe block single guys and search for yourself, and say more about what you do want, rather than the things you don't.

I find a sense of fun and positivity attractive. Negative profiles will are unlikely to entice me. though

Though others will no doubt see things differently.

Nita

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Thanks nita, sine very good and honest points, we'll look at that

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yeah. TBH I'm pretty shocked to see people kissing as a profile pic.

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By *inkySlinkyCouple over a year ago

Leeds

Why not start with the positives like you are a happily married couple and put the negatives at the end?

Sally

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Why not start with the positives like you are a happily married couple and put the negatives at the end?

Sally"

Very good idea sally!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Yeah. TBH I'm pretty shocked to see people kissing as a profile pic.

We changed the pic.

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By *oodlandCoupleCouple over a year ago

Derbyshire

Write about you as a couple and the positives. Remove all the negative things and the things you don't like. Make use of your filters and use the 'interest' options instead to list the things you like?

You reinforce the point of not playing until you had a few socials, by that time you should know the person/couple well enough to take it to the next level?

You also seemed to have been registered for over a year with 2 verifications....would you still class that as really new?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Thanks folks. S is updating parts of the profile slowly and trying to get us to appeal the right person, and all the advice here is really helpful, keep it up folks

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