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Hi all. Myself and my wife are considering having another guy shag her in a club. We reckon the first time would be very much a spur of the moment thing with we receiving oral from my wife while another guy fucks her.
The question is do guys automatically use condoms in clubs if they are having sex with other partners. We don't use/carry condoms in clubs but would want another guy to use one while in her.
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over a year ago
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Ask him to use a condom. Check. If he doesn't / won't, someone else will be more than happy to take his place.
That's always been my experience as a single bloke |
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"What is the general way..... or condoms generally used or are we being super cautious and old fashioned"
some do.. some dont. We take our own .. one because i need latex free.. but two because I want to know they haven't tampered with them.
I always have them even if we are going socially |
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"In years of going to clubs I've only had 1 guy try and shag me without a condom, in fact you never usually have to ask if they have one."
Always best to ask though...be prepared. At club I go to if a couple are happy for another man to join in then they often leave a couple of condoms laying close to them in foil as a very strong hint. But always check! |
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Generally guys will put one on or assume its needed but you will get some that won't.
Best to insist and be sure.
If your Mrs is a bit undressed/exposed they may try to fuck her before they are covered if you don't.
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I always look out for my wife at clubs for guys looking for a chance to pounce for a sneaky bareback fuck. There is always one who would give it a try.
We play between ourselves bareback and on occasion will invite someone to join us bareback.
Without me doing crowd control duties it could turn into a bareback free for all which doesn't appeal. |
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We've never had anyone *not* reach for a condom when we've been playing in clubs... But we do both keep an eye out.
But we would never assume, and always take our own condoms even if we know a venue has them openly available (I know some clubs charge).
I just wish there was a better way to carry them ha ha ...
Tucking them in to your underwear isn't always the most comfortable haha.
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"What is the general way..... or condoms generally used or are we being super cautious and old fashioned"
The simple question is do you value your sexual health? For me its a no brainer. Condom or no play. |
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Most people do think of their own safety at clubs and take there own,don't expect others to bring them,it's your body/health look after it 
You can get condoms free at your gum clinic and some clubs do provide free condoms too |
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We only have unprotected sex with each other. Only safe sex (condoms) with *anyone* else, no matter who they are or how long we have known them. I would have thought everybody would do the same but I was wrong
We met a couple who weren't carrying condoms with them. We were but we pretended that we weren't either. We don't want to engage with people who are, in our opinion, irresponsible about their own health
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"We only have unprotected sex with each other. Only safe sex (condoms) with *anyone* else, no matter who they are or how long we have known them. I would have thought everybody would do the same but I was wrong
We met a couple who weren't carrying condoms with them. We were but we pretended that we weren't either. We don't want to engage with people who are, in our opinion, irresponsible about their own health
- Mrs. J -"
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I've never been in a situation in a club where the people we were playing with didn't have condoms. It's pretty simple to ask someone before the fun starts whether they have condoms.
But then again, we wouldn't go to a club without bringing condoms ourselves. Why don't you just grab a pack on your way? I think its up to both parties to be prepared in these situations. Sometimes you can go through a few condoms in a night, even if you're playing with the same people. So having more condoms around isn't going to hurt.... |
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All my toybags have condoms in them but additionally, they are in my handbag too. I am never without them 
It's interesting that I have heard someone I met express annoyance at their price. yet they are cheap as peanuts online or completely free at the sexual health clinics. |
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Most cases me and wife play without , but always insist any guys we meet wear them , most guys we've met have actually asked and she enjoys putting in on for them ??8 out of 10 times with her lips . And we always bring our own |
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We sometimes see if they go to put one on. If they don't, then we usually call time. Based on the simple fact that they were quite happy to dive in there had we let them - chances are they've done it elsewhere. It's a mentality thing. 90% of the times guys have them ready and it's all fun.
I'm not supplying them either, I buy my own specific ones that fit me correctly so I don't see why they shouldn't.
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We don't use condoms with each other but always have them in clubs in case of a spur of the moment encounter. If it gets to the point during play that penetration in inevitable then wife just gives the guy a condom. |
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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago
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"Hi all. Myself and my wife are considering having another guy shag her in a club. We reckon the first time would be very much a spur of the moment thing with we receiving oral from my wife while another guy fucks her.
The question is do guys automatically use condoms in clubs if they are having sex with other partners. We don't use/carry condoms in clubs but would want another guy to use one while in her.
What is the done thing?"
Bring some condoms along. Even if you're not going to use them. |
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I always put a condom straight into the hand of a man I am planning to have sex with, from my own supply. Then I watch him put it on, and I'll generally check it's still on several times during sex. |
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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago
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"Hi all. Myself and my wife are considering having another guy shag her in a club. We reckon the first time would be very much a spur of the moment thing with we receiving oral from my wife while another guy fucks her.
The question is do guys automatically use condoms in clubs if they are having sex with other partners. We don't use/carry condoms in clubs but would want another guy to use one while in her.
What is the done thing?"
Don't expect any random bloke in a club to use a condom when he fucks your wife, many won't.
It is up to you or your wife to ensure that anyone who wants to fuck her uses a condom
Many on here will say it is expected that they will but in realirty many men will be happy ot fuck her bareback, it is up to the two of you to look after your own health |
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"I always put a condom straight into the hand of a man I am planning to have sex with, from my own supply. Then I watch him put it on, and I'll generally check it's still on several times during sex."
Good advice |
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We started using condoms ourselves in clubs after initially not when we started.
First reason was to lead by example. So she was never seen taking it bare even from me.
Second reason was triggered by a thread here a few years ago where a guy thought it a bad job that a husband came in his wife then offered the thread op a turn but with a condom. He was straight and didn't want to now she had cum inside her. We took heed of that and I wore a condom from there on. |
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"We started using condoms ourselves in clubs after initially not when we started.
First reason was to lead by example. So she was never seen taking it bare even from me.
Second reason was triggered by a thread here a few years ago where a guy thought it a bad job that a husband came in his wife then offered the thread op a turn but with a condom. He was straight and didn't want to now she had cum inside her. We took heed of that and I wore a condom from there on. "
I think that's eminently sensible. I wouldn't play with a couple who had already had unprotected sex. It would be a huge turn off (and instance show stopper) for me if I went to give her oral sex and he had already come inside her. |
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"We started using condoms ourselves in clubs after initially not when we started.
First reason was to lead by example. So she was never seen taking it bare even from me.
Second reason was triggered by a thread here a few years ago where a guy thought it a bad job that a husband came in his wife then offered the thread op a turn but with a condom. He was straight and didn't want to now she had cum inside her. We took heed of that and I wore a condom from there on.
I think that's eminently sensible. I wouldn't play with a couple who had already had unprotected sex. It would be a huge turn off (and instance show stopper) for me if I went to give her oral sex and he had already come inside her."
It's logical really. Can't believe it too a fab thread for me to switch my brain on. |
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"In years of going to clubs I've only had 1 guy try and shag me without a condom, in fact you never usually have to ask if they have one.
Always best to ask though...be prepared. At club I go to if a couple are happy for another man to join in then they often leave a couple of condoms laying close to them in foil as a very strong hint. But always check!"
Depends. I always have condoms with me, but all but 1 guy has had a condom and been prepared to use it without me needing to tell them I don't bareback. |
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Haven't been to a club in a few years, but when we did Buddha had to police the guys to ensure they used condoms, I usually was too busy to pay attention. Did find one day after attending a bit of condom inside me , it had obviously broken and the bloke never said anything  wasn't happy at all.!! ( yes tested since and clear) |
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Condoms are an absolute must and would recommend you carry your own. Some strange people out there and we just won't risk a weirdo who gets off on putting a hole in one. |
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Some wear them, some don't. Some put them on then "stealth" them off during sex. Some women can't stand them, others insist on it.
It's down to your own preference really |
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By *8m00kWoman
over a year ago
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"Hi all. Myself and my wife are considering having another guy shag her in a club. We reckon the first time would be very much a spur of the moment thing with we receiving oral from my wife while another guy fucks her.
The question is do guys automatically use condoms in clubs if they are having sex with other partners. We don't use/carry condoms in clubs but would want another guy to use one while in her.
What is the done thing?"
Clubs always have them for purchase, in my experience anyway. But take some just in case. The guys always seem sensible and automatically have gloved up before sexual intercourse.  |
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"Hi all. Myself and my wife are considering having another guy shag her in a club. We reckon the first time would be very much a spur of the moment thing with we receiving oral from my wife while another guy fucks her.
The question is do guys automatically use condoms in clubs if they are having sex with other partners. We don't use/carry condoms in clubs but would want another guy to use one while in her.
What is the done thing?"
Same as if you meet at a hotel ... if they are safe they are safe whether it's a club or a hotel meet
Tbf it's normally the single males that want to be safe
I've seen couples that go to clubs specifically wanting to have BB gangbangs and yet its he single guys that insist on wrapping up - obv that's a rare thing most couples use condoms when playing
Take plenty yourself and get them out in the room to show that your safe too
Have fun |
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