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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Ok so someone recognised us from our pictures on here and thought it would be a great laugh to post it in a group on Facebook. The guy isn't a friend of ours . I just can't believe someone would do that

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

That well out of order. Some crazy people.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"That well out of order. Some crazy people."

I just don't get why the hell he would do that . What's up with these guys . They give the rest of the good single guys a shit name .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Have you refused him by any chance ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Very true. Mindless idiots.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Have you refused him by any chance ?"
even so you wouldn't do that.!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Have you refused him by any chance ?even so you wouldn't do that.!!"

Everyone's worst nightmare, sorry to hear this!

Devastating, hope your family don't find out

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I hope you reported the post on Facebook. Hopefully this will get the post taken down.

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By *rnortholtMan over a year ago

Waveney Valley

Nothing surprises me, sadly.

I don't think it says something about the folks on here though, more about the nice to knob-head ratio in the wider world.

Next time I hear someone saying there's no reason for people being very circumspect about face and other identifiable pictures on here, I'll direct them to this thread!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sad man with nothing better to do. Sounds like he's doing it for attention "look what I found out"

How sad that he gets his kick from other people's lives, his must be very dull

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I hope you reported the post on Facebook. Hopefully this will get the post taken down. "

If you're really lucky they may even ban him.

Also if you know the dab account report him here to.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We were on another similar site about 10 years ago where something like this happened. A guy worked at the same place as my wife recognised her somehow from our profile, and went round telling everybody at her work.

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By *isty286Couple over a year ago

Dorset

It's not against the law to be a swinger, however it is now against the law to post another persons sexual image onto a public forum without permission, report him to the police ...

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By *ea_CoffeeCouple over a year ago

Near Kettering

Sorry to hear this has happened.

The world is full of idiots like this and although I don't always agree with naming and shaming as such where there is proof of this kind of behaviour people do have a right to warned.

I think you should report the fab profile if you know it and the persons IP should be permanently blocked to protect the privacy of other fab members.

I hope things work themselves out fairly quickly for you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Have you refused him by any chance ?"

Not that we know of

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Have you refused him by any chance ?even so you wouldn't do that.!!"

No your right . If I could find him here if be able to do some more . What worries me now is if he's taken photo's off here will they be next to go on a page with 8000 people on it

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Have you refused him by any chance ?even so you wouldn't do that.!!

Everyone's worst nightmare, sorry to hear this!

Devastating, hope your family don't find out

Think we may have to go now

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I hope you reported the post on Facebook. Hopefully this will get the post taken down. "

Not offensive so no they won t take it down

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Nothing surprises me, sadly.

I don't think it says something about the folks on here though, more about the nice to knob-head ratio in the wider world.

Next time I hear someone saying there's no reason for people being very circumspect about face and other identifiable pictures on here, I'll direct them to this thread! "

Your so right

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Sad man with nothing better to do. Sounds like he's doing it for attention "look what I found out"

How sad that he gets his kick from other people's lives, his must be very dull "

Who knows we are at a loss

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I hope you reported the post on Facebook. Hopefully this will get the post taken down.

If you're really lucky they may even ban him.

Also if you know the dab account report him here to. "

Looked for him on here can't find him

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"It's not against the law to be a swinger, however it is now against the law to post another persons sexual image onto a public forum without permission, report him to the police ...

If he posts any of our photos we will

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

Problem you have OP is you publically posted identifying pics of yourselves in the form of your tattoos. It's as good as showing your face in some respects.

Yes the blokes an arsehole, but you can minimise risks like this in the first place.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Sorry to hear this has happened.

The world is full of idiots like this and although I don't always agree with naming and shaming as such where there is proof of this kind of behaviour people do have a right to warned.

I think you should report the fab profile if you know it and the persons IP should be permanently blocked to protect the privacy of other fab members.

I hope things work themselves out fairly quickly for you."

Thank you so do we . Just need to find him here

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm unfortunately not surprised that there are complete arseholes that would do this sort of thing, I think it's just a sad reflection on today's society.

OP, I really hope things turn out ok for you guys however you take things from here, and by all means name and shame on here if you do find the utter bastard responsible.

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman over a year ago
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My Own Little World

"I hope you reported the post on Facebook. Hopefully this will get the post taken down.

Not offensive so no they won t take it down "

It doesn't have to be offensive for you to ask FB to remove the pic. You can use the 'I'm in the photo and I don't like it' option.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I hope you reported the post on Facebook. Hopefully this will get the post taken down.

Not offensive so no they won t take it down

It doesn't have to be offensive for you to ask FB to remove the pic. You can use the 'I'm in the photo and I don't like it' option."

He hasn't posted a photo yet that's what worries us . What he did was post that he knows us both from here

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I'm unfortunately not surprised that there are complete arseholes that would do this sort of thing, I think it's just a sad reflection on today's society.

OP, I really hope things turn out ok for you guys however you take things from here, and by all means name and shame on here if you do find the utter bastard responsible."

Thank you

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By *estmidscoupleCouple over a year ago

West Midlands

strongly suggest you hide profile or at least make all identifiable pics private

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Problem you have OP is you publically posted identifying pics of yourselves in the form of your tattoos. It's as good as showing your face in some respects.

Yes the blokes an arsehole, but you can minimise risks like this in the first place. "

All photos posted private now . And that's the way they shall stay . Just can't believe he did it

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

"I hope you reported the post on Facebook. Hopefully this will get the post taken down.

Not offensive so no they won t take it down

It doesn't have to be offensive for you to ask FB to remove the pic. You can use the 'I'm in the photo and I don't like it' option.

He hasn't posted a photo yet that's what worries us . What he did was post that he knows us both from here "

Then I'd urge you to hide your identifying photos before he seriously embarrasses you. Till then it's just his word against yours.

Give it the "and who the fuck are you?"

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"strongly suggest you hide profile or at least make all identifiable pics private"

Yeah we have only left the 9nes open that cannot identify us now

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I hope you reported the post on Facebook. Hopefully this will get the post taken down.

Not offensive so no they won t take it down

It doesn't have to be offensive for you to ask FB to remove the pic. You can use the 'I'm in the photo and I don't like it' option.

He hasn't posted a photo yet that's what worries us . What he did was post that he knows us both from here

Then I'd urge you to hide your identifying photos before he seriously embarrasses you. Till then it's just his word against yours.

Give it the "and who the fuck are you?"

If love to . But if he's dragged the photos off will they be next to go up ??

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

OP, I assume you now know who he is on Facebook, so he's also now at risk of exposure himself.... should someone wish to share that information....

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

"I hope you reported the post on Facebook. Hopefully this will get the post taken down.

Not offensive so no they won t take it down

It doesn't have to be offensive for you to ask FB to remove the pic. You can use the 'I'm in the photo and I don't like it' option.

He hasn't posted a photo yet that's what worries us . What he did was post that he knows us both from here

Then I'd urge you to hide your identifying photos before he seriously embarrasses you. Till then it's just his word against yours.

Give it the "and who the fuck are you?"

If love to . But if he's dragged the photos off will they be next to go up ?? "

If he's on Facebook then you can see his actual name I assume?

Also when he said he knows you from Fab, was it put in a way that even vanillas would understand ? If he just said Fab, majority of people wouldn't have a clue so play it down but def report him.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's not against the law to be a swinger, however it is now against the law to post another persons sexual image onto a public forum without permission, report him to the police ...

Good point.

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By *aveandSue1Couple over a year ago

Doncaster

This is one of the reasons we never post or send out face pics.

We've both got a FB account and so have our kids!!

Friends of ours on here were outed at their place of work due to them being recognised from face pics.

Just too many idiots on here but it seems there's no way can they be filtered out.

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By *abes in the woodWoman over a year ago

wales

This was done to me but person did screenshot of my cam put it on Facebook sent it to my first friend then my family it was because my best friend had message of person using falst name my kids were in debriefed so got reported taken down aa I belief it was my own bro

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I hope you reported the post on Facebook. Hopefully this will get the post taken down.

Not offensive so no they won t take it down

It doesn't have to be offensive for you to ask FB to remove the pic. You can use the 'I'm in the photo and I don't like it' option.

He hasn't posted a photo yet that's what worries us . What he did was post that he knows us both from here

Then I'd urge you to hide your identifying photos before he seriously embarrasses you. Till then it's just his word against yours.

Give it the "and who the fuck are you?"

If love to . But if he's dragged the photos off will they be next to go up ??

If he's on Facebook then you can see his actual name I assume?

Also when he said he knows you from Fab, was it put in a way that even vanillas would understand ? If he just said Fab, majority of people wouldn't have a clue so play it down but def report him. "

The words he used was I know you from the swinger site fab

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I hope you reported the post on Facebook. Hopefully this will get the post taken down.

Not offensive so no they won t take it down

It doesn't have to be offensive for you to ask FB to remove the pic. You can use the 'I'm in the photo and I don't like it' option.

He hasn't posted a photo yet that's what worries us . What he did was post that he knows us both from here

Then I'd urge you to hide your identifying photos before he seriously embarrasses you. Till then it's just his word against yours.

Give it the "and who the fuck are you?"

If love to . But if he's dragged the photos off will they be next to go up ??

If he's on Facebook then you can see his actual name I assume?

Also when he said he knows you from Fab, was it put in a way that even vanillas would understand ? If he just said Fab, majority of people wouldn't have a clue so play it down but def report him.

The words he used was I know you from the swinger site fab "

And then continued to explain it to others on the feed what that was .

Using words like moods man is on the swingers site

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

"I hope you reported the post on Facebook. Hopefully this will get the post taken down.

Not offensive so no they won t take it down

It doesn't have to be offensive for you to ask FB to remove the pic. You can use the 'I'm in the photo and I don't like it' option.

He hasn't posted a photo yet that's what worries us . What he did was post that he knows us both from here

Then I'd urge you to hide your identifying photos before he seriously embarrasses you. Till then it's just his word against yours.

Give it the "and who the fuck are you?"

If love to . But if he's dragged the photos off will they be next to go up ??

If he's on Facebook then you can see his actual name I assume?

Also when he said he knows you from Fab, was it put in a way that even vanillas would understand ? If he just said Fab, majority of people wouldn't have a clue so play it down but def report him.

The words he used was I know you from the swinger site fab "

So he's outed himself too. What a twunt

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The fact that 'he's not a friend' is enough evidence to show how much of a twat he is.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"This is one of the reasons we never post or send out face pics.

We've both got a FB account and so have our kids!!

Friends of ours on here were outed at their place of work due to them being recognised from face pics.

Just too many idiots on here but it seems there's no way can they be filtered out.

Hard lesson to learn for us now .

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

Your pics are still all public btw

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"The fact that 'he's not a friend' is enough evidence to show how much of a twat he is. "

Bang on the money

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Your pics are still all public btw"

No face or tattoos ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I hope you reported the post on Facebook. Hopefully this will get the post taken down.

Not offensive so no they won t take it down

It doesn't have to be offensive for you to ask FB to remove the pic. You can use the 'I'm in the photo and I don't like it' option.

He hasn't posted a photo yet that's what worries us . What he did was post that he knows us both from here

Then I'd urge you to hide your identifying photos before he seriously embarrasses you. Till then it's just his word against yours.

Give it the "and who the fuck are you?"

If love to . But if he's dragged the photos off will they be next to go up ??

If he's on Facebook then you can see his actual name I assume?

Also when he said he knows you from Fab, was it put in a way that even vanillas would understand ? If he just said Fab, majority of people wouldn't have a clue so play it down but def report him.

The words he used was I know you from the swinger site fab

So he's outed himself too. What a twunt"

Don't think he gives a shit to be fair

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"This was done to me but person did screenshot of my cam put it on Facebook sent it to my first friend then my family it was because my best friend had message of person using falst name my kids were in debriefed so got reported taken down aa I belief it was my own bro"

Wow don't know what to say to that

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"OP, I assume you now know who he is on Facebook, so he's also now at risk of exposure himself.... should someone wish to share that information....

Don't think he cares about that . If he's still on here . Not found him yet

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By *ea_CoffeeCouple over a year ago

Near Kettering

Could you block him on Facebook so he can't tag you in the pics or refer to you.

Only thing is you be able to follow what he gets up to.

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

"Your pics are still all public btw

No face or tattoos ? "

You're showing 24 pics in public including lots of tattoos.

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By *anyko17Man over a year ago

edgware

Sorry to hear that...and yes you are right this guy give's us a bad reputation...just report the add on fb..and they will close it...be more carefull...100% with you..xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yup can still see your photos.

Awesome tattoos by the way. Im the same, I don't show my face but my tats are unique enough to give the game away. Its a risk but there you go.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Your pics are still all public btw

No face or tattoos ?

You're showing 24 pics in public including lots of tattoos. "

Think I've just sorted that out now . Thank you for your help

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Yup can still see your photos.

Awesome tattoos by the way. Im the same, I don't show my face but my tats are unique enough to give the game away. Its a risk but there you go."

Thanks for the compliment but think it's all sorted now

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Sorry to hear that...and yes you are right this guy give's us a bad reputation...just report the add on fb..and they will close it...be more carefull...100% with you..xx"

Thank you

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

"Your pics are still all public btw

No face or tattoos ?

You're showing 24 pics in public including lots of tattoos.

Think I've just sorted that out now . Thank you for your help "

Perfect. Good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Your pics are still all public btw

No face or tattoos ?

You're showing 24 pics in public including lots of tattoos.

Think I've just sorted that out now . Thank you for your help

Perfect. Good luck

Thanks for your help and support today

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman over a year ago
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My Own Little World

Well there was a couple of years back a FB page that posted pics, profile wording, interests and veris from Fab, all from an area in Wales I think. No nude pics, just faces with Fabswingers and the profile name across the bottom. Huge panic across the site, but the FB page quickly got removed, but for some the damage had been done.

So when I see someone in the forums pipe up with 'we are all here for the same reason' I do wonder at the naivety of some and think what it would be like to go through life thinking that everyone is nice, caring and would never do anything maliciously just for a laugh.

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By *hoenixandflamesCouple over a year ago

Stockport

The thing I would have to ask... is...

why is he on Fab?

It's not like you can get on here without registering etc.

But... what a knob... and not in a good way!

Flames

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"The thing I would have to ask... is...

why is he on Fab?

It's not like you can get on here without registering etc.

But... what a knob... and not in a good way!

Flames"

Yep your right

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By *dwdjns99Man over a year ago

Kingston

Welcome to the internet. Whatever you post online is not private

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

O o O oo

OK don't post threats on the forum.

To the OP...as you don't know who it is then you are best getting in touch with the man on FB

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