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By *urefaith OP Couple
over a year ago
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So a few years ago and a lot of drinks i asked the mrs if she wanted a 3some with our male friend, so we had a good night with no contact between us males, as we had more meets the male contact progressed to heavy oral, now neither of us have ever fancied a male but we both enjoy sex with females and males, so are we classed as bisexual or soft bi or something else and does a label really matter? Hmmmm does enjoying a man sucking your cock make you gay or bi if you are not physically attracted to men or is fun just fun? Is there straight men out there that would let a man give them head? This may of been covered before but i would like some opinions please, thank you x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think theres a bit of Bi in everyman. Some men just dont feel comfortable admitting it. Would watching porn be what it is if the men had small dicks? So we all like to see big cocks so there the curiousity starts in my opinion. Not had many but those ive experienced have been good. And surely another man must must understand the feelings and and try to better things |
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By *urefaith OP Couple
over a year ago
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I really don't know how to describe it, I've always thought you had to fancy men to be gay or bi, I've never seen 1 man I'm attracted to but i love sucking cock because its fun and it turns me on  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So a few years ago and a lot of drinks i asked the mrs if she wanted a 3some with our male friend, so we had a good night with no contact between us males, as we had more meets the male contact progressed to heavy oral, now neither of us have ever fancied a male but we both enjoy sex with females and males, so are we classed as bisexual or soft bi or something else and does a label really matter? Hmmmm does enjoying a man sucking your cock make you gay or bi if you are not physically attracted to men or is fun just fun? Is there straight men out there that would let a man give them head? This may of been covered before but i would like some opinions please, thank you x"
you can watch gay porn for years and be straight, unless you actively seek men for sex you are straight |
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"I think theres a bit of Bi in everyman. Some men just dont feel comfortable admitting it. Would watching porn be what it is if the men had small dicks? So we all like to see big cocks so there the curiousity starts in my opinion. Not had many but those ive experienced have been good. And surely another man must must understand the feelings and and try to better things"
I think a lot of straight men would disagree  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If a man likes to give fellatio to another man then he is bi-sexual.....simple as. It's not an issue if both parties are consensual but some men will not admit they are bi-sexual. "
you can enjoy the kink of sucking another man's cock but not be physically attractive to the same sex and not 'bisexual ' try not to label yourselves to much and just enjoy yourselves
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"If a man likes to give fellatio to another man then he is bi-sexual.....simple as. It's not an issue if both parties are consensual but some men will not admit they are bi-sexual. you can enjoy the kink of sucking another man's cock but not be physically attractive to the same sex and not 'bisexual ' try not to label yourselves to much and just enjoy yourselves "
Straight men don't suck cock |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why do you have to have any sexuality label? Apart from of course having to select a description on this site!
Just enjoy yourself. Do whatever comes naturally and stop worrying about what it means. |
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"Why do you have to have any sexuality label? Apart from of course having to select a description on this site!
Just enjoy yourself. Do whatever comes naturally and stop worrying about what it means. "
so if no one on this site declared their sexuality, how would that work?
See by us being honest it helps guys find bi couples to play with. 
Why is admitting you are bi on this site so offensive to some? And why do some people encourage shy bi guys to keep Fab straight. If you can't have freedom to admit what you are on here it's pretty sad tbh. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think theres a bit of Bi in everyman. Some men just dont feel comfortable admitting it. Would watching porn be what it is if the men had small dicks? So we all like to see big cocks so there the curiousity starts in my opinion. Not had many but those ive experienced have been good. And surely another man must must understand the feelings and and try to better things"
I say you are wrong.there's not a bit of Bi in everyman.some,yes,everyman,no.
And watching porn n seeing a man with a bigger cock doesn't make a straight man Bi either.the bigger cock is more photogenic,more visible in the porn shot,and probably wishful thinking for some,but having a big cock doesn't make a straight man Bi.
It seems too many bi guys wish more straight men were bi.you don't always get what you wish for. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why do you have to have any sexuality label? Apart from of course having to select a description on this site!
Just enjoy yourself. Do whatever comes naturally and stop worrying about what it means.
so if no one on this site declared their sexuality, how would that work?
See by us being honest it helps guys find bi couples to play with.
Why is admitting you are bi on this site so offensive to some? And why do some people encourage shy bi guys to keep Fab straight. If you can't have freedom to admit what you are on here it's pretty sad tbh. "
we yes you have to have a label on this site obviously as it's in the process of setting up a profile but they have limited options. Take us for instance we would (here's that label thing again) call ourselves 'pansexul' (nothing to do with a cookwere fetish) which basically means we are attracted to what we are attracted to regards of gender |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why do you have to have any sexuality label? Apart from of course having to select a description on this site!
Just enjoy yourself. Do whatever comes naturally and stop worrying about what it means.
so if no one on this site declared their sexuality, how would that work?
See by us being honest it helps guys find bi couples to play with.
Why is admitting you are bi on this site so offensive to some? And why do some people encourage shy bi guys to keep Fab straight. If you can't have freedom to admit what you are on here it's pretty sad tbh. "
After my first bi (male) experience I happily changed our profile to both bi curious.
Our messages were decimated to the point where I changed it back to just the missus as bi curious.
But then I thought sod it!, why lie?.
We both get a hell of a turn on in a bi situation and if it means we have restricted our opportunities then so be it.
Also cannot understand why there is this " won't swing with bi guys as I'm straight ".
That's akin to the old " watch your arses guys, he's bent ".
Just because both of us find enjoyment being in bi situation doesn't mean we will ravage anyone of the same sex in sight.
Also why is having a wife who is bi a useful credit where as a male who is also bi a millstone around your neck?.
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"Why do you have to have any sexuality label? Apart from of course having to select a description on this site!
Just enjoy yourself. Do whatever comes naturally and stop worrying about what it means.
so if no one on this site declared their sexuality, how would that work?
See by us being honest it helps guys find bi couples to play with.
Why is admitting you are bi on this site so offensive to some? And why do some people encourage shy bi guys to keep Fab straight. If you can't have freedom to admit what you are on here it's pretty sad tbh.
After my first bi (male) experience I happily changed our profile to both bi curious.
Our messages were decimated to the point where I changed it back to just the missus as bi curious.
But then I thought sod it!, why lie?.
We both get a hell of a turn on in a bi situation and if it means we have restricted our opportunities then so be it.
Also cannot understand why there is this " won't swing with bi guys as I'm straight ".
That's akin to the old " watch your arses guys, he's bent ".
Just because both of us find enjoyment being in bi situation doesn't mean we will ravage anyone of the same sex in sight.
Also why is having a wife who is bi a useful credit where as a male who is also bi a millstone around your neck?.
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Personally I think it's all down to perception. I've been on and off fab for about ten years with a couple of openly bi partners. Never felt compromised in the slightest. If people don't like the fact, why would we want to meet them anyway !! We have plenty of choice on here - too much choice in fact and not enough time  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why do you have to have any sexuality label? Apart from of course having to select a description on this site!
Just enjoy yourself. Do whatever comes naturally and stop worrying about what it means.
so if no one on this site declared their sexuality, how would that work?
See by us being honest it helps guys find bi couples to play with.
Why is admitting you are bi on this site so offensive to some? And why do some people encourage shy bi guys to keep Fab straight. If you can't have freedom to admit what you are on here it's pretty sad tbh.
After my first bi (male) experience I happily changed our profile to both bi curious.
Our messages were decimated to the point where I changed it back to just the missus as bi curious.
But then I thought sod it!, why lie?.
We both get a hell of a turn on in a bi situation and if it means we have restricted our opportunities then so be it.
Also cannot understand why there is this " won't swing with bi guys as I'm straight ".
That's akin to the old " watch your arses guys, he's bent ".
Just because both of us find enjoyment being in bi situation doesn't mean we will ravage anyone of the same sex in sight.
Also why is having a wife who is bi a useful credit where as a male who is also bi a millstone around your neck?.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What about,you get to the point of no return you are in a threesome your wife pushes is head on your dick,you are not going to say no,it may have taken months to get this meet,go with the flow I day,surely that does not make you bi,or does it |
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"What about,you get to the point of no return you are in a threesome your wife pushes is head on your dick,you are not going to say no,it may have taken months to get this meet,go with the flow I day,surely that does not make you bi,or does it "
So a one off experience you wouldn't repeat and you had words with this I assume with your wife after ? |
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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago
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Straight means no contact sexually with someone of the same sex so if you enjoy male attention ye be bisexual or as some like to say bi curious "
" Is there straight men out there that would let a man give them head?"
Simple answer as far as I'm concerned 'No'
They are not straight they are 'fab-straight' |
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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago
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Bi playful...
But who really cares. You don't need to put a label on it.
If you start calling your kitten your puppy, it will make no difference whatsoever... it is still the same little fluffy creature it is.
Just have a good time and suck that cock. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think that due to the unaccepting homophobic double standards of a lot of clubs and people a lot of bi males don't like to reveal any signs of being truly sexually liberated.
You have to remember that the swinger scene is full of alpha male "real men" that possibility see bi play as being a weakness but will not question female on female action and in fact demand it from when in a group play situation.
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"Bi playful...
But who really cares. You don't need to put a label on it.
If you start calling your kitten your puppy, it will make no difference whatsoever... it is still the same little fluffy creature it is.
Just have a good time and suck that cock."
Ah that's a chance bisexual meet.
But we don't want chance meets. We like bi guys that like to party hard, so labels are pretty key for us  |
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"I think that due to the unaccepting homophobic double standards of a lot of clubs and people a lot of bi males don't like to reveal any signs of being truly sexually liberated.
You have to remember that the swinger scene is full of alpha male "real men" that possibility see bi play as being a weakness but will not question female on female action and in fact demand it from when in a group play situation.
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Right that's enough!! Toys are out now!!!
MY man is a very real, very alpha man. And he is certainly not a millstone.
Actually it's his overt confidence as a bi guy that makes him even more attractive to me and our meets |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You caught ghay of each other.
Check the following:
A) do you have good fashion sense ?
2) are you good at interior design and your house is colour coordinated.
iii) do you have lots of female friends ?
Other tests a doctor would do are:
Are you wardrobes organised ?
Check how often you watch football on TV the lower the number the more likely you are. Do you like show tunes? Do you have a small dog as a pet you put bows on ? Check your record collection for artists you liked before they were outed in the media and you were surprised. Your subconscious never lies.
Also check for inappropriate outdated masculine behaviour like wolf whistling and referring to woman as birds and laughing at him Davidson. As these are all masking traits and a sure fire sign.
Hope this all helps you
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"You caught ghay of each other.
Check the following:
A) do you have good fashion sense ?
2) are you good at interior design and your house is colour coordinated.
iii) do you have lots of female friends ?
Other tests a doctor would do are:
Are you wardrobes organised ?
Check how often you watch football on TV the lower the number the more likely you are. Do you like show tunes? Do you have a small dog as a pet you put bows on ? Check your record collection for artists you liked before they were outed in the media and you were surprised. Your subconscious never lies.
Also check for inappropriate outdated masculine behaviour like wolf whistling and referring to woman as birds and laughing at him Davidson. As these are all masking traits and a sure fire sign.
Hope this all helps you
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I accept this is just a bit of fun but imagine doing this stereotyping with 'race' rather than sexuality..
Your account would be suspended.. |
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By *oo hotCouple
over a year ago
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Who cares. We just like very hot and very horny people who like to get it on without any inhibitions. Neither of us would want anything other than the solid heterosexual relationship that we have but we both love the excitement of another body (male or female) getting kinky with us - and neither of us hold back - cos it is fun |
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"So if we suck dicks touch dicks,we are bi, who cares if the lady's enjoy it,we expect them to do it,  "
Pardon
As a bi woman I play with ladies when I want to play. No one has any right to expect anything sexually from me.
And yes. If you're a guy and you play sexually with other guys you aren't straight.
Deal with it and man up for gods sake  |
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"So if we suck dicks touch dicks,we are bi, who cares if the lady's enjoy it,we expect them to do it, "
It was the unhappy face and the prospect of being told you are bi that's offensive.
That mean my partner offends you |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Right that's enough!! Toys are out now!!!
MY man is a very real, very alpha man. And he is certainly not a millstone.
Actually it's his overt confidence as a bi guy that makes him even more attractive to me and our meets "
Some clubs do take a dim view on any public bi male play and I've heard some males when in a mfm situation stipulate that the other guy is not to look at his cock.... this just points to that guy having a huge doubts or ingrained homophobic views to human sexuality.
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By *oo hotCouple
over a year ago
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.............Some clubs do take a dim view on any public bi male play and I've heard some males when in a mfm situation stipulate that the other guy is not to look at his cock....
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These kinds of double standards I find annoying. It is almost a given for females to be at least a little bit bi but not so for guys. |
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.............Some clubs do take a dim view on any public bi male play and I've heard some males when in a mfm situation stipulate that the other guy is not to look at his cock....
These kinds of double standards I find annoying. It is almost a given for females to be at least a little bit bi but not so for guys. "
I'd fall about laughing if that happened in my presence  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Pansexual or Omnisexual if it has to have a label
Explain pansexual and omnisexual for the more naive Fab members please. "
Sexual attraction to a person regardless of their sex or gender identity |
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