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Mentioning hernia in profile - a mistake?

By *arnwood OP Man over a year ago

Gloucester

Now I have a hernia, I'm waiting for a date to have it sorted but god knows when that will be!

I've mentioned this in my profile & imagine that it may well be putting people off (mind you that might just be me). Trouble is I like to be (relatively) honest & wouldn't want to give anyone a shock.

So is mentioning it a mistake or should I just resign myself to looking for people in Gloucester who have hernia fetishes?

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By *ilk_TreMan over a year ago

Wherever the party is!

"Now I have a hernia, I'm waiting for a date to have it sorted but god knows when that will be!

So is mentioning it a mistake or should I just resign myself to looking for people in Gloucester who have hernia fetishes?

That's right. No one wants to fuck you because of your hernia.

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By *ilk_TreMan over a year ago

Wherever the party is!

Seriously though, there are people in a much worse state than you getting laid so the reason why you're not getting any is actually in box no 2.

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
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East Sussex

"Now I have a hernia, I'm waiting for a date to have it sorted but god knows when that will be!

So is mentioning it a mistake or should I just resign myself to looking for people in Gloucester who have hernia fetishes?

Why have you mentioned it, is it very noticeable? When Mr N had one I couldn't notice it.

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

I didn't even see the hernia comment - think I stopped at the contradiction of the straight guy who's ticked anal sex with his virgin arse off his bucket list

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I didn't even see the hernia comment - think I stopped at the contradiction of the straight guy who's ticked anal sex with his virgin arse off his bucket list

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Seriously dude??? You think a hernia is whats putting people off?

I am waiting on a hip replacement but i havent mentioned it, it doesnt affect my performance in bed so i dont need to tell people.

There's other factors that are what would be more off putting but you've only asked about the hernia bit so i cannot comment on the rest of your profile

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I didn't even see the hernia comment - think I stopped at the contradiction of the straight guy who's ticked anal sex with his virgin arse off his bucket list

I was going to press the back button then I saw your post...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Does it have an impact when you meet someone? If not... ditch

Actually.. ditch anyway

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By *airymagicWoman over a year ago

goblin city

"Seriously dude??? You think a hernia is whats putting people off?

I am waiting on a hip replacement but i havent mentioned it, it doesnt affect my performance in bed so i dont need to tell people.

There's other factors that are what would be more off putting but you've only asked about the hernia bit so i cannot comment on the rest of your profile"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Could be worse.. could be syphilis.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I didn't even see the hernia comment - think I stopped at the contradiction of the straight guy who's ticked anal sex with his virgin arse off his bucket list

And he'll let a man suck him off

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By *ink Panther.Woman over a year ago

Preston

That profile even defies fab straight

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"That profile even defies fab straight

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Don't mention anything bad haha

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By *llNatural36FWoman over a year ago

Denbighshire

Your profile is one big contradiction so the hernia really isn't the thing getting in your way. I'd scrap it and start again but with the truth rather than a contradiction

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Is that 'Fab straight' or just 'closet fab straight'?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

OP....me, you and Mike