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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Fed up...I don't send cock pics I try to be humourous and messages get deleted...

I think rude Pakistanis and Indians have ruined it for other Asian men on here...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yeah that's the attitude,blame others

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Yeah that's the attitude,blame others

Alright...Ill blame myself...Im an ugly fucking Asian cunt.

Happy now?

Good.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't think people get sympathy fucks

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Tempted to get into the whole racial thing this country suffers from.. but it would spark the thread into an inferno of deliberate misunderstanding, ignorance and hatred.. so I'm out.. feel for you brother from another mother.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I don't think people get sympathy fucks

I wasn't fucking asking for one!

Isn't fab a great, friendly place! Not...

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Tempted to get into the whole racial thing this country suffers from.. but it would spark the thread into an inferno of deliberate misunderstanding, ignorance and hatred.. so I'm out.. feel for you brother from another mother."

Thank you. At least you're not being snide.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Fed up...I don't send cock pics I try to be humourous and messages get deleted...

I think rude Pakistanis and Indians have ruined it for other Asian men on here...

Lack of success has absolutely nothing do do with race or others behaviour.

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
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East Sussex

"I don't think people get sympathy fucks

I wasn't fucking asking for one!

Isn't fab a great, friendly place! Not...

You're being quite aggressive. Step back and calm down.

Having been married to an Asian guy briefly when I was much younger I partly understand what you will have come across in your life but this isn't the way to deal with it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Take a look at other men's pros n see if you maybe be able to make improvements to your own.

PTU xxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Fed up...I don't send cock pics I try to be humourous and messages get deleted...

I think rude Pakistanis and Indians have ruined it for other Asian men on here...

It does in a surprising number of cases. Shut up me! Don't get drawn in!

Lack of success has absolutely nothing do do with race or others behaviour. "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't think people get sympathy fucks

I wasn't fucking asking for one!

Isn't fab a great, friendly place! Not...

It can be. But who's friendly to the aggressive entitled people? In any scenario?

And it's your fucking status. On your profile. That you use to meet people for sex. Presumably women... and here's one telling you your sttitude would send me running because women check out profiles before messages.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I see why are failing now.

I'm sure everyone else does as well.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't think people get sympathy fucks

I wasn't fucking asking for one!

Isn't fab a great, friendly place! Not...

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as a wight single male trust me it is sssooooo hard to get meets on hear and yes 99.9% of your/my messages will be deleted. You know what I do?

Block the ones that do so then you don't end up coming across them in your next search.

A lot of women on hear think their pussy is made of platinum and are very rude and egotistical so when you find that out just move on and try not to strees to much brother.

Any of them would be lucky to meet you.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Patience is the key lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

3 meets in 7 weeks? You're not doing bad at all fella!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I agree with most of the guys.. patience is the key.. but listen to what the women are saying. They are right.. there are elements of your profile and attitude that need adjusting.. nobody likes Mr negative on here.. doesn't stop me ranting crap at times though.

But there is also a heavy element of underlying closet racism in this country.. so it could be an important factor too.

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By *oxy_minxWoman over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"I see why are failing now.

I'm sure everyone else does as well."

Yeap! It doesn't take long at all before the real attitude is shown.....and apparently it is always because he is Asian! Nothing to do with the attitude

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't think people get sympathy fucks

I wasn't fucking asking for one!

Isn't fab a great, friendly place! Not...

It can be. But who's friendly to the aggressive entitled people? In any scenario?

Exactly

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"3 meets in 7 weeks? You're not doing bad at all fella!

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I know right lol.

Think ive had four in 8 months haha

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Alright...Ill blame myself...Im an ugly fucking Asian cunt."

"I wasn't fucking asking for one!

Maybe your attitude is the issue?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Only been on 7weeks and have got 3 verifications that's a lot better than most single men

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Though I do applaud an opening post which will leave the forum racists in a state of turmoil as to whether the agree or disagree with you as to who's fault it is

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I agree with most of the guys.. patience is the key.. but listen to what the women are saying. They are right.. there are elements of your profile and attitude that need adjusting.. nobody likes Mr negative on here.. doesn't stop me ranting crap at times though.

But there is also a heavy element of underlying closet racism in this country.. so it could be an important factor too."

Thing is I got accused of being racist for not replying to a message quick enough. Then when I did I was called a racist again. This was from someone who knows fuck all about me, my personal relationships, morals or ethics. That I find bloody offensive!! It undermines people going thro real racial discrimination every day of their lives.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

But there is also a heavy element of underlying closet racism in this country.. so it could be an important factor too.

Some people have to blame being rejected on something other than themselves. Blaming the person doing the rejecting is far easier I guess.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Fed up...I don't send cock pics I try to be humourous and messages get deleted...

I think rude Pakistanis and Indians have ruined it for other Asian men on here...

Really? When I politely told you I wasn't interested you were extremely rude to me OP, so please don't play the race card it has nothing to do with it, it's you're attitude that makes things hard for other Asian guys!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

But there is also a heavy element of underlying closet racism in this country.. so it could be an important factor too.

At the end of the day.. you know your own reasons. We all know women and couples put up with a lot of crap online and it does make me wonder what's wrong with the vast majority of men.

My comments regarding race are aimed at those who ARE closet or openly racist and use all manner of excuses such as facial form etc. As an excuse. I use facial form as an example, because unlike East or West African people.. Southern Asians would look almost identical in many cases as there has been much interesting from past conquests and Empires. Stretching from South Asia all the way to Greece and the Balkans. Persian empire is a great example.

I'm not accusing anyone.. I just say what I see.. the more fight back I get from the logic of the argument.. the more I suspect hidden motives.

Work, friends and customers reinforce my views of hidden racism. I'm an HGV driver.. most people assume I'm another blue collar, white racist.. just like them.. so they're not afraid to express their views on pakis, poles, eastern Europeans and ragheads.

Don't they get one he'll of a shock when I turn round and give them both barrels back and tell them they're the problem. But I'm prepared to stick with these people.. in the hope I can change their attitudes.. bit by bit, day by day.

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By *orum TrollWoman over a year ago

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"Patience is the key lol"

this basically.

even for NSA sex you aren't gonna be compatible with that many people.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You seem like an absolute delight...

Your initial posts to this thread were rude and then comments from women you've already messaged show you to be exactly the same via inbox.

Rather than blaming the colour of your skin, why not take a step back and review the way you're coming across to people?

Too many people on here think that they're entitled to sleep with the first person they message. NEWSFLASH: People have morals, ethics and preferences.

Christ! Full grown men venting because they can't get laid. Good lord.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't think people get sympathy fucks

I wasn't fucking asking for one!

Isn't fab a great, friendly place! Not...

as a wight single male trust me it is sssooooo hard to get meets on hear and yes 99.9% of your/my messages will be deleted. You know what I do?

Block the ones that do so then you don't end up coming across them in your next search.

A lot of women on hear think their pussy is made of platinum and are very rude and egotistical so when you find that out just move on and try not to strees to much brother.

Any of them would be lucky to meet you."

Why shouldn't i treat any part of my body as though it were made of the most precious of things?

My body that i live with 100% of the time, that provides all the pleasure and pain I feel in my lifetime.

To be on fab as a female does give you a wide audience to reach out to. But when most of that audience can't understand that my pussy and my pleasure are 100% in my control... well, that's why we dismiss some people over the smallest of red flags in their profile.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't think people get sympathy fucks

Hey... that's my whole thing

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't think people get sympathy fucks

Hey... that's my whole thing

well then well done you!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't think people get sympathy fucks

I wasn't fucking asking for one!

Isn't fab a great, friendly place! Not...

as a wight single male trust me it is sssooooo hard to get meets on hear and yes 99.9% of your/my messages will be deleted. You know what I do?

Block the ones that do so then you don't end up coming across them in your next search.

A lot of women on hear think their pussy is made of platinum and are very rude and egotistical so when you find that out just move on and try not to strees to much brother.

Any of them would be lucky to meet you.

Why shouldn't i treat any part of my body as though it were made of the most precious of things?

My body that i live with 100% of the time, that provides all the pleasure and pain I feel in my lifetime.

I think a lot of people who haven't long joined don't appreciate the difference in male/female ratios.. they only see 20 women in their local area and 40 couples and get nowhere very quickly. It's only when you start meeting people that you finally begin to realise the differences and the shit people have to put up with.

Men included.. guys.. don't lower your standards just to get a shag. You're as platinum as the pussy on here. Don't change yourselves too much just to fit to what you think Fab wants you to be. But there are some definate "Don't do's" Usually the same things you wouldn't do in reality or a normal nightclub.

Being rejected by an individual because they don't want you.. may hurt and confuse you. Hurting them back isn't going to make you feel any better.

I got a new hair cut recently and messaged a local woman who I think is gorgeous. I'd messaged her twice over a yr and a half.. both ignored and unopened. So I tried one last time.. I sent her my new pic and asked "Still think I'm ugly?" I got a reply this time.. YES. You have to laugh at that response, I set myself up. I know I'm not ugly.. but to her I am.. I can't change it.. as much as I'd like to.

Crack on

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't think people get sympathy fucks

Hey... that's my whole thing

well then well done you!

Merci, I've got an awesome bottom lip wobble when people say no. You can actually hear the panties hit the floor.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't think people get sympathy fucks

I wasn't fucking asking for one!

Isn't fab a great, friendly place! Not...

as a wight single male trust me it is sssooooo hard to get meets on hear and yes 99.9% of your/my messages will be deleted. You know what I do?

Block the ones that do so then you don't end up coming across them in your next search.

A lot of women on hear think their pussy is made of platinum and are very rude and egotistical so when you find that out just move on and try not to strees to much brother.

Any of them would be lucky to meet you.

Why shouldn't i treat any part of my body as though it were made of the most precious of things?

My body that i live with 100% of the time, that provides all the pleasure and pain I feel in my lifetime.

Being rejected by an individual because they don't want you.. may hurt and confuse you. Hurting them back isn't going to make you feel any better.

Crack on "

Sensible words. If we all just look at ourselves and responses, it makes fab a much more Fabulous place. Often the crappy one liners and the negative people are dismissed because it feels like they would be lowering themselves to fuck. And it's a lot more fun, surely, if all parties are walking away thinking "lucky me"?

People do bring their prejudices to fab. Some people see them more clearly and deal with them. Others get more stuck in a mindset because they can find people to agree with them. Others still lash out.

Plantinum private parts all round

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't think people get sympathy fucks

Hey... that's my whole thing

well then well done you!

Merci, I've got an awesome bottom lip wobble when people say no. You can actually hear the panties hit the floor.

i guess everyone has their thing!

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By *sGivesWoodWoman over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"I don't think people get sympathy fucks

Hey... that's my whole thing

well then well done you!

Merci, I've got an awesome bottom lip wobble when people say no. You can actually hear the panties hit the floor.

i guess everyone has their thing!"

Indeed we do! The world would be boring if we were all the same!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't think people get sympathy fucks

Hey... that's my whole thing

well then well done you!

Merci, I've got an awesome bottom lip wobble when people say no. You can actually hear the panties hit the floor.

i guess everyone has their thing!

Indeed we do! The world would be boring if we were all the same!"

You say that like it would be a bad thing

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By *sGivesWoodWoman over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"I don't think people get sympathy fucks

Hey... that's my whole thing

well then well done you!

Merci, I've got an awesome bottom lip wobble when people say no. You can actually hear the panties hit the floor.

i guess everyone has their thing!

Indeed we do! The world would be boring if we were all the same!

You say that like it would be a bad thing

Lol maybe not then

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Being rejected by an individual may hurt and confuse you. Hurting them back isn't going to make you feel any better."

An excellent piece of advice.

When faced with a rejection - particularly a flat-out, unqualified 'no' - it's common to want to ask 'why?' or think to yourself 'what did I do wrong?'

However, while some people may be perfectly happy to explain their decision, and/or offer advice as to how to improve your approach, they're not obliged to do so. They're not mentors, teachers, life-coaches or agony aunts...they don't *owe* you an explanation...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Firstly as one poster already pointed out the ratio of men to women isn't in your favour.

And I'm going to say something that will probably be fairly unpopular... but...

You're competing against some men that have really sexy bodies on here. And you're shorter than average. Like it or not, the reality is some will be attracted to you and some won't.

You're not entitled to pussy.

I constantly get messages from men who don't match my criteria... who either didn't read the profile or choose to ignore it completely.

It's time-wasting and incredibly annoying. Are you perhaps guilty of that?

And while most men are very polite on here. Some are absolutely rude. And all races of men can turn nasty in response

to rejection. But if we're talking ratios where it tends to occur more frequently, in my lived experience, it's from Asian men.

And yes, I've been with an Asian man before who was fine. And I'm part Asian, proudly.

Just breaking in down!

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By *sGivesWoodWoman over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Firstly as one poster already pointed out the ratio of men to women isn't in your favour.

And I'm going to say something that will probably be fairly unpopular... but...

You're competing against some men that have really sexy bodies on here. And you're shorter than average. Like it or not, the reality is some will be attracted to you and some won't.

You're not entitled to pussy.

I constantly get messages from men who don't match my criteria... who either didn't read the profile or choose to ignore it completely.

It's time-wasting and incredibly annoying. Are you perhaps guilty of that?

And while most men are very polite on here. Some are absolutely rude. And all races of men can turn nasty in response

to rejection. But if we're talking ratios where it tends to occur more frequently, in my lived experience, it's from Asian men.

And yes, I've been with an Asian man before who was fine. And I'm part Asian, proudly.

Just breaking in down! "

Well said x

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I don't think people get sympathy fucks

I wasn't fucking asking for one!

Isn't fab a great, friendly place! Not...

as a wight single male trust me it is sssooooo hard to get meets on hear and yes 99.9% of your/my messages will be deleted. You know what I do?

Block the ones that do so then you don't end up coming across them in your next search.

A lot of women on hear think their pussy is made of platinum and are very rude and egotistical so when you find that out just move on and try not to strees to much brother.

Any of them would be lucky to meet you."

Thank YOU for your well put kind words.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Firstly as one poster already pointed out the ratio of men to women isn't in your favour.

And I'm going to say something that will probably be fairly unpopular... but...

You're competing against some men that have really sexy bodies on here. And you're shorter than average. Like it or not, the reality is some will be attracted to you and some won't.

You're not entitled to pussy.

I constantly get messages from men who don't match my criteria... who either didn't read the profile or choose to ignore it completely.

It's time-wasting and incredibly annoying. Are you perhaps guilty of that?

And while most men are very polite on here. Some are absolutely rude. And all races of men can turn nasty in response

to rejection. But if we're talking ratios where it tends to occur more frequently, in my lived experience, it's from Asian men.

And yes, I've been with an Asian man before who was fine. And I'm part Asian, proudly.

Just breaking in down!

Well said x

"Asian men this, Asian men that" let's blame them for every sodding bad thing in the world then eh? Makes me sick...

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I don't think people get sympathy fucks

I wasn't fucking asking for one!

Isn't fab a great, friendly place! Not...

as a wight single male trust me it is sssooooo hard to get meets on hear and yes 99.9% of your/my messages will be deleted. You know what I do?

Block the ones that do so then you don't end up coming across them in your next search.

A lot of women on hear think their pussy is made of platinum and are very rude and egotistical so when you find that out just move on and try not to strees to much brother.

Any of them would be lucky to meet you.

Why shouldn't i treat any part of my body as though it were made of the most precious of things?

My body that i live with 100% of the time, that provides all the pleasure and pain I feel in my lifetime.

Being rejected by an individual because they don't want you.. may hurt and confuse you. Hurting them back isn't going to make you feel any better.

Crack on

Plantinum private parts all round

I didn't bring any "prejudices to fab" then I read the crap in the forums and profiles on race being an issue...

But hey, having said it before I'll say it again, just to make everyone happy:

My failings:

Height, 5ft 8.

My race as perceived by many of you,

My facial features

Oh, and my "attitude"...I can't speak up.about the bigotry on here without it being labelled a chip on my shoulder issue here...

At the end of the day, I never see race when I contact anyone here but clearly others do and that's why I get deleted and nowhere...lwts add ugly as sin to my list of "failings". Hope the snide ones are happier now. I've addresses my "failings".

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

But there is also a heavy element of underlying closet racism in this country.. so it could be an important factor too.

At the end of the day.. you know your own reasons. We all know women and couples put up with a lot of crap online and it does make me wonder what's wrong with the vast majority of men.

I'm not accusing anyone.. I just say what I see.. the more fight back I get from the logic of the argument.. the more I suspect hidden motives.

We live in hope but on fab it's usually slammed down as it has been in this thread. It's only been you and maybe two other men who've had wiser, saner comments to add...which clearly reiterates my sentiments and feeling of being fed up...but thank YOU for your comments.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Nobody has been bigoted on this thread OP you brought up the race issue, there is nothing wrong with your height, age looks etc, however as far as your attitude is concerned, it comes across as being very negative, perhaps try to be more positive and it may help more than ranting at people. Wishing you the best of luck and happy fabbing

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Nobody has been bigoted on this thread OP you brought up the race issue, there is nothing wrong with your height, age looks etc, however as far as your attitude is concerned, it comes across as being very negative, perhaps try to be more positive and it may help more than ranting at people. Wishing you the best of luck and happy fabbing

I don't know anymore but thank you for your comments Georgie.

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

If you can't change one thing that might be putting others off meeting you, try concentrating on changing the other things that are definitely putting others off meeting you.

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By *eliWoman over a year ago

I think a lot of people go through phases of feeling fed up with the site OP. If it's not working for you currently, a break always helps I find. Then when you return you might feel energised once more!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Firstly as one poster already pointed out the ratio of men to women isn't in your favour.

And I'm going to say something that will probably be fairly unpopular... but...

You're competing against some men that have really sexy bodies on here. And you're shorter than average. Like it or not, the reality is some will be attracted to you and some won't.

You're not entitled to pussy.

I constantly get messages from men who don't match my criteria... who either didn't read the profile or choose to ignore it completely.

It's time-wasting and incredibly annoying. Are you perhaps guilty of that?

And while most men are very polite on here. Some are absolutely rude. And all races of men can turn nasty in response

to rejection. But if we're talking ratios where it tends to occur more frequently, in my lived experience, it's from Asian men.

And yes, I've been with an Asian man before who was fine. And I'm part Asian, proudly.

Just breaking in down!

Well said x

"Asian men this, Asian men that" let's blame them for every sodding bad thing in the world then eh? Makes me sick...

If you were able to read and understand what I wrote, perhaps you would have gleaned that I haven't said 'all Asian men'! I think you just want to be obtuse.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"I think a lot of people go through phases of feeling fed up with the site OP. If it's not working for you currently, a break always helps I find. Then when you return you might feel energised once more!

This

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By *punkymonkey40Man over a year ago

derby

Not just Asian most single men have the same problem. Most of us are not welcome but all you do is keep trying one day something will happen when we least expect it. I just pop on for the fun if it and don't expect to meet anyone.. I don't send messages now because I know no matter how well written your profile is.. No matter how nice you are.. Your messages will either not be read or deleted.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"I don't think people get sympathy fucks

I wasn't fucking asking for one!

Isn't fab a great, friendly place! Not...

You're being quite aggressive. Step back and calm down.

Having been married to an Asian guy briefly when I was much younger I partly understand what you will have come across in your life but this isn't the way to deal with it."

Quite agressive?!

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By *llNatural36FWoman over a year ago

Denbighshire

"You seem like an absolute delight...

Your initial posts to this thread were rude and then comments from women you've already messaged show you to be exactly the same via inbox.

Rather than blaming the colour of your skin, why not take a step back and review the way you're coming across to people?

Too many people on here think that they're entitled to sleep with the first person they message. NEWSFLASH: People have morals, ethics and preferences.

Christ! Full grown men venting because they can't get laid. Good lord."

This is spot on

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
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O o O oo

"I don't think people get sympathy fucks

I wasn't fucking asking for one!

Isn't fab a great, friendly place! Not...

Obviously not going by your post

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By *sGivesWoodWoman over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Not just Asian most single men have the same problem. Most of us are not welcome but all you do is keep trying one day something will happen when we least expect it. I just pop on for the fun if it and don't expect to meet anyone.. I don't send messages now because I know no matter how well written your profile is.. No matter how nice you are.. Your messages will either not be read or deleted.

I've always responded to all messages even if a polite no thanks, however more often than not this leads to loads of why not, or outright abuse, this is why if you are not what some ladies are looking for they will just delete unread after checking your profile, do you have unlimited time every day to respond to 100s of messages and do you ring up every company that posts junk mail through your door to tell them no thanks and explain why you aren't interested?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Untrue. By simple way of the fact I'm not a six pack toting, 10inch packing, gorgeous, millionaire, professor, fuck machine.

I've met women and couples. More than my profile suggests too.

If you have that attitude it doesn't get you far pal. Chin up, keep on plodding, use the forums and try a club (wasn't for me - I hated it).. but there is someone on here for everyone if you - come correct.

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
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O o O oo

Ok a couple of reminders...airing dirty washing is not allowed on the forum, neither is attacking people when you post just because you don't like something they have said.

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