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No Asians?

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Hey guys, hope you are all well!

Quite new to the scene but finding my feet well i think!

I've been browsing a few profiles as well as speaking to a few women who state that they don't meet Asian people. Before anyone goes off on one i don't believe that is racist in any way, we all have our preferences but given the sheer number of people who have said that, are we really that much of a turn off?!

Or is there something else that I'm missing completely? Again, i dont believe that it's racist at all, but is it a genuine turn off to you?

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By *iewMan over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn

no more than No bi guys!!, less than NO single guys

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Never come across no bi guys!

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By *iewMan over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn

there is someone for all of us on here. Just focus on the ones looking for single guys and whose preference includes Asian guys.

good luck

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't think it makes much of a difference, but I know personally that I prefer asian women over asian men...but then again I prefer women over men in general! lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have had no problem meeting people - its got nothing to do with being Asain.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

OP... don't let preferences that exclude you give you an ounce of bother. If you see a profile that says "no asians, blah... blah... blah" block it and move on.

Ps... blocking isn't rude.. it's a great tool the site provide

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

it only applies to guys though. If an Asian lady asked for playmates there would be a fucking stampede

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

im going to be totally honest here and if i get bashed for it so be it, but you asked so here my reply

I used to have no problem with meeting asian guys till i met one

I arranged to meet him for a drink and see how we got on, i invited him to my home and he walked in and took a viagra

which put me off straight away as it was for a drink and see but i felt like he had aready decided he was having a shag

Anyway

We sat talking and he was telling me about a indian woman who had contacted him for a meet, so i asked if they was meeting and he replied along the lines of, no because indian women shouldnt be on site like this etc

so i asked him how comes it was ok for me to be on there and meet but not her and he just looked at me and said because your just white trash

(on my kids llifes thats 100% true)

so i threw him out the house and wrote asian guys off as hypercritical sexist twat and he was my first and last asian guy i ever met thro swinging

i dont dislike asian guys as far as being sexually attracted to them but im fucked if im going to be _iewed and spoken to like that by them

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

i have never had a female asian partner so cannot comment on that.

i have had quite a few meets with asian men.

they tend to be very 'matter of fact' about sex which some people will find offputting.

i have found most meets with asian men to be nothing more than a physical exchange to assist them in emptying their balls.

that suits me sometimes so i am not personally griping about it, but ladies especially often want more than the physical exchange.

also, many caucasian british people believe that asian people (men in particular) lack basic personal hygiene and are 'dirty' : that will also be a factor (one i disagree with, but still a factor)

demographics and subconscious racism attached to a lack of familiarity might also be a factor.

i was brought up in an area with a large asian population and at school i would say 40-50% of the class was asian so to me asians are an integral part of our society and culture.

some people won't see it that way though unfortunately.

you also have the skin colour issue. i personally find paler skinned asian men very attractive but personally the darker skinned asians with very dark eyes do nothing for me sexually.

that's just a matter of taste that is personal to me and has nothing to do with my wider perceptions.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

i have met asian men before, some have been good some havent, just like the white men and the black men i have met!

although it has to be said the majority of asian men i have met have been very much 'well i've cum......see ya!' type meets so that does stick in my head when deciding whether or not i want to meet asian men from now on, but i am not writing it off

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

I have no problem with asian guys but in the last 10 years ( i say 10 just as a number) ive only had two guys that have made me feel like shit and both where asian guys.

One looked me up and down like i was something he had trod in. The other told me women like "you" meaning white women, where ok to shag about with but when he wanted to settle down he would chose a respectable asian woman.

Im not the kind of person that judges everyone by one or two people but if i was the type that did then that would definetly have put me of asian guys

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"so i threw him out the house and wrote asian guys off as hypercritical sexist twat and he was my first and last asian guy i ever met thro swinging"

!!!!!!

What's that old saying about books and judging them by their covers? I guess that the problem with the guy described was that he was an arrogant misogynistic ignorant twat; the fact that he was Asian is irrelevant I think. It amazes me that anyone can make assumptions about a whole ethnic group based on the attitude of one or two individuals.

There are certain ethnic/cultural groups of Asian origin where there seems to be endemic disrespect of women (and in particular white women) but to draw the conclusion from that that all men of Asian ancestry are like that is plain stupid and (prepares to be shot down in flames) verging on racist.

It would be like saying that because I once met a woman from Newcastle who had poor personal hygiene that I would never consider meeting a Geordie.

It always makes me laugh (once I've calmed down) when teenage boys drinking cheap lager shout "Paki scum" at me when I'm out running; my ancestry is as far from Pakistan as these idiots' ancestry is from Russia but because my skin colour is the same I must be a "Paki"

But at least they're open about their prejudice as aopposed to the "I'm not racist but......." brigade.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

i dont think people associate asian people with swinging

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

"i dont think people associate asian people with swinging"

you may wish to expand on that idea lol

do you mean they only use the site for sex and so dont enter into the 'swinging scene'?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

most of the asian peeps i know are way to scared of what their fam would say if they got sussed.

thats not just with swinging either

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

There is is again. All Asians are afraid of what their family might think! And non-Asians aren't?!

(Actually, my mother would kill me lol

)

What does this "Asian" thing mean anyway? People with brown skin, people who speak with a "goodness gracious me" accent, people who are Muslims? Does it include people with brown skin who are 2nd, 3rd, 4th gen who speak BBC English and prefer fish n chips to spicy food?

just curious................

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

to me it means whatever the person messaging me saying 'hi i am an asian male living in....fancy a fuck' means it to mean!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

am just talking general consensus dude.

obviously theres gonna be some swinging asians but i think more would steer clear due to cultural and religious beliefs more than anything else

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By *rumalexMan over a year ago

Birmingham

Interesting thread, but people need to chill on the asian stereotypes, forget religion and culture, asians fuck, have gangbangs and swing just as much as any other culture

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Interesting thread, but people need to chill on the asian stereotypes, forget religion and culture, asians fuck, have gangbangs and swing just as much as any other culture "

bullshit

ive said my 2p`s worth anyway. am out of here!

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By *rumalexMan over a year ago

Birmingham

"Interesting thread, but people need to chill on the asian stereotypes, forget religion and culture, asians fuck, have gangbangs and swing just as much as any other culture

bullshit

ive said my 2p`s worth anyway. am out of here!

i've had my fair share of invies to ac few gangbangs organised by asian friends i know what i'm talking about people are people no matter the background

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By *abioMan over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

here we go again....

a preference is a preference is a preference... simple as that...

so if that preference is no asian men.. guess what.. move on...

if i read a profile and it says "no black men" guess what i do... move on

so if someone has a preference that says no black/white/asian/bi/straight/single/married/tall/short/fat/thin/old/young ect ect ect and you fall foul of that.... guess what... move on

is that really that radical a suggestion...????

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By *iewMan over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn

so if someone has a preference that says no black/white/asian/bi/straight/single/married/tall/short/fat/thin/old/young ect ect ect and you fall foul of that.... guess what... move on

not only move on but think kindly of them, as they have a lifetime of wanking in front of them

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By *abioMan over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

so if someone has a preference that says no black/white/asian/bi/straight/single/married/tall/short/fat/thin/old/young ect ect ect and you fall foul of that.... guess what... move on

not only move on but think kindly of them, as they have a lifetime of wanking in front of them

i would swear at you... but too busy catching up on the iplayer of my new favourite quiz show... pointless.. so i'll get back to you later

git!!!!

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By *iewMan over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn

so if someone has a preference that says no black/white/asian/bi/straight/single/married/tall/short/fat/thin/old/young ect ect ect and you fall foul of that.... guess what... move on

not only move on but think kindly of them, as they have a lifetime of wanking in front of them

i would swear at you... but too busy catching up on the iplayer of my new favourite quiz show... pointless.. so i'll get back to you later

git!!!!

good man, enjoy

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By *iewMan over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

[Removed by poster at 15/07/11 16:27:28]

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By *iewMan over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn

yup you certainly seem to be the sort of people who can have a laugh..

so was I

seems it may be just one way tho...

have a nice day

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Asians...where?!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Asians...where?!!! "

Easily the best post yet!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ive seen plenty of profiles who are looking for black guys only, doesnt mean i think being white is a turn off

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Asians...where?!!! "

Asian

Countries

Afghanistan

Bahrain

Bangladesh

Bhutan

British Indian

Ocean Terr.

Brunei

Burma (Myanmar)

Cambodia

China

° Hong Kong

° Macau

East Timor

India

° Andaman Is.

° Nicobar Islands

Indonesia

° Bali

Iran

Iraq

Israel

Japan

Jordan

Kazakhstan

Kuwait

Kyrgyzstan

Laos

Lebanon

Malaysia

Maldives

Mongolia

Nepal

North Korea

Oman

Pakistan

Philippines

Qatar

Russian Fed.

Saudi Arabia

Singapore

South Korea

Sri Lanka

Syria

Taiwan

Tajikistan

Thailand

Turkey

Turkmenistan

U.A.E.

Uzbekistan

Vietnam

Yemen

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Asians...where?!!!

Asian

Countries

Afghanistan

Bahrain

Bangladesh

Bhutan

British Indian

Ocean Terr.

Brunei

Burma (Myanmar)

Cambodia

China

° Hong Kong

° Macau

East Timor

India

° Andaman Is.

° Nicobar Islands

Indonesia

° Bali

Iran

Iraq

Israel

Japan

Jordan

Kazakhstan

Kuwait

Kyrgyzstan

Laos

Lebanon

Malaysia

Maldives

Mongolia

Nepal

North Korea

Oman

Pakistan

Philippines

Qatar

Russian Fed.

Saudi Arabia

Singapore

South Korea

Sri Lanka

Syria

Taiwan

Tajikistan

Thailand

Turkey

Turkmenistan

U.A.E.

Uzbekistan

Vietnam

Yemen

You forgot Bradford

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Lol to pinkynips and pornmoments!

Anyway, with my success rate here, I'm not excluding anyone, even racists

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Asians...where?!!!

Asian

Countries

Afghanistan

Bahrain

Bangladesh

Bhutan

British Indian

Ocean Terr.

Brunei

Burma (Myanmar)

Cambodia

China

° Hong Kong

° Macau

East Timor

India

° Andaman Is.

° Nicobar Islands

Indonesia

° Bali

Iran

Iraq

Israel

Japan

Jordan

Kazakhstan

Kuwait

Kyrgyzstan

Laos

Lebanon

Malaysia

Maldives

Mongolia

Nepal

North Korea

Oman

Pakistan

Philippines

Qatar

Russian Fed.

Saudi Arabia

Singapore

South Korea

Sri Lanka

Syria

Taiwan

Tajikistan

Thailand

Turkey

Turkmenistan

U.A.E.

Uzbekistan

Vietnam

Yemen

lmao, genius must have taken ages!!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

"Interesting thread, but people need to chill on the asian stereotypes, forget religion and culture, asians fuck, have gangbangs and swing just as much as any other culture

bullshit

ive said my 2p`s worth anyway. am out of here!

Just out of curiosity, have you ever been to a swingers club?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Anyway, with my success rate here, I'm not excluding anyone, even racists

Love your liberal and pragmatic approach

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple over a year ago

North Cornwall

Haven't met one I fancy. Simples.

Mistress x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

As pinkynips pointed out, Asia is a very big continent. I think most people on here are using the term to mean Pakistani or Indian, and are there are some breathaking stereotypes flying around.

Having said all that, my partner does not fancy the look of Indian/Pakistani guys. Not sure why, not because she doesn't like them as people, just doesnt fancy them. in the same way as I don't really fancy black women sexually. We all have our likes and dislikes.

But to say that they are all sexist or rude is a little much. So are loads of white guys, or black guys.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Because I am not attracted to them

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By *lirtypleasureWoman over a year ago

worcester

I love them...... yummy

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

the last 2 posts demonstrate in a few words exactly what others above have said above

it's all a matter of personal taste and choice

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By *iewMan over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn

"the last 2 posts demonstrate in a few words exactly what others above have said above

it's all a matter of personal taste and choice "

You are so right ....... But there will still be some that make a song and dance over it.

However, that says more about them than the people who are up front stating their preference.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"im going to be totally honest here and if i get bashed for it so be it, but you asked so here my reply

I used to have no problem with meeting asian guys till i met one

I arranged to meet him for a drink and see how we got on, i invited him to my home and he walked in and took a viagra

which put me off straight away as it was for a drink and see but i felt like he had aready decided he was having a shag

Anyway

so i asked him how comes it was ok for me to be on there and meet but not her and he just looked at me and said because your just white trash

(on my kids llifes thats 100% true)

so i threw him out the house and wrote asian guys off as hypercritical sexist twat and he was my first and last asian guy i ever met thro swinging

i dont dislike asian guys as far as being sexually attracted to them but im fucked if im going to be _iewed and spoken to like that by them

We agree with your _iew of Asian guys being hypocritical.

Many do seem to be very arrogant and seem to see women, especially Caucasian women, as second class citizens.

Whether its inherent or the way they've been brought up we don't know.

We also have heard of how they sometimes see Asian women as dirty if they're openly sexual but Caucasian women are fair game if they display the same tendencies.

So it would seem its the arrogance and hypocrisy that puts people off.

XXXX

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Shame you feel like that about one Asian guy out of hundreds that are on this site.It's like saying all Irish people are as STUPID.Thought swingers were open minded and not narrow minded

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Haven't met one I fancy. Simples.

Mistress x"

+ 1

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"im going to be totally honest here and if i get bashed for it so be it, but you asked so here my reply

I used to have no problem with meeting asian guys till i met one

I arranged to meet him for a drink and see how we got on, i invited him to my home and he walked in and took a viagra

which put me off straight away as it was for a drink and see but i felt like he had aready decided he was having a shag

Anyway

so i asked him how comes it was ok for me to be on there and meet but not her and he just looked at me and said because your just white trash

(on my kids llifes thats 100% true)

so i threw him out the house and wrote asian guys off as hypercritical sexist twat and he was my first and last asian guy i ever met thro swinging

i dont dislike asian guys as far as being sexually attracted to them but im fucked if im going to be _iewed and spoken to like that by them

We agree with your _iew of Asian guys being hypocritical.

Many do seem to be very arrogant and seem to see women, especially Caucasian women, as second class citizens.

Whether its inherent or the way they've been brought up we don't know.

We also have heard of how they sometimes see Asian women as dirty if they're openly sexual but Caucasian women are fair game if they display the same tendencies.

So it would seem its the arrogance and hypocrisy that puts people off.

XXXX "

Perhaps thats just the ones in Cleethorpes?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"There is is again. All Asians are afraid of what their family might think! And non-Asians aren't?!

(Actually, my mother would kill me lol

)

just curious................

Well... technically everyone in Europe is Asian

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Interesting thread, but people need to chill on the asian stereotypes, forget religion and culture, asians fuck, have gangbangs and swing just as much as any other culture "

Take me to your women!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

my personal feeling is that th eposter has profound insecurity about himself. i have seen as many no black as asians. i suppose if you are white or asian or black, u would generally be attracted to someone of ur own ethnic background which is why mixed race relations are generally rare. but thn again some have insecurity about blacks too! i am an asian myself (of sub continental breed that means) and i often had to say to many and i mean many requests for meets and parties because i was away from UK!many people here also mention they dont have "watersports" as their choice of fun, that doesnt mean they dont like peeing!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"There is is again. All Asians are afraid of what their family might think! And non-Asians aren't?!

(Actually, my mother would kill me lol

)

just curious................

Well... technically everyone in Europe is Asian

beginning to think yer right

seems like everyone from asia has moved to europe - sorry + tin hat on now and retreats back to Great britain !!! my arse as they would say in england

its a free europe now folks xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"im going to be totally honest here and if i get bashed for it so be it, but you asked so here my reply

I used to have no problem with meeting asian guys till i met one

I arranged to meet him for a drink and see how we got on, i invited him to my home and he walked in and took a viagra

which put me off straight away as it was for a drink and see but i felt like he had aready decided he was having a shag

Anyway

so i asked him how comes it was ok for me to be on there and meet but not her and he just looked at me and said because your just white trash

(on my kids llifes thats 100% true)

so i threw him out the house and wrote asian guys off as hypercritical sexist twat and he was my first and last asian guy i ever met thro swinging

i dont dislike asian guys as far as being sexually attracted to them but im fucked if im going to be _iewed and spoken to like that by them

We agree with your _iew of Asian guys being hypocritical.

Many do seem to be very arrogant and seem to see women, especially Caucasian women, as second class citizens.

Whether its inherent or the way they've been brought up we don't know.

We also have heard of how they sometimes see Asian women as dirty if they're openly sexual but Caucasian women are fair game if they display the same tendencies.

So it would seem its the arrogance and hypocrisy that puts people off.

XXXX

Perhaps thats just the ones in Cleethorpes?

Never met any from Cleethorpes in a sexual situation, we've met them at a club.

We're also friends with a couple of Asian women who married British guys, the reason being they were less than impressed with the attitude of Asian guys, even though their choice caused friction within the womens families.

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By *rs Sugar Mr SpiceCouple over a year ago

We are about 15 mins outa Pontypridd and we do go to Crawley in west sussex 2-3 times a year so get in touch !!

We will only ever play with white folk not that we are racist at all its just a preference and 1 wich we will not change for any1

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Fuck em all

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Being completley honest i dont fancy...black men or asian men....its just a personal preference......i just dont find them sexually attractive in general...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I often get this sort of message in the chatrooms

"do you like asian cocks"

"do you like black cock"

my reply is just

"it depends on the person attached to that cock"

that to me sums things up nicely for me in such a simplistic way

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I often get this sort of message in the chatrooms

"do you like asian cocks"

"do you like black cock"

my reply is just

"it depends on the person attached to that cock"

that to me sums things up nicely for me in such a simplistic way

Princess Pussy, your wise words have explained exactly the point I was trying and failing to make!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Actually wonder why these threads get put up anyway

I'm Bi and do i question in forum why people put no bi men on their profiles?

No i don't and ta be truthful i couldn't care less

The site is full of diversity and griping about who puts what on profiles wont make an ounce of difference

In fact post like these actually lead to disquiet and arguments

Just find someone without that on their profile the same as the majority of us do

People have choice we have no right to question that choice in anyway xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Actually wonder why these threads get put up anyway

I'm Bi and do i question in forum why people put no bi men on their profiles?

No i don't and ta be truthful i couldn't care less

The site is full of diversity and griping about who puts what on profiles wont make an ounce of difference

In fact post like these actually lead to disquiet and arguments

Just find someone without that on their profile the same as the majority of us do

People have choice we have no right to question that choice in anyway xx"

Brilliantly put!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

i like black women!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"which is why mixed race relations are generally rare. "

I'd love to know where you base that comment on! In my own family alone: I have four sisters, we all have white partners. Of my three children and two step children only my middle daughter has a black boyfriend: the others are white. Even in my extended family and friends there's a mix of black and white.

As for Asian men: I just don't find them sexually attractive.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

"Actually wonder why these threads get put up anyway

I'm Bi and do i question in forum why people put no bi men on their profiles?

No i don't and ta be truthful i couldn't care less

The site is full of diversity and griping about who puts what on profiles wont make an ounce of difference

In fact post like these actually lead to disquiet and arguments

Just find someone without that on their profile the same as the majority of us do

People have choice we have no right to question that choice in anyway xx"

jesus christ - you actually sounded sensible here!!

did Wendy hack your account???

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By *abioMan over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"Actually wonder why these threads get put up anyway

I'm Bi and do i question in forum why people put no bi men on their profiles?

No i don't and ta be truthful i couldn't care less

The site is full of diversity and griping about who puts what on profiles wont make an ounce of difference

In fact post like these actually lead to disquiet and arguments

Just find someone without that on their profile the same as the majority of us do

People have choice we have no right to question that choice in anyway xx"

thank fuck someone said it....

soapy.... i think i love you....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

United Colors of Benetton

innit..!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Shame you feel like that about one Asian guy out of hundreds that are on this site.It's like saying all Irish people are as STUPID.Thought swingers were open minded and not narrow minded"

Lol. More fool you for thinking swingers were open-minded!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm asian and have had plenty of meets with both white and black females on here.

If someone doesn't want to meet black/asian/white guys or girls it's personal preference. Not racist, in my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I often get this sort of message in the chatrooms

"do you like asian cocks"

"do you like black cock"

my reply is just

"it depends on the person attached to that cock"

that to me sums things up nicely for me in such a simplistic way

Princess Pussy, your wise words have explained exactly the point I was trying and failing to make!

me wise.........never. i just say exactly what is in my head at the moment and sod the consequences haha!!!

as far as the comments about swingers being openminded. I have found in the few years i have been on this site that swingers are quite a judgemental lot than open minded

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

That guy sounds liek an absoloute ass****. I d apologise to you and any other woman asian men have treated like that. It's totally wrong. Were all on here as equals and We have full liberty to do what we want when we want an how we want. I do apologise for him makign that comment.

I dont see a problem with indian women or any woman being on here. I am out of choice and so can anyone else. We live in a free country and we can do as per we like right?

I hope poeple dont label asian males because of di****ds liek this man who has some wierd and sirespectful _iews of his own!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Haven't met one I fancy. Simples.

Mistress x"

Think I might have to put an end to that:P

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By *arambarMan over a year ago

swindon

"Actually wonder why these threads get put up anyway

I'm Bi and do i question in forum why people put no bi men on their profiles?

No i don't and ta be truthful i couldn't care less

The site is full of diversity and griping about who puts what on profiles wont make an ounce of difference

In fact post like these actually lead to disquiet and arguments

Just find someone without that on their profile the same as the majority of us do

People have choice we have no right to question that choice in anyway xx"

Soapy for Prime Minister!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Actually wonder why these threads get put up anyway

I'm Bi and do i question in forum why people put no bi men on their profiles?

No i don't and ta be truthful i couldn't care less

The site is full of diversity and griping about who puts what on profiles wont make an ounce of difference

In fact post like these actually lead to disquiet and arguments

Just find someone without that on their profile the same as the majority of us do

People have choice we have no right to question that choice in anyway xx"

Stop talking sense. It don't suit ya

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Actually wonder why these threads get put up anyway

I'm Bi and do i question in forum why people put no bi men on their profiles?

No i don't and ta be truthful i couldn't care less

The site is full of diversity and griping about who puts what on profiles wont make an ounce of difference

In fact post like these actually lead to disquiet and arguments

Just find someone without that on their profile the same as the majority of us do

People have choice we have no right to question that choice in anyway xx

jesus christ - you actually sounded sensible here!!

did Wendy hack your account???

It's getting to be a habit: scary isn't it?!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

plenty asian guys willing to fuck white ladies,but not so willing to let thier wifes be fucked by white guys.weve had replies from asian guys who pretend to be single just to get into the wifes knickers

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By *arambarMan over a year ago

swindon

"plenty asian guys willing to fuck white ladies,but not so willing to let thier wifes be fucked by white guys.weve had replies from asian guys who pretend to be single just to get into the wifes knickers"

I think that's pretty common amongst all races and nationalities.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Isn't that the case with some married guys from all races?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

*agrees with Carambar & Blackspice*

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

thats the thing of course their are cases in every race.

i was just saying its more so in within the asian community. just my 2 pence

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By *mumaWoman over a year ago

Livingston

"Actually wonder why these threads get put up anyway

I'm Bi and do i question in forum why people put no bi men on their profiles?

No i don't and ta be truthful i couldn't care less

The site is full of diversity and griping about who puts what on profiles wont make an ounce of difference

In fact post like these actually lead to disquiet and arguments

Just find someone without that on their profile the same as the majority of us do

People have choice we have no right to question that choice in anyway xx

jesus christ - you actually sounded sensible here!!

did Wendy hack your account???

It's getting to be a habit: scary isn't it?!!

I'm actually innocent this time (not something I say often). It was all his own work!!

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By *opeye-OliveCouple over a year ago

worcester

We DO think it's racist to put "No Asians" and we don't have anything to do with people who put it on thier profiles. That is OUR personal preference.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I met a few Asian men and won't ever again

The 1st tryed to take condom off and said your a White girl your like it

2nd slapped me when asked wtf was given the same but your a White girl bull

3rd brought a mate who didn't even speak English !!! Obv I left

So no now I won't meet them at all

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Actually wonder why these threads get put up anyway

I'm Bi and do i question in forum why people put no bi men on their profiles?

No i don't and ta be truthful i couldn't care less

The site is full of diversity and griping about who puts what on profiles wont make an ounce of difference

In fact post like these actually lead to disquiet and arguments

Just find someone without that on their profile the same as the majority of us do

People have choice we have no right to question that choice in anyway xx

jesus christ - you actually sounded sensible here!!

did Wendy hack your account???

It's getting to be a habit: scary isn't it?!!

I'm actually innocent this time (not something I say often). It was all his own work!!"

I meant it's scary the Soapstar writing serious posts so often! It's rather disconcerting!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I met a few Asian men and won't ever again

The 1st tryed to take condom off and said your a White girl your like it

2nd slapped me when asked wtf was given the same but your a White girl bull

3rd brought a mate who didn't even speak English !!! Obv I left

So no now I won't meet them at all "

lol! ffs. that sounds almost surreal

how the fook do you even find urself at that stage with people like that

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

best meet iv had was with an asian bloke, cock like a babies arm and he gave me the upmost respect and good conversation

But so have white men iv met, so have black men iv met, jeez why cant ppl see its the person they meet not the religion, family, skin colour!!

dont tar everyone with the same brush - and that goes to these asian ppl apparently saying white women are trash!!!

if anything, abit of colour makes that lollipop a bit of flavour whilst sucking it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We DO think it's racist to put "No Asians" and we don't have anything to do with people who put it on thier profiles. That is OUR personal preference.

I'm curious: how do you class white people who have "blacks only" or a black person like me who has "white only" on their profile?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I met a few Asian men and won't ever again

The 1st tryed to take condom off and said your a White girl your like it

2nd slapped me when asked wtf was given the same but your a White girl bull

3rd brought a mate who didn't even speak English !!! Obv I left

So no now I won't meet them at all

lol! ffs. that sounds almost surreal

how the fook do you even find urself at that stage with people like that

I have no idea I think I must attract crazy people haha same when I'm on a night out I always pull the bloke who's a bit mad haha

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By *opeye-OliveCouple over a year ago

worcester

"I met a few Asian men and won't ever again

The 1st tryed to take condom off and said your a White girl your like it

2nd slapped me when asked wtf was given the same but your a White girl bull

3rd brought a mate who didn't even speak English !!! Obv I left

So no now I won't meet them at all "

Well supose that means ALL Asian men must be bad.

The same way that ALL White people are serial killers (statistically most serial killers are white).

The news of the world is still live and kicking!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

we had an assignment back when i was in college on the subject of how women are treated and looked upon in some muslim countries.

wasnt nice to say the least. like it or not it is a big part of the culture whatever country they migrate to and whatever generation they happen to be in.

obviously this isnt all asians but it will be a larger percentage simple as.

btw i have asian friends and ive had this kinda discussion with them

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By *opeye-OliveCouple over a year ago

worcester

"we had an assignment back when i was in college on the subject of how women are treated and looked upon in some muslim countries.

wasnt nice to say the least. like it or not it is a big part of the culture whatever country they migrate to and whatever generation they happen to be in.

obviously this isnt all asians but it will be a larger percentage simple as.

btw i have asian friends and ive had this kinda discussion with them"

As you seem to be able to tell exactly what somebody is like from thier skin colour - what's my culture then college boy?

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By *erendipityWoman over a year ago

Hertfordshire

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By *erendipityWoman over a year ago

Hertfordshire

That's a very dismissive and thoughtless response - perhaps you should read the content again and try putting yourself in that persons shoes to consider her point of _iew rather than just attacking the post. Bear in mind that the poster was not denouncing all Asian men as bad, merely stating that she has made a choice based on her experiences (and not anecdotal ones).

Most people, if they tried something three times and had a bad experience three times would not repeat the experience a fourth time. I doubt you would respond that way if the poster had been describing how she used a particular service or company and each time she was treated badly - I'm certain it would have been followed by many posts that would deem the choice not to go back a fourth time entirely acceptable, even if others had good experiences with the same service or company.

And let's face it, bad swinging experiences are likely to have a bigger impact on someone than a supermarket sending your shopping two hours late.

Good *and* bad experiences shape our future choices every day but those choices don't necessarily equate to racism or any other -isms.

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By *erendipityWoman over a year ago

Hertfordshire

Urgh, having a keyboard moment tonight - my post above is in response to these:

"I met a few Asian men and won't ever again

The 1st tryed to take condom off and said your a White girl your like it

2nd slapped me when asked wtf was given the same but your a White girl bull

3rd brought a mate who didn't even speak English !!! Obv I left

So no now I won't meet them at all

Well supose that means ALL Asian men must be bad.

The same way that ALL White people are serial killers (statistically most serial killers are white).

The news of the world is still live and kicking!"

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By *opeye-OliveCouple over a year ago

worcester

"That's a very dismissive and thoughtless response - perhaps you should read the content again and try putting yourself in that persons shoes to consider her point of _iew rather than just attacking the post. Bear in mind that the poster was not denouncing all Asian men as bad, merely stating that she has made a choice based on her experiences (and not anecdotal ones).

And let's face it, bad swinging experiences are likely to have a bigger impact on someone than a supermarket sending your shopping two hours late.

Good *and* bad experiences shape our future choices every day but those choices don't necessarily equate to racism or any other -isms."

Sorry but you're missing the point.

If the young lady had 3 bad experiences with white guys, she would not have come to the conclusion that all white guys were bad. The same holds true for all.

She should have replaced the words "Asian guys" with "guys who showed no respect, and treated me badly"

Damning an entire race becuase of the actions of a few is what starts wars. It is an intolerant, racist _iew to label an entire colour, based on the actions of a few individuals.

We have had a bed swinging experience with an Asian couple, and also a White couple, and a scotish couple. But we didn't come to the conclusion that all Asians, Whites, and Scots were bad.

People need to start thinking. Just replace the word "Asian" with "White" and see how absurd it starts sounding.

We have faught racist attitudes all our lives, and it's the one thing (apart from Homphobia) guaranteed to wind us up.

The worst thing is that too many "whites" see nothing wrong with using this kind of language.

Was chatting to a black couple once. The girl said that ALL white people were racist. I was shocked at the time, but I'm starting to think she had a point.

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By *opeye-OliveCouple over a year ago

worcester

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By *opeye-OliveCouple over a year ago

worcester

Second thoughts. Think we need to stop posting on these topics.

It would appear that most people on the forums are "small r racists" i.e. the kind of people who say "I'm not racist, but...."

Genuinely thought things were getting better, but we still seem to be living in the stone age.

Over and out

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By *iewMan over a year ago
Forum Mod

Angus & Findhorn

It would appear that most people on the forums are "small r racists" i.e. the kind of people who say "I'm not racist, but...."

Genuinely thought things were getting better, but we still seem to be living in the stone age.

Over and out

Don't you dare suggest the majority of people on the forums are racist.... Utter crap and offensive.

Am I racist, when have I displayed the slightest racist behaviour .... Now be specific.

What did I post and in what context did I say it?

I await your answer.....

I won't answer with the usual... I have friends who are Asian as I find no need to justify myself to you.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Second thoughts. Think we need to stop posting on these topics.

It would appear that most people on the forums are "small r racists" i.e. the kind of people who say "I'm not racist, but...."

Genuinely thought things were getting better, but we still seem to be living in the stone age.

Over and out

Well, I do say that I would find your sweeping genarised statement extremely offensive but I rest in the knowledge that I know I'm not racist along side the majority who post on the forums.

I hold my hand up and day racism has surfaced recently... but it was a white guy attacking a largely white nation. That is the only time I have seen it happen on here.

As View said.. Kindly point out where racism has has been evident in our posting.

Awaiting your response....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The Americans have a term "Bleeding Heart Liberals". Basically means people who believe that minority groups (black, asian, gay, transexual, lesbian, learning difficulties etc. etc.) are right......ALWAYS! The reason they are right is simply BECAUSE they are part of a minority. These people also believe that anyone who has an opinion that differs from this should be pilloried at the least but imprisoned for preference.

It should also be noted that these people tend to form the core of most of the American (not all, please note) extremist groups that campaign for clemency for murderers, terrorists etc. As well as performing various acts of outrage in support of their beliefs!

I submit this (and it can be easily checked for authenticity all over the web) simply to show that there are two sides to every coin and that the root of most conflicts come from the unshakeable belief that "My opinion is the only opinion."

Think on!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Everyone is entitled to a preference, if someone isn't interested in overweight/skinny/black/white etc etc that is their choice, it does not make them racist in any way

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By *iewMan over a year ago
Forum Mod

Angus & Findhorn

"The Americans have a term "Bleeding Heart Liberals". Basically means people who believe that minority groups (black, asian, gay, transexual, lesbian, learning difficulties etc. etc.) are right......ALWAYS! The reason they are right is simply BECAUSE they are part of a minority. These people also believe that anyone who has an opinion that differs from this should be pilloried at the least but imprisoned for preference.

Think on!"

agree..

I just don't have sex with everyone as my cock doesn't get hard if I don't fancy them...

makes it easy

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By *ove bi guysWoman over a year ago

Birmingham

Having travelled through many countries in Asia and lived in a very mixed cultural area of Birmingham I have probably only found a handful of guys I would say I was even slightly attacted to and then it was only fleeting same goes for black guys. That said I am not attracted to skinny people, guys with bad teeth or women with implants, the list goes on ...

That said I can see why some may be against meeting Asian (or any other colour, race or religion) guys based on some of the emails I have received on here.

To start an email telling me you want to 'f**k my white c**t' is not a great opener ! Neither is 'I want to cum over your white tits' ....

I'd like to think they were over come with lust seeing my profile and pic lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I love all women

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Having travelled through many countries in Asia and lived in a very mixed cultural area of Birmingham I have probably only found a handful of guys I would say I was even slightly attacted to and then it was only fleeting same goes for black guys. That said I am not attracted to skinny people, guys with bad teeth or women with implants, the list goes on ...

That said I can see why some may be against meeting Asian (or any other colour, race or religion) guys based on some of the emails I have received on here.

To start an email telling me you want to 'f**k my white c**t' is not a great opener ! Neither is 'I want to cum over your white tits' ....

I'd like to think they were over come with lust seeing my profile and pic lol

but it actually leaves me thinking why do they have to mention white in the comment ? why not say big, cute, sexy etc .... It does leave me with a feeling that some (not all) Asian (and other colour, race or religion) guys _iew white women differently to women from their own"
I have had only one black parner since I came from America 7 yrs ago . All my girlfriends after have been white ,plus I have had sex with some Asian women also . My thing is I was raised to love everybody no matter our differences . I will say that i'm more attracted to white women than any other race, and its just to do with the fact that I get on better with them and just have an attraction towards them . I just love women period

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"There is is again. All Asians are afraid of what their family might think! And non-Asians aren't?!

(Actually, my mother would kill me lol

)

just curious................

Why have you taken it upon yourself to speak for the entire asian community AS WELL AS the non-Asian community on how they perceive Asians?

I haven't read the whole thread (I stopped at yours to reply) but in the first 20 messages TWO women said they had been called 'white trash' by Asian men. Not by the same Asian man, two different ones, miles apart. That's a pretty clear indication of how Asian men _iew white women - they'll fuck them but they won't marry them.

I'm from Luton, which has a very high Asian population (brown skinned people with or without 'goodness gracious me' accents but not negroid, just to be clear), and in Luton you will see thousands of mixed race relationship, but hardly any between Asians and Whites, and of those you do see, what often happens is the Asian is ostracised from his family and culture. My conclusions from growing up in such a place is that Asians are more inherently racist than any other ethnicity, white or otherwise.

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I hate these threads. Seems almost racist to me to go on about why asians/blacks/chinese/anything not white aren't attractive. I particularly hate it when white people try to tell other white people about asians. I think the only people who can actually speak with any authority about what it is to be asian is an asian, not a white person who hates them.

I will shag anything. Don't care what race or colour you are. I don't want to get married so come one, come all.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I hate these threads. Seems almost racist to me to go on about why asians/blacks/chinese/anything not white aren't attractive. I particularly hate it when white people try to tell other white people about asians. I think the only people who can actually speak with any authority about what it is to be asian is an asian, not a white person who hates them.

I will shag anything. Don't care what race or colour you are. I don't want to get married so come one, come all."
ANYTHING !!! ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"There is is again. All Asians are afraid of what their family might think! And non-Asians aren't?!

(Actually, my mother would kill me lol

)

just curious................

Why have you taken it upon yourself to speak for the entire asian community AS WELL AS the non-Asian community on how they perceive Asians?

Things have changed in the last 30yrs!

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By *rumalexMan over a year ago

Birmingham

I will shag anything. Don't care what race or colour you are. I don't want to get married so come one, come all."

Have to agree with you on that one i can never understand people that cannot see beyond skin colour in this day and age, if i see a profile that says no to people because of their skin colour i move on, its their preference which is true but what is the reason behind the preference??

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I met a few Asian men and won't ever again

The 1st tryed to take condom off and said your a White girl your like it

2nd slapped me when asked wtf was given the same but your a White girl bull

3rd brought a mate who didn't even speak English !!! Obv I left

So no now I won't meet them at all

Well supose that means ALL Asian men must be bad.

The same way that ALL White people are serial killers (statistically most serial killers are white).

The news of the world is still live and kicking!"

LOL! It wasn't the NOTW. It's us!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I was just saying of the 3 Asian men I have met thro swinging all 3 were bad

I'm my job (shushhhhh can't say what lol). I meet Alot of guys from all diff places I have found a huge diffence in respect levels for a female from guys from the uk and guys from other places such as India or Asia Ect Muslim men especially look at you like they have just stepped on you like your a dog terd

My personal prefrance to meeting guys for fun is White or black guys yes India men do nothing for me Asian I find attractive if pale skinned but won't meet due to the last 3 wont risk it plus they are deffo just the fuck n go type n I don't like that

My choice simple as maybe it's not PC but it's my fanny and it's up to me who I let poke it ! Lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

World of difference tween a prejudice and racism...

I`m prejudiced against morbidly obese peeps...turns my stomach....but floats others boat...guess its approaching a choice or preference..

I don`t think any other other race is inferior to mine..Anglo Saxon..ergo I ain`t racist, deffo prejudiced tho..hands up fer me..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Second thoughts. Think we need to stop posting on these topics.

It would appear that most people on the forums are "small r racists" i.e. the kind of people who say "I'm not racist, but...."

Genuinely thought things were getting better, but we still seem to be living in the stone age.

Over and out

Well, I do say that I would find your sweeping genarised statement extremely offensive but I rest in the knowledge that I know I'm not racist along side the majority who post on the forums.

I hold my hand up and day racism has surfaced recently... but it was a white guy attacking a largely white nation. That is the only time I have seen it happen on here.

As View said.. Kindly point out where racism has has been evident in our posting.

Awaiting your response...."

Yes, it is an offensive generalisation to post that the majority of forums posts are racist and to accuse people of racism. But, in their defense, it would be naive to say that SOME people (I said some. Guns back in holsters please

) didn't have some predjudices in tow. It is none of our business who and why these things are found in profiles and we will never know but let's be honest with each other: Sometimes it's more than just a "preference."

Likewise, I'd love to hear a response

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Just wondering has any one seen me socks i lost um yesturday somewhere cant sodding find um for toffee ....... mmmm toffee theres a thought !!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I was just saying of the 3 Asian men I have met thro swinging all 3 were bad

My choice simple as maybe it's not PC but it's my fanny and it's up to me who I let poke it ! Lol

LOL Brilliant!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I was just saying of the 3 Asian men I have met thro swinging all 3 were bad

My choice simple as maybe it's not PC but it's my fanny and it's up to me who I let poke it ! Lol

"
poking is good I like to poke . Who else like poking ? Lol

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By *abioMan over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"Second thoughts. Think we need to stop posting on these topics.

It would appear that most people on the forums are "small r racists" i.e. the kind of people who say "I'm not racist, but...."

Genuinely thought things were getting better, but we still seem to be living in the stone age.

Over and out

okay... let me ask you this since people like to throw out labels....

on your profile you are not after singles... so there is one label..

and on your profile you state that you only want people between 25 and 48.. so people could throw in "ageist".... not nice is it....

so the question is this.... so at what point does someones "preference" become something more sinister?????

I respect your preferences... should people be respecting others without the need to throw out labels....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Second thoughts. Think we need to stop posting on these topics.

It would appear that most people on the forums are "small r racists" i.e. the kind of people who say "I'm not racist, but...."

Genuinely thought things were getting better, but we still seem to be living in the stone age.

Over and out

okay... let me ask you this since people like to throw out labels....

on your profile you are not after singles... so there is one label..

and on your profile you state that you only want people between 25 and 48.. so people could throw in "ageist".... not nice is it....

so the question is this.... so at what point does someones "preference" become something more sinister?????

I respect your preferences... should people be respecting others without the need to throw out labels....

Gives me an idea. Maybe admin should include an ethnicity filter and ask everyone to state what they. what do we think? lol

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By *abioMan over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

Think on!"

as someone who could be considered to be a "bleeding heart liberal"... and have been call that by people on the right... your defination is so far off base that I couldn't let it slide... sorry....

it could be said that most "bleeding heart liberals" think that People should be treated the same as Opposed to any sort of "positive discrimination"

i.e the best person for the job should get the job... rather than the "old boys club" mentality that has surrounded politics and business for countless hundred years.....

so please... in future... if you are going the throw out terms.. least get them correct...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just wondering has any one seen me socks i lost um yesturday somewhere cant sodding find um for toffee ....... mmmm toffee theres a thought !!!!!!"

I got your socks. Wearing them at the moment. they're mine now!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Think on!

as someone who could be considered to be a "bleeding heart liberal"... and have been call that by people on the right... your defination is so far off base that I couldn't let it slide... sorry....

it could be said that most "bleeding heart liberals" think that People should be treated the same as Opposed to any sort of "positive discrimination"

i.e the best person for the job should get the job... rather than the "old boys club" mentality that has surrounded politics and business for countless hundred years.....

so please... in future... if you are going the throw out terms.. least get them correct...

"
hmm and the plot thickens . More coffee is in order

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just wondering has any one seen me socks i lost um yesturday somewhere cant sodding find um for toffee ....... mmmm toffee theres a thought !!!!!!

I got your socks. Wearing them at the moment. they're mine now!

Ooo you couldn't find mine, wore them to bed last night, was going to wear them when I got back from the shop but now cannot find them

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just wondering has any one seen me socks i lost um yesturday somewhere cant sodding find um for toffee ....... mmmm toffee theres a thought !!!!!!

I got your socks. Wearing them at the moment. they're mine now!

Ooo you couldn't find mine, wore them to bed last night, was going to wear them when I got back from the shop but now cannot find them

They had a hole in them so I threw them out babe. Soz

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We are all on someones NO list.

Some people are racist, we know that.

Some people may come out with generalisations, we probably all do at times, but someones personal experience will colour their _iew. I had a bad holiday in Salou once, it was overcast for the whole two weeks, I now say I wont ever go to mainland Spain because I dislike it all. Ive been to one resort!

I dislike big bushy beards, a lot of Muslim men have beards, I wont play with them - neither will I play with white guys with big bushy beards, the beard is the deciding factor not the colour of the guy.

I dislike spicy smelling food, in particular garlic. I will not play with guys who smell strongly of spicy food. That may put a lot of asian guys who enjoy traditional asian cookery out of my radar - as it does with white guys who enjoy asian cooking.

We all have preferences, I cant go around moaning when guys or couples put no fat girls. I think the language some people use is offensive, and I get irritated by the rudeness of that rather than the actual preference

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Think on!

as someone who could be considered to be a "bleeding heart liberal"... and have been call that by people on the right... your defination is so far off base that I couldn't let it slide... sorry....

it could be said that most "bleeding heart liberals" think that People should be treated the same as Opposed to any sort of "positive discrimination"

i.e the best person for the job should get the job... rather than the "old boys club" mentality that has surrounded politics and business for countless hundred years.....

so please... in future... if you are going the throw out terms.. least get them correct...

It is correct ......... you have rather prooved the point.......for the record, my husband is disabled (yet another minority) and fully understands that some people can't cope with that! He also realises that for most (not all) work, he would most certainly NOT be suitable, but he has twice been offered "help" by those who would feel smug for giving someone "needy" a job. He would rather starve! Where do you drawer the line....should all the women on here line up to fuck an Islamic Fundamentalist who has just planted a bomb in a shopping arcade? After all, it would be sectarian if they didn't?????????

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just wondering has any one seen me socks i lost um yesturday somewhere cant sodding find um for toffee ....... mmmm toffee theres a thought !!!!!!

I got your socks. Wearing them at the moment. they're mine now!

Ooo you couldn't find mine, wore them to bed last night, was going to wear them when I got back from the shop but now cannot find them

They had a hole in them so I threw them out babe. Soz

Uh thats the bit where you put your feet in????

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have been holdign my tongue on this but going to put in my 2pence worth..

I wont play with anyone that isnt white and British... also I have age preferences, hair colour preferences etc..

How ever on this particular subject.. I have spent many years working for and with a few Asian lads.. now I am in a lucky position as due to my expertise in certain areas they treat me with respect.. but if you heard their conversations about white trash for fucking, you would realise exactly why I would never ever consider it..

Not to mention the fact my Dad would disown me for life.. and for me mixing races is not the done thing.. does it make me racist.. No... I just dont agree with interacial sex.. for me personally it is wrong..

Yet I have many friends that are doing that.. or are of mixed race background.. but my personal preferences are to only have white men and ladies.

I think that the attitude the Asian lads I know have about white women is disgusting.. Many of them have mistresses that are white because they say white women are dirtier.. but they are only good for fucks... so even if I didnt have the preference I did.. on the basis of those discussions I would not go there..

Katie. x

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By *rumalexMan over a year ago

Birmingham

"I have been holdign my tongue on this but going to put in my 2pence worth..

I wont play with anyone that isnt white and British... also I have age preferences, hair colour preferences etc..

Yet I have many friends that are doing that.. or are of mixed race background.. but my personal preferences are to only have white men and ladies.

Katie. x"

good post but white and british? does that mean you will fuck a man from belfast but not from dublin?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have been holdign my tongue on this but going to put in my 2pence worth..

I wont play with anyone that isnt white and British... also I have age preferences, hair colour preferences etc..

Yet I have many friends that are doing that.. or are of mixed race background.. but my personal preferences are to only have white men and ladies.

Katie. x"

interracial sex is wrong...wholy fuck...my existence is wrong...im some kind of sub-sub species. The very fact my scientific knowledge already makes me shudder at ur opinion of mixing races, sorry but maybe its not a here and now matter...but we need genetic diversity to actually maintain proper breeding. Swinging wise of course have ur preferences but FFS please dont come out with pish about mixing of the genes between races being wrong.

a pretty much really disgusted paddy!

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By *abioMan over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

Katie. x"

having a preference is one thing.. and i will absolutely defend that right to the hilt.... but this is so far beyond that I am actually disappointed in someone that i actually respected.....

I hope this thread is locked, because it may end up going to a direction that may get very very nasty

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By *rumalexMan over a year ago

Birmingham

Katie. x

having a preference is one thing.. and i will absolutely defend that right to the hilt.... but this is so far beyond that I am actually disappointed in someone that i actually respected.....

I hope this thread is locked, because it may end up going to a direction that may get very very nasty"

you're probably right as some peoples "preferences" are starting to show their complete ignorance

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

What a bloody crass comment! I hope it doesn't count those of us that are sallow skinned; I have been asked over the years if I am Chinese, Japanese, Taiwanese and Siamese, does that mean that I am only permitted to meet those that are also similar

Am with you Fabio, the sooner this thread is closed the better as it has really gone downhill now

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago
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I have read and kept this thread open for debate thinking that I would allow people to have opinions

Ive already removed some posts this morning and im not liking the fact that everytime a post is put up im wondering whats going to be said next

Its been interesting and enlightening to say the least

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