"Does anyone need/want a partner to visit clubs with?
I ask because I do so we could create a win win scenario here! Who's in? "
My mate Kevin would be well up for it. It's so hard for guys to meet. |
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"Does anyone need/want a partner to visit clubs with?
I ask because I do so we could create a win win scenario here! Who's in? "
Are you after a male partner? Please explain how it is a win/win scenario. |
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I can see where you'd win...but where's the advantage for the woman..? i'm assuming you mean a woman,though you'd probably better trying to find a guy to go with if it's just company you're after... |
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"Win win is if we are both looking for someone to go with i.e. We both win!
And yes looking for a woman "
but surely it's a win for you as you'd get in cheaper, but any woman wanting to go with someone would obvioulsy be far better off going with another woman or couple? It would make no sense at all for a woman to go with a man she doesn't know just to get him a break on the cost?.. |
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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago
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"Win win is if we are both looking for someone to go with i.e. We both win!
And yes looking for a woman
but surely it's a win for you as you'd get in cheaper, but any woman wanting to go with someone would obvioulsy be far better off going with another woman or couple? It would make no sense at all for a woman to go with a man she doesn't know just to get him a break on the cost?.."
Right. Because women don't like going to places with guys.  |
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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago
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"Does anyone need/want a partner to visit clubs with?
I ask because I do so we could create a win win scenario here! Who's in? "
Mate. I've got some pants with your name on. If you wear them you will be fine! 
Seriously, go on your own. You WON'T regret it in the long run!  |
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"Win win is if we are both looking for someone to go with i.e. We both win!
And yes looking for a woman
but surely it's a win for you as you'd get in cheaper, but any woman wanting to go with someone would obvioulsy be far better off going with another woman or couple? It would make no sense at all for a woman to go with a man she doesn't know just to get him a break on the cost?..
Right. Because women don't like going to places with guys. "
no, you're misunderstanding me...it's a very different matter going to a swingers club with a stranger...if you look there's been several threads on exactly this...some women feel the man has had a very proprietary attitide to her,others,almost the opposite, that the minute the guy has paid his cheap entrance fee, he's off,never to be seen again, sometimes stories of the woman being left there alone after having expected to be getting a ride home...going by various threads previously,it's not something many women would be up for doing with someone they didn't already know as a friend. |
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"Does anyone need/want a partner to visit clubs with?
I ask because I do so we could create a win win scenario here! Who's in?
Mate. I've got some pants with your name on. If you wear them you will be fine!
Seriously, go on your own. You WON'T regret it in the long run! "
Haha send me your pants lol |
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"Win win is if we are both looking for someone to go with i.e. We both win!
And yes looking for a woman
but surely it's a win for you as you'd get in cheaper, but any woman wanting to go with someone would obvioulsy be far better off going with another woman or couple? It would make no sense at all for a woman to go with a man she doesn't know just to get him a break on the cost?..
Right. Because women don't like going to places with guys.
no, you're misunderstanding me...it's a very different matter going to a swingers club with a stranger...if you look there's been several threads on exactly this...some women feel the man has had a very proprietary attitide to her,others,almost the opposite, that the minute the guy has paid his cheap entrance fee, he's off,never to be seen again, sometimes stories of the woman being left there alone after having expected to be getting a ride home...going by various threads previously,it's not something many women would be up for doing with someone they didn't already know as a friend."
I'm not looking to jump straight into going to a club for the first time of meeting a potential partner to go with! I'm not a complete div I don't expect to find someone today and be in a club with them tomorrow |
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"Win win is if we are both looking for someone to go with i.e. We both win!
And yes looking for a woman
but surely it's a win for you as you'd get in cheaper, but any woman wanting to go with someone would obvioulsy be far better off going with another woman or couple? It would make no sense at all for a woman to go with a man she doesn't know just to get him a break on the cost?..
Right. Because women don't like going to places with guys.
no, you're misunderstanding me...it's a very different matter going to a swingers club with a stranger...if you look there's been several threads on exactly this...some women feel the man has had a very proprietary attitide to her,others,almost the opposite, that the minute the guy has paid his cheap entrance fee, he's off,never to be seen again, sometimes stories of the woman being left there alone after having expected to be getting a ride home...going by various threads previously,it's not something many women would be up for doing with someone they didn't already know as a friend.
I'm not looking to jump straight into going to a club for the first time of meeting a potential partner to go with! I'm not a complete div I don't expect to find someone today and be in a club with them tomorrow "
i'm just trying to point out the concerns women have made in several other threads on this..maybe have a look at some of them,and they will explain more clearly. Basically though, it seems to boil down to the fact that there is really no advantage to be had for the woman. |
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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago
Wherever the party is! |
"Win win is if we are both looking for someone to go with i.e. We both win!
And yes looking for a woman
but surely it's a win for you as you'd get in cheaper, but any woman wanting to go with someone would obvioulsy be far better off going with another woman or couple? It would make no sense at all for a woman to go with a man she doesn't know just to get him a break on the cost?..
Right. Because women don't like going to places with guys.
no, you're misunderstanding me...it's a very different matter going to a swingers club with a stranger...if you look there's been several threads on exactly this...some women feel the man has had a very proprietary attitide to her,others,almost the opposite, that the minute the guy has paid his cheap entrance fee, he's off,never to be seen again, sometimes stories of the woman being left there alone after having expected to be getting a ride home...going by various threads previously,it's not something many women would be up for doing with someone they didn't already know as a friend."
I've seen those threads, I'm aware of the concerns. Yet, women STILL like to attend clubs with men. Sometimes.
In other news, last night a single lady walked out of the club I was at and left the group she was with including her partner for the night. A rare occurrence but it does happen.
I've personally had women disappear on a night out usually after getting d*unk. Yet I will still go out with one. Because despite their faults, women aren't that bad really. |
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I don't think there's any need to get into an argument over this it's just a question put out so anyone looking for the same can get in touch.
If I was to go with another man would there be much chance of us getting in? |
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"I don't think there's any need to get into an argument over this it's just a question put out so anyone looking for the same can get in touch.
If I was to go with another man would there be much chance of us getting in? "
i was not arguing at all, just trying to point out some concerns from women that you may not have thought about. I'm sure you'll do fine with or without a club buddy! |
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"I don't think there's any need to get into an argument over this it's just a question put out so anyone looking for the same can get in touch.
If I was to go with another man would there be much chance of us getting in?
i was not arguing at all, just trying to point out some concerns from women that you may not have thought about. I'm sure you'll do fine with or without a club buddy! "
I'm just going to have to grow a pair and go alone I think!  |
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"I don't think there's any need to get into an argument over this it's just a question put out so anyone looking for the same can get in touch.
If I was to go with another man would there be much chance of us getting in?
i was not arguing at all, just trying to point out some concerns from women that you may not have thought about. I'm sure you'll do fine with or without a club buddy!
I'm just going to have to grow a pair and go alone I think! "
perhaps a couple of ways to make it less daunting by getting to know a few people who'll be there first is to either post a thread in the meets forum saying where you'll be going and when and invite people to come and say hello...or choose a party or event night when there's a thread in the club's forum and post in there that you're going, you're new and a bit nervous...either way you may then have people to say hello to when you attend who might make you feel a bit more confident about going  |
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"It's got nothing to do with making anything cheaper, I'd pay for her night too if anything! "
Females are usuallt free in most clubs so thats an empty gesture. She'd just be stuck with a stranger all night. Not win win at all. |
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