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"Don't like to make a thread to disheartening , I feel so down at the minute , I'm living with the horrendous condition of fibromyalgia and my weight has rocketed with the meds I'm taking , I can't exercise like I used too , does anyone else who suffers have the same feelings , for instance I have gone from a size 16 too a size 20 , I'm not saying you can't look good as a bigger sized person , it's just taking me a while to find my comfort zone so to speak . Sorry for the doom and gloom Mrs T " I do hope you feel better soon hun xxxx | |||
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"I don't want to affect your self-esteem, but it's spelled - esteem!" Thank you , I don't mind I knew it looked wrong but still thought I was right lol | |||
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"My sister's MIL has this condition and know how miserable it can be. Hope you feel better soon xx " thankyou , I'm sure I will x | |||
"I know someone who has fibromyalgia and if anything his weight went down or just about stayed the same, mind you he had lots of other symptoms too like asthma... he was working fine and then gradually became more and more tired and just couldn't manage the job he was in so had to leave... i don't think he is as bad now but the work he was doing before (outdoor and physical) would be beyond him now. His weight didn't increase though and he manages his condition as best he can." it effects people different ways , just wish I could get back to my 16/18 size , Us women lol | |||
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"I don't want to affect your self-esteem, but it's spelled - esteem!" . Would it really have mattered if you hadn't have pointed that out, the op wasn't asking for a spelling lesson  Mrs blue eyes  | |||
"There are organisations to support people with fibromyalgia that may also be able to offer advice. Visit UK Fibromyalgia's support group section for a list of support groups across the country. You may also find it helpful to talk to other people with fibromyalgia on online . I hope you find others who can help you in some way." yes there are and I do use them , it's the gaining weight bit that wears me down , looking at myself and not liking what I see is the hardest, but getting out and about walking is helping x | |||
"I don't want to affect your self-esteem, but it's spelled - esteem!. Would it really have mattered if you hadn't have pointed that out, the op wasn't asking for a spelling lesson Mrs blue eyes "thank you | |||
"Don't like to make a thread to disheartening , I feel so down at the minute , I'm living with the horrendous condition of fibromyalgia and my weight has rocketed with the meds I'm taking , I can't exercise like I used too , does anyone else who suffers have the same feelings , for instance I have gone from a size 16 too a size 20 , I'm not saying you can't look good as a bigger sized person , it's just taking me a while to find my comfort zone so to speak . Sorry for the doom and gloom Mrs T " . Hi op, I am sending huge hugs, I really feel for you, never worry about asking for support, you generally find a good bunch on here  I have a forum friend who has your condition, I'll message her and ask to pop in the thread, she has such a positive outlook on it, and on her bad days she accepts it for what it is and let's her body rest, she's confident now but I'm not sure she always has been, she's learnt to live with the new her, anyhow she is better equipped at telling you her story and I think she will be good to get to know, good luck op, Mrs blue eyes | |||
"There are organisations to support people with fibromyalgia that may also be able to offer advice. Visit UK Fibromyalgia's support group section for a list of support groups across the country. You may also find it helpful to talk to other people with fibromyalgia on online . I hope you find others who can help you in some way. yes there are and I do use them , it's the gaining weight bit that wears me down , looking at myself and not liking what I see is the hardest, but getting out and about walking is helping x " Yes walking is so good . I find thinking positive helps what we think become true to us . I find when I have been very low that's what has helped me get myself back. | |||
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"Don't like to make a thread to disheartening , I feel so down at the minute , I'm living with the horrendous condition of fibromyalgia and my weight has rocketed with the meds I'm taking , I can't exercise like I used too , does anyone else who suffers have the same feelings , for instance I have gone from a size 16 too a size 20 , I'm not saying you can't look good as a bigger sized person , it's just taking me a while to find my comfort zone so to speak . Sorry for the doom and gloom Mrs T " hope u feel better soon but try execising in a swimming pool love we can all move our painful joints under water i.e. water aerobics but i would not worry about your weight lov ely just relax and try and live heathly good luck xxx | |||
"There are organisations to support people with fibromyalgia that may also be able to offer advice. Visit UK Fibromyalgia's support group section for a list of support groups across the country. You may also find it helpful to talk to other people with fibromyalgia on online . I hope you find others who can help you in some way. yes there are and I do use them , it's the gaining weight bit that wears me down , looking at myself and not liking what I see is the hardest, but getting out and about walking is helping x Yes walking is so good . I find thinking positive helps what we think become true to us . I find when I have been very low that's what has helped me get myself back." love walking and now the nicer weather is here it's more enjoyable and not a necessity, gentle hugs xx | |||
"I think there's quite a lot of people who use the forums that have it so hopefully they can offer help." ghankyou | |||
"Don't like to make a thread to disheartening , I feel so down at the minute , I'm living with the horrendous condition of fibromyalgia and my weight has rocketed with the meds I'm taking , I can't exercise like I used too , does anyone else who suffers have the same feelings , for instance I have gone from a size 16 too a size 20 , I'm not saying you can't look good as a bigger sized person , it's just taking me a while to find my comfort zone so to speak . Sorry for the doom and gloom Mrs T hope u feel better soon but try execising in a swimming pool love we can all move our painful joints under water i.e. water aerobics but i would not worry about your weight lov ely just relax and try and live heathly good luck xxx " yes I did aqua running and loved itv, time to find some classes I think x | |||
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"Don't like to make a thread to disheartening , I feel so down at the minute , I'm living with the horrendous condition of fibromyalgia and my weight has rocketed with the meds I'm taking , I can't exercise like I used too , does anyone else who suffers have the same feelings , for instance I have gone from a size 16 too a size 20 , I'm not saying you can't look good as a bigger sized person , it's just taking me a while to find my comfort zone so to speak . Sorry for the doom and gloom Mrs T . Hi op, I am sending huge hugs, I really feel for you, never worry about asking for support, you generally find a good bunch on here I have a forum friend who has your condition, I'll message her and ask to pop in the thread, she has such a positive outlook on it, and on her bad days she accepts it for what it is and let's her body rest, she's confident now but I'm not sure she always has been, she's learnt to live with the new her, anyhow she is better equipped at telling you her story and I think she will be good to get to know, good luck op, Mrs blue eyes "Thanks petal. Xxx yes I've had 1 and a half "dead" days over the weekend so I was conspicuous by my absence feelin better today so I've been out n had a pamper day. Nails, hair and that sunbed session! Omfg it was amazing, 6 mins of warmth right thro to my bones. It was just beginning to feel Burnie when it tripped off. Anyway back to the op, I've got a million and 1 tips but the biggest tip I've got which atm your gonna say "fuck off" to me but it's too relax. Yes relax. Impossible atm I know but you need to cos fibro is ten times worse when your stressed and tense. In box me any time you want. Xxx | |||
"Don't like to make a thread to disheartening , I feel so down at the minute , I'm living with the horrendous condition of fibromyalgia and my weight has rocketed with the meds I'm taking , I can't exercise like I used too , does anyone else who suffers have the same feelings , for instance I have gone from a size 16 too a size 20 , I'm not saying you can't look good as a bigger sized person , it's just taking me a while to find my comfort zone so to speak . Sorry for the doom and gloom Mrs T . Hi op, I am sending huge hugs, I really feel for you, never worry about asking for support, you generally find a good bunch on here I have a forum friend who has your condition, I'll message her and ask to pop in the thread, she has such a positive outlook on it, and on her bad days she accepts it for what it is and let's her body rest, she's confident now but I'm not sure she always has been, she's learnt to live with the new her, anyhow she is better equipped at telling you her story and I think she will be good to get to know, good luck op, Mrs blue eyes
Thanks petal. Xxx yes I've had 1 and a half "dead" days over the weekend so I was conspicuous by my absence feelin better today so I've been out n had a pamper day. Nails, hair and that sunbed session! Omfg it was amazing, 6 mins of warmth right thro to my bones. It was just beginning to feel Burnie when it tripped off. Anyway back to the op, I've got a million and 1 tips but the biggest tip I've got which atm your gonna say "fuck off" to me but it's too relax. Yes relax. Impossible atm I know but you need to cos fibro is ten times worse when your stressed and tense. In box me any time you want. Xxx"thankyou , I've told everything to do that today , ended up wandering around town , bought a bikini top is to small , but I will get into it , gentle hugs and a massive thankyou , I may take you up on your offer , but please let me be your place of vent if you wish too xx | |||
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"Don't like to make a thread to disheartening , I feel so down at the minute , I'm living with the horrendous condition of fibromyalgia and my weight has rocketed with the meds I'm taking , I can't exercise like I used too , does anyone else who suffers have the same feelings , for instance I have gone from a size 16 too a size 20 , I'm not saying you can't look good as a bigger sized person , it's just taking me a while to find my comfort zone so to speak . Sorry for the doom and gloom Mrs T . Hi op, I am sending huge hugs, I really feel for you, never worry about asking for support, you generally find a good bunch on here I have a forum friend who has your condition, I'll message her and ask to pop in the thread, she has such a positive outlook on it, and on her bad days she accepts it for what it is and let's her body rest, she's confident now but I'm not sure she always has been, she's learnt to live with the new her, anyhow she is better equipped at telling you her story and I think she will be good to get to know, good luck op, Mrs blue eyes
Thanks petal. Xxx yes I've had 1 and a half "dead" days over the weekend so I was conspicuous by my absence feelin better today so I've been out n had a pamper day. Nails, hair and that sunbed session! Omfg it was amazing, 6 mins of warmth right thro to my bones. It was just beginning to feel Burnie when it tripped off. Anyway back to the op, I've got a million and 1 tips but the biggest tip I've got which atm your gonna say "fuck off" to me but it's too relax. Yes relax. Impossible atm I know but you need to cos fibro is ten times worse when your stressed and tense. In box me any time you want. Xxx thankyou , I've told everything to do that today , ended up wandering around town , bought a bikini top is to small , but I will get into it , gentle hugs and a massive thankyou , I may take you up on your offer , but please let me be your place of vent if you wish too xx "of course but you may regret that. xxx | |||
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"I have a couple of Fab friends who have fibro....and sadly the condition is not well understood. Try not to equate your body size with your self worth. And remember that there are plenty of men who prefer the fuller figure. " thank you , I'm having a good day today , onwards and upwards x | |||
"I'm in the same boat, I've got a bit of a belly which I hate and the atypical male problem of worrying about my cock size, as I think it's not big enough "yes hate to be sexist , but we women have more assets to worry about | |||
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"Don't like to make a thread to disheartening , I feel so down at the minute , I'm living with the horrendous condition of fibromyalgia and my weight has rocketed with the meds I'm taking , I can't exercise like I used too , does anyone else who suffers have the same feelings , for instance I have gone from a size 16 too a size 20 , I'm not saying you can't look good as a bigger sized person , it's just taking me a while to find my comfort zone so to speak . Sorry for the doom and gloom Mrs T " My ex was size 20-26 at different times and had no problem getting meets. Anyone who judges you is not worth meeting. | |||
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"I've no personal experience, but my Mom was diagnosed a few years ago. She has said that the biggest thing has been learning not to be so hard on herself and also learning to do what her body needs, rather than battling against it as she said she always ends up feeling so much worse, if she tries to push on through (which sometimes she has no choice over as she is carer to her Mom). Be kind to yourself x" thankyou x | |||
"Don't like to make a thread to disheartening , I feel so down at the minute , I'm living with the horrendous condition of fibromyalgia and my weight has rocketed with the meds I'm taking , I can't exercise like I used too , does anyone else who suffers have the same feelings , for instance I have gone from a size 16 too a size 20 , I'm not saying you can't look good as a bigger sized person , it's just taking me a while to find my comfort zone so to speak . Sorry for the doom and gloom Mrs T My ex was size 20-26 at different times and had no problem getting meets. Anyone who judges you is not worth meeting." | |||
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