FabSwingers.com > Forums > Swinging Support and Advice > 26 AND LOOKING 40....APPARENTLY
26 AND LOOKING 40....APPARENTLY
Jump to: Newest in thread
 |
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
Ive just been blocked by a couple who told me i "hadnt been 27 for a while"
I mean ive got veris on my account all from people who have met me in person...so its not like if be able to get away with that lie especially you know some of my veries are from club meets..where you have to provide ID
I mean im 26 (i cant change it on here) but shit do i really look like im in my 40's? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Ive just been blocked by a couple who told me i "hadnt been 27 for a while"
I mean ive got veris on my account all from people who have met me in person...so its not like if be able to get away with that lie especially you know some of my veries are from club meets..where you have to provide ID
I mean im 26 (i cant change it on here) but shit do i really look like im in my 40's?"
I think you protest too much... |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Don't take it personally OP. This place can be harsh and confidence destroying at times. Don't be offended by the opinion of one or 2 strangers. You have a lovely smile  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"Don't take it personally OP. This place can be harsh and confidence destroying at times. Don't be offended by the opinion of one or 2 strangers. You have a lovely smile "
Thanks
And not taking it personally just was kinda shocked to here that i look old enough for people to just say there is no way your the age you say you are
And i know ive alway looked and acted older but i didnt realise i looked THAT much older |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
It's a combination of the hair and the top you're wearing in your profile pic that screams middle aged.
The pic of you in the blue tee, you look in your 20s.
A decent photo makes all the difference |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago
Wherever the party is! |
"Ive just been blocked by a couple who told me i "hadnt been 27 for a while"
I mean ive got veris on my account all from people who have met me in person...so its not like if be able to get away with that lie especially you know some of my veries are from club meets..where you have to provide ID
I mean im 26 (i cant change it on here) but shit do i really look like im in my 40's?"
You need top stop worrying about stuff. This helps with premature greying AND fab! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I some times wish I was 40 lots of women want 40-50 year olds
Same lol
Just wish i didnt look it this young lol  "
You probably don't look it in person.
As someone else said two of your pics look your age two don't.
If people think you look old before your time in the real world, and that bothers you, you could consider dying out your greys.
Personally I would just enjoy life and not worry xx |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Ive just been blocked by a couple who told me i "hadnt been 27 for a while"
I mean ive got veris on my account all from people who have met me in person...so its not like if be able to get away with that lie especially you know some of my veries are from club meets..where you have to provide ID
I mean im 26 (i cant change it on here) but shit do i really look like im in my 40's?"
And what's wrong with the 40's look hmmmm  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Facially, I'd say you look your age. But the grey hair does make you look older at first glance - it ages everyone though so you're not alone. If you're comfortable with yourself ignore the unsolicited opinions of snide strangers |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
"Ive just been blocked by a couple who told me i "hadnt been 27 for a while"
I mean ive got veris on my account all from people who have met me in person...so its not like if be able to get away with that lie especially you know some of my veries are from club meets..where you have to provide ID
I mean im 26 (i cant change it on here) but shit do i really look like im in my 40's?
You need top stop worrying about stuff. This helps with premature greying AND fab! "
So THATS where I got my grey hairs from. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
Nothing wrong with looking 40. I'm 27 and generally only go for 40yo!! You do look 27 to me, facially maybe even younger maybe 20-25. Very baby faced. But alas you were cursed with a silver hair gene - embrace it, let it be a blessing. I personally love a silver fox whether he be a fox or a baby fox. Don't worry about it or let it deter you.
If it is concerning you maybe try clearer photos.. less selfies more photos showing your age? As in activities or what you do socially?
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"Nothing wrong with looking 40. I'm 27 and generally only go for 40yo!! You do look 27 to me, facially maybe even younger maybe 20-25. Very baby faced. But alas you were cursed with a silver hair gene - embrace it, let it be a blessing. I personally love a silver fox whether he be a fox or a baby fox. Don't worry about it or let it deter you.
If it is concerning you maybe try clearer photos.. less selfies more photos showing your age? As in activities or what you do socially?
"
Well thank you for that an ive been going grey since 18 so i dont really care about that
As i said its is this what people see and is it putting people off me |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"I think you look gorgeous OP but the hairstyle is a little dated.. try a shorter spikier style  "
Thanks im getting my hair cut today anyway might send you a pic when i do haha |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"I don't think you do. Yes, greying hairs can age you, but I can't see wrinkles on your face. It's smooth lined. So I wouldn't think you were 40 "
Thanks x |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I think you look gorgeous OP but the hairstyle is a little dated.. try a shorter spikier style
Thanks im getting my hair cut today anyway might send you a pic when i do haha"
Please do |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"I think you look gorgeous OP but the hairstyle is a little dated.. try a shorter spikier style
Thanks im getting my hair cut today anyway might send you a pic when i do haha
Please do "
Well i would if i was in the filter lol |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Ive just been blocked by a couple who told me i "hadnt been 27 for a while"
I mean ive got veris on my account all from people who have met me in person...so its not like if be able to get away with that lie especially you know some of my veries are from club meets..where you have to provide ID
I mean im 26 (i cant change it on here) but shit do i really look like im in my 40's?"
I'd say that you look your age |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"I think you look gorgeous OP but the hairstyle is a little dated.. try a shorter spikier style
Thanks im getting my hair cut today anyway might send you a pic when i do haha
Please do "
Hair cut and shave |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Premature gray is a pain. I went gray in my mid twenties. Bald in my early 30s. Some people love it, and some dont, it is what it is. "
I prefer to declare that my hair is silver rather than grey....  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
City miles bud.. some folk just look older, they grey does that. Can see by face your younger, but folk see the grey and instantly think older.
I shave my head and grow it every so often to see if I'm grey yet and still no grey  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Ive just been blocked by a couple who told me i "hadnt been 27 for a while"
I mean ive got veris on my account all from people who have met me in person...so its not like if be able to get away with that lie especially you know some of my veries are from club meets..where you have to provide ID
I mean im 26 (i cant change it on here) but shit do i really look like im in my 40's?"
It's the hairdoo mate |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"I don't think you do. Yes, greying hairs can age you, but I can't see wrinkles on your face. It's smooth lined. So I wouldn't think you were 40 "
I'm in shit then as I started going grey at 24.
No seriously I have never had a single problem meeting people because I have grey hair but at 55 I can't do anything about the wrinkles lol.
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I don't think you do. Yes, greying hairs can age you, but I can't see wrinkles on your face. It's smooth lined. So I wouldn't think you were 40
I'm in shit then as I started going grey at 24.
No seriously I have never had a single problem meeting people because I have grey hair but at 55 I can't do anything about the wrinkles lol.
"
Looking good for 55! Can't see that many wrinkles |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"If you want the truth, it's the grey hairs
Really..grey hair adds 15 years?
You have 4 public pictures, 2 of them look 27, two don't "
I'd tend to agree here. The two longer hair pictures look older to me. No offence intended.
B |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"I don't think you do. Yes, greying hairs can age you, but I can't see wrinkles on your face. It's smooth lined. So I wouldn't think you were 40
I'm in shit then as I started going grey at 24.
No seriously I have never had a single problem meeting people because I have grey hair but at 55 I can't do anything about the wrinkles lol.
Looking good for 55! Can't see that many wrinkles "
You would have to get really close for that lol. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"If you want the truth, it's the grey hairs
Really..grey hair adds 15 years?
You have 4 public pictures, 2 of them look 27, two don't
I'd tend to agree here. The two longer hair pictures look older to me. No offence intended.
B"
None taken |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
Bristol |
You have a young face. I like your hair longer anyway and don't think grey hair makes people look years older (although I have been trying to keep mine at bay since my teens). I'd like to say I have the opposite problem at the ripe old age of 40 but I don't. Silver lining - a lot of people on here moan about how immature younger guys can be so you escape that one if people think you're more mature. Like a good cheddar. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"You have a young face. I like your hair longer anyway and don't think grey hair makes people look years older (although I have been trying to keep mine at bay since my teens). I'd like to say I have the opposite problem at the ripe old age of 40 but I don't. Silver lining - a lot of people on here moan about how immature younger guys can be so you escape that one if people think you're more mature. Like a good cheddar."
Why thank you thats lovely of you to say |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I shouldn't worry mate. I was always told You are as old as the woman " you feel ". Just make sure she is younger "
Nooooo! Go for older!
You don't look 40!! Late twenties. And the photo with the blue t-shirt looks more like 26/27. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
A lot of younger people are going grey earlier these days.
I wouldn't put you at forty, early thirties perhaps.
Lighting, clothing, pose and hair all make a massive difference. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *aznlouCouple
over a year ago
co durham |
New picture with shorter hair definitely looks better & look your age. I still get id for drink & alsorts & im nearly 34! Not good and yes I started going grey at 21! Yes my first grey hair was found on my actual 21st birthday. Curse of my auburn hair!!!!! Urgh
Lou |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
OP, take my advice... block and delete! There are so many 'A' holes on here who will try to bring you down. Remember, your are magnificent and they are a dueche bag!
 |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago
West Wales |
Grey hair? Wish mine stayed around long enough to go blooming grey!!
I started losing my hair at 22 and have had No1 cuts for as long as I can remember..I'd agree that you look older in a couple of your pics but your age or close to it in the others.
Just ignore them and move on fella.
S |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"If you want the truth, it's the grey hairs
Really..grey hair adds 15 years?"
My partner is 42 and his temples started going grey a couple of years ago, so, yes, you do look 40-ish |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Don't take it personal mate, some people are cunts on here.... but a few (in my experience) that are genuine and lovely people.... you just have to filter through the time wasters to enjoy the good times with the real......sometimes I get same problem except I get told I'm younger than I look hahah |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
To bensure honest, I thought you was 40 when I first looked the other week. The grey hair and crows feet around the eyes. Not that they'd put me off meeting you. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"I think you look gorgeous OP but the hairstyle is a little dated.. try a shorter spikier style
I'd say grow it longer  "
Ive never suited really long hair as mine grows into a half affro. kinda curly and grows up and out and not down |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"You do look older than 27 - blame the grey!!!! But you don't look 40. You also have a lovely smile and very wicked eyes xx"
Why thank you
Id like to see you |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"As others have said, it's the grey hair, and those body shots with your untoned flabby belly. In that shot you easily pass for 40."
And dispite that it was the face pics that i was told i look 40 in |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"The sort out the grey hair, and hit the gym and you will look 26 again."
Well not 26 as i alsway seem to look about 3-4 years older but once i get another scaffolding job i will vontuinue to lose weight and well i seem tl be doing pretty well from just a haircut and a confidance boost |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Ive just been blocked by a couple who told me i "hadnt been 27 for a while"
I mean ive got veris on my account all from people who have met me in person...so its not like if be able to get away with that lie especially you know some of my veries are from club meets..where you have to provide ID
I mean im 26 (i cant change it on here) but shit do i really look like im in my 40's?"
Your old git stop whinging |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"Ive just been blocked by a couple who told me i "hadnt been 27 for a while"
I mean ive got veris on my account all from people who have met me in person...so its not like if be able to get away with that lie especially you know some of my veries are from club meets..where you have to provide ID
I mean im 26 (i cant change it on here) but shit do i really look like im in my 40's?
Your old git stop whinging"
Congrats for showing age is not an indicator of maturity |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Ive just been blocked by a couple who told me i "hadnt been 27 for a while"
I mean ive got veris on my account all from people who have met me in person...so its not like if be able to get away with that lie especially you know some of my veries are from club meets..where you have to provide ID
I mean im 26 (i cant change it on here) but shit do i really look like im in my 40's?
Your old git stop whinging
Congrats for showing age is not an indicator of maturity"
Lol no problem m8 |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"Ive just been blocked by a couple who told me i "hadnt been 27 for a while"
I mean ive got veris on my account all from people who have met me in person...so its not like if be able to get away with that lie especially you know some of my veries are from club meets..where you have to provide ID
I mean im 26 (i cant change it on here) but shit do i really look like im in my 40's?
Your old git stop whinging
Congrats for showing age is not an indicator of maturity
Lol no problem m8"
At least dont use text speak, it demeans us all |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"Imagine how old you will look when you are 40 "
45 but i will look like the for the next 10-15 years after it
Its great being able to look at your dad and be able to see what you will look like at that age |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Imagine how old you will look when you are 40
45 but i will look like the for the next 10-15 years after it
Its great being able to look at your dad and be able to see what you will look like at that age"
My mate had grey hairs in his late 20's and still looks like same in his early 40's.
Don't let anyone knock your confidence over looks mate. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"Imagine how old you will look when you are 40
45 but i will look like the for the next 10-15 years after it
Its great being able to look at your dad and be able to see what you will look like at that age
My mate had grey hairs in his late 20's and still looks like same in his early 40's.
Don't let anyone knock your confidence over looks mate."
Im not now
Cheers mate |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
This is fiction.
He messaged me, perfectly normal chat, I made a comment that he looked older - which the vast majority of the people in this chat agree. He took offence & got really angry. I explained it wasn't a personal attack. He sent abusive messages. For some reason he is being normal in his replies to everyone here agreeing with me - I can copy his messages here if he likes?
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"This is fiction.
He messaged me, perfectly normal chat, I made a comment that he looked older - which the vast majority of the people in this chat agree. He took offence & got really angry. I explained it wasn't a personal attack. He sent abusive messages. For some reason he is being normal in his replies to everyone here agreeing with me - I can copy his messages here if he likes?
"
Well there are always 2 sides to a story and personally like most others I think he does look a lot older. I am leaning with your side of the story as it got him wound up to the point of putting a thread up.
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Ive just been blocked by a couple who told me i "hadnt been 27 for a while"
I mean ive got veris on my account all from people who have met me in person...so its not like if be able to get away with that lie especially you know some of my veries are from club meets..where you have to provide ID
I mean im 26 (i cant change it on here) but shit do i really look like im in my 40's?"
If you can't change your age then you already have changed it since putting your profile up the site allows one correction.
Secondly you claim one age and there is a different one on your profile so you need to make up your mind if you are 26 or 27.
Being honest is the best possibility people who are dishonest just end up looking foolish in the long run. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"
Well there are always 2 sides to a story and personally like most others I think he does look a lot older. I am leaning with your side of the story as it got him wound up to the point of putting a thread up.
"
Thanks, This was a few days ago I think. I'm just looking through the thread & see his post & think WTF? How strange. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
» Add a new message to this topic
Unless you're 26! 