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A year with no meets
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Heyy, just wondering if a year with no meets is a big put off for most people?, I've been close to meets but had about ther profiles randomly disappear off the site. Curious to know if I'm going wrong with the profile lol. |
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"Why do you call yourself londoncallum when you are from Ayr and live in Ayr?
Sally"
What does that matter? Perhaps he's from London originally or Ayrcallum was already taken..... It's only a user name  |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
Dudley |
"Why do you call yourself londoncallum when you are from Ayr and live in Ayr?
Sally"
I wondered this, I don't have a massive issue with your profile, I think it comes across quite well compared to most.
Personally, I don't like hairy men down below so that would put me off. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Cheers peeps XD I'm planing to host a couple parties at my new either next month or later haha. And a have Dow below is well a truly needed I must admit lol x |
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"Not many genuine people on here, a single girl or a couple could get 10 meets a day if they wanted, if they've been on here a long time and had no meets you can safely assume they're timewasters."
How would you know if they have had meets or not?
Not everyone is verification mad. |
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By *wo4FemCouple
over a year ago
Birmingham |
"Not many genuine people on here, a single girl or a couple could get 10 meets a day if they wanted, if they've been on here a long time and had no meets you can safely assume they're timewasters."
Not true at all. Don't know where you get your 10 meets a day from. We're very genuine and have been on here for 9 months and still looking for a female. And we are definately not timewasters.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The only meets we have had in last 18 months is from parties we have held posting meets otherwise seems a total waste of time as only get contact from bi guy's whom cannot read |
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"Not many genuine people on here, a single girl or a couple could get 10 meets a day if they wanted, if they've been on here a long time and had no meets you can safely assume they're timewasters."
Really? What about when we see the same guy we've been seeing for 3 years plus and we're way beyond veris? |
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By *ucy. AlCouple
over a year ago
Newcastle upon Tyne |
"Bit nervous to go one haha as going to a club as a single can be daunting x
Why? You think the minute you get thought the door everyone wants to undress you to see if your cock is good enough?"
I can understand this (male half here) i am reserved by nature and NO chance would you get me in a club on my own think its a man thing lol. Maybe the OP could initially seek fellow guys to attend a local club with - I'm sure he's not the only one in this situation. Maybe add to profile or look through the endless other forum posts on no meets and single guys attending clubs. It's genuine advice and not criticism |
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"Not many genuine people on here, a single girl or a couple could get 10 meets a day if they wanted, if they've been on here a long time and had no meets you can safely assume they're timewasters."
Not true we are a genuine couple and as yet we are still waiting our first meet |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Bit nervous to go one haha as going to a club as a single can be daunting x
Why? You think the minute you get thought the door everyone wants to undress you to see if your cock is good enough?
I can understand this (male half here) i am reserved by nature and NO chance would you get me in a club on my own think its a man thing lol. Maybe the OP could initially seek fellow guys to attend a local club with - I'm sure he's not the only one in this situation. Maybe add to profile or look through the endless other forum posts on no meets and single guys attending clubs. It's genuine advice and not criticism"
Thank you XD much apprciated XD. I think the might be my best option just to test the water in going haha |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
chelmsford |
"Bit nervous to go one haha as going to a club as a single can be daunting x"
I think you need to take the bull by the horns and get to a club. I think your profile is good and you appear to be a nice guy! Good luck!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just an idea but you have listed swinging clubs in ur interests- why don't you pop into your local one and get chatting to people!!!! See what happens!!?
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Yep 99% of my meets are from clubs |
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"Why do you call yourself londoncallum when you are from Ayr and live in Ayr?
Sally
What does that matter? Perhaps he's from London originally or Ayrcallum was already taken..... It's only a user name "
Eh eh! Did you know that _lacksausage was NOT BLACK? Or is he? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not many genuine people on here, a single girl or a couple could get 10 meets a day if they wanted, if they've been on here a long time and had no meets you can safely assume they're timewasters."
Lots of us are not veri collectors and may have one verification from someone we meet weekly for months. So whose to say how many they have or have not met... you only really need 1 veri to show you are who you say you are. It is good though that that verification isn't from someone with only one veri..... that can ring alarm bells. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Bit nervous to go one haha as going to a club as a single can be daunting x
Why? You think the minute you get thought the door everyone wants to undress you to see if your cock is good enough?
I can understand this (male half here) i am reserved by nature and NO chance would you get me in a club on my own think its a man thing lol. Maybe the OP could initially seek fellow guys to attend a local club with - I'm sure he's not the only one in this situation. Maybe add to profile or look through the endless other forum posts on no meets and single guys attending clubs. It's genuine advice and not criticism
Thank you XD much apprciated XD. I think the might be my best option just to test the water in going haha"
Iam a single guy and I go to a club I like you was a bit nervous but the owner. Staff.and a few nice people soon made me welcome and now I am there most weeks it's not all about the shagging it's also a very good social meeting or place what ever you like to call it I would not change a thing at my club as I feel relaxed there   |
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"Bit nervous to go one haha as going to a club as a single can be daunting x"
It is daunting going that first time, by yourself, it's true. But swing clubs aren't what you possibly think they are. Just get yourself along to one, and give it say, 60 minutes of your life. If it's not for you, the worst you can do is pop to the pub on your way home, and tick a box off your bucket list |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thank you everyone XD really made me feel at ease on here, some lovely people on this site XD. I'm gonna go for it and get myself booked in at a club haha. Grab the bull by the horns x |
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By *rx1Couple
over a year ago
North of Okehampton, South of Bideford |
"Heyy, just wondering if a year with no meets is a big put off for most people?, I've been close to meets but had about ther profiles randomly disappear off the site. Curious to know if I'm going wrong with the profile lol."
Not sure you are actually doing anything wrong, but for us ( yes that is just us before we get beaten up  ) we do wonder if those that are in the same situation are really Swingers and it does tend to put us off a bit |
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"Heyy, just wondering if a year with no meets is a big put off for most people?, I've been close to meets but had about ther profiles randomly disappear off the site. Curious to know if I'm going wrong with the profile lol."
I'd say so yes. Especially when socials are all over the place. Not sure if you go to clubs or not but that's another way to get yourself about. If people can see you can be social as well as a good fuck then that alone doubles your chances in my opinion |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Heyy, just wondering if a year with no meets is a big put off for most people?, I've been close to meets but had about ther profiles randomly disappear off the site. Curious to know if I'm going wrong with the profile lol."
a year and no meets should tell you its not working either try a different approach better pictures better write up or try somewhere else ,where you may have success
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