Hi guys
I was having lack of meet issues so i looked around and got the advice needed. I changed my profile, i added pictures (which need changing, i know) and i started attending clubs (Cupid's, manchester)
So all that done and my last hurdle (that i know of) is how damn shy i am. Women in clubs are outnumbered the same as on here so how do i become the guy who stands out? What do you ladies like to see/hear? Any help at all will be great, cheers x |
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"Hi guys
I was having lack of meet issues so i looked around and got the advice needed. I changed my profile, i added pictures (which need changing, i know) and i started attending clubs (Cupid's, manchester)
So all that done and my last hurdle (that i know of) is how damn shy i am. Women in clubs are outnumbered the same as on here so how do i become the guy who stands out? What do you ladies like to see/hear? Any help at all will be great, cheers x"
Be yourself and above converse chat and laugh im sure you will have more confidence regarding shyness.Cupids is a great club the bar area is great for socialising.And dont be the one sat in a corner sit at the bar the busiest area and you will have a top time. |
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Well you can't really be someone you are not. If you are not the type to stand out (and we can't all be the type to stand out), then I guess you need to be patient and hope you will have an opportunity to get to know people and that you'll hit it off.
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By *rwolfMan
over a year ago
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Confidence is gained from doing something time and time again and getting your expected resultsor better..
When getting to a club, if your shy just start of with setting yourself small goals..like just breaking the ice.
One of the few tricks i have seen was cue cards being used...
Just walk up, indicate to 1 sec and start....make the cards funny and get a giggle...if you can make someone smile the rest tends to take care of itself |
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That makes sense about confidence, and I'm happy chatting to a group of guys i have never met, I'm happy singing in a pub full of people I've never met but when I see those beautiful ladies i turn into a silent idiot!
Small steps, break the ice. I'll do that. Cheers |
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"That makes sense about confidence, and I'm happy chatting to a group of guys i have never met, I'm happy singing in a pub full of people I've never met but when I see those beautiful ladies i turn into a silent idiot!
Small steps, break the ice. I'll do that. Cheers"
What are you worried will happen if you speak to one or ore of the women? |
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It's silly i know and now that I've read what I've wrote i can see how silly it is.
Worst case: "your not for me, sorry"
Possible case: awesum time!
New = stress = worry = stress lol
Cheers for the help everyone. I will try! |
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"It's silly i know and now that I've read what I've wrote i can see how silly it is.
Worst case: "your not for me, sorry"
Possible case: awesum time!
New = stress = worry = stress lol
Cheers for the help everyone. I will try!"
Remember, tons of people have some form of shyness and if you act not shy they'll look at you and think "I wish I could be like him"  |
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