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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hello fellow fabbers,
I'm considering going to a club on my own, but still a tad apprehensive about doing so. I'm based in south bucks, so Abfabs and S Private Club are geographically? closest to me.
I'm still unsure of how much or how little I want to do when I get there, but I love the idea of being watched - I have exhibitionist tendancies - and if the circumstances are right, I'd like to release my inner wanton beast!
Any advice, suggestions or recommendations? I'm straight, if that makes a difference.
Thanks in advance
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By *issVeryWoman
over a year ago
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Aww that was my first ever message on a swinging forum 5 years ago!
Single females at clubs are like gold dust, you will be looked after and have nothing to worry about.
I do recommend abfabs, all the staff are so lovely especially Brian- he will look after you. It's very easy to chat to people and socialise. You certainly do not have to arrive with any preconceptions about what you want or not want to do! Decide there, in the moment, see how you feel..don't put pressure on yourself either way.
If you are looking for friendly ladies to hold your hand, send me a PM  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Aww that was my first ever message on a swinging forum 5 years ago!
Single females at clubs are like gold dust, you will be looked after and have nothing to worry about.
I do recommend abfabs, all the staff are so lovely especially Brian- he will look after you. It's very easy to chat to people and socialise. You certainly do not have to arrive with any preconceptions about what you want or not want to do! Decide there, in the moment, see how you feel..don't put pressure on yourself either way.
If you are looking for friendly ladies to hold your hand, send me a PM "
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By *lighty1Woman
over a year ago
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I was more than 'a tad' apprehensive about going to a swingers club as a straight single woman - I was bricking it! But I soon realised that I had been worrying about nothing. I went on a Couples Night thee first time, to check out the facilities etc, but went back the next night when single men were admitted.
I felt perfectly comfortable on both nights - the couples were friendly (even though I'm straight) and looked after me. The club manager checked in on me every half hour, to make sure I wasn't having any problems. None of the single men were at all 'pushy, and I had a choice of men to spend some quality time with. All in all, it was a very positive experience, and before long I was one of the 'regulars' who was watching out for the nervous newbies. I can't recommend it highly enough. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I was more than 'a tad' apprehensive about going to a swingers club as a straight single woman - I was bricking it! But I soon realised that I had been worrying about nothing. I went on a Couples Night thee first time, to check out the facilities etc, but went back the next night when single men were admitted.
I felt perfectly comfortable on both nights - the couples were friendly (even though I'm straight) and looked after me. The club manager checked in on me every half hour, to make sure I wasn't having any problems. None of the single men were at all 'pushy, and I had a choice of men to spend some quality time with. All in all, it was a very positive experience, and before long I was one of the 'regulars' who was watching out for the nervous newbies. I can't recommend it highly enough."
Thank you so much. This is really helpful |
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