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By *ackwithabang2000 OP   Couple  over a year ago

Stoke

Just had a friend request off a guy who wants meet us later in chamms accepted him then he deletes us then when I question why blocks us no wonder single men get ignored due to idiots like him !!!

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By *SAchickWoman  over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Sounds like he only wanted a quick peek at your friends only pics then maybe decided you're not for him after all

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Or maybe he just didn't fancy you. Single men have choices too.

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By *ackwithabang2000 OP   Couple  over a year ago

Stoke


"Sounds like he only wanted a quick peek at your friends only pics then maybe decided you're not for him after all "
that's fine but a simple yes or no is acceptable it's just rude

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Or maybe he just didn't fancy you. Single men have choices too. "

What blaspemy is this? Single men have take whatever they're given and say thank you, everyone knows that.

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By *ackwithabang2000 OP   Couple  over a year ago

Stoke

I didn't say I wanted him fancy me just common courtesy to say no thank you and I don't want to be fancied I have a partner

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Imagine if single men replied to all the messages they receive

Now if this topic was created by a single guy the answer would be 'move on, you must not be their cup of tea'.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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By *rrowxxxMan  over a year ago

Hitchin

Agree

Manners cost nothing

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By *atsun xxxMan  over a year ago

Nr LOUTH Lincolnshire


"Imagine if single men replied to all the messages they receive

Now if this topic was created by a single guy the answer would be 'move on, you must not be their cup of tea'. "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Just had a friend request off a guy who wants meet us later in chamms accepted him then he deletes us then when I question why blocks us no wonder single men get ignored due to idiots like him !!!"

So you will now ignore other single men because of him? Really

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Cant believe so many guys on here let people down.. well actually thats a lie I can believe it.. gives the rest of us single guys a bad name..

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By *ackwithabang2000 OP   Couple  over a year ago

Stoke


"Agree

Manners cost nothing "

thank you someone who gets my point

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By *ackwithabang2000 OP   Couple  over a year ago

Stoke


"Just had a friend request off a guy who wants meet us later in chamms accepted him then he deletes us then when I question why blocks us no wonder single men get ignored due to idiots like him !!!

So you will now ignore other single men because of him? Really "

did I say I ignore single men no I said no wonder they get ignored observation by how many moan I always reply or say no thank you

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By *ackwithabang2000 OP   Couple  over a year ago

Stoke


"Cant believe so many guys on here let people down.. well actually thats a lie I can believe it.. gives the rest of us single guys a bad name.. "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

maybe he knew you ??

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By *ackwithabang2000 OP   Couple  over a year ago

Stoke


"maybe he knew you ??"
that did cross my mind but I don't recognise him as I said his choice just be polite

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

It looks like he wanted to see your friends only pics and then decided he didnt want to meet you.

Blocking you is easier than possibly getting messeges from you asking why he no longer wants to meet. Doesnt it also say somewhere that no messege means they arent interested ?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Or maybe he just didn't fancy you. Single men have choices too.

What blaspemy is this? Single men have take whatever they're given and say thank you, everyone knows that."

Im sure it is in the FAQ somewhere. All single men must be grateful for any attention they may get, even if they dont fancy the couple/single fem. God help them if they upset someone and a thread needs to be started

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By *ackwithabang2000 OP   Couple  over a year ago

Stoke


"Or maybe he just didn't fancy you. Single men have choices too.

What blaspemy is this? Single men have take whatever they're given and say thank you, everyone knows that.

Im sure it is in the FAQ somewhere. All single men must be grateful for any attention they may get, even if they dont fancy the couple/single fem. God help them if they upset someone and a thread needs to be started "

it's a forum for me to posthe wotever no need for you to comment if you don't like thee thread

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By *lik and PaulCouple  over a year ago

Flagrante

Could be any number of reasons but sounds like a picture collector. We only friend people after we have met them as a way to keep in touch.

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By *ackwithabang2000 OP   Couple  over a year ago

Stoke


"Could be any number of reasons but sounds like a picture collector. We only friend people after we have met them as a way to keep in touch."
I usually do that my mistake x

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By *ackwithabang2000 OP   Couple  over a year ago

Stoke

Oooo 2 blocks in one day wooop

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Just had a friend request off a guy who wants meet us later in chamms accepted him then he deletes us then when I question why blocks us no wonder single men get ignored due to idiots like him !!!

So you will now ignore other single men because of him? Really did I say I ignore single men no I said no wonder they get ignored observation by how many moan I always reply or say no thank you "

He's the sort that gives single guys on here a bad name!

Btw, you look like you have great legs! Get in touch!

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By *ackwithabang2000 OP   Couple  over a year ago

Stoke


"Just had a friend request off a guy who wants meet us later in chamms accepted him then he deletes us then when I question why blocks us no wonder single men get ignored due to idiots like him !!!

So you will now ignore other single men because of him? Really did I say I ignore single men no I said no wonder they get ignored observation by how many moan I always reply or say no thank you

He's the sort that gives single guys on here a bad name!

Btw, you look like you have great legs! Get in touch! "

well thank you x

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman  over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton

You have two pics that are of your legs lovely legs granted but he may have wanted to see the rest of you like others have said and it turns out you weren't for him, as for for asking why? men get beat down all the time on here for asking why as we all know we don't like the hassle or grief that comes from said question.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Sounds like he only wanted a quick peek at your friends only pics then maybe decided you're not for him after all that's fine but a simple yes or no is acceptable it's just rude"

Not really...is pretty much the norm for, single ladies, when letting someone know they're not interested so....

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By *ackwithabang2000 OP   Couple  over a year ago

Stoke


"You have two pics that are of your legs lovely legs granted but he may have wanted to see the rest of you like others have said and it turns out you weren't for him, as for for asking why? men get beat down all the time on here for asking why as we all know we don't like the hassle or grief that comes from said question. "
I'd already sent a photo before the friends request

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Some people might have trouble wording a 'no thanks' nicely. It's probably easier to block and not respond.

Like I'd offer a fella posting this...just move on, it's not worth the angst.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

OP I completely agree with where you are coming from. I understand that certain people/ couples will receive ridiculous amounts of mail so replying to everyone is impossible. But in your instance is sounds like you had sent each other several messages so a simple oh your not really for me but good luck in your search type of message would of took seconds to write. The complete lack of manners from some on here is astounding as is the amount of keyboard warriors. What you have described happens to me on average about once a week. Just be grateful you didn't meet him, 100's of genuine single males on here myself included.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Just had a friend request off a guy who wants meet us later in chamms accepted him then he deletes us then when I question why blocks us no wonder single men get ignored due to idiots like him !!!"

Probably you're not his type then he couldn't be arsed explaining his reason for deleting you so just blocked you.

It's probably more lazy than rude so don't let it bother you too much.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"no wonder single men get ignored due to idiots like him !!!"

Indeed, us single guys are a monoculture after all...

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By *ackwithabang2000 OP   Couple  over a year ago

Stoke


"OP I completely agree with where you are coming from. I understand that certain people/ couples will receive ridiculous amounts of mail so replying to everyone is impossible. But in your instance is sounds like you had sent each other several messages so a simple oh your not really for me but good luck in your search type of message would of took seconds to write. The complete lack of manners from some on here is astounding as is the amount of keyboard warriors. What you have described happens to me on average about once a week. Just be grateful you didn't meet him, 100's of genuine single males on here myself included."
thank you exactaly what I was saying x

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By *ackwithabang2000 OP   Couple  over a year ago

Stoke


"Just had a friend request off a guy who wants meet us later in chamms accepted him then he deletes us then when I question why blocks us no wonder single men get ignored due to idiots like him !!!

Probably you're not his type then he couldn't be arsed explaining his reason for deleting you so just blocked you.

It's probably more lazy than rude so don't let it bother you too much."

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Just had a friend request off a guy who wants meet us later in chamms accepted him then he deletes us then when I question why blocks us no wonder single men get ignored due to idiots like him !!!

So you will now ignore other single men because of him? Really did I say I ignore single men no I said no wonder they get ignored observation by how many moan I always reply or say no thank you

He's the sort that gives single guys on here a bad name!

Btw, you look like you have great legs! Get in touch! well thank you x"

More than welcome! Inbox me! x

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By *awty40_xxWoman  over a year ago

north lanarkshire


"Sounds like he only wanted a quick peek at your friends only pics then maybe decided you're not for him after all that's fine but a simple yes or no is acceptable it's just rude"

Then he might get abuse like we get abuse, single men can pick and choose aswell, sometimes its easier just blocking

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By *ackwithabang2000 OP   Couple  over a year ago

Stoke


"Sounds like he only wanted a quick peek at your friends only pics then maybe decided you're not for him after all that's fine but a simple yes or no is acceptable it's just rude

Then he might get abuse like we get abuse, single men can pick and choose aswell, sometimes its easier just blocking"

not from us but we weren't given the chance

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By *awty40_xxWoman  over a year ago

north lanarkshire


"Sounds like he only wanted a quick peek at your friends only pics then maybe decided you're not for him after all that's fine but a simple yes or no is acceptable it's just rude

Then he might get abuse like we get abuse, single men can pick and choose aswell, sometimes its easier just blockingnot from us but we weren't given the chance "

He doesnt know that though, from experience he probably has had abuse.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

No one has to explain anything to anyone on here. It's been made quite clear by admin. That applies to single men too.

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By *ackwithabang2000 OP   Couple  over a year ago

Stoke


"No one has to explain anything to anyone on here. It's been made quite clear by admin. That applies to single men too.

"

well well thank you for making that clear I know this I'm entitled to rant my opinion on here anyway!!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Oh the irony. I have many no reason deletions. I think only two women have replied with a short no thank you, for which I thanked them for their courtesy and left them alone. A man deletes for no reason and it's grab your torch and pitchforks!

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By *ackwithabang2000 OP   Couple  over a year ago

Stoke


"Oh the irony. I have many no reason deletions. I think only two women have replied with a short no thank you, for which I thanked them for their courtesy and left them alone. A man deletes for no reason and it's grab your torch and pitchforks!"
hold on you don't like being ignored neither do I I'm going off my own experience not everyone elses

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Oooo 2 blocks in one day wooop"

I block people so I don't waste time checking their profile again when it's clear that we won't ever meet.

Or if someone starts pestering me asking "Why? "

OP,you've got your answers. There 's absolutely no need to tarnish single guys. Apart from numbers on this site, we are all equal to single ladies and couples in terms of rights and preferences..

Just move on.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Oh the irony. I have many no reason deletions. I think only two women have replied with a short no thank you, for which I thanked them for their courtesy and left them alone. A man deletes for no reason and it's grab your torch and pitchforks!"

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"No one has to explain anything to anyone on here. It's been made quite clear by admin. That applies to single men too.

"

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By *ackwithabang2000 OP   Couple  over a year ago

Stoke


"Oooo 2 blocks in one day wooop

I block people so I don't waste time checking their profile again when it's clear that we won't ever meet.

Or if someone starts pestering me asking "Why? "

OP,you've got your answers. There 's absolutely no need to tarnish single guys. Apart from numbers on this site, we are all equal to single ladies and couples in terms of rights and preferences..

Just move on. "

who the .... is tarnishing single guys I'm having a opinion ffs

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By *amissCouple  over a year ago

chelmsford

I might be wrong, but it would appear he approached the OP first, so after he saw the pics, obviously he couldn't see a connection, so in this case, a polite, no, he'd decided not to meet after all, may have been better. If they had approached him first and they weren't to his taste, then a delete and block wouldn't be seen as rude.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


".... no wonder single men get ignored due to idiots like him !!!"

I beg your pardon!

If one was to say the above phrase about you, you may find the word "tarnish" rather mild.

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By *ackwithabang2000 OP   Couple  over a year ago

Stoke


"I might be wrong, but it would appear he approached the OP first, so after he saw the pics, obviously he couldn't see a connection, so in this case, a polite, no, he'd decided not to meet after all, may have been better. If they had approached him first and they weren't to his taste, then a delete and block wouldn't be seen as rude. "
exactly

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

OP, it's clear from your responses on this thread that you cannot accept no for an answer. You argue with everyone who tells you their opinion.

No wonder the man blocked you.

And rightly so (in my opinion ).

So I'll do likewise.

All the best to you.

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By *ackwithabang2000 OP   Couple  over a year ago

Stoke


"OP, it's clear from your responses on this thread that you cannot accept no for an answer. You argue with everyone who tells you their opinion.

No wonder the man blocked you.

And rightly so (in my opinion ).

So I'll do likewise.

All the best to you. "

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By *iewMan  over a year ago
Forum Mod

Angus & Findhorn

Yup, a very bad man

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By *ackwithabang2000 OP   Couple  over a year ago

Stoke


"OP, it's clear from your responses on this thread that you cannot accept no for an answer. You argue with everyone who tells you their opinion.

No wonder the man blocked you.

And rightly so (in my opinion ).

So I'll do likewise.

All the best to you. "

look who's attacking now

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

We simply don't have any friends only photographs; keeps the piccy-collectors well at bay. And in any case, we simply delete any winks or friends invites from single men who we haven't met yet. There are so many of them around but so few who we would ever contemplate meeting

- Mrs. J -

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By *amissCouple  over a year ago

chelmsford

In the opening post, the single guy wanted to meet them in a club and then changed his mind, perfectly acceptable, I think in this case, he could have said he'd changed his mind, however I wouldn't have asked him why that was.

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By *ackwithabang2000 OP   Couple  over a year ago

Stoke


"In the opening post, the single guy wanted to meet them in a club and then changed his mind, perfectly acceptable, I think in this case, he could have said he'd changed his mind, however I wouldn't have asked him why that was. "
all I asked is why he send a friends request then 5 mins later deleted us a simile question off why

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"No one has to explain anything to anyone on here. It's been made quite clear by admin. That applies to single men too.

well well thank you for making that clear I know this I'm entitled to rant my opinion on here anyway!!!"

Ranting is not accepted either, if you read other threads. You're supposed to suck it up and get on with looking for suitable people.

I don't accept friend requests from anyone, unless I have met or talk to them regularly by private message. It means no one can wank over my pics -not that I have any worth wanking over. Those who want to see my face get sent a pic attached to a message. I have had one person look and ignore me afterwards. It's no big deal, it means he didn't find me attractive. On here, ignoring , blocking and deleting are not seen as rude, just a time saving exercise, apparently. Some people don't like to tell people they aren't attracted to them and block instead. Don't take it personally.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"In the opening post, the single guy wanted to meet them in a club and then changed his mind, perfectly acceptable, I think in this case, he could have said he'd changed his mind, however I wouldn't have asked him why that was. all I asked is why he send a friends request then 5 mins later deleted us a simile question off why"

Some people can't bring themselves to say they don't fancy you; it's very difficult. Although, I wouldn't agree to meeting someone anywhere -or even discuss it - before seeing a face pic and having plenty of dialogue.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman  over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Could be any number of reasons but sounds like a picture collector. We only friend people after we have met them as a way to keep in touch."

Exactly what I do now

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By *amissCouple  over a year ago

chelmsford


"In the opening post, the single guy wanted to meet them in a club and then changed his mind, perfectly acceptable, I think in this case, he could have said he'd changed his mind, however I wouldn't have asked him why that was. all I asked is why he send a friends request then 5 mins later deleted us a simile question off why"

I'm agreeing with you in this instance, he wanted to meet you in Chams and changes his mind, which he's entitled to do, so I would have thought he could have said he'd changed his mind and then deleted.

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By *loswingersCouple  over a year ago

Gloucester

I'm guessing one or other of the two parties won't be going to Chams later now ....

He would have been so much better off saying thanks but no thanks so there wouldn't have been any awkwardness if the op and he went later .

Shame .

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By *oxy_minxWoman  over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"Imagine if single men replied to all the messages they receive

Now if this topic was created by a single guy the answer would be 'move on, you must not be their cup of tea'. "

^^^Exactly this, imagine the backlash they would have received, but if it is a couple or a single woman it is oh there there, it is his loss

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By *amissCouple  over a year ago

chelmsford


"I'm guessing one or other of the two parties won't be going to Chams later now ....

He would have been so much better off saying thanks but no thanks so there wouldn't have been any awkwardness if the op and he went later .

Shame ."

Exactly this

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By *ancs MinxWoman  over a year ago

Burnley


"No one has to explain anything to anyone on here. It's been made quite clear by admin. That applies to single men too.

"

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Imagine if single men replied to all the messages they receive

Now if this topic was created by a single guy the answer would be 'move on, you must not be their cup of tea'.

^^^Exactly this, imagine the backlash they would have received, but if it is a couple or a single woman it is oh there there, it is his loss "

Surely you're not suggesting there might some sort of "double standard" at work here? *clutches pearls*

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By *avrick15Man  over a year ago

glasgow

Interesting to see this happen to a couple for a change

I don't think there's any excuse for that kind of behaviour.

We are all adults and a little bit of courtesy to say, thanks but you're not for me would go a long way

Civility costs nothing

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By *amissCouple  over a year ago

chelmsford


"

Interesting to see this happen to a couple for a change

I don't think there's any excuse for that kind of behaviour.

We are all adults and a little bit of courtesy to say, thanks but you're not for me would go a long way

Civility costs nothing "

Think it can happen to anyone on here. I just think as he instigated contact, then changed his mind, he could have just said so, doesn't have to give a reason.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Oh the irony. I have many no reason deletions. I think only two women have replied with a short no thank you, for which I thanked them for their courtesy and left them alone. A man deletes for no reason and it's grab your torch and pitchforks!hold on you don't like being ignored neither do I I'm going off my own experience not everyone elses"

Nobody likes being ignored but on here it's an occupational hazard. Welcome to my world!

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By *orum TrollWoman  over a year ago

•+• Access Denied •+•

if he arranged to meet you i think he should've said he'd changed his mind.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Imagine if single men replied to all the messages they receive

Now if this topic was created by a single guy the answer would be 'move on, you must not be their cup of tea'. "

This was my msg to "someone"...

Hello. Great profile. So, no cock pic, have tasteful pics and am a great conversationalist...respectful too...my name's xxxx

And then she kindly blocked me...

I give up...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"In the opening post, the single guy wanted to meet them in a club and then changed his mind, perfectly acceptable, I think in this case, he could have said he'd changed his mind, however I wouldn't have asked him why that was. all I asked is why he send a friends request then 5 mins later deleted us a simile question off why"

Sod him. Inbox me instead...

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By *dwalu2Couple  over a year ago

Bristol


"Imagine if single men replied to all the messages they receive

Now if this topic was created by a single guy the answer would be 'move on, you must not be their cup of tea'.

This was my msg to "someone"...

Hello. Great profile. So, no cock pic, have tasteful pics and am a great conversationalist...respectful too...my name's xxxx

And then she kindly blocked me...

I give up...

"

And what's wrong with that? You sent her an unsolicited message, and she wasn't interested in you. To make sure neither your time or her time was wasted any further, she blocked you.

The system works.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Just had a friend request off a guy who wants meet us later in chamms accepted him then he deletes us then when I question why blocks us no wonder single men get ignored due to idiots like him !!!"

Maybe don't accept random friend rewquests with out a bit of checkin first?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Oh the irony. I have many no reason deletions. I think only two women have replied with a short no thank you, for which I thanked them for their courtesy and left them alone. A man deletes for no reason and it's grab your torch and pitchforks!"

There's plenty of threads slating women for not replying

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By *avrick15Man  over a year ago

glasgow


"

Interesting to see this happen to a couple for a change

I don't think there's any excuse for that kind of behaviour.

We are all adults and a little bit of courtesy to say, thanks but you're not for me would go a long way

Civility costs nothing

Think it can happen to anyone on here. I just think as he instigated contact, then changed his mind, he could have just said so, doesn't have to give a reason. "

Yep totally agree hey it's also ok to chat on here lol I never take the hump, still think loads of people are cool that didn't click with. It could happen on my side too.

Also appreciate the point about ladies getting loads of volume and I think that's a shame because it must be really diffcult to not get into an assembly line mentality where you are trying to sift through. It kind of takes away the space to engage with anyone meaningfully

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Oh the irony. I have many no reason deletions. I think only two women have replied with a short no thank you, for which I thanked them for their courtesy and left them alone. A man deletes for no reason and it's grab your torch and pitchforks!

There's plenty of threads slating women for not replying"

I think you mean there are plenty of threads where a single guy complains about women not replying and gets torn to shreds by a horde of women and couples for daring to speak up.

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By *SAchickWoman  over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"In the opening post, the single guy wanted to meet them in a club and then changed his mind, perfectly acceptable, I think in this case, he could have said he'd changed his mind, however I wouldn't have asked him why that was. all I asked is why he send a friends request then 5 mins later deleted us a simile question off why

Sod him. Inbox me instead... "

Assuming you've not read their profile since you're complaining about people who wont meet Asians on another thread

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Oh the irony. I have many no reason deletions. I think only two women have replied with a short no thank you, for which I thanked them for their courtesy and left them alone. A man deletes for no reason and it's grab your torch and pitchforks!

There's plenty of threads slating women for not replying

I think you mean there are plenty of threads where a single guy complains about women not replying and gets torn to shreds by a horde of women and couples for daring to speak up."

Imagine women having an opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"In the opening post, the single guy wanted to meet them in a club and then changed his mind, perfectly acceptable, I think in this case, he could have said he'd changed his mind, however I wouldn't have asked him why that was. all I asked is why he send a friends request then 5 mins later deleted us a simile question off why"

A simple answer is that he sent the friends request so he could see your friends only pics. He saw the pics and decided he didnt want to meet you. He then blocked you to avoid getting messeges from you asking why etc.

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By *amissCouple  over a year ago

chelmsford


"if he arranged to meet you i think he should've said he'd changed his mind."

Yes, that's what I was trying to get at.

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By *amissCouple  over a year ago

chelmsford

Maybe he shouldn't have said he wanted to meet them, until he'd seen the friends pics.

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By *ackwithabang2000 OP   Couple  over a year ago

Stoke


"if he arranged to meet you i think he should've said he'd changed his mind.

Yes, that's what I was trying to get at. "

Samiss, he could have simply sent a message saying no thanks.. It's just manners really.. It's like somebody saying you can't wear a sarong in 2x2 on nude night..

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"if he arranged to meet you i think he should've said he'd changed his mind.

Yes, that's what I was trying to get at.

Samiss, he could have simply sent a message saying no thanks.. It's just manners really.. It's like somebody saying you can't wear a sarong in 2x2 on nude night.. "

If he had sent you a messege saying no thanks would you have accepted it ?

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By *amissCouple  over a year ago

chelmsford


"if he arranged to meet you i think he should've said he'd changed his mind.

Yes, that's what I was trying to get at.

Samiss, he could have simply sent a message saying no thanks.. It's just manners really.. It's like somebody saying you can't wear a sarong in 2x2 on nude night.. "

Absolutely guys Hehe xx

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By *ackwithabang2000 OP   Couple  over a year ago

Stoke


"if he arranged to meet you i think he should've said he'd changed his mind.

Yes, that's what I was trying to get at.

Samiss, he could have simply sent a message saying no thanks.. It's just manners really.. It's like somebody saying you can't wear a sarong in 2x2 on nude night..

Absolutely guys Hehe xx"

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By *amissCouple  over a year ago

chelmsford


"if he arranged to meet you i think he should've said he'd changed his mind.

Yes, that's what I was trying to get at.

Samiss, he could have simply sent a message saying no thanks.. It's just manners really.. It's like somebody saying you can't wear a sarong in 2x2 on nude night..

Absolutely guys Hehe xx "

I'm in enough trouble with that bloody sarong!.

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By *orum TrollWoman  over a year ago

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"if he arranged to meet you i think he should've said he'd changed his mind.

Yes, that's what I was trying to get at. "

yeah they could've been waiting for him at chams and even turned down other offers because of him.

if nothing had been planned then fair enough, no need to say anything.

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By *amissCouple  over a year ago

chelmsford


"if he arranged to meet you i think he should've said he'd changed his mind.

Yes, that's what I was trying to get at.

yeah they could've been waiting for him at chams and even turned down other offers because of him.

if nothing had been planned then fair enough, no need to say anything."

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

This is spooky , I just finished reading this thread , and went back to paruse my page for a message off a guy who was quite complimentary ( to start with ) , however I replied that he should have read my profile as it says I don't meet single guys ( sorry don't hate me for that ) , anyway he replied he was Bi , I said his profile stated he was straight and anyway he was still a single male , to which he replied I'm just another time waster and blocked me , WTF , I was just stating the facts , anyway f**k it who cares I'm sure I'll survive

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By *avrick15Man  over a year ago

glasgow


"This is spooky , I just finished reading this thread , and went back to paruse my page for a message off a guy who was quite complimentary ( to start with ) , however I replied that he should have read my profile as it says I don't meet single guys ( sorry don't hate me for that ) , anyway he replied he was Bi , I said his profile stated he was straight and anyway he was still a single male , to which he replied I'm just another time waster and blocked me , WTF , I was just stating the facts , anyway f**k it who cares I'm sure I'll survive "

Maybe he's unsure himself

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By *amissCouple  over a year ago

chelmsford


"This is spooky , I just finished reading this thread , and went back to paruse my page for a message off a guy who was quite complimentary ( to start with ) , however I replied that he should have read my profile as it says I don't meet single guys ( sorry don't hate me for that ) , anyway he replied he was Bi , I said his profile stated he was straight and anyway he was still a single male , to which he replied I'm just another time waster and blocked me , WTF , I was just stating the facts , anyway f**k it who cares I'm sure I'll survive "

Another case of people not reading profiles and they wonder why, in this case, we delete and block!

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